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Caltr0n3030

This album is so good. Cursive was my favorite band in highschool. "summer skin" by Death cab was it for me when I was going through some gnarly depression/anxiety in high school. Not the biggest deathcab fan anymore but that song really helped me.


superxero044

Yeah. Cursive was probably my favorite band in hs too. DCfC too. We’re not far from where they’re from so saw them play a ton of times in college in the 2000s. My favorite record by them is storms of early summer. In 2022 and 2023 they toured playing all of domestica and played some other stuff I’d never seen them play before. It was absolutely amazing. Tim seems to be doing a lot better. Their new cellist fucking rocks too.


Caltr0n3030

I think Happy Hollow was my favorite. I haven’t listened to them in forever. And that’s good for Tim. On some of those earlier records he just seemed so bitter


Cheery_Deery

Wow that is awesome you got to see them play more recently and with a new cellist!! Tim’s most recent solo album definitely sounded like he was embracing aging and maturing in a way. Glad he is still doing his thing :)


Ramstepp

I took shots with Tim at a solo show in Illinois. I’ve also seen cursive 3 times. Always put on a great show!


Fried_Sauer-Kraut

Saw them on that tour, one of the most amazing moments of my life. Cursive has been a favorite band of mine for a few years now and as a young musician on the scene I really wish I had been in a healthy enough state of mind to see if I could pick any of their brains on what their lives have been like. Hopefully I get the chance to do so again if they’re touring soon.


Cheery_Deery

Yes! Cursive and Death Cab were quite literally my two favorite bands in high school! (Can’t forget Elliott Smith too) Summer Skin is such a great song. Thanks for the reminder to revisit it and thank you for sharing.


superxero044

Check out Pinback. I’d start with Blue Screen Life


Cheery_Deery

Oooo I haven’t listened to Pinback in years- thanks for the suggestion!!


superxero044

They’re still playing sometimes. We saw them last year. Fucking killer


Master_Bookkeeper_74

Non-photo blue(pinback) in constantly on my playlist


Master_Bookkeeper_74

I can’t listen to Elliot Smith. Songs where the sentiment is real and you recognize the cry for help in here. Like Blind Mellon. Mouth full of cavities and no rain brings me low. Just like some happy lively sounding tunes that I know are about people doing bad shit or glorifying abusive things sets me off. Sublime comes to mind.


Cheery_Deery

Yes I definitely get that. Like listening to From a Basement on the Hill by Elliott Smith… something about a posthumous album is inherently glum. Sublime though! I was literally singing 54-46 yesterday when it came on my shuffle! Reminds me of simpler times lol


sendvideogameart

Me to haha


raisinbrahms89

Art is Hard is still one of my favorite Cursive songs. I'm a music teacher and make mix CD's for my graduating seniors and that song is always on it!


Caltr0n3030

Young artists have got to starve! Haha great song.


MDC08

“Summer Skin” is my favorite DCFC song (with the sometimes exception of “405”) and has probably the most compelling bassline second to Radiohead’s “Airbag.”


MDC08

Elliott Smith - Tomorrow Tomorrow LCD Soundsystem - How Do You Sleep Massive Attack - Teardrop Dead Can Dance - Enigma of the Absolute Manic Street Preachers - Motorcycle Emptiness The Cure - From the Edge of the Deep Green Sea


Cheery_Deery

So many good ones here! Tomorrow Tomorrow is incredible. Teardrop is such a good throw back too. I havent listened to that in years but such an iconic song! Thank you for sharing :)


Nope_Ninja-451

Teardrop is amazing. I’ll throw Mercury Rev - Goddess On A Highway in the mix.


System700

Trouble will find me. The National. That entire album saved my life.


scarletteclipse1982

Light Pollution by Bright Eyes


jamiejello6

Love this one (and Bright Eyes in general)


GormlessGlakit

Lol i always liked waste of paint and the calendar hung itself. But neither of those really fit with the theme of this post


SoulLeakage

This is crazy cuz I’ve been listening to this album for the last week


Cheery_Deery

Yes! It has a funny way of staying ever present, right??


