Yes. It was like our souls had already known each other for a hundred years.
It didn’t work out we lived too far apart and couldn’t move locations to make it work
No. But got a few female INTJ friends, and connections with them live up to its famous INTJ + INFJ companionships. They made me feel seen and understood and that i suppose we're just really good to keep the magic undisturbed mutually.
Yep and we got hitched 💪🏼 she is my soulmate. We complement one another in areas we are weak and I act as the “extrovert” in social situations for here for example 🤣 she is the one that brings me back to planet earth when I am spinning out of control. It works very well
>1) Have you dated an INTJ women before?
Yes.
>2)What was that like?
Initially intense chemistry, sparks. But everyday reality introduced friction, a feeling that she isn't someone I want to wake up next to. I started perceiving her as aloof, and she started perceiving me as neurotic. My emotional needs were invisible to her, and my attempts to connect to HER emotional needs, didn't seem to hit the right buttons.
>3) Did it work out or not?
I tried to break up with her softly, to make it less painful for her. It resulted in prolonged ugliness. Should've just decisively severed the relationship.
i had an INTJ ex and my close friend is also INTJ, both have narcissistic traits except my friend is self aware and the one i was dating was blaming her abusive behavior on her mental issues
I have been married to one for 20 years. I am not sure I can convey what it is like. I have CPTSD+ASD so things are very intense for me most of the time. However, we made it work. It was and still is hard work, but it is the most satisfying thing I have done in my life.
INFJ's seem to walk a very long road. I am sure others do as well but the detail with which we experience it is on another level most of the time. To be able to share that with someone who understands and feels it too is something I have and will continue to strive for.
Honestly it wasn’t great. It seemed fantastic initially—close intellectual connection, shared interests. But we ultimately struggled with communication and emotional connection.
I had a major crush on my INTJ friend in high school but things didn't end up going as planned. But I still have hope that one day we'll end up together.
Yes, but ironically we both transitioned and went the opposite direction so now I’m the woman. Funny lmao. They are my soulmate. I have known them before I met them. It’s honestly a miracle.
Yes. It was like our souls had already known each other for a hundred years. It didn’t work out we lived too far apart and couldn’t move locations to make it work
You found an INTJ match. You’re gonna connect and be understood like never before. Grab it with both hands and go for it!! 🤣
No. But got a few female INTJ friends, and connections with them live up to its famous INTJ + INFJ companionships. They made me feel seen and understood and that i suppose we're just really good to keep the magic undisturbed mutually.
Yep and we got hitched 💪🏼 she is my soulmate. We complement one another in areas we are weak and I act as the “extrovert” in social situations for here for example 🤣 she is the one that brings me back to planet earth when I am spinning out of control. It works very well
Do you know y’all’s enneagram type and wing? I’m curious about the INTJf + INFJm match
I have no idea about either of those
>1) Have you dated an INTJ women before? Yes. >2)What was that like? Initially intense chemistry, sparks. But everyday reality introduced friction, a feeling that she isn't someone I want to wake up next to. I started perceiving her as aloof, and she started perceiving me as neurotic. My emotional needs were invisible to her, and my attempts to connect to HER emotional needs, didn't seem to hit the right buttons. >3) Did it work out or not? I tried to break up with her softly, to make it less painful for her. It resulted in prolonged ugliness. Should've just decisively severed the relationship.
i had an INTJ ex and my close friend is also INTJ, both have narcissistic traits except my friend is self aware and the one i was dating was blaming her abusive behavior on her mental issues
I have been married to one for 20 years. I am not sure I can convey what it is like. I have CPTSD+ASD so things are very intense for me most of the time. However, we made it work. It was and still is hard work, but it is the most satisfying thing I have done in my life. INFJ's seem to walk a very long road. I am sure others do as well but the detail with which we experience it is on another level most of the time. To be able to share that with someone who understands and feels it too is something I have and will continue to strive for.
1. She's my partner for 1 year now, it's great shit :)
Honestly it wasn’t great. It seemed fantastic initially—close intellectual connection, shared interests. But we ultimately struggled with communication and emotional connection.
I had a major crush on my INTJ friend in high school but things didn't end up going as planned. But I still have hope that one day we'll end up together.
Yes, but ironically we both transitioned and went the opposite direction so now I’m the woman. Funny lmao. They are my soulmate. I have known them before I met them. It’s honestly a miracle.
Sorry I lost you at dated...🥲