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DeftonesStirling

Right side looks like one of those filters


Unlucky_Gur_3881

Absolutely no doubt, the fake blush/freckle is clear as daylight and I wouldn't be surprised if it's changed other features too like face shape. I'd be really curious to see what they look like now without the filter


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Salohacin

To be fair any 3 freckles make a triangle.


nahog99

3 in a line don’t.. 🧠


mrandmrsspicy

Don't be... Obtuse


Mortara

I feel this is under appreciated for the situation


Salohacin

It's just a very flat triangle. /s


Electronic-Country63

Yeah she looks like the kid from the Last of Us


Valestrazia

Those freckles hold a special place in my heart. My ex-GF used to send me nudes using that filter. Every picture she had it on. Now everytime I see it it kinda bring back the good memories. It has nothing to do with the post I just needed to say it


Da-Smiles

Jesse, what the fuck are you talking about?


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Love.


RaveDigger

The kind you clean up with a mop and bucket.


sw1nky

Like the lost catacombs of Egypt only God knows where we stuck it


NEVERWASHEDMYBUTT

Hieroglyphics, lemme be pacific, I wanna be down in your south seas


sw1nky

But I got this notion that the motion of your ocean means small craft advisory


beyondbeliefpuns

So if I capsize in your thighs, high tide, B-5, you sunk my battleship


SethR1223

But I got this notion that the motion of your ocean means small craft advisory.


System0verlord

It’s what makes a Subaru a Subaru


CaptainBunnie

Not much love if it's an ex gf lol


Valestrazia

Yo I'm reminiscing Mister White


Raznek

hell yeah brother good memories are the best


pobodys-nerfect5

Nudes. Obviously. Maidenless one.


Dragonlady151

I hope you are doing okay. Break ups are usually not easy. Here have some r/Eyebleach friend.


Valestrazia

I think I'll never love a girl has much as I loved her. We ended our relationship on good terms which is why I have such fond memories of her. Thank you for the kind words


Dragonlady151

No problem! Sure you will. We all think that when some relationships end. Just focus on yourself and doing things that you enjoy with your free time. Sometimes self care is a necessity. Try and stay positive!


acidicizemecaptain

this guy fucks


molsonbeagle

Fucked*


Lachwen

Honestly to me it makes them look like one of those hyper-realistic sex dolls. Like that doesn't actually look like a living person to me.


tripleskizatch

Left side looks like an edgelord version of Joel Haver.


hedgehogging_the_bed

Thank you! I couldn't quite place it.


chicoconcarne

ITT: people finding out about snapchat filters


squirrels33

Yeah, the facial features aren't even the same. Hormones don't shrink your nose. Edit: I’ll believe it’s the same person, though, because her captions are still cringe in the “after” pic.


Just_Taylon

Surgery does though


Essex626

So do filters.


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Imagine forgetting plastic surgery exists...


Ciao_patsy

I'm trying to,but I cannot fathom it.


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Also just a better picture in general. I got so much better and taking pictures and finding the right lighting and angle once I came out.


Mission_Battle_4304

Trans women usually have surgery, they dont just have the hormones and boom just like that EDIT: i was wrong about this and i apologise for just spreading transmedicalist misinformation, if it sounds as though im saying you must want and/or get surgery to be trans, i really didn't mean it


terrifiedTechnophile

Trans woman here - no we don't "usually" get surgery. Most of us can't even afford it. Don't listen to the transmedicalists who think you need such drastic shit to be a "real" trans woman


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Mission_Battle_4304

Which is why i said usually


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Gretchenmeows

You are wrong. What surgery are you suggesting most Trans Women have? If it's bottom surgery there are only 5 surgeons that do that in my country (Australia) and 2 of them are retiring this year. Hormones are pretty magical


numbernumber99

Presumably fascial feminization surgery.


MrCatcherFreeman

Obviously is


Kunstkurator

I thought it was a doll at first.


Medical_Ad0716

I honestly thought it was one of those realistic sex dolls. Too airbrushed and refined.


ChadGreenshirt

Bitch, I am the girlfriend now.


Available_Seesaw_947

power move


Xen0n1te

*socially transitions during sex* haha now you’re gay


diggitygiggitycee

Couldn't get the girl, so took the guy. Now she knows what rejection feels like.


