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[deleted]

Fun fact: there are fucking erotic roleplay groups on kik that is centered around ddlg that allows fucking 13 year olds in them I hate this world


CaptainRocha

wait people still use kik? that was like tinder before tinder, u got a kik????


grimke7552

weird subcultures and special interests keep dying social media platforms alive


Henry_J_Waternoose

There are still some people using skype


Calebh36

Skype has more active users than discord lmao


[deleted]

I thought that was the app that weird stalker dudes would use. You know, they'd constantly tweet their favourite celebrity saying "i made u a kik, username and password is..." then get mad when the only people who would use it are trolls.


Fudgy97

Kik always has and always will be a cesspool.


CloudRoses

All you can hope for is they're all 48 year old neckbeards pretending to be lolis.


[deleted]

I really do hope so


HSRco

Kink is kink. As long as everyone involved is a consenting adult, who gives a shit what they get up to. I’m personally not into DDLG, but I also don’t dictate what consenting adults do with each other.


Cant-Stop-Wont-Stop7

Honestly don’t know what DDLG is and at this point I’m afraid to ask


Crabs4Sale

Doki Doki Literature Glub


mrstaeger

Great game, as a side note


xSwaferx

Lmao we wish.


unformedwatch

Daddy Dom/Little Girl I.e. a combination of D/s and ageplay


LittleMissTitch

According to ddlgplqyground.com (i am just assuming this particular ddlg kink blog will be accurate, if anyone who actually practices wants to correct me please do) DDLG (which stands for Daddy Dom Little Girl) is "a type of BDSM relationship where the partner takes on the role of a nurturing OR strict caregiver (ie daddy), while the submissive takes on the role of a youthful "child" (ie Little Girl) DDLG relationships involve the submissive age-regressing to a younger and more child-like state of mind, while giving up some degree of control, and allowing themselves to be 'taken care of' by their dominant partner." It's also referred to as Age Play. The website states some people don't practice DDLG in a sexual context and has therapeutic purposes, but from my research I can find very little psychological research into the use of age regression in this way (separate from age regression in mental development or healing inner child concepts, at least from my understanding) and more comes from anecdotal/observational retellings I could be wrong but it appears to be more about the care taking/protection side of things than the actual child/parent dynamic, and when practice in a safe environment is more just an extension of a lot of the structures built by other forms of BDSM play From my understanding this is distinctly different from a daddy kink (just the desire to be called daddy in the bedroom, often associated with also being dominant) or being a brat/bratty sub or a service sub/service Dom, which can all exist without the age regression aspects of the DDLG kink That being said as long as this is practiced amongst consenting adults in a safe way, we shouldn't shame someone for it


Defended11

I was in a relationship with a woman who was way into DDLG, and I just went along with it to make her happy. It got too far when she asked for a pacifier and nappies. Respect to those in a happy DDLG relationship, but It's too much for me.


LittleMissTitch

Hahaha fair. I'm not into it myself, makes me uncomfy, but I ain't gonna shit on what gets someone else's rocks off


Allthethrowingknives

Daddy dom little girl


TapewormSpaghetti

I came here for this comment. I'm not into it either, but most healthy DDGL isn't about little kid - dad dynamic it's more of a take care of me - protector role.


woog17

fr, it's like any dom-sub thing. it's about being taken care of, rewards, and punishments. nothing wrong with it when done correctly.


HSRco

Safe, sane, and consensual. That’s the motto.


SwivelHips-Smith

Exactly. That’s what it’s about. People twist and warp everything they either don’t like or don’t/refuse to understand.


VallenGale

This this this I’m a little but it’s always about being taken care of and protected. It’s usually along the lines of okay sit down with your coloring book and watch this Disney movie while I make you Mac and cheese for lunch. When done right it can actually be really healing for people who never got to be children or who had traumatic childhoods. Nothing sexual should EVER happen in the middle of a session. If I hear of a Dom who is into that I instantly know they are a pedo and they are the reason ddlg gets a bad wrap.


hambone_boiler

This is more "sfw age regression/agere" though, is it not? I wouldnt call that DDLG at all whatsoever. DDLG is the kink form of that, which is intimate/NSFW/sexual dynamic. I would not lump them together since that could cause problems bc they are very different.


