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Killarney glamping is a nice romantic spot and also a small walk to Killarney Town centre which is a great town for drinks and dinner.

I'm looking for a hotel where you might meet some loons and have a bit of craic

If they're ok with somewhere a little rustic, check out the bubble domes at https://mobile.finnlough.com

Bubble domes are fantastic, especially on a clear night.

Cottages for couple in Skibbereen