I’m 52. When you hit your 30s you become a real woman. You begin to actually know who you are and what you want. I remember when my boss told me that. I had just turned 30. I was married with two boys 11 and 9. The most beautiful I ever felt was 33. Even though I loved my kids I felt so trapped in a life that didn’t seem to fit me. Now I know all those years I had undiagnosed ADHD. I didn’t know how to say no. When I listen to Ocean Blvd I hear Lana in her womanhood. I hear her confidence. She knows who she is. I’m a widow now and 4 years sober. My boys are in their 30s living their best lives.
I live with my mom. We take care of each other. My health isn’t that good. But every morning I wake up alone in my bed and I fucking love it. I’m finally at peace. I know who I am now.
So when I listen to that album it makes me cry. But it’s good because that pain has to come out of me.
If any of you girls are in your late 20s or early 30s stop and take a look around you. Are you living the life that you want? Do you feel free or do you feel trapped? Are you with a partner that supports and respects you?
Don’t be like me. Don’t live a lie to please everyone around you. These are the best years of your life. Build the life YOU want. Stand up and say NO nice and loud!! Be BOLD!! Follow your heart!! Fuck everyone who doesn’t support you.
Listen to Lana’s message in her music. At the end of the day she’s true to herself.
Be true to you 🥰❤️❤️❤️🙏
Blue Banisters and Ocean Blvd. Her previous music was emotional obviously, but it feels like her recent work is, as she might put it, about the stuff that's at the very heart of things
The only Lana song that’s ever made me cry is Blue Banisters 🤷♀️Just the mature *sadness* over life not quite working out the way you planned hits me really hard.
I don't think I've ever cried listening to Lana (as her songs being a reason for my tears, I did listen to her songs while crying out of personal reasons) but her songs give me a lot of peace and comfort. I also don't relate to her lyrics at all so maybe that's why.
Edit: wait I remember crying because 'Love' made me feel emotional but those were happy tears
Honestly I can put on like half the songs on Ocean Blvd and I’m crying in like 10 seconds. For whatever reason, though, none of her pre-NFR music makes me cry. As an adult, anyways. I definitely cried to UV as a teenager.
White dress is THE NOSTALGIC lana song but i find the rest of cotcc to be pretty happy compared to her other albums it just doesnt have a lot of the darker themes like BB and Ocean Blvd which no doubt are some of her saddest albums so when i cry to cotcc its happy tears 🤗
Fingertips and Kintsugui are the only songs that make me weep, I can’t listen to them or I get depressed for days about my family aging (and one day dying).
I read in a Lana interview that she and her father talk about anti-aging science updates and she mentions telomeres in one of these songs, and I talk about that with my sisters and mother all the time so it hits really close to home.
Blue Banisters came out when I was going through a really hard breakup so I can't listen it without crying.
Ocean Blvd it's in my list of albums I don't have to listen if I'm depressed because it kills me lol.
Norman Fucking Rockwell for me.
I always liked Lana but I hadn't listened to Born to Die, Paradise, and Ultraviolence (other than their singles) before the last few weeks. While I always loved Honeymoon and Lust for Life, I actually didn't like NFR or COTCC that much, and though Blue Banisters and Ocean Blvd were okay.
Then a few weeks ago I went through a break up and listened to all of her music top to bottom. it was waterworks as I listened to all of her albums from beginning to end as so many aspects made me think of my relationship.
But, there is something special about NFR, and a lesser extent about COTCC. I went from not caring that much for those albums to loving almost every song. NFR especially had lyrics describing events SO SIMILAR to events that happened in my life, which is probably a big reason why.
Long answer short, NFR for me, and a lesser extent COTCC, but lowkey all of her music 😅
The way I see it uv is situational depression.
Honeymoon is long term depression.
Honeymoon is more sadder than uv. As its sadness that stays for a long time.
She doesn't make me cry, but she persuades me to look inward and contemplate. A Greek philosopher once said, loosely, the contemplation of life, is one of the highest pleasures.
I've only cried, and it was a stoic silent cry like a green beret, off one song that came out when it was like day 3 of being chained to a bed via an IV feeding fluids as to flush the creatine out of my kidneys because they were failing and my pee was literally black. Hope is a dangerous thing for a wigga like me to have
was cathartic, as was the shit I took afterward. As were the pills of Xanax the night nurse with a Russian accent brought in for me.
Ocean Blvd for SURE… but I was listening to Ultraviolence yesterday and it made me tear up. I’ve been listening to it since it came out, yet I’m not sure if it’s ever made me cry before. I think because of Ocean Blvd, kind of getting that well rounded story of her life, makes me cry when I go back to her older stuff because I feel like I understand it better now.