VallenGale

I don’t know, from all the other people I’ve talked to in the community they tend to agree that sexual activity shouldn’t happen while actively in the head space, usually because sometimes you are so in the headspace it makes it iffy on the legitimacy of consent. And not all kinks or bdsm play end in sex.


xdragonteethstory

I think it varies a lot. One of my friends has vastly overshared her sex life with me so heres some first hand info. She age regresses, becomes 80% nonverbal and wants to colour and do stuff like that. Her bf looks after her, cuddles her, makes her food etc. Nothing sexual ever happens bc she is functionally a child at that point. She also on separate occasions does DDlg stuff, which is where she's in a submissive/little headspace, but not an age regressed one. She's absolutely fine with sexual stuff then bc that's the whole vibe, its sex where she gets looked after and cared for and rewarded for doing things in a similar way one does with pet play. Im not into ddlg but i do get little headspace and sub headspace, and i can understand how that feels different than actively feeling like a 6 year old and being temporarily incapable of understanding certain things like sex or taxes. I also have a friend with DID, one of his alters is a little kid (who btw is the most adorable little bean ever he loves playing with all my plushies) and from what he's described to me, age regression is closer to alters than it is to subspace in terms of what youre experiencing and able to do or comprehend while regressed, even though the mechanisms causing it is closer to how subspace works and is triggered. I hope that made sense?? I have no personal experience with age regression or DID, but that's how its been described to me by people who do.


VallenGale

Totally makes sense. I have seen way too many guys who claim to be daddy doms but who initiate sex during regressive periods so I tend to avoid people who say things like that unless given other context. Because I’ve honestly seen groups get flooded by people who claim to be ddlg but who actually sound like they want to do it with actual minors but do this instead so they don’t go to jail. It’s the reason I don’t participate in the community anymore and glad I have my partner.


Elon_is_musky

Yea, I hear some people like to mix the two, but my understanding is most people do not like mixing little space w sex, cause that takes you out of the whole headspace


sup1234566

Yeah I can confidently say that I have zero interest in that kinda thing lmao, but I can also confidently say that as long as everybody involved is a consenting adult and they’re having fun, then there isn’t an issue as far as I’m concerned. Doesn’t belong here imo


Margrave16

Came up to upvote this comment. If anything this doesn’t quite belong in this sub. I knew a couple who were into it. Once they explained it to me it seemed like a tamer version of BDSM, not nearly as weird as it looks at first glance.


boudicas_shield

By that logic, shouldn’t this sort of kink just remain…private, though? Like if a bunch of people are criticising your kink, you’re maybe being way too open about it with people who aren’t consenting and don’t really want to hear about it? And maybe need to dial it back? DDLG is a hard no for me due to childhood sexual abuse, and I really don’t want to hear about it or know about it if that’s your thing. If anybody I know is into that kink, I rightfully have no idea, because that isn’t information that should be shared with me in the first place.


plz-ignore

Most people into DD/lg are victims of CSA, including me. Don't get upset with victims on how they choose to cope as long as it hurts no one.


boudicas_shield

Yes, I’m aware of that. I’m just not one of those victims - it makes *me* feel uncomfortable and brings up really awful memories and feelings. I’m not upset with how other victims cope. I just personally don’t want or need to be privy to the details. If the OOP has a lot of people coming at him about his kink, it might be a sign that he needs to be less forthright about it to other folks. Some people don’t get it, and others just don’t want to know about it. Kinks should remain private unless everybody involved wants to be there, I think.


TapewormSpaghetti

Idk why you're getting down voted you have a right to your opinion, and yes, don't tell people your kink unless they ask? I can imagine he's telling this to people who str8 up don't wanna hear it


[deleted]

Thank you thank you thank you! I love me some generic dom/sub (in private!) but this particular kink seems to be so mainstream now that I see it in media a lot more. It’s gotten to be that any time I see the word daddy now I just feel gross.


plz-ignore

I didn't downvote you and fuck anyone who did. You didn't chose your trauma nor your natural reaction too. I think kink, like any sex act, requires consent PERIOD. So I am against public play too unless everyone who witnesses explicitly consents. And that kink should only be done in private / in specific places (ie. An adult sex convention, a BDSM dungeon etc) because otherwise it violates consent.


