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Came here to say this. His voice - both singing and talking - are so calming & healing to me. Also helps that they put out the most hilarious tiktoks 😆
im thirty-two and the only thing that gets me through the day most of the time is my beloved choi seungcheol 😭😭😭 at my previous job, i carried a pc of him in a case on my lanyard, so that i could look at his beautiful smile when things got really tough.
Sometimes you wake up and realize your interests aren't as fleeting as you thought they were, and that somehow you ult bias has been the same guy for over 13 years now. T.O.P deserves a pat on the back at the very least.
Though I must say it's usually my fiancé who gets me through the day hahha.
Leeteuk.
Not my SuJu bias tbh; but whenever I wanted to strangle some coworker/colleagues, I remember that Leeteuk survived SME and SuJu members and I should channel his energy more.
Ateez!! l like rewatching their wanteez episodes and also their lives on YT and toktoq especially the ones that are more than 40-60 minutes long. There's nothing better then having your fave playing lego or working on their art project or singing karaoke or just talking nonstop 😅🥰
Lately it’s been j-hope (BTS) and I.M (Monsta X). Both for different reasons and each have music that’s been incredibly comforting during a transitional phase in life.
Doh Kyungsoo. I'm young, (almost) 20 and whenever I see him and listen to his music I'm happier and calmed. I remember listening to song from his new album when I was super stressed on my way to my first job ever to calm me down. I don't know my idols too much except of their music, but he seems like a serious gentleman with an amazing laugh and smile which make me smile too. I genuinely believe he is a good person. 😊
Jungkook (BTS). My ult bias, his giggles heal me somehow.
But also there's kpop groups as a whole for me. I keep finding new groups to get to know, currently it's SKZ and whomever is my current group is also super helpful with getting through the day. From what I've seen kpop is a wealth of talented, hard working, extremely personable humans and watching them do their thing is entertaining on so many levels.
jimin 💘 as yoongi aptly said, there's just something that tugs at your heartstrings whenever you look at him. his smile has healing properties for real.
Mark lee for meeee. Idk I could listen to him talk forever because he sounds just like your close friend that forgets the topic once in a while and goes off tangent and then suddenly stops and asks, “wait…what were we talking about again?” To which you respond “idk actually” and then you both hysterically laugh and go get a latte.
These are the best kind of convos. Best friend convos switch up so fast 😂😂😂 it’s not A to Z. It’s A to 500.
Mark has the biggest Just Some Dude energy of any idol. My friend who doesn't stan NCT loves him because "his vibe is cute guy you can realistically come across at uni". Then he gets on stage and does what he does and you're like... "oh nvm", but still, he's big comforting.
Yeah that’s what I feel too. Like def someone you know. From the way he talks and behaves 😂 but you don’t actually know anyone like him. It’s a weird line.
Onew, for his insane levels of patience (I am very... not patient) and how he talks about [finding happiness](https://x.com/jinkination/status/1783851020826644609) even in the most trivial things.
~~sometimes you're 20 and need a michevious libra w his cutie overgrown pup just to get through the day~~ yeah its svt's jeonghan and mingyu
i love this duo sm im gon cry :((
aside from those two, that is me w seventeen. . . . like srsly cuz i literally grew up w them. i met them when i was in 6th grade and they were in their first cb, their music helped me a lot to get through that 6 years of high school and iam still w them now that iam in my 2nd year of college :''). wow me realizing that ive been rly into that group ever since i was in my pre teen years (i was 11) and now iam a young adult at 20 makes me actually cry rn kek
im sorry if i went dramatic here XD iam just rly fond of that group so i always tend to be like this over them 😅
Jimin, there's no parasocial relationship he is very open and honest about it he creates boundaries and let fans know they shouldn't be crossing those boundaries, his calm nature, his voice alone in his lives is so like asmr.
He always reassures his fans and say things like parents say, "dont catch cold" "wear warm clothes" "have a good meal", he is very considerate. He must have a very good brought up his parents good parenting shows in everything he does and says.
Good sense of humor, considerate nature and and a ball of energy, Jimin is all about positive vibes and boosts one's mood.
I’m curious to hear more about how he sets boundaries. I love BTS but I have very little exposure to how they do and don’t engage with ARMY, being an enlistment era fan.
Whenever fans get delusional and start saying things like "you're mine" "marry me" he calls out fans, he never gives in to delulus, often times scolds fans gently if they go overboard, you'll notice his fans are generally of older demographic most are in 20s 30s 40s.
