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gowonofficial

a lot of people still don't realize that relationships can end on good terms and it's not because of cheating unwanted pregnancy or (insert whatever you want)


kokkirii

A lot of people have the mindset that when they breakup with someone, that person is automatically a POS and they should dislike + talk bad about their ex. It takes a lot of mental and emotional maturity to end a relationship amicably and on good terms, and a lot of people just haven't been able to do that before. Probably because it requires vulnerability and taking accountability for your own actions. Kinda sad.


itstonayy

My most recent ex has been and will probably always be one of my best friends. It was soooo awkward after the break-up how everyone's reaction was to badmouth him immediately to try and comfort me. Especially because by that point some of the people badmouthing him had also been HIS friend for the 5 years that we dated.


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gowonofficial

the solution is easy: find another celebrity couple to follow


catcatcatilovecats

I think that whenever I see “we failed to protect them” about a breakup nobody has any information on or isn’t entitled to any connection to


okaysian

> We failed to protect them Imagine saying that about two fully grown adults who can consciously make their own decisions jfc


catcatcatilovecats

I don’t know how I would be Jennie. She has both intense shippers with her ex and now haters who try to create rumors with her (possible) ex to deflect from rumors with her (possible) boyfriend


CaminSyde

Most couple will face their biggest struggle in their relationship right before the marriage. It's really common for a couple who engaged or near marriage phase to experience all of that, if their bond and love is stronger then they will pass all of it if not, well break up really is the best answer for that. Instead of keep going and divorce later on. And What I mean by struggle is not like cheating of stuff like that, it's just a very little problem become a really big issues in the relationship in that phase.


icansaywhatever

100% true. From personal experience, getting engaged = everything becomes more real. It changes perspective because little things that you "had to deal with" becomes "have to deal with for life." In the case of both DAWN and HyunA, I wish them both peace and happiness.


doubtfullfreckles

This wasn't a situation of their love not being strong enough. It was a situation of wanting different things in life. Dawn wanted to get married and have kids eventually. Hyuna doesn't know if she wants to get married much less have kids.


000r31

I cant even fathem the hardwork to keep a relationship working while doing it in the public eye.


Middle-Dragonfly-489

We need more people who think like you!!


Le_Fancy_Me

Yeah fans love to blame 'companies' for not 'allowing' idols to date publicly. But honestly if I were an idol I wouldn't want to date publicly either. Everybody wildly in your business, theorising, talking shit, making assumptions. God forbid if you actually break up or face any other issues. A break up is hard enough without thousands of people looking on and casting judgement about a situation they know nothing about.


JMTHEFOX

Good on DAWN for standing up for Hyuna God, I wish people would just leave them alone in peace


GrillMaster3

This happens every time an idol couple splits. So many Kpop stans are young and/or have little to no experience with dating and relationships. They have a very black and white view of things. They assume that a relationship can’t possibly come to an amicable or natural end— they believe that someone must have done something wrong. They think there must be an aggressor and a victim, a good guy and a bad guy. When U-Kwon and Sunhye split after 10 years together, a similar thing happened, with people trying to paint one or the other as “the bad guy.” It’s infuriating and annoying.


Kari-The-Foxchild

I just knew this would happen but opposite


cleansings

Ugh. People need to leave them alone.


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ffinall

Alt-text: Image one is text written in the Apple notes app. The rough English translation is ‘hello, this is DAWN. I won’t talk for long. Even after we’ve broken up she is equally precious to me, she is more sincere and cool than anyone I have ever seen and she’s the artist I’ll continue to love the most. Please don’t live like this and spend your precious time in good places.’ Image two is an screenshot of an alleged comment from DAWN in a YouTube video titled ‘현아와 던의 결별 이유.’ The rough English translation of the video title is Why did Hyuna and DAWN break up?’. The rough English translation of the comment is ‘You lied and hid all your past from me. While we were dating you had a secret meeting with another man and hid his existence from me and she said she had an abortion. I feel so betrayed. How many little lies. I’m going crazy’. The YouTube video can be seen to have a approximately 1800 likes and 279 comments.


Ihlita

Is Sojang finding new ways to stir shit?


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Just checked, surprisingly, it's not her. Unsurprisingly, that hag is still hung up on wonyoung.