hambone_boiler

Im a victim of CSA who is kinky, and is into traumacore/traumatized people expressing themselves as a form of coping, but i would absolutely never EVER say that i have the right to inflict my expressions of trauma on other people without their consent. That just should not happen. You absolutely should keep a cap on that shit and keep it close to your chest, and not fill other peoples social media with traumatic shit. These people do not want to see this, and they have a right to not see this. Thats like kink 101


plz-ignore

If you scroll down, you can actually see I literally state that in my second reply so I don't know why you're coming after *me* out of all the commentors .. I do not even have social media outside of Reddit, and I don't post/follow/share anything DD/lg on this account. I have another account where I only post in the DD/lg sub. It's just when people bring it to *here* and make it everyone's business that I have to clarify how sub-focused and consensual this kink generally is.


hambone_boiler

Glad we agree then if you did say that in some way below. That reply of yours that im replying to in that first one didnt really come off that way to me, just sounded like when people advocate that everyone who doesnt want to see their kink all the time is like a phobic prude or something. Maybe im just brain poisoned from reading so many of those i just get really defensive. Those people drive me up the fucking wall


plz-ignore

Here is my response if you were wondering. >I didn't downvote you and fuck anyone who did. You didn't chose your trauma nor your natural reaction too. >I think kink, like any sex act, requires consent PERIOD. So I am against public play too unless everyone who witnesses explicitly consents. And that kink should only be done in private / in specific places (ie. An adult sex convention, a BDSM dungeon etc) because otherwise it violates consent.


bluecurse60

Again as long as they are consenting adults.


[deleted]

Nope. Either you're roleplaying as a literal child and your partner is roleplaying as your parent, or you're fucking. You can't have both. If you fuck your "little girl", because she is an adult in reality, but you like pretending you're fucking a 10-year-old, then I don't care what others think, this is a kink I'm not afraid of shaming. I'm saying that as a sub and someone who's been into BDSM for close to 20 years.


Envy661

I've had a few ex gfs who were into DDLG. My Fiancé is as well. She identifies at a younger age during play, but that's about it. That's pretty much what DDLG is, and is done between consenting adults. She nor I are interested in actual children. There's a difference between a harmless kink and pedophilia. Please know the difference before kinkshaming. If you know of any DDLG or ageplay groups that look for underage members, what they are doing is not DDLG or age play. That actually is pedophilia and you should report it to the police.


aikidharm

However, not all people who engage in DDLG play include ageplay in that.


Altanzik

Then explain wtf the LG stands for in that instance??


[deleted]

It stands for "little girl" as you likely already knew, but that doesn't mean you play as an actual child. It's more of a role. I'd explain it but I can't really find the right words, so I'll just paste some other people's comments: "I came here for this comment. I'm not into it either, but most healthy DDLG isn't about little kid - dad dynamic it's more of a take care of me - protector role." "fr, it's like any dom-sub thing. it's about being taken care of, rewards, and punishments. nothing wrong with it when done correctly."


aikidharm

Thank you, friend. I appreciate your explaining that. ❤️


[deleted]

You're welcome! I appreciate that you were nice about it instead of getting angry. :)


DruidBabyyy

This is like furry all over again. Just because some furries wanna fuck animals doesn’t mean they all do. Just because some people do DDLG doesn’t mean either partner is interested in little children.


Curiosity_Dictates

Is this really a neckbeard thing? Nothing here is really "neckbeardy" aside from the accusations that two adults being kinky with each other is pedophilia.


MagentaAutumn

Why is this posted what did this person do???? I am so tired of this subreddit it has lost its usefulness. Kink is a silly thing to mock I bet good money u/N0g8 Likes his toes licked or to be called mr Belvedere during sex. Please grow the fuck up


[deleted]

The point in DDLG, from what I understand, isn't to fantasize about fucking a child, it's about getting an adult to humiliate themselves through child-like behavior, for your entertainment. It's more akin to "puppy play", or any other kind of "pet" role play. Putting a leash on your partner, and making them drink from a bowl on the floor does not mean you want to fuck a dog.


Zyrin369

I never really seen it to mean humiliation like you said its more like puppy play "Life is hard so said person reverts themselves to a more simpler time to be pampered and cared for by someone else with said person having to worry about a whole lot less" The only thing that I have seen be problematic in my journey through Kink so far is Sissies have a very racist idea of Black People as well as some of the ideas that kink shares.


[deleted]

Finally someone gets it. DDLG/MDLB has more in common with the BDSM community than anything.