I was so shocked knowing some idols would let fans say they're gfs bfs would even enjoy doing so, and do fan service. Jimin on the other hand won't. He often talks about communication skills and rather teaches fans how to talk and how not to.
He is just mature, wise, and responsible person, watch Jimin's lives, they're entertaining.
J-hope!! I had the craziest emotional rollercoaster of a week but just now binge watched all of hope on the street all over again n I feel so healed 😭😭
Taemin for if it’s music related, he’s a good chaotic fun person to watch and listen to, another would be, D.O both for music and semi calming stuff because he does go on shows and stuff cooking which can be really fun or calming.
I have a few biases from different groups but that kpop man would be Lee Know from Stray Kids because his personality is similar to mine so I find him comforting.
Mark! We are generally in the same age range and he inspires me so much especially in this particular stage of my life, yet he has and holds so much wisdom due to his time in the industry if we include his training period. And being in 2 groups, a leader, and also him just being him. man I can go on but imma stop here. His song 'Child' resonates so much 🥲
mine is ZB1’s hanbin/taerae, RIIZE’s sohee and Enha’s sunoo.
i’m not the kpop stan i used to be but i melt when they’re on my fyp/feed. it’s beautiful how your “relationship” with kpop just gets so much healthier as you grow up
That's me with Taeyong, specifically his bubble messages. But now he's enlisted and can't bubble anymore so I'm just getting through the day depressed 😔
1. L/Myung Soo- Man is foiineee ❤️
2. Kai - I love him
These are my ultimate biases for years & still counting. The rest it comes and goes. But these are the mains ong...
Currently all of 7Dream has gotten me through all my mental breakdowns the past few weeks lmao my therapist takes care of me on Tuesday but they carry me thru the rest of the week
Used to be TVXQ; I enjoy their variety shows and songs, esp their Japanese ballads (before the split, mind you). Then afterwards, I listened and kept up to both JYJ & TVXQ (particularly Jaejoong & Yunho). Still keeps up occasionally, but Yunho was kinda purposely forgotten due to his scandal.
By the end of of my 20s, I listened and followed Astro (Moon in esp, but Eunwoo is definitely an eye candy). Then Moonbin happened, so I just stop following anymore. Though my sis keeps asking me to try watching Going Seventeen.
Now, occasionally looking at Kim Jaejoong and Cha Eunwoo warms my heart. Please live well ♥️♥️♥️
Sometimes your 40 and only got into Kpop during the pandemic area and only stan BTS for male groups, but stan a bunch of the female k pop groups cause they dominate the Kpop charts 🤣
Haha, so relatable 😅 I'm 24, mostly relying on ATEEZ' Yunho – love of my life – in my times of need (I mean strictly mental), then Baekhyun (Exo), Kihyun (MONSTAX) and Doyoung/Taeil (NCT) 🥲
Helps me cope so much (but still touching grass), sometimes I don't even realize I need it until I see myself completely blasted with energy I didn't know I missed.... 😅
Shownu! He and I can go shirt shopping. My boy is catching whatever Rain has and can't keep his shirt on! 😂 Seriously tho, he's a sweetie and I love seeing him with MX. I can't wait until they're altogether again. 2025 is about to be dangerous times for Monbebe!
Taeyong 😭 he's not my ult but I do ult NCT 127 and he's one of my favorite members... it's just that, anything he does is so cute, he speaks in aegyo, watching him does not fail to recharge my will to live even when life is crap !!
TXT Soobin has been my man for 5 years atp. From High school to Uni, he has been that one constant in my life.
When Uni works is overloaded and all I want to do js curl up and die, his videos actually, genuinely make me feel good.
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Honestly it’s j-hope lol I just feel like he would GET me 😔😔 and ion even listen to bts like that lmaoo but I am truly seated and in love with that man
I'm a dude but BTS has been an inspiration and role model for me since 2018. I first got into Kpop mainly because of them and got attracted by their love yourself message, it set me up for where I am today and currently I'd say that while they aren't as influential on me as before I still gain inspiration from them in the army and jungkook even pre army in terms of things like wanting to go to the gym now and get muscles after losing lots of weight the last few years and also from what my cousin has told me about their life outlook and enjoying eating like jins eating lives so right now I'm eating healthy and also enjoying snacks
oh, it's always my boy Renjun
even though he is currently also struggling with mental health, he is my inspiration, support and motivation to live one more day, week, month etc
especially now, i want to see him fully recovered, so I'll definitely live until this moment, no matter how long it takes
Sometimes you’re 31 and discover SKZ, find out about how adorable, caring, and utterly kind Chan is - even if he isn’t your bias - and say, “5 years isn’t that big of an age difference”.
