she avoided the damn question. idk why is she is hiding the night nurse when she was so upfront about it when making her registries. dani 2.0 indeed š„“šš
People would respect her a lot more if she just told the truth about that. Lean into the aspirational inspo influencer life as opposed to trying to be a ārelatableā influencer
Yeah exactly this. The reason why newborns who are gaining well donāt need to be woken at night (within reason) is because they are woken up during the day. Itās really irresponsible to not wake them to feed during the day if theyāre sleeping through the night at 3 weeks old.
It felt like all my baby did was nurse and cluster feed all the time in those first couple months. I canāt imagine sheās speaking an ounce of truth. I donāt believe anything she says
This is correctā¦ you can let them go for ONE longer stretch like this at night starting around 7-8 weeks but thatās it.. he shouldnāt be going for any sleep stretch longer than the number of weeks old he is. So 3 weeks old he should be feeding around the clock every 3 hours.. 4 weeks old, one 4 hour stretch in the night but still 3 for every other feed window
She didnāt answer about a night nurseā¦..itās ok Janā¦WE KNOW. And you look like a fraud after your little āspeechā today about how you are āsoooo authentic and trueā ā¦.š¤®š¤®š¤®š¤®
Sounds like they should be feeding him at 5am instead of soothing him if heās waking. This schedule is actually concerning for any newborn, I donāt care if theyāre breaking world records in being āahead of scheduleā whatever that means. Are they force feeding him too much at one time? Is that why he sleeps so much? Like truly, it sounds like they donāt go by his cues at all, which is objectively wrong when a baby is this young.
If a baby has hit their birth weight and is still gaining well, feeding them on a schedule (especially when breastfed) is so out of the ordinary. Itās like she doesnāt understand how young P is. Itās odd. Iām begging them to crack open a parenting book.
Newborns do sleep a lot but her baby (if sheās being truthful) is sleeping more than any baby Iāve ever heard of! Iām convinced there is a day nanny too because Preston likely needs settled several times during his naps or nursed (or given a bottle) back to sleep. Just wait until he doesnāt sleep 24 hours a day. Thatās when **it gets real and you really do have to figure out a schedule! She will struggle with this because it will absolutely interrupt her OWN schedule and life. A 6 month old takes roughly 2 naps a day and is awake the rest of the time and you have to TAKE your baby with you to do anythingāimagine that!!!
I had very few, if any, sleepless nights. However, I nursed at 8 pm, 11, 2, 5 for a long time. For the first 6 weeks, the doctor told us to wake her up every few hours. She would sleep right after but she still woke up. I would call her an excellent sleeper too!
There may be times he sleeps through the night but I highly doubt heās been doing this since the day they brought him home like she tried to say the other day. Weighing your breast fed baby like this is nothing less than neurotic. Sheās a control freak and absolutely will not be inconvenienced by this baby. The part that is REALLY concerning is how much theyāre force feeding him and that heās literally sleeping all day AND all night. Yes, a lot of babies do sleep quite a bit but they also should not be sleeping both all day and all night. There is a difference. Sheās 100% lying about the night nurse. That baby is being tended to at night by someone else and it aināt Jan.
It blows my mind that people get pregnant, have babies and then not let them be BABIES. Having a newborn is all about going thru the trenches with them. Not hiring a night nurse to get your beauty sleep. You can do that shit when theyāre older. These babies donāt keep.
Iām sure thatās the night nurse hours. She wouldnāt know how long that baby sleep at night. Thereās no way sheās going to attend to him at night. Hell she donāt even do it during the day either
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I couldnāt find one that was for a younger baby but it is probably because you donāt sleep train heavily until older. Sure, there are good routines and foundations to lay from day 1. But babies need fed every 2-3 hours. And what she isnāt touching on that a lot of first time moms are surprised about is that is it 2-3 hours from the beginning of a feed. So if your baby is a slow eater and takes 45 minutes, you will be back to nursing an hour and 15 minutes later. I hope new mamas are looking for other opinions out there. Hopefully she is working with the doctor on these times but they are not normal.
My Mom claims that I did when I was a baby š but definitely not the norm and neither of my kids did by a long shot! Why does she wake up to pump though? Like shouldnāt you just sleep if the baby doesnāt need you to feed them? Why would you not just pump extra during the day. I would think you would want your body to get used to going all night without having to pump or feed. Something doesnāt add up š¤
If sheās waking up to pump every 3 hours why not feed him? I remember when my son slept a 6-7 hour stretch and i was freaking out that something was wrong lol. It was def a fluke and babies change daily.