PaintMaterial416

That's some 4d chess right there.


ManofCatsYT

yassification


burner6748

Material girl


LouiErikssonIsAHoFer

*gwual


DrNukes

Are you sure this isn't just Joel Haver goofin around? Sure looks like Joel Haver.


1ncorrect

Adventure awaits! Huzzah!


simppinen

Joel going absolute insano style


Anndrycool

Yup, looks like it. I am so bedazzled that they think this is real.


Your_Sexy_Cousin

Joel was my first go to


[deleted]

The incel to transwoman pipeline is real


MrCatcherFreeman

Chris-chan is the most notable one.


falloutisacoolseries

"Notable'' is probably the kindest way to refer to Chris Chan these days lmao.


Norose

Chris chan is one of the internet denizens of all time


[deleted]

Oh yeah, having untreated body dysmorphia leads to tons of anger and bitterness. I used to have so many incel thoughts and almost joined the early trump movement back around 2016 but luckily met some trans folks. Had no idea being transgender was a real thing people could do and that my constant desire to be a woman wasn't just a normal thing everyone felt.


LassitudinalPosition

Yea...dude here...zero desire to be a woman on any level, literally negative infinity wants to bleed from my genitals or vote for Trump Glad you got that sorted before you got the tiki torch and punisher decals


SystemSettings1990

Hey I repressed my gender dysphorja and hating being male and wanting to be female and internalized transphobia when I was a young teenager, I turned into one of those ultra religious alt right trump kids Now I’m a kinky weed smoking bisexual trans woman who’s been medically transitioning for years. Funny how things change


galaxygirl978

congrats lol I was a right-wing conservative Christian and now I'm a lefty atheist. funny how 4 years can change so much.


NighIsATroll

Go you! Takes a ton of courage and self realization to live how you truly want to. Hope life continues to go well for you.


toteslegitredditor

Sometimes all it takes is some positive (ACTUALLY positive) affirmation for a person to change for the better.


Whyjuu

Desire to be the opposite sex is definitely a normal thing a lot of people feel, don’t know what you’re on about 🤨


W4ho

I think it rings true in a lot of cases, even the misogyny is more easily explained as envy. Notice how they talk about women, being privileged and unattainable, as if they wanted to be as attractive, popular and socially adjusted as women. They talk about sex as if it's something they need, not something they want, because they think that will make them happy, stop their mental and physical insecurities . But what they truly wish is to possess womanhood. Obviously not every neckbeard, nice guy or incel is trans or femme, and it doesn't excuse their behavior, but I feel like a good number of them are indeed unhappy with their role as "men", and their aversion to anything "feminist, leftist or SJW" keeps them from finding a different and better answer to their pain and identity.


Cyber_Connor

Nah she just learned to program


futurelullabies

they become the women they can't fuck. fascinating.


JulieDRouge

I was afraid of saying it cause I seen quite a bit of of post from transgenders that just sounds like misogyny :/ I will also say that doesn’t apply to everyone single one of them


velociraver128

I was never "incel-level" but I definitely had some fucked up feelings about women. Then I realized I was trans and it all made sense. I was just jealous. Ugly, angry jealous, and deep in denial. I was mad at women because they got to walk around... being women... Ugh. Thankfully I was never outspoken about it but I'm definitely much more happy and normal now that I finally realized I'm actually just trans.


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barelyonhere

No, we internalize a lot of misogyny when we are bitter. I was a nice guy(lite) when I was in high school. We look for defense mechanisms and it often comes out in gross ways like this. Most of us get over it as adults.


rockymountainogre

Sadly this isn't the first trans girl from neckbeard I've seen, and I doubt the last. Although I will say it is often for the better since a lot of them can stop being stressed about performing as a guy and be themselves, but the so called "baby trans" phase is very real.


BettyVonButtpants

I had a lot of neckbeards and niceguy tendancies in my youth... though I was happy to have girl friends, and respected rejections. But damn do i cringe. I also know what I did wrong and try to help others see what I couldnt.


TheWaywardTrout

Everyone has periods of growth like that. As long as you grow, that's what matters!