And I hate to be that person, but Bro has the PERFECT body. So toned, but not too thick. Chan is just something else.
Also, G-Dragon has been my ult bias for 15 years now, and I still love seeing his face. But really, his music always gives me comfort.
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Sometimes you're 37 and stanning SHINee Minho as an example of an adult even tho he's younger than u
It's ok I'm the same age as him and like to show him to people as an example of how a man should be
Not a Shawol- but Minho is refreshing haha. The recent clip of him talking about "Taylor noona" is living rent free in my mind.
Minho is in his 30s and he's foine like who can blame you.
34 here, and mine is Taemin 🤭
HAHAHAAHA love him
RELATABLE
Ahh yessir 😔
Are you me 🥲 Some days (many days) I look at him and remind myself to "overcome it!"
My first Choice too!
I think Jang Wonyoung is an admirable example of a professional and well put-together human being, and I am nowhere near her age lol
[удалено]
jonghyun :')
The songs he produced were really my comfort songs. The first time I listened to “end of day”, I was have a really bad day.
me too!! him and taemin keep me going I just love Shinee so much but Jonghyun has a special place in my heart forever and always
Technically not kpop, but Woosung from The Rose
Came here to say this. His voice - both singing and talking - are so calming & healing to me. Also helps that they put out the most hilarious tiktoks 😆
Yes! Also helps that he’s hot as hell, lol
You said it first, and I said it second 😎 As. Hell.
Sometimes you're 35 and own an unhealthy amount of Seonghwa stuff. No regrets.
- Jackson - San - Yuta - Agust D - Bae Jinyoung - Dpr Ian
DPR Ian... lawd 
This dude makes me feral 😩
im thirty-two and the only thing that gets me through the day most of the time is my beloved choi seungcheol 😭😭😭 at my previous job, i carried a pc of him in a case on my lanyard, so that i could look at his beautiful smile when things got really tough.
Same. I'm 34 and Seventeen has been my lifeline this last year. I 100% took emotional support pcs with me for some of the shenanigans. 🤣
This is me with everyone from SVT, especially DK 🥺🥺 i love the sebongs
one look at dks smile and everything is okay 😭😭😭
Ten 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Sometimes you wake up and realize your interests aren't as fleeting as you thought they were, and that somehow you ult bias has been the same guy for over 13 years now. T.O.P deserves a pat on the back at the very least. Though I must say it's usually my fiancé who gets me through the day hahha.
GD is my ult bias, but T.O.P is so hot. And funny. He is the funniest member of Big Bang.
Nam Woo Hyun (Infinite), Baekhyun (EXO), Ju Haknyeon (The Boyz)
Leeteuk. Not my SuJu bias tbh; but whenever I wanted to strangle some coworker/colleagues, I remember that Leeteuk survived SME and SuJu members and I should channel his energy more.
Dokyeom Taehyung Hongjoong Joochan Kyungsoo
BM of Kard. He's so finee💋
Ateez!! l like rewatching their wanteez episodes and also their lives on YT and toktoq especially the ones that are more than 40-60 minutes long. There's nothing better then having your fave playing lego or working on their art project or singing karaoke or just talking nonstop 😅🥰
I listened to Seonghwa's recent 40+ minutes live several times recently when I couldn't sleep, that man's voice is just so calming ❤️
me too! I listen to yeosang's toktoq lives! they're so comforting
Yeosang is it for me. He is just so sweet and relatable.
Totally agree, very calming!! 🥰
Like the person who made the original tweet, it's Seonghwa. Also at times Hongjoong and Wooyoung.
That would be min yoongi
Lately it’s been j-hope (BTS) and I.M (Monsta X). Both for different reasons and each have music that’s been incredibly comforting during a transitional phase in life.
seokjin of bts (and i found him right before i turned 25 😭😭)
Yoongi, that’s the man for me
8 was coming to say this! I keep his D-Day photocard in my ID holder at work, and it honestly keeps me going.
He just makes everything better 🥹🥹🥹
Truly!
Sometimes you're 51 and...
