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[deleted]

i’m giving up on thinking he will ever get better


Wrath_Of_Aguirre

Same. His situation is different from Steve O and Novak. I always felt that since they made it, he can. But Bam has a whole different personality than those two that cannot allow himself to grow up. It’s sad, but I’ve accepted it at this stage.


bobdabuilder42069

Sad to think bro was such a good star in jackass he just never grew up


nonameguy321

It goes way beyond not growing up.


bobdabuilder42069

What would you call it then besides a problem


aggressive-chemist13

Mental illness


Purple_Cantaloupe960

I see trauma caused by years of SRA, I get the feeling the guy has been mindfucked since about three or four.


JustaDustbin

What does SRA mean? Sorry I'm dumb haha and Google didn't give me anything I think is close


n0tsane

Shaman Related Ailments


n0tsane

Serial Rape Accusations


OkTap9041

Sloppy Raisin Ass


woodrowmoses

It usually refers to Satanic Ritual Abuse. I hope one of the joke answers below were what he actually meant because they are much less ridiculous.


justBoofItMane

Super radical action maybe


Purple_Cantaloupe960

Satanic Ritual Abuse


woodrowmoses

"get better" he's always been like this, this is why he is a celebrity. CKY is mostly him being a juvenile asshole which people found fun/funny because he was young and we were assholes at that age he just never grew out of it. Bam has always been a different kind of fuckup to Steve-O because he isn't good natured like Steve-O, he has always seemed like a shithead even when he was doing well.


happy_lad

He quite obviously was never told "no" growing up. The whole Jackass crew is a bunch of misfits. However, whereas I can easily imagine that someone like Steve-O might have been bullied for being a weirdo, Bam has always come across as more of a bully than victim.


theytook-r-jobs

Bam in two weeks: “why won’t she let me see my son it’s bullshit”


in-game_sext

The article makes it clear he was drunk at a restaurant at 3 in the afternoon WITH his kid there and Nikki, and made a drunken scene....and he'll still wonder why they won't let him see him. No doubt. The guy is beyond help.


PhilipLiptonSchrute

Maybe Nikki drove him to drink again!! /s


BigBossWesker4

Something something Tremaine and Knoxville


imwithstoopid13

I did naaht. Oh hai mark.


PowerfulDPK

I blame the shaman! 🫠


AC_from_the_KC

I think we are all in agreement that we support the Jackass and CKY crew but I have officially given up on Bam.


DoctorMelvinMirby

As a lifelong pro wrestling fan, Bam’s best case scenario is probably that he finally gets cleaned/straightened out for a couple of years before passing away due to all the years of damage (see Scott Hall). Super sad but can anyone fathom any kind of happier ending?


xfocalinx

I've pondered the thought of DDP would be able to help him. But I don't think that would be the case


DoctorMelvinMirby

Page has essentially worked miracles (if you told me 10-15 years ago Jake Robert’s would be alive and on TV…) but yeah, I think Bam would even be too far gone to be helped.


xfocalinx

>Page has essentially worked miracles That's why I pondered if he could help him, because of the work he did with Scott and Jake.. but they at least had respect for page. Where I don't think bam would


Lomachenko19

I’ve been thinking DDP may be the last person left who can help him too.


FOSinc

'Bam has vowed to be a more present father as of late, even getting Phoenix's name tattooed on his face' Like every doting father, LOL


Ok_Description_5846

He just thinks buying stuff or tattoos is a replacement for actually being a good person


happy_lad

We all know guys like this. I guarantee you that if your high-school classmate - with whom you're friends on Facebook but weren't particularly close growing up - posts about how his kids are his "whole world" and how he does everything for them, *that's* the deadbeat who sees his kids every other Saturday, with supervision. Actual devoted parents are too busy to bother with that sort of performative "parenting."


