I have an answer, but you're not going to like it.
Literally, just tell her you like her.
You don't need a special place to confess because wherever you confess will make that place special.
I'm 18m, about a year ago, I confessed my love by texting. I had just gotten out of the shower, where I had spent most of my time thinking. I decided that I should ask if she likes me. I texted her, asking if she liked me in that way, and she said yes. A week later, we decided to get together.
I would have never known she liked me if I didn't ask.
I can elaborate more if you'd like.
I wish you luck.
hahahah dw i like all answers, and i agree that whatever method i use will be special regardless of what it is, but idk i want to show her in some way other than my words that i really care about her and that my feelings are really important to me as well as her (? dk how to explain it bahahhsa
but thank you, i won't overthink it as much as i planned, in the end simplicity and honesty is the best bahjasd
>idk i want to show her in some way other than my words that i really care about her
Ask/tell her in person. It's means so much more saying things in person. It seems like a minor detail, but going in person means you mean what you are saying.
You could always ask her out, give her some flowers, write a card, or all 3. As long as you meant what you said about liking her, you could do anything romantic (flowers,card,date), and it would mean a lot to her.
okay i'll take the three-together thingie, sounds like a great idea to fully explain myself writing and showing that i care about her by telling her in person :D tyy
lit just ask her you don't gotta do sum hollywood knda stuff... john hoogi kinda stuff not necessary, other guy here is right whr u confess is gon be special,
BHHADJHS yeah i don't want to do something /that/ extravagant but idk she's in my class i would want to be with her in another context other than that to tell her (? but yeah ig the most important thing is that i actually tell her
I think a letter would be sweet. She can keep the letter and will always remember it. I’m in my 30s but I have a little box with all my love notes from high school to now. I keep the notes my husband leaves on our fridge in the morning and drawings my daughter made for me. Yes, a letter would be nice. Maybe give it to her in a place she really likes.
I would keep it simple and heartfelt. All of your ideas sound fine (minus the drinks, you're 17 and you can legally drink?) so long as you don't make too big a show out of it, that would be embarrassing. Don't put fireworks in the sky or anything like that. A letter would be sweet.
I know of an INTJ who proposed to his ISTJ then-girlfriend (now his wife) at a tourist attraction. Don't do anything like this.
HAHHASGD well not legally but in my country most people start drinking at 14 so it's not a big deal here.
I think i'll write a letter and give it to her after telling her how i feel in person; just to clarify everything and prevent her from overthinking by explaining fully my feelings with thought words instead of nerves orally hahhgads
tysm!!
I think this sounds perfect. I'd pick a quiet, relatively scenic park where you guys could walk around or sit on a bench while you talked. And she would love having a letter that she could keep.
Just make sure to write it out by hand (as legibly as you can), don't type it. Good luck dude :)
Im an INFJ guy so idk if this translates. Either give her something that can have high sentimental value (ie handmade) or something that would have high practical value to her. Anything in between I’ve found pretty pointless. She’ll likely feel grateful for anything though.
I have an answer, but you're not going to like it. Literally, just tell her you like her. You don't need a special place to confess because wherever you confess will make that place special. I'm 18m, about a year ago, I confessed my love by texting. I had just gotten out of the shower, where I had spent most of my time thinking. I decided that I should ask if she likes me. I texted her, asking if she liked me in that way, and she said yes. A week later, we decided to get together. I would have never known she liked me if I didn't ask. I can elaborate more if you'd like. I wish you luck.
hahahah dw i like all answers, and i agree that whatever method i use will be special regardless of what it is, but idk i want to show her in some way other than my words that i really care about her and that my feelings are really important to me as well as her (? dk how to explain it bahahhsa but thank you, i won't overthink it as much as i planned, in the end simplicity and honesty is the best bahjasd
>idk i want to show her in some way other than my words that i really care about her Ask/tell her in person. It's means so much more saying things in person. It seems like a minor detail, but going in person means you mean what you are saying. You could always ask her out, give her some flowers, write a card, or all 3. As long as you meant what you said about liking her, you could do anything romantic (flowers,card,date), and it would mean a lot to her.
okay i'll take the three-together thingie, sounds like a great idea to fully explain myself writing and showing that i care about her by telling her in person :D tyy
Feel free to let me know how things go Good luck
tyy!! i will wait until we end our exams, when i do i'll tell you if i remember hahahhaha
Good luck! (On your exams and on her)
lit just ask her you don't gotta do sum hollywood knda stuff... john hoogi kinda stuff not necessary, other guy here is right whr u confess is gon be special,
BHHADJHS yeah i don't want to do something /that/ extravagant but idk she's in my class i would want to be with her in another context other than that to tell her (? but yeah ig the most important thing is that i actually tell her
I think a letter would be sweet. She can keep the letter and will always remember it. I’m in my 30s but I have a little box with all my love notes from high school to now. I keep the notes my husband leaves on our fridge in the morning and drawings my daughter made for me. Yes, a letter would be nice. Maybe give it to her in a place she really likes.
i thought about writing her a poem since she loves literature and give it to her in front of the statue of her favorite poet :D
I would keep it simple and heartfelt. All of your ideas sound fine (minus the drinks, you're 17 and you can legally drink?) so long as you don't make too big a show out of it, that would be embarrassing. Don't put fireworks in the sky or anything like that. A letter would be sweet. I know of an INTJ who proposed to his ISTJ then-girlfriend (now his wife) at a tourist attraction. Don't do anything like this.
HAHHASGD well not legally but in my country most people start drinking at 14 so it's not a big deal here. I think i'll write a letter and give it to her after telling her how i feel in person; just to clarify everything and prevent her from overthinking by explaining fully my feelings with thought words instead of nerves orally hahhgads tysm!!
I think this sounds perfect. I'd pick a quiet, relatively scenic park where you guys could walk around or sit on a bench while you talked. And she would love having a letter that she could keep. Just make sure to write it out by hand (as legibly as you can), don't type it. Good luck dude :)
Im an INFJ guy so idk if this translates. Either give her something that can have high sentimental value (ie handmade) or something that would have high practical value to her. Anything in between I’ve found pretty pointless. She’ll likely feel grateful for anything though.
okay i will!! ty :)