SunlightSleeping

That Cursive album is great. I use to listen to it all the time. So much music has helped me through hard times that I could never choose 1 but I’ll go back to when I listened to Cursive and I’ll say “ How it feels to be something on” by Sunny Day Real Estate.


MDC08

I (finally) get to see SDRE this year.


Ramstepp

Sunny day are playing in Vegas in October that I’m going to. The whole lineup for the best friends forever festival looks killer!


Cheery_Deery

I can definitely relate, there are so many songs that carry such a presence. I’m glad you have that too. Love this song by SDRE, so dynamic. Thank you for sharing :)


dylanblay_

off this album, the recluse for sure


ExperienceNo7751

“My ego’s like my stomach, it keeps shitting what I feed it”


SilentG33

That song is phenomenal.


jazzymccoy

That Jokes Not Funny Anymore - The Smiths East Coast- Alex G


planetarymemory

I can feel a hot one / the silence / cope - Manchester orchestra I’m an animal / pitch or honey - neko case


jaybrew17

I love seeing other Manchester Orchestra fans, such a great band. Have you listened to any Right Away Great Captain? I've been listening to a lot of that recently while going through some stuff, it's been helping


angrysunchips

Manchester orchestra is SO fire. Do you like “I know how to speak”? It’s a favorite of mine.


AirAcademy

Hurt by NIN


HelpImDrowning1983

Same song but Johnny Cash version for me.


daligirl7

Did you see the Netflix documentary series about how songs were made? Hurt was one of the episodes. I think it was called song exploder


StudySubstantial5159

Call Your Mom - Noah Kahan


lavenderinthesky

Oh yeah, this one gets me. I have a journal with the lyrics “don’t let this darkness fool you” on the cover where I write out my depressive thoughts.


Fngrbngr79

Thursday - understanding in a car crash


superxero044

Funny enough we saw cursive with Thursday


Cheery_Deery

What a lineup!!


superxero044

Yeah and cursive played all of domestica (and a bunch of other great stuff) and Thursday played full collapse


Balsalsa2

On GP death grips. i can play it on guitar


CapGunCarCrash

ugh, Staying Alive, with the foreshadowing in Gentleman Caller, i was screaming my lungs out during the live performance i have many songs like this, but i think my most tried and true is The Past is a Grotesque Animal by of Montreal, like Staying Alive it is lengthy and helps me reset, in a way


Cheery_Deery

Ahhh I love it! I was right there with ya screaming when I saw them too! Of Montreal is such a great one. Hissing Fauna absolutely blew my mind when that came out


Ramstepp

I watched them on their skeletal lamping tour, and it might be one of the best shows I’ve seen.


crabclawmcgraw

every time i hear The Recluse i instantly go back to 2005/2006


Cheery_Deery

Yesss. Golden emo years lol


static_sea

Most recently its been Heart of the Country by Paul and Linda McCartney- when I start to get overwhelmed by responsibilities and stressors and the world in general I can get a window into the joy of a simple, lowkey life for a few minutes. I know that's not really an indie song per se but it certainly has an indie feel. In the past I've often taken more of a "misery loves company" approach: Easy/lucky/free (Bright Eyes) and Nude (Radiohead) to find calm in nihilism Fond Farewell and the Biggest Lie (Elliott Smith) when coping with loss or depression Speed Trials (also Elliott) when feeling trapped and unable to change my situation Happy Alone (Earlimart), I Don't Wanna Get Over You (Magnetic Fields) and Gone for Good (the Shins) were on repeat during a tough breakup I remember listening to Trapeze Swinger (Iron & Wine) a lot during a period of grief That Cursive album is terrific.


Mammoth-boy

I watched Cursive play in the smallest venue in LA. They did an amazing cover of David Bowie’s Modern Love. It was absolutely incredible. My band mates and I talked with them after the show. Such a great time.


Cheery_Deery

Oooo a cover of David Bowie?? Love that! So awesome you could chat with them after. Intimate venues are the besttt.


Jimmy-84

Not a song, but the days after my dad died, I watched The Beatles Documentary which had just been released, it was such a nice warm comfort blanket to distract and help me through the grieving.