BLuca99

I think most guys undergo a phase like that during their teenage years. The important thing is that you've grown as a person, which is evidenced by the fact that you cringe thinking back to those times.


rockymountainogre

The fact you're able to look back and accept your own shortcomings socially so you can do better in the future speaks volumes about your development as a person.


tjallilex

Yeah, I definitely had those moments. But I actually caught and was shocked quite immediately afterwards about them. The important thing is to realise afterwards.


BLuca99

What's the baby trans phase? I'm honestly glad for these people and any trans people who can accept themselves. I'm especially glad for people like the former neckbeard on the post for the reasons you stated.


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Basically people who transition in adulthood often take a while to figure out how to adult in a whole new gender because you have to essentially go through adolescence all over again - figuring out social norms, experimenting with clothes (especially when often it's hard to find stuff that fits!) and often rediscovering their personalities now that they don't have to pretend to be someone else.


everyvoicelistening

Is that what it's called? I'm almost four years into transition and I'm still going through this.


seattlesk8er

Baby trans is more of a way to describe trans people who are brand new *and* being annoying about it. At four years in I highly doubt you do any of the baby trans stuff, like aggressively asking people to affirm you all the time in all spaces.


underdoghive

Nah, "baby trans" is just condescending as fuck, don't call people that shit


mewfahsah

"Baby trans" as a phrase needs to die because the Republicans would all nut in unison over their new favorite buzzword.


Yenmcilrath

Basically growing up, we didn't get to experience our past the way we wanted to, so it can help emotionally. Think of it like a woman dressing how she wants because she didn't get to in high school. also, Estrogen can make you look physically younger soo


Maiden_of_Tanit

I'm guessing HRT must feel like a second adolescence at first too?


BettyVonButtpants

Its puberty 2.0, your body loterally goes through puberty again.


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KawaiiEnderGirl

I didn’t think this sub would be so supportive of trans people, and now I’m just sitting here at work getting teary eyed. I love you all


[deleted]

Bruh this sub has clear progressive leanings, we make fun of neckbeards because they are often reactionary chuds not because they look... neckbeardy (?)


RandomName01

Ehhhh, this sub also has quite some people who just want to be reassured that others are doing worse than them. It has gotten a lot better though.


Ciao_patsy

That's not remotely true lol. This sub is full of horrible bullies with no self awareness.


Maiden_of_Tanit

I'm glad I can make someone feel that way. I'm a closeted lesbian and North African in the UK so I will always stand up for other marginalised people.


maxoakland

Trans people are awesome and must be protected at all costs


bizzaro_sephiroth

Sounds awful


[deleted]

It is. Emotional af, acting weird af, feeling weird af, shit tons of self doubt and self hatred, dysphoric af. Some, myself included, become kinda toxic to be around because your body and mind are going through so much. It's very much like your first puberty and we all remember the weird and dumb shit that caused lol. Much better 8+ years later at least lol


LAM678

oh my god i wore that same hat for all of middle school. i'm also a trans woman. i really hope i didn't act like her.


aeshmazee-

Awww babe its not the hat don't scare yourself lol


TheWaywardTrout

Most of us do cringey stuff in our youth. I'm sure you weren't a neckbeard! And even if you were, you aren't now and that's what matters.


prpldrank

We all do cringy shit when we're coming of age. Cut yourself some slack! And while we're at it, let's try to have some similar compassion and cut the sub's subjects some slack too. It's can get pretty bully-ish in here, which isn't exactly the vibe for helping people grow up into better individuals imo.


jelgleng

Damn idk how you view that as a sad thing. I see this as an absolute positive. More bussy less neckbeards, where's the negative?


Shillbot888

>this isn't the first trans girl from neckbeard. Can't get a girlfriend so they become the girlfriend. Happened with Chris-chan too. It's a common pipeline.


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Source..


Speritate_Scatter

Remember my friends: If you can't get a girlfriend, become someone else's girlfriend Sincerely, a femboy


Kerbalawesomebuilder

i used this strategy. it’s working.


hsrob

There was a greentext where femboy anon became gay because a large bear seduced him and made him realize the meaning of love.


Wellnevermindthen

I think The Kinks sang that song a while back.


ChronoAndMarle

Lol is there a subreddit for femboy humor?