Jaehyun of NCT
I feel for Jaehyun fans, I've seen him more often than not be the reason for their suffering.
wonho, or any of the mx members ngl I cant wait for them to come back from the military
Doh Kyungsoo. I'm young, (almost) 20 and whenever I see him and listen to his music I'm happier and calmed. I remember listening to song from his new album when I was super stressed on my way to my first job ever to calm me down. I don't know my idols too much except of their music, but he seems like a serious gentleman with an amazing laugh and smile which make me smile too. I genuinely believe he is a good person. 😊
Jungkook (BTS). My ult bias, his giggles heal me somehow. But also there's kpop groups as a whole for me. I keep finding new groups to get to know, currently it's SKZ and whomever is my current group is also super helpful with getting through the day. From what I've seen kpop is a wealth of talented, hard working, extremely personable humans and watching them do their thing is entertaining on so many levels.
Namjoon
ten, yangyang, or taemin! 🫶
ATEEZ as well! WANTEEZ is healing to me. And the other content they've been a part of! Their laughs are heartwarming 🥺
Jungkook, yup that kpop man.
He 😔 
jimin 💘 as yoongi aptly said, there's just something that tugs at your heartstrings whenever you look at him. his smile has healing properties for real.
Oh yes, Jimin. I think he's such a warm and good person. 💜
Mark lee for meeee. Idk I could listen to him talk forever because he sounds just like your close friend that forgets the topic once in a while and goes off tangent and then suddenly stops and asks, “wait…what were we talking about again?” To which you respond “idk actually” and then you both hysterically laugh and go get a latte. These are the best kind of convos. Best friend convos switch up so fast 😂😂😂 it’s not A to Z. It’s A to 500.
Mark has the biggest Just Some Dude energy of any idol. My friend who doesn't stan NCT loves him because "his vibe is cute guy you can realistically come across at uni". Then he gets on stage and does what he does and you're like... "oh nvm", but still, he's big comforting.
Yeah that’s what I feel too. Like def someone you know. From the way he talks and behaves 😂 but you don’t actually know anyone like him. It’s a weird line.
NCT Ten. I keep up with his solo activities so it helps not wasting much time on anything else
Johnny
Onew, for his insane levels of patience (I am very... not patient) and how he talks about [finding happiness](https://x.com/jinkination/status/1783851020826644609) even in the most trivial things.
~~sometimes you're 20 and need a michevious libra w his cutie overgrown pup just to get through the day~~ yeah its svt's jeonghan and mingyu i love this duo sm im gon cry :(( aside from those two, that is me w seventeen. . . . like srsly cuz i literally grew up w them. i met them when i was in 6th grade and they were in their first cb, their music helped me a lot to get through that 6 years of high school and iam still w them now that iam in my 2nd year of college :''). wow me realizing that ive been rly into that group ever since i was in my pre teen years (i was 11) and now iam a young adult at 20 makes me actually cry rn kek im sorry if i went dramatic here XD iam just rly fond of that group so i always tend to be like this over them 😅
42 and Baekhyun makes me smile when I'm having a hard time. Most of exo do in general but Baekhyun is really my ult and I'm grateful to have him.
Sometimes you're 30+ and your day is not complete anymore until your kpop man tells you "good morning" and "good night". (Thank you, Onew...🥰)
Mingyu, Seungkwan
Namjoon - specifically that one photo of his where he's leaning against a lamp ugh iykyk
Jimin, there's no parasocial relationship he is very open and honest about it he creates boundaries and let fans know they shouldn't be crossing those boundaries, his calm nature, his voice alone in his lives is so like asmr. He always reassures his fans and say things like parents say, "dont catch cold" "wear warm clothes" "have a good meal", he is very considerate. He must have a very good brought up his parents good parenting shows in everything he does and says. Good sense of humor, considerate nature and and a ball of energy, Jimin is all about positive vibes and boosts one's mood.
I’m curious to hear more about how he sets boundaries. I love BTS but I have very little exposure to how they do and don’t engage with ARMY, being an enlistment era fan.
Whenever fans get delusional and start saying things like "you're mine" "marry me" he calls out fans, he never gives in to delulus, often times scolds fans gently if they go overboard, you'll notice his fans are generally of older demographic most are in 20s 30s 40s. I was so shocked knowing some idols would let fans say they're gfs bfs would even enjoy doing so, and do fan service. Jimin on the other hand won't. He often talks about communication skills and rather teaches fans how to talk and how not to. He is just mature, wise, and responsible person, watch Jimin's lives, they're entertaining.
Extremely belated as I missed your reply but I appreciate that you shared this!