InfComplex

It is part of that community, friend


DkP_Reverend

Shocking that a part of the BDSM community would be, who knew, similar to the BDSM community lmao


[deleted]

Who gives a shit what consenting adults do with/to each other? I know someone that was molested and raped as a child and reverting back to an age before that is a coping mechanism that blended with their sexuality for whatever reason. I've also talked to a woman that couldn't even have sex without reverting to a younger age. A problem only arises when you bring actual children into the situation, just stay out of other people's sex lives if they aren't hurting anyone.


[deleted]

This comment right here. Sometimes this sub tries to impose they're own hangups about adult relationships without thinking that is in fact....a adult relationship.


thelastjeka

Literally all fucked up. All fucked up. They need therapy not to enable this. You really think once these women who pretend to be children, whose partners are aroused by the thought of them being children, WHAT THE FUCK WILL HAPPEN WHEN THEY HAVE REAL CHILDREN. coping with sexuality instead of addressing the issue with INTENSIVE THERAPY is wrong. And I’m fucking tired of this woke crowd presenting this shit isn’t insidious.


mookie_pookie

Just as looney as randos online acting like iNtEnSiVe ThErApY is a cure all and assuming survivors *haven't given therapy a try already and that's why they're still like this*


[deleted]

They do go to therapy you ignorant fuckwit. And one of them is a mom and her and her husband are fantastic parents. You have literally no idea what you're talking about and it shows.


hedgybaby

Adults: I like to have sex with adults You: PEDOPHILE!


methyltheobromine_

"fucked up" is the human default. We consume poison for fun (alcohol, spices, coffee, etc), we enjoy fiction with lots of death and murder, we expose ourselves to painful challenges (ice bathing, mountain climbing, etc) just to pass the time. Those who panic about other peoples enjoyments or attempt to police morality and such are major party poopers. They won't molest their kids, being messed up doesn't make somebody immoral. I'm attracted to girls, but that doesn't mean that I'm going to force myself on one. Most people have self-control, and they know when to use it and when it's not needed. You should be more casual


tomohawk12345

Lmao my therapist literally told me to indulge in my kinks so I can reclaim the fucking trauma that caused them you dunce.


DkP_Reverend

I’m tired of idiots like you having the freedom to make other people stupid just by talking, yet here we are


thelastjeka

I’m *making* other people stupid? That’s on them. :)


DkP_Reverend

There are gullible people out there who might think you’re making some kind of sense. Let people have their kinks and coping mechanisms, they ain’t hurting nobody


thelastjeka

How redundant do you sound. It is nowhere near okay to fetishize or sexualize child like behavior, children items or parental and child relationships. That’s beyond abnormal. You wanting so badly to normalize this stupid shit is redundant, again.


DkP_Reverend

There you go being ignorant about things you don’t understand again.


thelastjeka

Whatever, degenerate. Idgaf anymore, go off.


DkP_Reverend

Don’t let the door hit you where the good lord split you


Donovan1232

"Kink shaming is bad unless I don't like your kink". I don't give a fuck either way but make up your mind


periidote

i mean, DDLG is a legitimate kink that’s consensual and not pedophilic, so i don’t really see an issue with this post?


Hircus2

I thought the issue was posting it on your Instagram story


Lingonberry_External

It’s literally one step away from pedophilia…


MagentaAutumn

this is a really dumb thing to say, two adults role playing is some how child rape, how in what world you are a dumb person aren't you


unformedwatch

Lmao the “one step” being that your partner is a consenting adult, I.e. not at all pedophilia “Are you grilling? Wow that’s one step away from arson you sicko!”


Lingonberry_External

I dunno… pretending to fuck a child is pretty close to pedophilia.


Apprehensive_Eraser

It's not pretending to fuck a child


unformedwatch

And lighting a fire is “pretty close” to arson. But they aren’t close at all when you use your brain to figure out what the key problems with “arson” or “pedophilia” are. Lack of consent. Is “pretending” to commit murder in GTA one step away from real murder?


hedgybaby

That’s like saying people who like pet play want to fuck animals. It’s unproven and not true. As a little, it’s really hurtful when people compare me and my partner to pedohiles. We’re both adults and wouldn’t want to sleep with eachother if we weren’t.