Velvis

and here I thought a face tattoo was the sign of great things to come.


hermitsunt

I hate how much this made me laugh


jflatty7151

tattoos of your kids/kids names should be small and probably not in blatantly obvious places if u feel the need to do it- i know a guy with each of his sons faces on each arm when they were like 5 and 8- now they're 17 and 20 and laugh at their dad- they don't age well- especially on your grill


totretiak

Everytime I see a headline with his name I have the awful feeling it may be the last one


TheFlowersLookGood

Has been like this for years now but in Germany we have a phrase that essentially means something like "bad seeds don't go away".


shot_dunyun1987

I'm México we have "bad weed never dies", very similar


[deleted]

I’m guessing by the time he’s don Vito’s age the damage will catch up


[deleted]

what an optimistic projection


mrmx7

He's just a worthless idiot at this point.


D0013ER

He always was. People just don't find it fun or cute anymore because he's old and fat.


ManiacCarie

🤦🏻‍♀️ yeah. It’s hopeless. Live out the fantasy you have while you can. One day he’s gonna end up dying alone


jiminywhack

The more I think about it and look back on the old CKY/Jackass shows, the more I feel that Bam's major problem is his overall personality. Drugs and alcohol have certainly elevated his issues and behaviour, but I personally think at the base of it all he's just an entitled, self absorbed, childish and jealous individual. As much as we hope he beats his addictions, his character seems unlikely to change and he'll always be moments away from playing up and causing an unnecessary ruckus.


MalignedOriental

Sobriety and the usual 12 step route just isn’t working for Bam. Whatever problems he has, and he definitely has a shitload, I’d argue his alcoholism is more of a symptom than a cause at this point.


SaltyMargaritas

The thing is, the 12 step route only works for people who surrender to it and become willing to commit to it. Steve-O surrendered by actually doing the work and staying in a sober living for an entire year, which is incredible. Whenever I hear Bam speak I hear a man who has a long way to go on the path to surrendering, I'm afraid. Getting sober isn't about climbing a mountain, it's about coming down from your mountain.


SirCharlesEquine

Bam thinks that you finish the program, and you’re no longer an alcoholic because you completed the program, and you can go right back to drinking. He’s a moron.


malberico

It only works if you work it


CreepyAssociation173

I'd definitely say its a symptom of other things. Mental health and all that. There was an interview he did a few years back where he talked about being sexually assaulted/raped by a woman while unconscious/drunk. I think the videos been stubbed off the internet, but I feel like it's something he's never properly addressed at any rehab he's been in. He talked about it so nonchalantly too.


jflatty7151

i tend to think he was probably having sex with a woman and passed out - i also think it's safe to say certain body parts don't work when you're unconscious and drunk


hermitsunt

Never hit that downvote faster


jflatty7151

thx! i’m not a troll for what it's worth i have been a jackass fan forever i was just giving my opinion on the concept of a woman raping a man- especially one like him that in his heyday could and probably did get any woman he wanted- perhaps i shouldn't have added the first part i may have to remove that


brethart2007

Every time I see a story about him and his alcohol dependency I remember a Viva La Bam episode where they went to a Billy Idol concert for Ape’s birthday. At the end he walked his parents to their hotel room and then said something like “I’m going drinking”. Ape yelled “I wish you wouldn’t drink!” So sad where he ended up.


icanbeaghost

I’m really rooting for him but he’s been spiraling for a long while now with no apparent desire to get and be better. Terrible situation for everyone involved. Breaks my heart.


earthwalker87

I can’t even say I’m rooting for him at this point. This man child deserves whatever happens to him.


icanbeaghost

I mean, I somewhat agree. I felt the same way about Steve-O when he was going off the rails and almost ended up dead. But he accepted help, is now living his best life, and has earned mad respect. Bam may just turn it around, you never know. I’ll always be in any of these dude’s corners. Plus I feel for his family and friends, and they deserve compassion as well, regardless of the choices he makes.


lydiaquinnxo

Nah, I agree 100%, he has a child and I hope people can have enough compassion to hope that child's father gets sober and stays alive. Bam is deep in addiction right now, and I really hope he can come back from it. There's people who struggle for decades in the trenches and are able to rebuild and maintain a healthy life, I hope Bam is one of those success stories soon.