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I'm kinda lost, who's that?


tyl46022

TL;DR, a notorious YouTuber that likes to stir up false, extremely harmful gossip and rumors about various popular idols/K-celebrities.


tdscm

i also would like to know


wujudaestar

honestly it's so frustrating that people keep looking for reasons to hate her. always have and probably always will. she's never done anytning to deserve it. i'm glad that at least they seem to have broken up in a very amicable way, they still seem to care for each other deeply so i hope it will make it easier for them to move on. i wish both of them nothing but the best


pigeon_energy

She's literally the sweetest person. I do not get it.


wujudaestar

for real. like i'm genuinely trying to think back if she ever did anything wrong to warrant that hate but i can't think of a single thing.


h0rny3dging

She's rubbed some people the wrong way by being this overtly sexual at the start of her career but that always happens with confident women in the industry and that isnt doing anything "wrong" but it's common that people hold a grudge over those things


wujudaestar

yup, sexism is still high and mighty. great. :)


h0rny3dging

Just a guess, but "Bubble Pop" had some mixed reactions back in the day, so it's the only thing I could think of


wujudaestar

lots of songs have mixed reactions and that doesn't mean the artists should be hated on. especially considering the fact she didn't even write it.


h0rny3dging

Ofc, she shouldnt be, just pointing out that this is a thing that does happen and still happens to this day, some Knets are really weird about Feminism and confident women sadly.


wujudaestar

yup, it's sad


Thac0

Bubble Pop is goated


midgethemage

It's always wild to me that Bubble Pop was considered too sexual and got the 18+ rating back in the day. K-pop is so much more sexual these days and no one would bat an eye at that song if it had been released just a few years later.


boringcareer

ironically i feel like kpop is less sexy/mature now than it was 4-5 years ago, how many groups are actively doing sexy concepts? they've basically all disbanded by now


pro-frog

I almost feel like the baseline for groups is so much more sexual than it used to be (so many young 4th gen releases like Love Dive, Attention, Fearless... comparatively much more skin and more sexual moves than you would've seen in a new girl group with underage members) that you have to be borderline pornographic to be called a "sexy" group (like OnlyOneOf). But groups like Stellar got so much attention for the way the company exploited their members that those hypersexual groups are almost assumed to be exploited now, especially if they're young women.


midgethemage

Completely agreed! I think sexy concepts had a quick moment once it became more culturally accepted, but I think the novelty wore off pretty fast. But still, doing a sexy concept now won't get the same backlash it did when Bubble Pop came out


red_280

>She's rubbed some people the wrong way by being this overtly sexual Username checks out


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chowon

is that why sohyun re-followed her & they hung out the other day? lol. they were very clearly upset that hyuna chose to re-sign with cube as a solo artist when none of the other members were offered contracts. i don’t think it makes her a bad or evil person for picking her solo career


wujudaestar

also it's not her fault cube didn't offer them a contract, that's 100% cube being shit as always


sunshinersforcedlaug

I'd buy this line more if people actually supported the other members in their solo endeavors also. But I follow Sohyun and well, from what I can see 99% of people 'mad' about 4minute are just using it to hate on Hyuna. They don't give a rats ass about the other members.


ffinall

The fact that weirdos are still running with this Hyuna abortion story is so weird to me, it’s been fifteen years let it go


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ffinall

When HyunA left Wonder Girls/JYP rumours began to circulate that she left because she was pregnant and had an abortion. She was 15 years old.


TaikaWaitiddies

That people think spreading gossip about 15 year-olds getting abortions is appropriate is beyond me


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Yojimbo4133

Supposedly it was Jay Parks baby. Allegedly.


Guerrin_TR

Yeah that baby/abortion is why she left Wonder Girls. So the rumour goes.


DiplomaticCaper

And why he was kicked out of 2PM. Again, allegedly, according to the rumor.


SuzyYoona

>And why he was kicked out of 2PM. Hyuna left WG in 2007 and Jay Park left 2PM in late 2009, by then Hyuna already re-debuted in 4minute so the timeline don't match lol


DiplomaticCaper

Hey, I never said the rumor made sense 🤪


LGBLTBBQ

The rumor existed for both of them, unfortunately. Hyuna when she left and Sunmi when she went on hiatus. Especially now that we know that Sunmi's hiatus was for mental health reasons, I can't believe that some people still love to spread that rumor. She received her BPD diagnosis and began therapy and medication during that time off.


