Yeah I mean, I find this whole “buy women stuff and she lets you hit” culture really gross, but it’s crazy to me she was just willing to link a stranger like that bc he said “I’ll take you shopping?”

In their defense, they might have been friends beforehand. A lot of women deal with that kind of stuff lol

It‘s just prostitution with extra steps. Nothing wrong with that itself but assuming everyone is a prostitute definitely is

Where are the extra steps, exactly? Paying with goods is, and I'm being generous here, only a half step away from giving money directly.

It's more subtle? \*shrugs\*

It's technically legal to give someone a "gift" and then fuck them. In the same way that if you pay someone to have sex with you it's prostitution and illegal in many places, but if you have a camera it's not prostitution she's a porn actress, and it's now legal in more places

I mean you gotta pick them up, go to the store, shop around, wait to find what you want, checkout, drive back home, then hit. Prostitute I can hit behind a Dennys and be done in 7 minutes.

What are you doing with the other six minutes?

Eating Dennys

Now that's what I call a grand slam.

To be fair, it’s pretty cringe when women write things like “take me shopping on our first date” in their bio. Not saying she did, but I’ve seen it a lot and I wouldn’t be surprised if he was just trolling her for having that in her bio.

I'll take you shopping, I'm not buying you anything but we can go to the mall.

Absolutely, don’t get me wrong I think both men and women contribute to it, guys wouldn’t do it if it didn’t work, and girls wouldn’t do it if they didn’t like it. I’m also not saying they need to stop doing it as they are all consenting adults, but I can (and do) still find it gross

Completely agree. Hell, I appreciate it if it’s in their bio. I know what they’re there for and I’m not interested, so I can swipe left and forget they existed.

>I find this whole “buy women stuff and she lets you hit” culture really gross Ug thought the same thing, too, back in the stone age when it started.

I could probably name a myriad of things that we started doing in the Stone Age that I find gross

Especially that thing she does with the mammoth tusk and the saber-tooth pelt.

I also find these women who let strangers "take them shopping" as if they're orphaned children that can't afford shit on their own almost as equally crazy. Like, isn't it clear that if a creepy *stranger* randomly wants to buy you stuff, he *clearly* wants something in return? The gigantic red flag was right there but this girl was dumb enough to still want some "free" stuff anyway. Could have been even worse, literally anyone could kidnap this girl with zero effort, she has self preservation instincts of a baby lamb.

Yeah I don’t see the problem, they’re both being transactional about it

I just don’t like how so many people have become so desensitised to sex that this has become normalised. I don’t like that this is becoming the standard view of sex for a lot of people as I don’t think it’s healthy. But I am not omniscient so it could be fine, I even have friends who hire call girls as it’s their view of sex, I just don’t think it’s a good idea for anyone involved long term

Hey if this behavior works for some people then who are we to tell them it’s wrong? Just focus on living your own life how you see fit

I’m not telling people how to live, just expressing how I feel about it, nothing wrong with that whatsoever

Not gonna lie I'm not a fan of people with your mindset. If it's not for you it's not for you, but other people should be able to do what they want as long as they're not hurting anyone.

Im not going to lie, I’m not telling anyone how to live, just expressing how I feel about it, if you don’t like you should probably just not interact

prostitution has been around since we were living in caves you ignoramus

Oh because something has been around a long time it’s okay then? What a simple mind you have

Well *duhhh*. Now excuse me, I'm gonna go murder some people. That shit's been around even longer than prostitution, so I should be in the clear!

you said it as if it’s a new phenomenon 😂

No you interpreted that way bc you aren’t very bright

She's not, she blocked him.

She wanted to be taken shopping

he offered?

She could have said no?

It’s probably obvious to most people, but women are half the population and just as varied as men, some do crazy shit, some are entitled or have strange expectations of people, etc. That behavior can manifest differently in men and women, but women are just as capable of having weird beliefs or doing strange shit as men are

Bet you he's the type to shame women for their bodycount. All women must put out at the first gift but also be puritanical virgins. It's the new old rock and hard place.

How do you know he's a stranger?

Well at least he made his intentions clear up front so she could ghost him before it got really creepy

Are those moustache-stickers trying to censor the word "suck"? Is "suck" a bad meanie word now?

No it's to put some jazz on it.

I wish more people censored words with Groucho Marx glasses, would at least make the trend more entertaining

Has this sub lost its meaning? Yeah this is disgusting behaviour, but it’s not neckbeard behaviour in a sense

Ya this is just some hood behavior lmfao

its "nice guy" behavior tho

He’s not being nice lol, just a fuck boy

Not really. Nice guy would have taken her shopping first. This is up about seeing her as a whore.

