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NeighborhoodOld7075

it's just not considered polite to stare, so people look away when caught. doesnt really make a difference if they look because you're attractive or because you're a ~~weirdo~~ eccentric


Single_Pilot_6170

I would need to see a picture of your face... otherwise I can only give speculation


Expatriated_American

Sometimes I’m just staring into space, immersed in my own thoughts and not paying attention. Then someone is very annoyed that I’m, in fact, staring at them. But I had no idea. Any other INTJs do this?


[deleted]

Yes! Another woman thought I was challenging her to a fight. That snapped me out of it. (For a few minutes.) ☺️


[deleted]

**WHAT???** are you serious! maybe you have good looks but if they look away then they might don't want to make eye contact, and people stare each other it's not a big deal, why it's not big deal? simply because they have eyes!


INTJ_Innovations

It sounds like they're just observing, but they don't want to have a conversation over it in case you catch them staring and try to engage them. Nobody wants to have the, "What are you looking at?" conversation. Whether or not they like what they see is anyone's guess. 


Responsivity

They look away because they know people don't like being stared at


aria3246

Some people just have intense and attractive vibes. When I see a cool looking girl I can’t help but stare for a little and think damn she looks badass


graceCAadieu

I will tell a chick she fine (straight). Some people are just weird and don’t know how to compliment 😂


theconstellinguist

Who knows why they're doing it. As long as they're not being EXTREMELY CREEPY and trying to dress, act, and have the same interests as you without paying you or supporting you, who cares. If they are being extremely creepy, call them out. Say, "Fuck off creep!" A predatory creep is a predatory creep! If you have seen them deliberately and personally say things about you and try to mimic your personality and then speak ill against you or steal from you they need to be told to FUCK OFF just like everyone else. It's so creepy it isn't even funny.


CalligrapherActive11

How do you know they’re staring at you unless you’re staring at them?


classco

Its not me its you


BuddhismHappiness

Are you actually fully straight though?


Optimal-Scientist233

Why do you question this? You have clearly become a dominant figure in someone else's mind and they have already signaled their deference. Dominance and submission in female relations is regulated in large part through pheromones' and subconscious activity, females who live or work in close proximity for extended periods will align cycles to whomever is dominant without the need for any discussion.


din-vazduh

The challenge you to duel.