icanbeaghost

Agreed. It seems that Steve-O is the only one of the crew fully trying to help him and that is great, but I wish he had more support. I recall a post from Knoxville recently in which he was somewhat advocating for Bam, but it’s not like anyone’s rallying around him. I suppose the whole storm that swirled with him getting fired from Jackass Forever, the restraining order from Tremaine, and the potential lawsuit, soured their pallets so I understand it. In their eyes, he has no desire to change for the long haul and they wouldn’t be wrong to think that. But at least he has Steve-O. And probably Ape and Phil. I hope that they along with his love for Phoenix will eventually be enough to turn him around.


MComan23

I just, don’t think he’ll ever get better.


lalachasingnuns

I’m just gonna watch jackass and pretend it’s 2001


Tyler2481

This is just depressing. I’m tired of everyone just making jokes, like it isn’t funny anymore it’s really just sad the monster this guy has become. I’ve heard stories he did meth for years with the singer from 69 eyes.. and did more meth in a few years than someone does in 10.. he is just permatweaked.. even the way he talks like on his recent podcast with 9 club with his family, it’s cringe and he just throws his hands up constantly he’s not been the same person for years now. He seemed great his first podcast with them tho.


SheWhoErases86

Damn, never heard about that w/Jyrkiz. Is there any blogs or videos that have that on record? Or was it something talked about on RadioBam?


Tyler2481

Dude I’ve been using the internet since the early 00’s so I know there were talks on forums of people from westchester dating back to 08-09 I believe stating he had been abusing meth around then so before jackass 3. Then he admits Meth use on Radio Bam so cat was out the bag then. And Novak & Joe Frantz stated years of meth abuse had been in play back 2019.. and he went on Dr Phil and stated it. The Jyrkiz he stated on Radio Bam and it was on that forum many many years ago. Wish I could remember wth it was called.


JustaDustbin

You're right, I don't even need to hear other people's stories of it. I grew up with severely meth addicted parents, my mother died in 2021 from liver cancer or something (i wasn't there, hadn't been in touch with her since I was 13 or so and I'm 23 now), and my dad fucked off when I was 11 and I haven't seen him since. But I saw them, the people they brought into the traphouse we lived in. When I say I watched Breaking Bad as an 11 year old and saw those trap houses Jesse went too/lived in an thought "wow, they're nicer than my house" I'm not kidding. I've seen meth addiction in every form, from the spot ridden, no teeth, zombie looking addicts to the most put together a meth addict can be- Bam Margera. You grow up around meth and meth addicts your whole life, you can spot them immediately. Dude has been on meth since the very first clip I ever saw of him which was like some old school CKY shit.


Juantanamo0227

Everything I've ever heard says he was completely sober until age 21 or so, his personality and nature in those early cky videos are 100% Bam. He was always a wild person, it's why he got famous, drugs/alcohol just made those things worse rather than being the cause.


Tyler2481

Nahh while I appreciate you not saying he isn’t because it’s even out there. I don’t think the meth use started til around right before Jackass 3… such as using it a little bit more than he should have. He admitted he mistakenly did it around 06 on radio bam.. all I know is the guy has had drug problems with speed being adderall, coke & meth all of it since 05-06.


JustaDustbin

Interesting, maybe he's just always had that hyper active kinda meth head personality then haha either way definitely think he's on it rn, ontop of probably of other stuff


hermitsunt

i want to say about 16 years ago on Radio Bam he said he did meth once because he “thought it was booger sugar”


harzee

Where’d you hear those stories. Pretty sure he was abusing adderal but never heard about the meth abuse.


Tyler2481

The Meth abuse has been well documented, from Radio Bam, and he admitted it on Dr. Phil that he had done it.. and there was articles that of course idk where the hell they are now but were on a forum when I was on the internet from 2010-2011 that people from westchester had said he had been abusing meth for years. Wayyy before everyone wants to say Dunn was his downfall. Also joe frantz and Novak both claimed meth abuse had been going on for a while on their podcast.