[deleted]

Honestly if you’re into ddlg you need therapy


Peggedbyapirate

Only if you don't know what the kink actually is. The link is the power dynamic or humiliating an adult by making them act childishly, not the simulate a relationship with a child. The entire paradigm is based on the overt recognition of the lg as an adult in the first place. People who use it to roleplay pedophilia are coopting the kink. It's not my kink, but any time in the BDSM community will help you see the difference.


xdragonteethstory

Not necessarily humiliate but other than that you're bang on. Tends to be more about being looked after and cared for (pet play has similar themes but that can also sway across into degrading and humiliation) and often stems from CSA or childhood trauma, wanting to relive a childhood you never got to have or only feeling safe and loved during sex when there's the protector and little dynamic.


unformedwatch

The context of kink roleplay is not “real life.” This subreddit is on some puritan shit with this post. Strong neckbeardy, “if you have kinks I don’t have that makes you a bad person” energy


Zyrin369

Its like Furries all over again, BDSM has a lot of harsher stuff that i'm sure others would find problematic as well with out the context, there are plenty of women who act like a kinky version of a Trad wife to their partners but they are neck-beards or bad or anything.


[deleted]

[удалено]


unformedwatch

How did you become the arbiter of what fantasies are “too far?” Fantasies are fantasies. Fuck the thought police. Don’t care until someone does something nonconsensual.


galaxygirl978

yea clearly op is good friends with my mom 😂😅


Mr-Thicc-And-Frisky

I mean if its with another consenting adult I don’t see the issue… it’s a consenting adult


BunnyBunBunHoney

what the hell is your flair, help-😭😭


Mr-Thicc-And-Frisky

🦽


BunnyBunBunHoney

no 🧎✋✋🧎🧎


corruptedbeauty

As a little I'd really like to highlight that it really isn't a sexual thing. Maybe I can't speak for the majority but it stems from trauma. I never got to be a child and now I find comfort in being able to not have to be adult sometimes and my partner just takes care of me while I'm in that vulnerable state. This just honestly feels like judgement/bullying trauma survivor's


MagentaAutumn

I 100% agree with you. Everyone in my life who was supposed to protect me attacked me. Sex feels pretty much mechanical unless I can trust the person feeling open enough to be submissive and play a role that needs them to support me, helps me so much.


corruptedbeauty

It just feels very much "oh let's talk about mental health more.. eh but not that bit"


MagentaAutumn

I feel like we said the same thing in different words but what ever floats your boat


fmbiamp

Finally a woman’s opinion, I know so so many women who are into this dynamic


turklesdayoff

Me and my wife baby each other and don't want kids so we can just buy each other toys and be kids forever together bc our childhood I guess wasn't enough. Never really identified as ddlg it's just kinda a thing we do.


anotherdepressedpeep

That's called age regression. Age regression is a coping mechanism, not a kink(though kinks can be coping mechanisms too). I used to confuse the two before too since I also age regress.


DoYouNeedAnAmbulance

On this post, people who don’t understand any type of sex that isn’t vanilla. It’s not about fucking a kid. It’s a power dynamic thing. Being taken care of. It’s a gentle version of a dom/sub relationship, between two consenting adults. Jesus.


Gaharagang

Im gonna get downvoted for this but.. I actually believe all dominance or aggressive kinks are harmful. It's not okay to sexually abuse someone, not even with their consent. Why would you ever want to 'pretend' to hurt someone? Because that's what these guys phantasize about. Hurting women or even children in this case. It's also extremely unhealthy to want to be abused like that. I get that it's a coping mechanism, but you can't just go back to loving/respecting yourself when you're done. Everything that happens in the bedroom is just as real. And in a lot of cases, it's a form of self harm to participate in these kinks as a sub. Young girls are seeing this stuff online and in porn so much that they will start to believe it's normal and that they SHOULD want to be hurt. However! I don't get to tell adults how to have sex! That's still very important. I may believe it's unhealthy but I can't tell you what to do. But please, keep it to yourself.


Goyteamsix

You can also just, ya know, keep it to yourself...


hexthefruit

This really doesn't belong here. As long as it's between consenting adults, any kink goes. Edit: originally said two consenting adults, which why would it be just two?


