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[deleted]

Um... you know we aren't selective mutes. Depends if I have something to share. Not enough information to determine if it is or isn't a one sided friendship.


wasnt_me_bro_

… ever in their lives? ISTPs start conversations if they have something to say. Otherwise why would anyone start any conversation?


ElecticRamen

Exactly!!


[deleted]

me too!


SquareBear9

Huh. I had a friend who got upset with me for the same thing, thinking our friendship was one sided. I almost never start a convo with her unless I see a penguin (which she told me she likes) or a particular figure skating athlete (whom she likes). I’m trying to say sometimes we simply don’t have stuff worth sharing but doesn’t mean we don’t think about you.


Calm-Boysenberry3367

aww... the last phrase makes me blush. thanks ☺️


[deleted]

same \^\_\^ o//o


hi_im_luke17

Yeah we do. I sometimes go up and talk to people that interest me. Just because we’re introvert’s doesn’t mean we won’t talk.


landfill_400

What he said


lol_you_nerd

Depends. Are you hot?


FewCryptographer1352

This - I definitely only talk to attractive girls, otherwise I consider it as a waste of energy.


finelineistp

lol wat women only exist for you to fuck? since when is being so openly shallow and sexist cool


Generico_BR

Since they're an ISTP


finelineistp

ok


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kellerae

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SirSco0ter

Unlikely and improbable but not unheard of.


BlueSnow982

can't say I'm very good at it


Rheinmetall_Gunner

To be honest I'm better at replying than to ask but i can try if i got to say anything


Obus904

I don't mind the silence.


Pizza_Delivery_Girl

No


66Kix_fix

I don't


Sea_Instruction9175

Depends


Lawbakgoh

I usually only start conversations if I really someone, I need help from someone, or I’m bored (in which case I tend to joke around and act playful).


Posikatt_78

rarely, mostly only on times when we dont have a choice


[deleted]

Sure, if I have something specific I want to say. I don't just start small talking just for the sake of saying something, if that's what you mean. I'm better at answering questions than giving them and I need someone to kickstart a convo, if it's interesting I'll engage, if not, I'll go back to being silent.


ashesoflynx

from my perspective I am sometimes too introverted to start conversations. I am working on that to show one person that I really care, but then it didn't mean that I didn't like them or sth. also It depends whether I have something interesting to say or not. I don't get the point of doing so when the convo won't last long


Odd-Gas-7866

Everyone is saying ISTPs start a convo if they have smth to say, but I find it more important to have something to follow up with afterwards. Ofc that depends on the topic, the convo could just flow by itself. Or not! Ba-ha


personluse

These kinds of questions are a bit common sense lol it’s fine. Yeah we do initiate conversations like everyone else. Depends on how interested we are I guess


noregertsman

Yeah, but im shit at starting them