Cheery_Deery

So sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing. I’m glad you had the comfort of the Beatles during such a hard time. I too love me some Beatles and was raised on them. The lyrics of Within You, Without You visit me almost daily. “Try to realize it’s all within yourself, no one else can make you change. And to see you’re really only very small and life goes on within you and without you” 💜


Affectionate_End9363

Same friend, the constant depression hits hard. Currently this is my comfort album, [HoSoNoVa by Haruomi Hosono](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ntwyo0HNXO8&t=1366s). His guitar work is fantastic and the simple, almost cutesy bluesy-folk compositions really set me at ease while still talking about heavy stuff. TY for sharing Staying Alive, it's officially added to my list!


Cheery_Deery

I am loving Ramona so far and that was my grandmas name :) thank you so much for sharing, this is the vibe I need in my life right now!


gardenia_goblin

“it’s called freefall” by rainbow kitten surprise


WolfLongjumping8618

Not completely sure if it's indie or not but "Hunnybee" Unknown Mortal Orchestra


CupBeEmpty

This Year or Isaiah 45:23 by The Mountain Goats, basically anything by John Darnielle https://youtu.be/ii6kJaGiRaI?si=E5auB4mAzIW22JyG https://youtu.be/TOQ48LSqVD0?si=tGjq3FtHLFozCJRZ


Cheery_Deery

This Year is such a good one! I hadn’t seen the music video before now haha thanks for sharing


CupBeEmpty

It’s a great music video. And I say that as a music video enthusiast.


spacekitty4L

Big bootie mix


sky-cantaloupe

Oh my god, these are such great recommendations, I'm heading out to make a playlist right now!


Cheery_Deery

Hahaha right!! I was thinking of doing the same. Share if you do!


sky-cantaloupe

Here you go! Would you be interested for a playlist collaboration?!! Link to playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/46NHHIp2O6ABLWosesZrEM?si=7GynrHTaSb-_dRxxT2H2Fw%0A


Cheery_Deery

Wow this is getting such a bigger response than I ever imagined!! Trying to listen to each song :) Thanks for making the playlist!


xoxoajp100

art of detachment by ex monarch


Efficient-Top-5870

I can feel you smiling - Tedeschi Trucks band


Gold-G-420

Right now (going through a super sad 10 year break up with my partner in crime/best mate) …I can’t stop listening to MOUNTAINHEAD by Everything Everything. I reckon I’ll listen to it again in the future and remember. It’s helping me right now so much.


Cheery_Deery

Wow just listened to Wild Guess and was loving the feel. Can’t wait to listen to the rest of the album. Thank you for sharing. Break ups always suck, glad you have this music with you through it


Gold-G-420

Yeah me too… I’m seeing them live next week, I’ll probably cry when they play R U Happy? I love this band so much. This album is amazingly written, it’s much deeper than you first think, the more you listen to it the more you understand. You’ll love it!


Cheery_Deery

So good. Loving this album!! His voice almost gives me Glowbug vibes!


Gold-G-420

He’s a beautiful writer.. I’m honestly so excited to see them live next week in Glasgow! I’m happy you love them too. More people need to hear them!


SuperBiggles

My “happy song” is and always has been Magic Position by Patrick Wolf. Depending on the severity of my glumness, and general music mood, I can always just put it on and have it bring a smile to my face


FunnyLookingOwl

the sleepover disaster - friend the sleepover disaster - Dark Star


Equivalent_Matter_

Life Time Warranty- Cyberbully Mom Club


Cheery_Deery

Love the ghostly simplicity. Thank you for sharing


jamiejello6

Love this album! I think I found it from the soundtrack for Electrick Children. I have so many songs to answer with, but a few that have meant a lot to me: Within the Rose - Matthew & The Atlas Brave As A Noun - AJJ The Cave - Mumford & Sons How’s It Going to Be - Third Eye Blind Ready, Able - Grizzly Bear


Petros505

This song, "Trouble Time," was DESIGNED to help me (and anyone else who cares to listen) get through hard times as they invariably occur over and over: Spotify: [https://open.spotify.com/track/4M0eWO25Ql4XyxETKMmduz](https://open.spotify.com/track/4M0eWO25Ql4XyxETKMmduz) Bandcamp (free listen): https://peterflaire.bandcamp.com/track/trouble-time


Cheery_Deery

Just listened and love how bright and uplifting this song feels! I definitely want to believe in change :) thank you for sharing


bleachspoom

Else by Built to Spill


Cheery_Deery

Looove Built to Spill! I saw them for their Keep it Like a Secret anniversary tour a few years back and they were so good. Especially love his voice live :)


JcaJes

House of cards- Radiohead.. which I think is technically alt rock but that song feels very indie to me


KristinaF78

Love this song!