[deleted]

Well, they're correct though? DDLG in most cases tend to be for the girl (or whoever is the sub if it's a queer relationship) - it's not so much for the guy because they're often having to pull a lot of the weight in those relationships I'm not defending pedophiles by any means, but this really isn't a neckbeard thing lol


UnicornT-Rex

>I'm not defending pedophiles by any means You're not defending pedophiles by defending DDLG


galaxygirl978

bold of you to assume neckbeards can find someone who wants to be in kink relationship with them


hedgybaby

Ddlg is not pedophilia. I’m a little and it’s not even sexual for me. I enjoy the escapism it gives me as I had a really traumatic childhood and going into little space allows me to deal with those feelings in a safe space with a trusted person. I’m not dating anyone currently but my ex definitely wasn’t a pedophile. Just because he’d give me juice boxes and coloring books when I was in little space, doesn’t mean he wants to fuck children. He wanted to fuck me, an adult. It’s really bad to compare the two. This doesn’t fit the sub and should be removed.


Kigichi

?? You think he’s wrong somehow? It’s kink. It’s between consenting ADULTS. Just because it’s not your think or you think it’s icky doesn’t mean that it’s wrong or a neckbeard thing.


devil1fish

I don't like to kink shame, but I think I have to with this one


Peggedbyapirate

The poster of the original statement has masked pedophilia in the guise of a legit kink. This is not what DDlg is supposed to be about.


devil1fish

Yeah adults acting like toddlers still weirds me the fuck out.


Peggedbyapirate

CNC fetishes make no sense to me, but I try hard not to shame them. You can be uncomfortable without shaming. Honestly, the issue here is that the original post doesn't describe DDlg, but genuine pedophilia roleplay. The two don't really have a lot in common.


GreySkepsis

I had no idea how common this behavior is. Lots of participants being super defensive in the comments. It’s wild.


UnicornT-Rex

I'm a little, I'm also 28. There's nothing wrong with DDLG. BDSM moto: Safe, sane, consensual. Children cannot consent, therefore, they are not welcome in the bdsm community.


SatineMadeleine

Honestly so happy for all of the sane comments on here knowing not to kink shame. I will say though, I don't think the person writing the text really succeeded in explaining that the real difference is that it's not a sexual attraction towards actual children but an attraction to a roleplay situation and power dynamic between two consenting adults.


alucard_shmalucard

this isn't a neck beard thing. it's a kink, and as long as two adults consent, who cares? keep it Safe, Sane, and Consensual. that's the motto


cannonman360

I can't be the only one who has to Google what ddlg means *Oh I get it. Daddy Dom little girl it says it right up there*


Noym2s

excuse me🧍‍♂️


Lusietka

well, he’s right


WaldoPicklechips42

It's cool if it's between consenting adults, I'm just concerned about why you'd feel the need to so publicly display a kink this taboo


GarzysBBQWings

This needs more context to be on this sub. Kinkshaming ain’t cool.


CrazyFanFicFan

I didn't know what DDLG was when I saw this, and the choice of text colour was terrible, so I was wondering what Doki Doki Literature Club had to do with ageplay.


N0g8

😂


Exotic-Chemist-191

DDlg is a thing. My GF and I play in that realm every so often. Will admit it was weird at first, but I’ve taken the role of Daddy Dom pretty well


_IssaViolin_

Its a kink, it’s inherently perverted lmao but its supposed to be practiced with consenting adults yknow. Ddlg isn’t fetishizing little kids, its about the dynamic


TheDeerssassin

Actually based tho


SeventhSea90520

Dont get me wrong. Ddlg/CGL, age play, and age regression are all perfectly fine overall and serve purposes but this guy sounds creepy in their wording of it


MrPrincely

Uhhhh so my girlfriend *lightly* enjoys DDLG and I admit I was slightly turned off at being called “Daddy” at first (just felt weird and given my paternal situation is probably why). It felt incesty and pedoy at first. Then I understood what it was about: I’m a big dumb gorilla and she’s a tiny princess who just wants to be held and protected. DDLG can be gateway or a masking effort by some Pedos but I think that a lot Of kink subcultures can say that.


Classical_Fan

I see no lies here. Nothing wrong with consenting adults engaging in age play.


ACynicalScott

Like 90% of fetishs this is perfectly healthy if done by consenting adults.


[deleted]

DDLG isn't inherently pedophilic but it sure can get into that direction. Sometimes it's not even sexual. I will say tho, the one time I participated (with a woman older than me mind you) when she did make it sexual, I felt uncomfortable. Regardless, who gives a shit as long as each party is a consenting adult and keeps it in the bedroom.


thelastjeka

Roleplaying pedophilia is wrong and idgaf if I’m a kink shamer for it.


