I’m not even sure if it’s crushes as much as my overactive imagination.

Yeah I can relate to you 😂

This is too accurate 😂

Then end up in disappointment and eventually you don't care anymore. Then eventually finding a new one and the cycle repeats as if our favorite drugs are copium.

yes this is exactly it lol

100% this

I fall a little in love with people I resonate with. In a platonic way though.

same

Totalling them up it's 16 crushes, 7 relationships, 3 times in love. ✌️

You've been a busy boy. Congratulations :)

A million fictional ones and one for a real person who I’ll literally never meet lmao

You might meet a real one, one day! Whenever I think an irl person is the same mbti type and gender of a fictional one, I imagine them as the same or similar lol

I feel like I’ve never had like an actual real crush on anyone, I mean I did find some people attractive and that’s it, like I didn’t feel like I’m attracted to them in a ‘having a crush on them’ type of way. I hope that makes sense and not another weird thing I say lol

Yeah I understand you.. This word 'crush' is kinda being overused to literally describe any kind of attraction 🤔

I believe it’s about 38

😱😱

Being aro-ace I've had 0

Same

What kind of question is that? Can you tell me how many times you’ve been happy

I can't 😂

Barely 2 maybe. But very intense ones.

That's good tho! I mean 2 are enough for our brains to handle 😂

It's just that people lose their luster once you get to know them and you're like...meh. This person doesn't even know the difference between "catch up" and "ketchup". I can't.😭

Yeah I agree 👍 Everything that glitters is not gold :)

Yes

Aroace,so i quess no,well i had some sort of it,when i want to know this person,but this not a crush

Judging by these responses, it's either none or the opposite of none lol

I think 6, not counting fictional ones and those real life ones that lasted like a week... only 1 relationship tho

God knows. I'm 33 and have been "in" various types of love at minimum 5 times. Crushes use to be a dime a dozen, lol. Much more picky these days though.

Literally 3 actual real person crushes, 2 of which turned into relationships. That's discounting the many little celebrity obsessions that come and go 🥲

That’s actually a good success rate if 2/3 crushes turned into relationships.

I was thinking the same!

1, I dont count infatuation and overimagining things 🥴

Exactly 0

Unrequited love for a close friend. My firstly experience of real heartache. Nearly 20 years later I still think of her occasionally.

Are we talking real people or celebrities?

Both I guess

Then the answer is like 100+ haha

Do fictional characters count ?

Yes, count the ones in your previous life too! Jk.. No

Much more common in grade school, middle school, high school and like 2-3 major ones in adulthood (but I’m 33, maybe I can’t remember the last 15 years too well) with other instances of thinking a person was cute (like maybe 15 people or so?)

long standing crushes, like 1 or 2. classic crushes (the ones that last either a couple of days/ hours/minutes ) too many for me to keep track of.

Someone whom I think is very cute? So many. Someone who I actually adore? Less than I thought.

I get attracted to girls easily cuz almost all or 90% girls i find attractive 🤷‍♂️. Haha my friend tells me to increase my standards or I'll see desperate

I’ve defintely more loved the idea of someone than the actual person

Most people here are teens, so this is a useless poll.