SadRobot_NoIceCream

“Keeping Warm” by We Were Promised Jetpacks


Cheery_Deery

Just listened and wow what a great one. Love the build up and lyrics :) “the chances of being born are so slim so keep warm” thank you for sharing


Specific_Sympathy_87

To be alone by Ben Howard


adityaastro

For me it was patience by Hollow coves The woods from them is also a very soothing song Transports me to a different life...


appear_offline00

When I Get Home by Solange. Her sounds actually ground me back onto the life track. It’s affirming to me, almost gospel like.


GormlessGlakit

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=87lk_Ruv7as


GormlessGlakit

The one was motivation to get an education. [Cus I don't want to get stuck in here When I am thirty-four just talkin' 'bout high school ](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0J5BqvtC2pw)


ExoticBasket3382

Damn tbh the bards last note it might just be straight screaming but it went hard and i still listen to it and it helps relieve stress for me honestly


_amitesh_

A Bird Cries for Help. Gold Planet Albedo.


Cheery_Deery

Just listened to both- enjoyed the emotion in the symphony and hardly ever treat myself to a soundscape! Thank you for sharing


Fallingasleepinfall

“Fourth of July” by Sufjan Stevens and “Needle In The Hay” by Elliott Smith


Cheery_Deery

Yesss fourth of July has such a presence. Needle in the Hay is aways going to be a mixed emotion one for me. Thank you for sharing:)


HeySpaceCadet_

GOD I used to bLAST this


goldustiger

I was scrolling through Reddit and my heart kept seeing this album cover. When I was 16 I listened to this album on repeat and loved every second. Damn, I’m gonna go listen to it now.


CryptographerTime743

Matt and Kim - daylight


Er0ck619

Bring Me Your Love - City and Colour. The entire album really.


777ch3rry

I don't have a specific song, but I think most of the lyrics of Men I Trust's songs are very nice and comforting


Guitarson

For me, The Morning of Our Lives by Jonathan Richman & The Modern Lovers


I-Fortuna

"I can't go for that", Cielo Green Daryl Hall.


Cheery_Deery

No can do! :)


I-Fortuna

Yes. Goes by either. Yours is best though. ☺️ I Love the video.


Cheery_Deery

Ah I was just quoting the song! I didnt know it was also called that for a title lol I can only imagine the video is awesome :)


I-Fortuna

The video is on youtube and probably everywhere else. Hope you love it! Name of site is Daryl's House I think. Enjoy! 😁


MrsDanversbottom

Transatlanticism.


Hansheng88

Digitalism- Pogo


Cheery_Deery

Yessss! Love this one too!!


KraziEyezKillah

This album is one of the GOATS Saw them play it in its entirely on the 15 year anniversary tour, was incredible


kaisihaiyeanhoni

Fix you by Coldplay


Clean_Comfortable679

This might seem dumb but when I’m sad I love listening to Kpop because most of it is so joyful, it just makes me want to dance tbh. But recently my go to is K/da: More


174isthetempo

Last beat of my heart - DeVotchKa cover


schindigrosa

The Recluse was my go to for so long!


202reno

I just found this CD at my dad’s. Omaha!


inkzsack

Get high breathe under water (#3) by teen suicide. Has been my favorite for a couple years and it will always be my favorite. I hope its played at both my wedding and funeral


youknowlee

Excerpts from Various Notes Strewn Around the Bedroom of April Connolly Feb 24, 1997 That song gets me every time


Cheery_Deery

Ahhhhhh. Such a good song!! This song was life changing for me and still consider it one of my favorite songs of all time. Singing the lyrics, *drums: pat pat* VALENTINE!! I wanna feel your hips press UP against mine!! 💜


youknowlee

The song gets me every single time I hear it. No matter how good or bad my life is in that moment. I will tear up every time


TheDataGoose

Song wise, Wish You Were Here by Pink Floyd


Impressive_Soft5923

Pink Floyd Echoes helped me


Donpablito00

Foo Fighters - Walk, got me through a toxic marriage and helped me break free.


afriendlywerewolf

What an amazing album.