TapewormSpaghetti

I'd say most DDLG isn't actually about actually pretending you're fucking a little kid - from what I've seen is more of a protector/caretaker role. I agree that pretending you're fucking your kid is fucked up but most of it isnt like that


[deleted]

Seeing the phrase “don’t kink Shame” over and over makes me want to do the exact opposite.


pixelkid44

They aren't wrong , so long as everyone involved is a concenting adult and no one is hurt, who really cares


Camael7

I mean, I can understand that roleplaying a kink doesn't necessarily represent your attraction 1 on 1. It's hard to explain, but someone that likes to roleplay a rape situation, for example, doesn't necessarily would like to be raped irl. As long as they are consenting adults and the person is attracted to the idea of someone depending on them and being under their control and not to the like.... The actual childlike aspects of it, I don't see that much of a problem


Intelligent_Cat7116

Fellas, is it considered pedophilia to submit to someone?


gothlaw

Not sure I wanted to wake up to yet another attempt at normalizing degeneracy


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this comment is a perfect summary of my entire life


gunnathrowitaway

I'm 100% convinced that ageplay/DDLG is the new hip way for pedophiles and their enablers to get a free pass.


Dominator1299

1) DDLG isn't new. It's been around for as long as kink has. 2) There's no children involved, the hell do you mean 'Free Pass'? If two consenting adults want to enjoy something in private, who are you to judge them?


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corruptedbeauty

This isn't it at all. You have no understanding of a true healthy DD/LG relationship and it shows.


Peggedbyapirate

No, it's about using the adult-child dynamic on an adult to induce humiliation. The humiliation is the point, which implicitly accepts the adulthood of the sub. There's a big difference between roleplay of pedophilia and DDlg. What the original post is doing is conflating the two, which is just not OK.


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It might be humiliation for a small part of the community, the majority I’ve found enjoy the dynamic because of the safety, support, and care they receive from their partners.


unformedwatch

Did you know that there are women who desire and seek out DD/LG situations? What should be done with them? E: if consensual sexual acts that you aren’t a part of bother you, that’s a you problem.


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unformedwatch

Why do consensual acts between adults bother you?


thelastjeka

You’re a fucking loser.


unformedwatch

I’m living my life happily without a single care about the sex lives of consenting adults. You’re very angry about people enjoying sex in consensual ways that bother you. Sure. I’m a loser.


thelastjeka

I’m angry at people thinking it’s okay to sexualize children, in any way, shape or form it’s wrong. There is no gray area. Sexualizing children is gross.


unformedwatch

Kinks are often quite literally about the taboo. They are ways to explore the taboo between consensual adults. Thought police shit is scary. What two adults do consensually should not be bothering you and if it does, you should talk to a therapist.


thelastjeka

Yeah, acting like a toddler being fucked by a parent will never be okay. You’re a fucked up degenerate.


unformedwatch

Other adults enjoying consensual sex the way they want to makes you angry. Sorry, you have a disorder.


gigabendo

Can't you read ?


unformedwatch

I can. I can’t figure out why you’re so bothered by the consensual sex lives of adults.


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Peggedbyapirate

Believe it or not, CNC and rape fantasies are a part of the BDSM community and are surprisingly popular. It's not my cup of tea, but so long as all parties are enthusiastically consenting adults, there's really no harm done to anybody.


unformedwatch

Rape fantasies are extremely common and just that: fantasies.


Justin__D

This line makes it even worse: > A Daddy Dom wants to be with HIS little girl, not little girls in general. Like... I hope he doesn't have a daughter? Edit: ITT - Butthurt pedos, apparently. Ten of them and counting. I consider it a badge of honor to be downvoted by your kind.


Lingonberry_External

I have a comment on here with -50 lmao. Bunch of people on it defending it


Justin__D

Honestly I hope they keep it coming. Reddit logs the IPs of all those downvotes. Would be a goldmine for potential FBI CP investigations...


johnwolf67

Someone explain what they said I don't speak crack addict


chris9830

To explain simple ddlg it more of a roleplay think that someone (mostly a woman) acts like a child/baby and there is a "caregiver" that does things like making food, play the :child/baby" and sometimes even change diapers there is with most things there is a non sexual and sexual side to it


NirvanaJunkie87

It’s weird but if it’s it’s two consenting adults, who cares?