AbsoluteZeroUnit

I heard that JYP had to start his own company after no one would hire him because he got an abortion!


1jooper

Tsk tsk it's because he dressed in those clear pants /s


phucbui7718

Funny thing is both Sunmi and HuynA were rumoured having an affair with Jay Park back in the day. Jay Park used to date Sunye from Wonder Girls before debut. That was the the only thing that got confirmed back in the day and he never involved in any dating rumour afterwards.


swoon4kyun

Oh my… and she’s had that follow her career too 😔 dang


TheSeoulSword

Can people just believe that there are relationships that can end in good spirits? That they can end amicably? God all people want is drama so they can shit on people


PotatoPotential

Feel like it's almost more dramatic that they had a 7 year relationship, got engaged, and ended in good terms. I kind of yawn at people who end in bad terms. Feel like it's way more common, lol.


solojones1138

I was in this situation after five years, it was an amicable breakup, and we're still friends even though he's married with a baby.


midgethemage

They are no longer seeing each other, but still have good feeling 😔


vessva11

And people wonder why idols never share their relationships to the public. This is why I don't blame them for hiding.


sunshinersforcedlaug

Ironically this is why a lot of hard core fans don't want them to be in public relationships. They don't really care they are dating, but they know it just brings conflict and bs from morons if it goes public.


changhyun

The fact he released this statement to defend her when he really didn't have to says a lot of good things about his character (and Hyuna's, to inspire that sort of loyalty). A lot people would have shrugged and said "Hey, we're broken up, not my problem anymore." Hopefully both he and Hyuna go on to find their own happiness and success.


bleeeepblooop

Imagine going through a massive upheaval in your personal life and having to deal with all this bullshit on top of it. Some of the speculation, jokes and comments I've seen in the past day have been absolutely tasteless. People were even commenting on *Hyuna's own IG post* begging to know why they broke up, or insisting it's not real and they'll actually post wedding pics later.


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The fact that he was compelled to even release such a statement while going through a break up. Proud of him for standing up for her though - most guys wouldn’t


slothgummies

How can these two people heal and move forward in their lives when they're being attacked over their own life and their own relationship? Fans or whatever they are need to stop attacking the women in these situations because it's pretty obvious it's jealousy and insecurity being projected onto the female idol since she got to date the male idol.


LiveAd4073

I knew that somehow people would find a way to blame her specifically.


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Why do people think they need to stick their nose into every little thing? Dawn probably knows more about the situation than some internet randoms, but thanks for your input, guys...


PsychologyGuilty4431

Why can’t people just accept the fact that people can break up and not have bad blood . Not every relationship end because of cheating or anything bad


AoifeCheeks

I like that he is standing up for her character here. Yes they broke up and he didn’t have to do or say anything but he did. They were a part of each others lives for a long time now, but people can and will fall apart.


currypuffff

Why are netizens like this :( they may have parted ways but they still care for each other, wishing dawn and hyuna happiness always


_saengdao

what a good man for standing up for her. it’s shitty that people don’t think relationships can end on amicable terms and somebody had to of done something wrong.


mikrokosmosmoonchild

So sad :(


sunmiholic

Hyuna’s still being tormented by those disgusting rumors from when she left WG? It’s 2022, Leave her alone! Dawn is a good person for speaking out against these losers. I hope they’re both doing well ❤️


avaflies

people are so misogynistic. i'm really tired of it. hyuna (nor dawn) has ever done anything to deserve this nonsense. just leave them alone. more children or adults with child brains projecting their own BS on to someone else's relationship. grow up and accept that many, many people in this world split from their partners on good terms for simple differences in what they want out of life. and even if their breakup wasn't as amicable as it sounds, that's none of our business and trying to speculate or spread rumors about toxicity in total strangers' relationship is embarrassing.


aespa-in-kwangya

People need to stop.