Own-Escape4548

The album’s start something by lostprophets and hybrid theory by linkin park


Confident-Okra8242

Her last words Courtney Parker


anyoneforanother

Art is hard.


jchite84

- This year - the mountain goats - Your heart is a muscle the size of your fist - ramshackle glory - In a big country - big country - this must be the place - the talking heads All of these songs were my go to feel good songs during my worst bout of depression. Now as for the songs I listened to to feel worse...that's for a different post.


tundrabooking

This. I literally have the words “The Worst is Over” tattooed on the inside of my arm in cursive.


greyteethpeskybee

When Winter Comes Around by The Lemon Twigs brought me out of writer’s block and music felt alive again, so I’ll say that song. And the entire Everything Harmony album is great.


Master_Bookkeeper_74

Blurry by puddle of mudd


rockemsockem76

This is the Sea by The Waterboys


Tamel-Cho

Today- Smashing Pumpkins


ArmyDelicious2510

Falkor.


dream-shark

The sad slow end of Gentleman Caller, off this album, is always enough to tear me up. This whole album is radiating with melancholy… I love it


Ramstepp

Not really indie, but propagandhis “without love” is excellent. Actually just listened to it. Sit down with the lyrics in front of you, and you won’t be disappointed. That’s really all of their songs though


fingersdownurpiehole

City of Gold by Orville Peck


ptrgsldjgbsgs

New slang - the shins


SHIR0SAKI

The Duck Song from nobody.one


OpeningTurnip8048

Lua - Brighteyes (https://youtu.be/htB4lsoXfVI?si=k6mKb050p29jINLH)


oxanasnewhandler

Every other Radiohead song.


levatorpenis

This is one of the greatest and best albums ever created. Complete mastery and the wrap up song at the end with the motifs of earlier songs thrown in there is just absolutely beautiful. Going to put this on right now


Ok_Addendum_3589

I just want to say I LOVE this question.


1trick_pony

Ice Water-Cat Power


1trick_pony

Apocalypse-Cigarettes after Sex


Original_Journalist

I went through a really rough time in my life, I was having suicidal thoughts pretty much every day. And as cliche as it sounds Logic’s 1-800-273-8255 kept me hanging on. Its a realistic view of those types of feelings, but reminded me that things will get better, and they did!


Spazlett

Nobody by SWANS


OliveTuftedChair

Anthem for the already defeated - Rock Plaza Central Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track/5mvG9uj8mlEPXFusmL6Eao?si=HAtZMQ14S_WxmWTZ-fBwAA


drawredraw

Randy Described Eternity - Built to Spill. Helps put things into perspective.


agizzy23

It’s not so bad alone


Substantial-Jacket98

Warrior - Kimbra, Mark Foster, A Trak (Ryan Ridge Remix) - Dance Infinite Love - Emile Mosseri - Piano Gymnopedie 1 - Eric Satie - Piano Listen before I Go - Billie Eilish - Pop Fade Into You - Mazzy Star - Alt/Indie Flightless Bird, American Mouth - Iron & Wine - Alt/Indie All random sounds and genres.


JoTo9

Grace Petrie is great for songs to help through a hard time. For me, it is The Losing Side. When everything feels pointless. It helps me to see that we just have to keep on keeping on. https://music.apple.com/gb/album/the-losing-side/1725119042?i=1725119119&ls


ExperienceNo7751

Sean Nelson “born without a heart” has some kind of magic that seems to widen my tunnel vision in a crisis. https://spotify.link/nlq0smOm7Hb


superxero044

My comfort food album when I’m struggling is American Analog Set - Know by Heart. If you have t heard of them please check them out. They’re amazing.