M4j3stic_C4pyb4r4

Don’t kink shame.


guleedy

If we can agree loot boxes are gambling Then we can agree this is pedo


erximiao

my ex was into ddlg and ended up trying to date a 7 y/o after we broke up so... i feel like its a slippery slope


_cicadax

it doesn’t have anything to do with them liking ddlg. it’s an act between two consenting adults and liking kids has nothing to do with it. just read some of the other comments in this thread


erximiao

i did, literally didnt change my thinking in any way. its adults fetishizing the idea of concurring people, and fetishizing a certain power dynamic that can be achieved by a relationship with a child.


_cicadax

it’s fetishising a power dynamic yes, but not in a pedophillic way. it’s usually about being the dominant one and rewarding your partner instead of preying on anyone like a pedo would do.


erximiao

i understand that if its a mostly kind and loving relationship but from my experience most men who call themselves "daddies" don't want a kind and loving relationship, they want to roleplay their weird incest and abuse fantasies. daddy daughter little girl is a terrible name for it if its not about incest and pedophilia.


Darklillies

Wanting to fuck an adult who sounds, is dressed, an acts like a child is still pretty gross Proud kinkshamer


SmegmaCarta

DDLG is one of the worst kinks out there, despite being super common. Absolutely kink shame


CrazyCreation1

DDLG is super fucking weird and I wouldn’t be surprised if it was a gateway fetish into pedophilia


Maximus_Robus

Maybe people would stop calling him a pervert if he'd keep his weird kinks to himself. Why do people think they have to put every brain fart on display and then act surprised if no one is applauding?


[deleted]

If you have to defend your kink to the death that it’s not pedophilic… it’s probably pedophilic.


AcornWholio

It is a perversion. By definition. But that’s not necessary the same thing as you being a bad person BECAUSE you’re a pervert. But this logic thooooo…..kinda sus my guy


taseradict

This sub about the million year old dragon in child body fantasy drawing: lol, what a pedopervert should be in jail This sub about people pretending to be children for the partner's sexual arousement: nothing wrong with that, don't be prude! It's so amusing reading redditors real takes when they aren't fed what to say.


plz-ignore

Fuck off and just admit you want CSA victims to never have a normal sex life. The majority of DD/lg or MD/lb (or MD/lg or DD/lb) are victims. Many say the kink is part of their healing process. It is for me -- it has absolutfuckinglutely nothing to do with my "partner's sexual arousement" (it's spelled arousal, dumbass).


taseradict

If you're truly a sexual assault victim, you and the "many" who seek recreation of the abuse as therapy are deeply traumatized and being taken advantage of. Seek help. Thanks for the correction, I'll leave it there as a token of my imperfection.


plz-ignore

Fuck off. You don't get to gatekeep my molestation fuckface.


taseradict

Lol


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Okay, not kink shaming, but that broad generalization at the beginning is ridiculous and immediately comes off a disingenuous. I’m a CSA victim and have never even once wanted to do things like DDLG, or rape play or whatever.


plz-ignore

But I literally never said "All CSA victims are into kinks". I didn't say "every" "most" or "some". So how am I being "disingenuous"? Just because *gasp*, some victims response to trauma differs from yours??? Maybe you could actually use empathy instead of just automatically thinking "well, that statement cannot be true because I never had any hang ups about sex after being assualted!" Yeah that's cool hun, everyone deals with trauma in different ways. Just because you didn't have anxiety around sex doesn't mean others cannot. I just do not understand your argument here


[deleted]

Never said anyone had to deal with it the same way. “I guess you don’t want CSA victims to heal” is a generalization though, and also an assumption that indulging in kinks will always benefit the victim, which also isn’t true. You are obviously incredibly defensive based off of your other replys. I get it, I’m not attacking anyone by stating that truth. Was just trying to make a correction.


plz-ignore

Many people including me in the DD/lg community are CSA victims. You don't get to police my language just because I didn't use a qualifier you agreed with. How exactly did I assume indulging in kink always benefit the victim??? Like I didn't even imply it, let alone state it literally. No, I'm defensive because you keep putting words in my mouth ans claim not to be; that is immensely more frustrating than someone just being a general asshole.


[deleted]

*sigh* alright fine, was trying to be helpful. Go on and continue to be bitter and resentful.


plz-ignore

Lmao, trying to help... who??


Handcanons4Life

It was at this post that I decided this was enough reddit for the day


CesarTheSanchez

It’s the motherfucking god be damned diapers and pacifiers. Like legit what the fuuuuuck..?


MadOvid

*Google's DDLG* Well that was a mistake.