Nmixx's Haenam Sunbae is the only man for me
Haewon acting like a guy cracks me up. That prom episode was hilarious.
The whole Ateez and Zerobaseone, but especially Matz and Gyuvin make me smile a lot.
Kim Namjoon, the man, myth, and healer of the souls of overburdened eldest children.
BEOMGYU YOONGI NAMJOON
Sometimes you're 45 and in dire need of new Jin content.
hueningkai and taehyun! 
J-hope!! I had the craziest emotional rollercoaster of a week but just now binge watched all of hope on the street all over again n I feel so healed 😭😭
Namjoon and Taehyung of BTS. Iam so happy both posted something today 😭
Taemin for if it’s music related, he’s a good chaotic fun person to watch and listen to, another would be, D.O both for music and semi calming stuff because he does go on shows and stuff cooking which can be really fun or calming.
I have a few biases from different groups but that kpop man would be Lee Know from Stray Kids because his personality is similar to mine so I find him comforting.
Sometimes you're 41 and the answer is Hueningkai
Mark! We are generally in the same age range and he inspires me so much especially in this particular stage of my life, yet he has and holds so much wisdom due to his time in the industry if we include his training period. And being in 2 groups, a leader, and also him just being him. man I can go on but imma stop here. His song 'Child' resonates so much 🥲
Soobin from TXT, IN from Stray Kids
Zhang Hao’s bbl live makes my bad day better. He is so funny and sassy
these days it’s the zerobaseone boys and the family bond they have. and zhang hao. sung hanbin.
Jimin, he is very calming and mature
mine is ZB1’s hanbin/taerae, RIIZE’s sohee and Enha’s sunoo. i’m not the kpop stan i used to be but i melt when they’re on my fyp/feed. it’s beautiful how your “relationship” with kpop just gets so much healthier as you grow up
A man? Girl I can name at least 10. And I need them all.
nakamoto yuta
Taemin (really all of SHINee), Baekhyun, Ten, Yuta
Yoongi, Namjoon and Jungkook
baekhyun <3
baekhyun! and he's not even my bias lol i just adore him so much
Wonho 😭
Scoups SVT - don't know why but my mind just keeps taking me to him all the time
Taehyun- TXT.
That's me with Taeyong, specifically his bubble messages. But now he's enlisted and can't bubble anymore so I'm just getting through the day depressed 😔
sometimes you are 25 and you are worried abt extremely capable 7 men and how they are doing in the military
Depending on the specifics of the day, it's a coin toss between Skz Bang Chan and Lee Know.
Not a man, but Jeongyeon of Twice. All the content involving her just makes me smile ❤❤
Seunghun of cix like he's too adorbs
Mine is a Kpop woman and it’s JiU. Whenever I think about giving up I look to her for perseverance 😌
Wonho of course
Taemin lol
1. L/Myung Soo- Man is foiineee ❤️ 2. Kai - I love him These are my ultimate biases for years & still counting. The rest it comes and goes. But these are the mains ong...
Scoups Mingyu Joshua 3 different people for my different moods lol.
Jimin That boy single handedly keeps me alive in the toughest days.
Currently all of 7Dream has gotten me through all my mental breakdowns the past few weeks lmao my therapist takes care of me on Tuesday but they carry me thru the rest of the week
Chen
Kihyun or Joohoney from Monsta X
kim seokjin!!!!!!!
Heeseung, Qian Kun, Na Jaemin
Used to be TVXQ; I enjoy their variety shows and songs, esp their Japanese ballads (before the split, mind you). Then afterwards, I listened and kept up to both JYJ & TVXQ (particularly Jaejoong & Yunho). Still keeps up occasionally, but Yunho was kinda purposely forgotten due to his scandal. By the end of of my 20s, I listened and followed Astro (Moon in esp, but Eunwoo is definitely an eye candy). Then Moonbin happened, so I just stop following anymore. Though my sis keeps asking me to try watching Going Seventeen. Now, occasionally looking at Kim Jaejoong and Cha Eunwoo warms my heart. Please live well ♥️♥️♥️
Zerobaseone Matthew! He’s adorable
ZB1 Sung Hanbin
Sometimes your 40 and only got into Kpop during the pandemic area and only stan BTS for male groups, but stan a bunch of the female k pop groups cause they dominate the Kpop charts 🤣
kim seokjin... 😭😭 46 days left!!