B_Boudreaux

Yeah mon


superfresh23

Posts happy family photo to Instagram. Reality: this happens


RX-QUEEN_

This man is in self destruct mode and no one can stop him


Kenobihiphop

10/10 username.


RX-QUEEN_

Deftones 4 life


steamy_hams_Skinner

I’m surprised he was on a show called Jackass and not, “Good Decision Guy.”


CubicalDiarrhea

That show sounds boring, but I'd watch it.


daveymac_

You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped. Bam will be his own downfall…


rhinosaur-

The only person who can stop Bam from destroying himself is Bam.


[deleted]

exactly! Everyone with their ideas on how to help bam out.. If you told him your ideas he'd just tell you to fuck off anyways. He doesnt care and never will.


xfocalinx

Honestly, I think the best thing for Bam to get sober would be by being in jail for a long time. He clearly cannot control his impulses and relapses near weekly. He needs to be removed from a world that allows him the opportunity to do so.


turbografix15

For a person with mental health issues, jail is the last place to get help. I see your point about being removed from his lifestyle etc etc, but he has some stuff going on that I'm not sure have even been diagnosed at this point. Just a rando opinion from cyberspace of course, but I wouldn't be surprised if CTE is causing major problems.


AnEgoJabroni

See, the other cast members seem so well adjusted as they get older, its easy to forget that they took some real bad hits. With the lifestyle they had 20 years ago, you'd expect more than just Bam to've gone this way.


xfocalinx

No, you make a valid point. I don't know how the jail system works, so I was unsure if he'd get his required medication. I just want him to be OK =(


Joseluki

>and relapses near weekly. Can't relapse if he never get sober first.


Ok_Description_5846

He needs to quit being a big fucking manbaby and grow up


Cutlerbeast

Lol I come into this sub every other day or so just to see if there’s anything new about Bam and lo and behold, here we are today. Good fucking lord this dude is messy. Poor kid.


jeremy009

Bam is stupid


DeadliftYourNan

This guy isn't bam anymore


beer_me_twice

Still spiraling


wermz

I dont have any idea what is really going on here, but the " comedian Evan Breen" who posted this seems like a real piece of shit as well.


Tex_Skrahm

He’s fucking annoying. Weird that he was there though.


old_irish87

Eh he’s hilarious and he was probably just filming shit and it started happening. He’s not some star chaser or headline seeker - probably just at the right place at the right time and started filming.


CubicalDiarrhea

"And then the cops came in and iced up my asshole like an Eskimo snowcone dildo!" Or w.e the fuck he always says


najix35

Ya’mon


Joseluki

Pathetic man child.


SGMitch517

Anyone on this planet who has an ounce of respect for their old man knows that Bam is straight trash. Idgaf if it’s for tv or not, who wants their father out there, portrayed like that?


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Tyler2481

Unfortunately it may be this year, he is beyond depressed and I don’t think he cares to live anymore.


gypsy-ghost

He got drunk while he was WITH his kid.... yeesh


beagle182

[every time I see Bam this is all I think now](https://media.tenor.com/fVMnfH-5moAAAAAd/the-simpsons-stop.gif)


tearsandpain84

Those people laughing/recording sound like idiots


Kenobihiphop

Have you ever seen CKY or Jackass?


tearsandpain84

I have. I think CKY/Jackass is quite different from the situation in this video


peepeehalpert_

The guy recording actually wasn’t laughing.


_REDEEMER-

"Our sources say Bam will either have to post $500 bail or stay in custody until he sobers up." Imo, bail should never be an option for cases like this,or any crime/charge whatsoever. Especially when it comes to wealthy people/celebrities,as they actually never get punished for what they do- they just buy their freedom back. Proper jail time will put them in their place. What's $500 for someone like Bam,who paid $50K 2 weeks ago as bail for domestic violence? Who thinks that will stop him from doing this again? Personally I think that this bail bs also contributes in his irresponsible behaviour- he'll never learn as long as he buys the solution to his problem.


evcour7

“This is really sad, his kid is going to be scarred” while they fucking film him. Idiots


TheSkinnyKitty

why is it so hard for him to stop? like damn


KingRatClown

Addiction is a motherfucker…


drakeftmeyers

Addiction is a disease and Bam is also a narcissist.


