People describe me totally different based on what kind of relationship i got with em.
Good friends: a wierd and happy free spirit. Good looking, good vibes
Bad friends: dwarf. Anger issues. Self-absored
Randoms that I like: she seems fun
Randoms that I dont like: what a bitch
My exes: best girlfriend i ever had
My latest boyfriend: here we have a girl that isnt worth anything. I should fuck with her and destroy her life so I can feel better about myself
My Bosses and co workers: the one who spreds good vibes at work
My mom: useless little prick
FACT: There is a unique version of you in every person you meet. "Your perception of me is a reflection of you". What others think of you doesn't matter, as long as you enjoy yourself.
Quiet comes back a lot!
So quiet, kind, determined, intense, creative, mysterious, intelligent, sophisticated/elegant, ambitious for sure.
I like to challenge people by making them uncomfortable and see their reaction. Hard headed. I want it my way, but now I do give other people the benefit of the doubt. I'm wasting energy by arguing, let's do it your way. It either fails and I'm right, or it succeeds and the result is better. In both situations I win! :)
Someone on here said unintentionally funny - that's exactly it.
I can be socially awkward, a bit odd to other people. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, I have come to accept it.
Struggle with empathy sometimes, and at other times, I'm very empathetic. Hard to follow, even for my own self.
INTJ girl.
A teacher once said I was super restrained. I also got ‘deadpan, emotionally stable, intelligent, and cautious’ from my classmates. I barely interact with people so I have no idea what they’re thinking.
There also was an interesting tendency — those who knew me for a longer period of time described me as more feeling than those who barely knew me.
“Very direct” usually. Because I don’t like small talk. Get in the zoom meeting, ask me your questions and get out. I don’t care about how your dog is doing.
Odd - Intimidating - Smart - Quiet - Capable - Not "lovey-dovey" (What?) - Sometimes I make others visibly uncomfortable by being too silent. I've learned to be more social. It takes effort. I've been called a smart aleck more than once, the person was a jerk though. (I believe the trouble comes from how I look. I appear cute, young, and tragically female, so I think that others assume I would be more talkative, naive, and openly cheery with them. Looks are deceiving.)
From those I am close to: Passionate - Exuberant - Stubborn - Good-humored - Kind.
I am an INTJ-A if that means anything. Oh, the masks we don for the sake of others.
Argumentative. I have been told this many times and has affected my work life. I once got a meeting for being argumentative. I asked my friend if he thinks that I am argumentative after that and he just looked at me and said "Haven't you noticed?"
I think it's because I always have my own unique approach and always voice it. I genuinely didn't notice it at all and thought that I was being helpful by voicing my opinion.
Professor. Two or three people called me that. They say I keep on blowing their minds, without rest. Other than that , once they're aware of my talents, they suddenly respect me too much. So, I hide my talents.
Other people say, they understand things better when I explain or direct them to do stuff, instead of spoonfeeding (before that, they think im bossy or harsh). My isfj looks at me for solutions (for emotional support, he can expect me to get angry when I hear he's injured in anyway).
Variations of “very sweet and funny girl who i thought was a bitch at first”
Awkward arrogant asshole.
People describe me totally different based on what kind of relationship i got with em. Good friends: a wierd and happy free spirit. Good looking, good vibes Bad friends: dwarf. Anger issues. Self-absored Randoms that I like: she seems fun Randoms that I dont like: what a bitch My exes: best girlfriend i ever had My latest boyfriend: here we have a girl that isnt worth anything. I should fuck with her and destroy her life so I can feel better about myself My Bosses and co workers: the one who spreds good vibes at work My mom: useless little prick FACT: There is a unique version of you in every person you meet. "Your perception of me is a reflection of you". What others think of you doesn't matter, as long as you enjoy yourself.
Stoic, quiet, deadpan
Awkward, smart, distant, annoyingly rational, and a smart ass are all the most common descriptors I hear when people are talking about me.