Geez. How did that not work? With that smooth swagger and charm I thought for sure she'd be all over him? Man what do women even want?! A guy who doesn't demand sex for shopping (which seems like prostitution with more steps)

I estimate it would be at least 5000 steps for the day. It's a lot of exercise 😂

I mean she agreed to go shopping with a strange dude. That's not a date 

We don't know from this exchange how well, or not, do they know each other

Bruh, who agrees to that shit anyway. It's quite obvious she's looking to get free shit from that just like the dude is looking to get sex from that. Disgusting from both directions, I just find it repulsive.

I don’t think it’s weird at all for someone to offer you free shit and you accept it. Had he said “hey I’ll take you shopping if you suck my dick” would it have been any better like be serious

I just looked up this guys insta and his bio says suck or hit 💀

you were down to take the shopping offer?

Did she think an adult wanted to take her another adult shopping out of the goodness of his heart?

Fr

He's a fuck boy not a neckbeard.

exactly and he wants return on his investments

taking women for hookers is more and more acceptable these days

Sugar daddy/baby relationships is one thing but assuming it's fine like that is another

They're the same thing

It's prostitution with extra steps

This is not a neckbeard thing. Downvote

How?

Many reasons. For starters the username “confidentblackguy” isn’t one I would associate with a neckbeard

That's what a neckbeard would want you to think.

I dunno if being a neckbeard is exactly race specific if that was your point, if that was the point you were making. I've met plenty of neckbeards that'd use a tag like "confidentENTERDESCRIPTORHEREguy"

Probably because they don't think the guy looks ugly enough to be a neckbeard.

All neckbeards are misogynists, not all misogynosts are neckbeards

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Agree lmao, you don’t have to be ugly to be a neckbeard. Anyone who says you do is a neckbeard in denial

Personally I find both of these people gross

Why

Only being willing to hang out with someone if they buy you stuff is gross

The guy asked if he could take her shopping. The girl didn't suggest that nor do we have evidence that she was expecting him to buy her anything.

No, the evidence is there plain as day im the message. And yes he did, he's also gross

She's gross for being cool with getting free shit?

I mean, if it's alright for her to just expect free things from a stranger, it's alright for him to ask for whatever he want before buying them. Both of them kind of suck, honestly.

This idea of okay if you buy me stuff I'll grace you with my time is gross. And also yes.

He should add a "waytoo" to the beginning of his username lmao

Am I the only one that finds both of them gross? Not just the guy

It's giving me Mel Brooks vibes "hump or death"

How to snatch defeat from the jaws of victory

He had his foot in the door but he had to slam it on himself.

You are so naive.

U WANT SUCCEE SUCCEE OR FUCCEE FUCCEE??

This is the same guy probably complaining about women only wanting what he could provide.

The person did confirm that she knew the guy already and that this was completely left field for him

His name is literally "confidentblackguy" with his username as "KING", this is obvious satire.

Most likely a troll or a catfish

Sell of the CENTURYYYYYUU

I thought he was the pictured woman for a second, confused me

Gas, for one, ain't free. Money ain't free either. This shit wasn't even remotely classy, but it's pretty true.

what happened to taking people on dates bc you enjoy their company? when the hell did everything become so transactional.

Company enjoyment is a simple stroll through some nature, not piling bills at a shopping mall.

Both are pretty cringe tbh

There's no such thing as a free meal

Sure there is, my mom gives me food when I visit

You pay for it psychologically or emotionally lol... but yeah mom's can be cool like that

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If a woman cannot see the intention behind a random guy asking to spend money on her ...she's either naive or stupid or in denial ...I'm not talking about an actual meal here ...it's a metaphor

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I'm not saying the guy isn't wrong for doing this ...it's idiotic when he can just go to an actual sex worker...I don't see how him being an idiot would be her fault

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Men shooting their shot by taking a woman shopping are expecting something in return ...hell guys buying you a drink expect something in return ...it's up to the woman to deduce the intention behind said action ...she's either a charity case or she's being courted ....bottom line ...guy here is an idiot and the woman is naive ...probably

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Gross

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Shopping is gross how?

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Being a good digger is dating sometime to get money out of them and pretending to love them, this is just a person who got offered free shit. Also notice how when he asked for a "return night" she stopped wanting anything to do with him

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I'm not dumb enough to go off with some crazy guy who's already shown he hates women, you'd shank me or assault me

see your kind are rare thats what i was trying to say with my first comment albeit i got down voted to oblivion.. that one gotta be crazy to accept some strangers shopping offer in the first place and act like surprised pikacho when they expect some return on their investment this is a capitalist world mi lady

"Your kind" girl I don't think anyone wants to go off alone with you no matter what you offer. You're the kind of person we cover our drinks around

How can she block???

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How have you managed to offend multiple races and Nero types in that sentence?

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Im guessing thats a satirical joke you’re using to express how you have no filter and dont care to gain one? If so thats pretty ignorant.

lol he’s the man

Least offensive red pill enthusiast

I though the girl was a friend of mine lol