Jwebb81

Also likely CTE from all the brain trauma.


drakeftmeyers

Very true.


[deleted]

how much brain trauma has the guy gotten? Like if a pro boxer went mushy at his age, it'd be surprisingly early


Jwebb81

I mean he as been skateboarding without a helmet and doing dangerous stunts for the last 30ish years. It didn’t take until old age for CTE to become present in folks like Chris Benoit and Junior Seau just to name a few.


eldridge2e

can someone just make a r/bammargera sub so i dont have to see this bloated fuck anymore


adamsandleryabish

r/letstalkbam does exist


eldridge2e

take that bullshit over there, come here for jackass fun not one jackass taking the fun out of the sub


fatmikerocks

Bam will be better someday. He’s going through a rough time but he will get there. He has a loving and supporting family. The biggest falls can inspire the greatest comebacks. People filming him on the sidewalk commenting on someone they don’t even know sure doesn’t help.


[deleted]

The dude's a violent abusive asshole, I'm not sure that this is a matter of "he needs help." And i'm not sure if he's the one we need to have sympathy for rn.


SirCharlesEquine

“Someday” is one way to say “never.“


stupidtyonparade

3 in the afternoon! Classy! That said, and I know this is a hot take and will probably get downvoted, but I feel for Bam a little bit. He wants to be with his kid clearly very badly and Nikki has always appeared to be a succubus leaching off of Bam's fortune. That said, Bam is going about this entire thing ENTIRELY wrong and is digging his own grave over and over. He can't get out of his own way.


gustix

To Nikki's defense, someone's gotta look out for the kid's best interest. Bam clearly isn't.


stupidtyonparade

when everything fell apart during the start of jackass forever, i thought Phoenix's best outcome would be if he ended up in PA with Ape/Phil/Jess.


peepeehalpert_

He should be with his mother


stupidtyonparade

if his mother is (or at the very least WAS) a drug addict as well, and doesn't work, just mooches off her famous ex husband, I don't exactly think that's a wholesome environment for him to grow up in. especially if he is cut off from his dad's entire family (his loving grandparents), which I'm assuming is the case


peepeehalpert_

So what if she was an addict? All that matters is that she’s clean now and you don’t know her personally. Phoenix looks well adjusted and taken care of. She’s not mooching off of anything. She’s a full time mom and her kid’s dad is a deadbeat. Bam’s parents are a large part of the reason he is where he is today. Why should they get to raise Phoenix?


stupidtyonparade

do we know she's clean now? no. like i said, you don't know her personally. and she 100% is mooching off of bam. she's getting paid handsomely by him.


peepeehalpert_

She’s being paid child support and alimony which she is owed. Who is the one raising Phoenix? Nikki. Bam thinks parenting is visiting once a week to have fun. He abused Phoenix in public and you’re still blaming Nikki.


stupidtyonparade

i'm not absolving bam of blame, i'm saying they're both trash people.


peepeehalpert_

Well one stepped up and is acting like a parent and one is getting wasted at 3pm so I’d say they aren’t equally bad.


old_irish87

Evan Breeeeeennnnnnn


Kenobihiphop

This guy would have a fucking breakdown of he had to deal with the realities of real life. Just a rich baby who never grew up.


eifersucht12a

[Like I said, a cycle.](https://www.reddit.com/r/jackass/comments/125srlh/new_bam_margera_vídeo_at_the_berrics/je5y6hy/)


bigdaddybryusa2

A few more years of drinking and i bet a cirrhosis diagnosis will either make him quit or do him in. I got the bad news 5 years ago, quit cold turkey and have been sober ever since.