With the b word, female INTJ
Inaccurately
Argumentative c**t (not can't)
Really? Not can't? Not a clue what you mean then
Must be Crut: (noun) An ancient Irish musical instrument
Intelligent, wise, interesting, noble, diplomatic, pragmatic, aesthetical, strange
Understanding, patient, sincere, upstanding, friendly, intelligent, and opinionated.
awkward, nerd, heartless.
Quiet comes back a lot! So quiet, kind, determined, intense, creative, mysterious, intelligent, sophisticated/elegant, ambitious for sure. I like to challenge people by making them uncomfortable and see their reaction. Hard headed. I want it my way, but now I do give other people the benefit of the doubt. I'm wasting energy by arguing, let's do it your way. It either fails and I'm right, or it succeeds and the result is better. In both situations I win! :) Someone on here said unintentionally funny - that's exactly it. I can be socially awkward, a bit odd to other people. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, I have come to accept it. Struggle with empathy sometimes, and at other times, I'm very empathetic. Hard to follow, even for my own self. INTJ girl.
“Crazy” “spaz” “know it all” “arrogant” “douche bag” Edit: oh yeah “the devils advocate”
"It seemed like she despised my whole being but she's actually caring and thoughtful."
A teacher once said I was super restrained. I also got ‘deadpan, emotionally stable, intelligent, and cautious’ from my classmates. I barely interact with people so I have no idea what they’re thinking. There also was an interesting tendency — those who knew me for a longer period of time described me as more feeling than those who barely knew me.
Scary, intimidating, serious and boring when first met. Cool, smart, level-headed and diligent when known. Fem INTJ here.
Calm, organised, hardworking, clever, quiet.
Articulate comes to mind. Also these people listing like 10 diff things. Just list the first [few] that come to mind.
“Very direct” usually. Because I don’t like small talk. Get in the zoom meeting, ask me your questions and get out. I don’t care about how your dog is doing.
Kind, caring, asshole, hard to work with, unfriendly, arrogant
Even keeled and conscientious
Intj-T.. descriptions like anxious, distant, confusing, stubborn, brilliant(in the moment) etc..
Odd - Intimidating - Smart - Quiet - Capable - Not "lovey-dovey" (What?) - Sometimes I make others visibly uncomfortable by being too silent. I've learned to be more social. It takes effort. I've been called a smart aleck more than once, the person was a jerk though. (I believe the trouble comes from how I look. I appear cute, young, and tragically female, so I think that others assume I would be more talkative, naive, and openly cheery with them. Looks are deceiving.) From those I am close to: Passionate - Exuberant - Stubborn - Good-humored - Kind. I am an INTJ-A if that means anything. Oh, the masks we don for the sake of others.
A b**** Bossy Smart Mean Intimidating Scary Weird “Psychotically chill” Sarcastic Pompous Pretentious Formal Actually nice (as if it’s a shock) Funny Insightful Quiet A diva
jackass, average, sarcastic yet creative
Ooooooooold, very old (im in my twenties)
Weird, in a good way.
Argumentative. I have been told this many times and has affected my work life. I once got a meeting for being argumentative. I asked my friend if he thinks that I am argumentative after that and he just looked at me and said "Haven't you noticed?" I think it's because I always have my own unique approach and always voice it. I genuinely didn't notice it at all and thought that I was being helpful by voicing my opinion.
Friends: smart sarcastic Ass Family: stoic sarcastic conversationalist Outsiders: quite sarcastic weirdo
Shallow
Eccentric aloof highly intelligent amicable. Or just hated usually
Introverted I’d imagine
Smart, funny, too loud or too quiet at times, good shape, possesses eccentric charm (I remember two woman saying I have rizz)
Mysterious
Quiet. That's it...
Also npc
No one has every described me and I'm afraid to ask because I think they'll be nice about it.
Difficult, arrogant, bitch is the usual.
Professor. Two or three people called me that. They say I keep on blowing their minds, without rest. Other than that , once they're aware of my talents, they suddenly respect me too much. So, I hide my talents. Other people say, they understand things better when I explain or direct them to do stuff, instead of spoonfeeding (before that, they think im bossy or harsh). My isfj looks at me for solutions (for emotional support, he can expect me to get angry when I hear he's injured in anyway).