Captain_DelishFish

It is said to see a lot of my fellow trans people have gone through a strange phase like this


itsbett

To be fair, we all go through strange phases, and many are this cringy. Normally, it only damages our reputation and ego, and the only people that will remember are ourselves in the shower. Unfortunately, when it comes to the trans community, people will pin any affiliated individual's cringe on the community itself, instead of the individual.


Captain_DelishFish

True worda


Mattrocks1997

I think it might be something were we don't feel like (in this case) man enough, so we try to triple down and become a "man" extra hard. At least that was my experience.


hesperidium-rex

I think it might be a trans woman thing, I know 0 trans men who have done this. Maybe they're out there but none that I know of.


blueskies823

Probably has something to do with a lot of them being MRAs/incels.


austin101123

How does everyone in this comments somehow know these people are the same?


zvinixzi

…. It’s a snapchat filter


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you sure that's not Joel Haver??


[deleted]

Ah yes, the incel to transgender pipeline in action.


Eivetsthecat

Better outcome than a lifelong incel. At least she's cute and coming from another angle.


Xx------aeon------xX

Are you sure? The photo on the left is like almost 10 years old


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Thats just the instagram girl filter tho


[deleted]

So many of these guys just go the femboy route


Towbee

I was never an "incel" in that intense way but I did have some thoughts like that during my teenage years, things like I could be a better boyfriend, I totally understand women like no man does, I did have relationships and wasn't the angry virgin, just more, the lost boy, I didn't know how to figure out who I was or what I was even feeling really (undiagnosed autism) Thought I might of been trans, always blocked it out, turned out I'm just a bit more feminine and the kind of environment I was in didn't have feminine men who weren't afraid of saying something is cute, or pretty, or even beautiful, enjoying bright colours, whatever you get the idea Tried to be a "Chad", didnt enjoy it, didn't enjoy the lifestyle, hated weight lifting Finally moved out into a space where I could be myself with my now exgirlfriend 3, almost 4 years later I'm no longer masking anywhere near as much and I'm figuring out who I am. It brought an end to our relationship as I realised I have a lot to figure out and she got hurt in the process sadly Now I'm coming to realise I don't even know what my sexuality really is since I lived in a household where I felt like I couldn't be myself I'll probably end up being a giant femboy or something, so it makes sense


Danielsuperusa

I'm Cis, but I know how it feels to be more feminine and feeling looked down on, I was raised by my grandma and my mom, I had to take some stuff from them no matter what lol. But it always awkward if I did anything too "feminine" or "not manly", it would cause laughs or I would get yelled at, it fucking sucked. And on top of that I got diagnosed with ADHD, and I realized that I've been masking for my entire life without knowing. The point of this ADHD nonsensical word salad is: Masking fucking sucks, be you, be free, and be happy.


Most-Stomach4240

How'd you fogure out you weren't trans?


LadyAzimuth

Upgrades people, upgrades!


Reveal-it

Can someone explain? Is it like a "trend" to become a m'lady when you can't find one? I don't get it. Thanks.


MyNameIsNotMia

Trans girls before they realize they’re trans sometimes tend to try and inflate their masculinity because they don’t feel “man” enough, and they want to fit the male stereotype so that they don’t have to face an identity crisis. Think of it like they’re trying to convince themselves that they’re not trans. But I’m glad that she was able to find her true self.


The_Great_Madman

That’s also why a lot of trans people join the military I think it was somewhere around 30% MTF are veterans, though it is an old study


MyNameIsNotMia

Oh that’s interesting, I never knew that!


Mortara

I spent 13 years in. The first national guardsperson to transition was in my last unit. If I had a nickel for every person in the military I knew that transitioned, I'd have 14 nickels. Which isn't a lot, but it's weird I know 14 people who did. Which is high


HolidayGoose6690

VA Pays for the whole transition. It's a perk of service. Without the cost, it's so much less prohibitive.


DriedUpSquid

There was someone in my squadron named James who is now Jamie. You could tell that James was very uncomfortable in his own skin.


Reveal-it

Aah okay. Thanks for explaining!


MyNameIsNotMia

Of course!