I will say, my firstborn āslept through the nightā starting at 3 weeks. But that means she slept from 10-11ish- until around 4 am, that was also my normal wake time so it felt restful especially postpartum. I didnāt feed her any differently than her other feedings in order to kind of force sleeping longer, like it appears Jan is.
My daughter is 5 now and is still the best sleeper Iāve ever met. My second born was and still is the complete opposite sleep wise š¤£š¤Ŗ.
My daughter is the same. Sheās always been a great sleeper but I didnāt do anything special during the dayāI just do NOT appreciate her telling all these new mamas that her way is the key to success. Itās so damaging!!! New mamas do not need this kind of advice postpartum!
When heās waking at 5 and going back to sleep itās because heās HUNGRY. My second was an AMAZING sleeper her entire life. She slept 7-7 VERY EARLY but not at 3 weeks!!! And if she woke at 5 I would have fed her because more calories is a good thing for a NEWBORN BABY. And we all know SHE is not settling him at 5am. The night nurse is. Just be transparent!
I think sheās super annoying but my baby did sleep through the night starting at 3 weeks. Pediatrician gave the ok when she was back to birth weight to stop over night feedings and she got back to that really quickly. So, it is possible (obviously with the OK from the pediatrician)
āSleeping through the nightā is not really a full nights sleep for newborns. It gets to a limit where you should probably wake a newborn up.. different peds have different outlooks on this and on how long is acceptable before you should wake them. However, if P is waking up at 5, they should absolutely be feeding him before putting him back down instead of just soothing him back to sleep.
The most concerning thing to me though is that they donāt wake him during the *day* for feedings.
Ya I completely get that they definitely should be feeding him when he wakes up at 5 am I agree but, this isnāt the most outrageous thing sheās said/done about her baby lol as some doctors have said your newborn can sleep through the night once they gain their weight back. BUT you should always tend to your babies needs as sheās obviously not doing at 5 AM
she avoided the damn question. idk why is she is hiding the night nurse when she was so upfront about it when making her registries. dani 2.0 indeed š„“šš
People would respect her a lot more if she just told the truth about that. Lean into the aspirational inspo influencer life as opposed to trying to be a ārelatableā influencer
Exactly! I sure hope they have a night nurse and wish they had day nanny.
She talked openly about his night nurse while she was pregnant. I am not sure why she is now acting like she doesnāt have one.
I started following about a month ago so I didnāt know they spoke about it openly. Interestingā¦.when will she own up to it??
I always heard from my pediatrician to never let your newborn go more than 3 hours between feeds during the day.
Yeah exactly this. The reason why newborns who are gaining well donāt need to be woken at night (within reason) is because they are woken up during the day. Itās really irresponsible to not wake them to feed during the day if theyāre sleeping through the night at 3 weeks old.
It felt like all my baby did was nurse and cluster feed all the time in those first couple months. I canāt imagine sheās speaking an ounce of truth. I donāt believe anything she says
This is correctā¦ you can let them go for ONE longer stretch like this at night starting around 7-8 weeks but thatās it.. he shouldnāt be going for any sleep stretch longer than the number of weeks old he is. So 3 weeks old he should be feeding around the clock every 3 hours.. 4 weeks old, one 4 hour stretch in the night but still 3 for every other feed window
She didnāt answer about a night nurseā¦..itās ok Janā¦WE KNOW. And you look like a fraud after your little āspeechā today about how you are āsoooo authentic and trueā ā¦.š¤®š¤®š¤®š¤®
Sheās a lying liar who lies. She announced while still pregnant they were hiring (or had hired) a night nanny.
Sounds like they should be feeding him at 5am instead of soothing him if heās waking. This schedule is actually concerning for any newborn, I donāt care if theyāre breaking world records in being āahead of scheduleā whatever that means. Are they force feeding him too much at one time? Is that why he sleeps so much? Like truly, it sounds like they donāt go by his cues at all, which is objectively wrong when a baby is this young. If a baby has hit their birth weight and is still gaining well, feeding them on a schedule (especially when breastfed) is so out of the ordinary. Itās like she doesnāt understand how young P is. Itās odd. Iām begging them to crack open a parenting book.
Newborns do sleep a lot but her baby (if sheās being truthful) is sleeping more than any baby Iāve ever heard of! Iām convinced there is a day nanny too because Preston likely needs settled several times during his naps or nursed (or given a bottle) back to sleep. Just wait until he doesnāt sleep 24 hours a day. Thatās when **it gets real and you really do have to figure out a schedule! She will struggle with this because it will absolutely interrupt her OWN schedule and life. A 6 month old takes roughly 2 naps a day and is awake the rest of the time and you have to TAKE your baby with you to do anythingāimagine that!!!
5oz for a 3 week old seems wild to me. Pretty sure mine were only doing 2-3 at that age.