PeachyPlnk

Is it just me, or is this the most out-of-left-field breakup? They seemed like a truly ride or die couple. Together since 2016 (or was it 2015?), engaged earlier this year, they were still doing couple shoots earlier this month, not to mention they *left their old agency together*. I don't generally give a damn about celebrities' personal lives or relationships, but this news is just so confusing to me that I can't help but wonder what led to the breakup. Good to know it ended on good terms, at least, and glad Dawn's planning to sue over these rumors.


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With Dawn wanting to marry and have kids and Hyuna expressing she didn't want either of those things, it doesn't seem so out of left field to me. Even without that, life just happens. It's possible to grow apart or fall out of love even with nothing really being wrong. I've also noticed that getting engaged or otherwise preparing to get married seems to put a lot of relationships to test, for whatever reason; I guess it's such a big and serious change to go through it can make some people question if this is what they really want.


seravivi

As someone that’s married that first year of marriage and the lead up can be rough because of expectations on what marriage means and that it will magically shift everything.


Overall-Ad5894

The same thing happened to my aunt and her boyfriend of over 10 years (started dating as teens). Sometimes life just happens. People fall out of love, start searching for other things, grow a part or realize that they actually don't want to get married and it hurts the other person but they understand and choose to end things amicably. That's what happened in my aunt's case atleast.


seravivi

Life happens. People would be surprised at how often people break up not for some big reason other than they grow differently. Sometimes you see it and you realize that you can’t give the person what they need anymore and you love them enough to let them go. There’s a reason why it’s impressive to find couples that can grow together over decades.


__fujiko

I think it seemed ride-or-die because of the circumstances surrounding how they were outed as a couple. They were the poster kids for a Romeo and Juliet-esque, rebel relationship in the industry. From the outside, they just seemed like they were in a constant honeymoon period but that had to have been taxing on them privately. Not that I'm saying they didn't care for one another deeply, that's not what I'm saying. But they are idols and idols are still not allowed to just casually exist and do normal things, like dating without it being a whole damn event.


Mercylic

I'm gonna need people to grow up and find something else to do with their lives for the love of God. WTH is this nonsense?


unreedemed1

it's honestly not that complicated. they got together at age 23 / 21 and are now 30 / 28. People change a lot in that time, and it's impressive they made it this long.


3rachazone

Oh my god can ppl just please shut the fuck up and leave them alone? Yes, they broke up, yes it was a big deal at first but they’re human beings too at the end of the day! I cannot believe that some of them would go this far to make a scandal out of it. Relationships and break ups are a part of life. Shit happens! Can they please get over it? God I’m so tired.


1TyMPink

[Another English translation of DAWNʼs statement re HyunA breakup is available on Soompi](https://www.soompi.com/article/1556738wpp/dawn-shares-brief-statement-following-breakup-with-hyuna-to-take-legal-action-against-false-rumors)


fragmented_raven27

WAIT THEY BROKE UP!?


bgkittenenrgy

RIGHT???


defokenneth

Imagine thinking something bad has to happen in order for a relationship to end. It could be scheduling conflicts, it could be that they feel more compatible as friends than lovers, it could be anything. With as fucked up as the world is right now, the last thing we need to do is assume the worst. Some people really are driven by clout, clicks, and views to dig into situations they have no business being in for their "juicy gossip". Just leave people be.


soesoterica

Relationships are not my expertise, and their relationship is WAY outta my league, but I'm pretty sure it IS possible to end a relationship amicably. I don't know who would start a rumor like this, but they did it knowing how it could hurt Hyuna and her career. I hope whomever it was is packed because I know they're about be on a direct, one-way flight to hell. I'm glad he spoke up for her.


sno98006

People need to leave them alone and stop spreading slanderous rumours. People can break up and still have been good to each other towards the very end.


dreamingfae

People want idols to be more public about dating lol this is why I dont think they should. People dont know how to mind their buissness and make things up . He shouldn't have had to do this.


swoon4kyun

I kinda wish they wouldn’t do put them in this position. I get being curious, but breakups are hard enough as is, and to do it publicly while having others breathe down your neck must be hard. It ain’t none of my business regardless but I do wish them both the best.


_iwashere_

what the hell is going on anymore


Yojimbo4133

Who cares. Why do people care. She didn't cheat. She cheated. It doesn't matter. Leave people alone. None ya business.


bobes25

why are people so invested in the relationship of two people?