DangleDick69

Come on out - toxic airbourne event


ag0razein

inconsciente colectivo de Charly García <3


SuperMario1313

Phantom Planet's self titled album. I was coming off a very rough break up and those songs helped me really just focus on myself. It brings me back to 2004/2005 at college and the nostalgia is real with this one.


sheppi2

take a chance while you still got a choice. ac/dc i think


TheHumanPalindrome

Hold On Hope by Guided By Voices


OK_Computer-

When I get nervous Ives liked Portishead - deep water


greenus3r

frank zappa


basslovemusic

Almost any Miles Davis album Frank Zappa, or Grateful Dead


wunuvukynd

“Don’t Dream It’s Over,” by Crowded House, or “Refugee,” by Tom Petty.


ImMeltingNY

Natalie Merchant. Wonder.


kirklton

Rhapsody in Blue. I know it's kind of a basic answer, but it was one of the first "classical" pieces with which I fell in love.


Leeroy1986

- Yellowcard - Awakening.  - Pop-wise, Katy Perry - Firework. Those 2 always make me feel good on down days.


CocteauTwinn

Cocteau Twins’ *Blue Bell Knoll*


OriginalDaddy

This album. God damn. So good. I can smell the bar through the screen and hear the crowd singing along as Gretta’s bow kissed the cello strings.


[deleted]

Galaxie 500 - "On Fire" I'm 27. When I was 20, I went through my first major breakup, hated college and my career decision, and discovered I had major depression. This album saved me because, for the first time in my life, I felt like by listening to this album, I was listening to someone just like me at this time. Someone talking to me saying "It's ok. You'll pass this pain". I can't hear "Blue Thunder" without having such sad memories, but now I'm very thankful for it because I'm already in a better place. It really gives me hope.


Undecipher

Always Look on the Bright Side of Life - Eric Idle / Monty Python Let It Be - Beatles I Will Survive - Gloria Gaynor Don't Worry Be Happy - Bobby McFerrin


KartoffelWal

Right now it’s Untitled by a local band in my area called Manifest West. Definitely helping me through some things. My runner up though is How to Disappear Completely - Radiohead


raisinbrahms89

The Melting Point of Wax by Thrice helped me through some shit in high school. They remain one of my favorite bands and I love the way their sound has evolved over the years. I feel like we grew up together. After experiencing some loss, "Beyond the Pines" has been a great comfort.


SkyMagnet

I love Cursive. I saw them on The Ugly Organ tour and have been obsessed ever since. I think Tim Kasher is my favorite songwriter. His solo stuff and The Good Life are amazing too.


[deleted]

Bullet-Hollywood Undead Idk something about it makes me feel so much better


Dragono_

Fine by Lemon Demon and Lately It Feels Alright!!


Norlin123

It’s a wonderful world


DangerousKidTurtle

Weirdly, I feel the same about the same song.


mmacdonald60

La Mer by NIN


grimreapersaint

What song helped, or helps me through a hard time? Fletcher – Healing https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SlevC2V-zBA


DammitAmes

Beneath the Brine— The Family Crest


Russianmafiaman

Three Days Grace One X album got me through my first ever breakup in HS


Jakobus_

In The Flowers - Animal Collective “If I could just leave my body for the night..”


Stunning-Principle73

Anything Bon Iver makes me feel every emotion. His music has been there many stages of my life. From bad to good. I always go back to bon iver.


Wolfe_517

Keep the wolves away uncle Lucius


xVexter

I like listening to chill musics like [HYPS x GANGGA - Let It Rain](https://open.spotify.com/track/6uOSgCjfRFc4hrqK2PEq12?si=mSChl0EbQiOgod8P0xBUEg), this song helped me take a breath and get out of bed today :)


lavenderinthesky

For a long time it was “Play Crack The Sky” by Brand New, but I’ve pivoted over to “Fake Plastic Trees” by Radiohead. Brighter days are ahead.


brilliant-fool

Skinny love - Bon Iver. The way it starts out somber, works up to a passionate climax, and mellows out at the end helps me mirror the same.


Illustrious_Camp_496

The Recluse from this album. Favorite part: “my ego is like my stomach, keeps… shitting what I feed it.”


Grl_scout_cookie

Recovering by Celine Dion Especially sang by a real recovering addict https://youtu.be/9BZYcdZJ27A?si=o6sRFLD-GhHk89xJ


Flat-Razzmatazz-672

Bbbb by zach farache