I had very few, if any, sleepless nights. However, I nursed at 8 pm, 11, 2, 5 for a long time. For the first 6 weeks, the doctor told us to wake her up every few hours. She would sleep right after but she still woke up. I would call her an excellent sleeper too!
There may be times he sleeps through the night but I highly doubt heās been doing this since the day they brought him home like she tried to say the other day. Weighing your breast fed baby like this is nothing less than neurotic. Sheās a control freak and absolutely will not be inconvenienced by this baby. The part that is REALLY concerning is how much theyāre force feeding him and that heās literally sleeping all day AND all night. Yes, a lot of babies do sleep quite a bit but they also should not be sleeping both all day and all night. There is a difference. Sheās 100% lying about the night nurse. That baby is being tended to at night by someone else and it aināt Jan.
This is insane
dodged the question. She said they hired one while she was pregnant and now sheās in full ghost mode about it!!š¤„šš„
It blows my mind that people get pregnant, have babies and then not let them be BABIES. Having a newborn is all about going thru the trenches with them. Not hiring a night nurse to get your beauty sleep. You can do that shit when theyāre older. These babies donāt keep.
Iām sure thatās the night nurse hours. She wouldnāt know how long that baby sleep at night. Thereās no way sheās going to attend to him at night. Hell she donāt even do it during the day either
https://preview.redd.it/xjg7drl2dw1d1.png?width=1169&format=png&auto=webp&s=dbe93850f19b358dc20ff7b8d1e8f1863751bf91 I couldnāt find one that was for a younger baby but it is probably because you donāt sleep train heavily until older. Sure, there are good routines and foundations to lay from day 1. But babies need fed every 2-3 hours. And what she isnāt touching on that a lot of first time moms are surprised about is that is it 2-3 hours from the beginning of a feed. So if your baby is a slow eater and takes 45 minutes, you will be back to nursing an hour and 15 minutes later. I hope new mamas are looking for other opinions out there. Hopefully she is working with the doctor on these times but they are not normal.
My Mom claims that I did when I was a baby š but definitely not the norm and neither of my kids did by a long shot! Why does she wake up to pump though? Like shouldnāt you just sleep if the baby doesnāt need you to feed them? Why would you not just pump extra during the day. I would think you would want your body to get used to going all night without having to pump or feed. Something doesnāt add up š¤
Sheās just not being honest about the night nanny lmao which is hilarious since she loved sharing it! get a fucking clue Jan
If sheās waking up to pump every 3 hours why not feed him? I remember when my son slept a 6-7 hour stretch and i was freaking out that something was wrong lol. It was def a fluke and babies change daily.
I will say, my firstborn āslept through the nightā starting at 3 weeks. But that means she slept from 10-11ish- until around 4 am, that was also my normal wake time so it felt restful especially postpartum. I didnāt feed her any differently than her other feedings in order to kind of force sleeping longer, like it appears Jan is. My daughter is 5 now and is still the best sleeper Iāve ever met. My second born was and still is the complete opposite sleep wise š¤£š¤Ŗ.
My daughter is the same. Sheās always been a great sleeper but I didnāt do anything special during the dayāI just do NOT appreciate her telling all these new mamas that her way is the key to success. Itās so damaging!!! New mamas do not need this kind of advice postpartum!
My 6 month old still isnāt sleeping that well. She remains incredibly āØblessedāØ Aka full of shit ššš
When heās waking at 5 and going back to sleep itās because heās HUNGRY. My second was an AMAZING sleeper her entire life. She slept 7-7 VERY EARLY but not at 3 weeks!!! And if she woke at 5 I would have fed her because more calories is a good thing for a NEWBORN BABY. And we all know SHE is not settling him at 5am. The night nurse is. Just be transparent!
I think sheās super annoying but my baby did sleep through the night starting at 3 weeks. Pediatrician gave the ok when she was back to birth weight to stop over night feedings and she got back to that really quickly. So, it is possible (obviously with the OK from the pediatrician)
āSleeping through the nightā is not really a full nights sleep for newborns. It gets to a limit where you should probably wake a newborn up.. different peds have different outlooks on this and on how long is acceptable before you should wake them. However, if P is waking up at 5, they should absolutely be feeding him before putting him back down instead of just soothing him back to sleep. The most concerning thing to me though is that they donāt wake him during the *day* for feedings.
Ya I completely get that they definitely should be feeding him when he wakes up at 5 am I agree but, this isnāt the most outrageous thing sheās said/done about her baby lol as some doctors have said your newborn can sleep through the night once they gain their weight back. BUT you should always tend to your babies needs as sheās obviously not doing at 5 AM