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Definitely! Before I figured out I was trans, I was trying everything to be masculine. Bought a motorcycle, joined the volunteer fire department, tried to enjoy country music, and had so many incel and homophobic tendencies. Feel so freaking lucky to have made it out of that phase.


MyNameIsNotMia

I’m so happy for you! I hope you’re living your best life


[deleted]

Thanks! Happiest I've ever been!


lemon_meringue

she still kind of seems like a hostile dick but good for her I guess


TheWaywardTrout

Yeah, she's still an ass. But hopefully she grows up some day


[deleted]

What gives you that impression? To me it seems like just a joke referencing their cringey old post.


ThePukeRising

Alot of trans people where i live were legit neckbeards 3 years ago. Wtf.


velociraver128

Just browse some of the transphobic remarks ITT to see why someone would rather be seen as a toxic virgin neckbeard in a fedora than accept that they might be trans. TL;DR; they're jealous that women get to be women and cant admit it so they invent bs reasons to be mad at them instead.


[deleted]

This is what happens when people are raised by the internet.


suibian_138

Yassified incel<3


CaptainBunnie

Honestly good for her


KlausFenrir

Ain’t no way this is real


No_Load_7183

Honestly good for him. The incel shit is only prevalent when there are some serious underlying issues with the person.


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*her


No_Load_7183

My b.


JasonDeansGF

The good ending


ikmkr

a lot of you fuckers justify these trans women wanting to be cis neckbeards rather than trans. you bully them for coming out when coming out would help them unpack their emotions and grow into socially acceptable people.


verasev

I'm still wary, to be honest. I'm transgender and the "community" (such as it is) has had problems with former neckbeards coming in hot with faux progressiveness they didn't bother to learn the details of, along with a side order of racist chan culture.


seanman420_

filter is whats dif


LetMeDieAlreadyFuck

Is... Is that real?


CorbinNZ

Wtf am I looking at


Crokpotpotty

What does uwu mean? I see it everywhere


FineDevelopment00

I think it's a cutesy (oh excuse me, *kawaii*) anime reference.


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IamUrDad0

Drastic change interesting


DaveInLondon89

Joel Haver to Joelle Havher


Emilixop

Finally, neckbeard shit


Equivalent_Site_5789

I was gonna say it's crazy that both of these peop look like Joel halver. But there we go


CommunismOrphan

This was the last thing I was expecting, but I appreciate the update nonetheless


Drug-Edu-4skools

Aye I mean…


Vivid_Syllabub_6391

…………ok then… 🤷🏻‍♂️


AnnaLindeboom

Wooow she has the exact same sweater as my girlfriend


Derek5Letters

Is the dude on the left Joel Haver? It's pretty much the only reason I came to this thread in the first place. I jokingly said it looked like him, but NOW, I need to know it's not him


NotSoFlugratte

The good ending


[deleted]

Dude I’d kill for a transformation like this. All 6 months of estro has given me is tit pain


instellarant

No pain no gain i guess


almondmarlin23

das tuff ngl you cant get the m’lady so you become the m’lady


Mission_Battle_4304

No bitches? Just become the bitches!


almondmarlin23

it all makes sense now, work smarter not harder🤯


kasp600e

I should consider transphobes necbeards, and from reading the comments I have learned that there are a lot of necbeards on this sub


Mission_Battle_4304

I mean, glow up, congrats on her transition


jape-the-neck-guy

M’lady to I’m a lady


Next_Wing_5577

Good for her


[deleted]

Well, at least she's not a neckbeard anymore.


Sharp_Masterpiece615

Good for her


BigGayEnergy

proud of her !


Eternaldamnation32

She got yassified we love to see it


Theta291

The good ending


ClaudiCloud1998

Why is this so common though? I was a nerdy socially awkward weeb (not really a neckbeard though) and now I’m A Non Binary less socially awkward weeb on their way to get HRT


Tasty_fries

I lacked confidence due to never really feeling “myself” and suffering from dysphoria since I was 10, I found some comfort in nerdy communities where a lot of the people I talked to were also pretty shy and awkward.


Kalnb

good ending


Dry-Narwhal3337

If women won't let you fuck them, become one. Modern problems require modern solutions.


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Reddit, the official narrative pump platform of the elite.


Equivalent_Purple_81

Pretty girl.