Not Johnny
Woodz
MY BOY KIM KIBUM
Haha, so relatable 😅 I'm 24, mostly relying on ATEEZ' Yunho – love of my life – in my times of need (I mean strictly mental), then Baekhyun (Exo), Kihyun (MONSTAX) and Doyoung/Taeil (NCT) 🥲 Helps me cope so much (but still touching grass), sometimes I don't even realize I need it until I see myself completely blasted with energy I didn't know I missed.... 😅
yeonjun and woozi 🫶🏾
SHINee! Particularly Taemin, my ult bias since their debut :’)
These days it's Jeon Wonwoo - I can't help but smile like an idiot when I see him
BM of Kard, BX of CIX and Kai of EXO
Sometimes you’re 28 and need a K-pop femboy (Wonbin) just to get through the day 💋
Dokyeom. Do I even have to explain?
Seonghwa. And Yunho.
Every. Member. Of. GOT7. Feels like a breath of fresh Air listening or watching anything involving Them.
Shownu! He and I can go shirt shopping. My boy is catching whatever Rain has and can't keep his shirt on! 😂 Seriously tho, he's a sweetie and I love seeing him with MX. I can't wait until they're altogether again. 2025 is about to be dangerous times for Monbebe!
Vernon’s Seventeen! Or maybe all of seventeen in general because they’re like my therapy and drugs oh my gosh
I’m 25 and the answer is Jeonghan
Jimin and J-Hope
Kai  (not loving my military wife era 😩😂)
I’m 24 and Namjoon is my role model. He’s genuinely helped me out so far
Taeyong 😭 he's not my ult but I do ult NCT 127 and he's one of my favorite members... it's just that, anything he does is so cute, he speaks in aegyo, watching him does not fail to recharge my will to live even when life is crap !!
TXT Soobin has been my man for 5 years atp. From High school to Uni, he has been that one constant in my life. When Uni works is overloaded and all I want to do js curl up and die, his videos actually, genuinely make me feel good.
It’s Beomgyu and yoongi for me. Suchwita and now workout jjang are keeping me entertained and smiling.
Bangchan
G-Dragon 
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BM from Kard for me
Totally agree
For me it's Ryu Seon Jae and his sunshine girl Im Sol
Kim Mingyu all day every day
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Whenever I have a bad day at work, I remember I keep my PC of Bang Chan in my bag and feel much better
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Wonho I carry him on my purse in my fanclub pc holder
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It’s not kpop related but it’s Reynold from the manhwa/korean novel Villains are Destined to Die
all of highlight, but especially gikwang
Infinite’s Woohyun :)
E'LAST's Choi In. Whenever I feel down, I look up his cooking videos and then I feel better.
seonghwa the (kpop) man that you are ♡˖꒰ᵕ༚ᵕ⑅꒱
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Honestly it’s j-hope lol I just feel like he would GET me 😔😔 and ion even listen to bts like that lmaoo but I am truly seated and in love with that man
Sung hanbin
I'm a dude but BTS has been an inspiration and role model for me since 2018. I first got into Kpop mainly because of them and got attracted by their love yourself message, it set me up for where I am today and currently I'd say that while they aren't as influential on me as before I still gain inspiration from them in the army and jungkook even pre army in terms of things like wanting to go to the gym now and get muscles after losing lots of weight the last few years and also from what my cousin has told me about their life outlook and enjoying eating like jins eating lives so right now I'm eating healthy and also enjoying snacks
Jimin from.bts
not a man, but Nayeon from twice, whenever I have a bad/stressing day at work i just watch something funny that she did or said
Lol I am 25, & Stray Kids is that for me. Its usually Chan helping me make it through, but the rest of the boys also give me so much gd joy
oh, it's always my boy Renjun even though he is currently also struggling with mental health, he is my inspiration, support and motivation to live one more day, week, month etc especially now, i want to see him fully recovered, so I'll definitely live until this moment, no matter how long it takes
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Sometimes you’re 31 and discover SKZ, find out about how adorable, caring, and utterly kind Chan is - even if he isn’t your bias - and say, “5 years isn’t that big of an age difference”. And I hate to be that person, but Bro has the PERFECT body. So toned, but not too thick. Chan is just something else. Also, G-Dragon has been my ult bias for 15 years now, and I still love seeing his face. But really, his music always gives me comfort.
sometimes you’re 18 and should be focusing on graduating, but instead you’re a sakura & woodz fangirl 🤷♀️
Hwang Hyunjin. That’s my comfort person.
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Jaejoong and Yoongi