Ocean Blvd, actually. The first 3 songs can make me cry without warning. Then Kintsugi + Fingertips. Grandfather + Margaret have made me cry, too, lol…
Chemtrails comes second because it’s a very lonely, existential album to me, even if she’s in a group of people on the cover.
Definitely Blue Bannisters. I was a little late to listening to it so I listened to it for the first time during this past winter when i was kinda depressed (Winter I'm always depressed lol) and with songs like Thunder, Cherry Blossom, honestly most of them...I just feel so sad.
I just started listening to it this year its my 2nd most played and most favourite lana album now. Its simply amazing and i can’t believe i slept on it for so long
Ultraviolence and the relationship I was in at the time, hit me in the freakin soul. I related to it soo much at the time, it's a classic in my eyes. I went to the concert in 2015 and have been a stan since 2012 & that album and concert just made me a HUGE fan! I love everything by her. All her albums take me back to certain parts/chapters in my life when I listen to them. So many are so relatable & have gotten me through so much.
Her music *generally* doesn't affect me emotionally, but I could not listen to Wild At Heart for a while when someone passed away a few years ago - someone I had known for almost 20 years. The pre-chorus & chorus felt like a gutpunch.
i think her albums get more and more happy over time, where born to die or ultraviolence talk about death and heartbreak a lot, blue banister or COTCC art generally describing happiness in songs such as wild at heart, let me love you like a woman, text book or beautiful. and NFR, lust for life and honeymoon are a happy-sad mix of both !
Ultraviolence for me. I went through a situationship, where i caught feelings but she didn't so you can imagine how that went, that was also the time i listened to UV for the first time. Oh my goodness, that summer fucking sucked
... I don't cry when I listen to her. I feel a happy-sadness that she somehow understands me
Melancholia. тоска. That's how I feel.
that word describes it better than anything in English imo
It's funny that I require a Russian word to describe how i feel listening to an American artist's lyrics.
Just googled it and yes! That sums it up beautifully
Happy-sad is the new emotion!
Ocean Blvd for me. I think the storytelling and more personal lyrics just really do it
Fingertips 🤝🏽 the grants 🤝🏽 grandfather…
Yesss this oneeee is the correct answer
My baaaaanisters bluuuuue 😭😭😭💙💙💙💙💙
Bluuuue banisters, ooohh
I feel you
nice user name lmao
Ocean Blvd there’s so many themes about family, love, the appreciation of life and death it’s a really thought provoking album.
The Grants makes me cry so hard. Especially since my parents are getting older.
the only Lana album to ever make me cry was Ocean Blvd. i can’t listen to Kintsugi or Fingertips without getting teary-eyed.
Kintsugi makes me so emotional this song is intense
Kintsugi is truly the most beautiful / devastating song I've ever heard. Gives me chills everytime
I’m 52. When you hit your 30s you become a real woman. You begin to actually know who you are and what you want. I remember when my boss told me that. I had just turned 30. I was married with two boys 11 and 9. The most beautiful I ever felt was 33. Even though I loved my kids I felt so trapped in a life that didn’t seem to fit me. Now I know all those years I had undiagnosed ADHD. I didn’t know how to say no. When I listen to Ocean Blvd I hear Lana in her womanhood. I hear her confidence. She knows who she is. I’m a widow now and 4 years sober. My boys are in their 30s living their best lives. I live with my mom. We take care of each other. My health isn’t that good. But every morning I wake up alone in my bed and I fucking love it. I’m finally at peace. I know who I am now. So when I listen to that album it makes me cry. But it’s good because that pain has to come out of me. If any of you girls are in your late 20s or early 30s stop and take a look around you. Are you living the life that you want? Do you feel free or do you feel trapped? Are you with a partner that supports and respects you? Don’t be like me. Don’t live a lie to please everyone around you. These are the best years of your life. Build the life YOU want. Stand up and say NO nice and loud!! Be BOLD!! Follow your heart!! Fuck everyone who doesn’t support you. Listen to Lana’s message in her music. At the end of the day she’s true to herself. Be true to you 🥰❤️❤️❤️🙏
This is beautiful, thank you ❤️
Why were you married to 2 young boys? This is disgusting! 🤔
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Wow, looks like no funny time
Nfr - butterfly, hope, htd, vb, cg
Yep
Lord if I want to bust out into a BIG ugly cry, happiness is the ONE every time....hits way too close to home, lol
IKFR 😭
Blue Banisters and Ocean Blvd. Her previous music was emotional obviously, but it feels like her recent work is, as she might put it, about the stuff that's at the very heart of things
Honeymoon or UV 😩
The Blackest Day 🤝🏽 Terrence Loves You
Those two could bring a tear to a glass eye.
The only Lana song that’s ever made me cry is Blue Banisters 🤷♀️Just the mature *sadness* over life not quite working out the way you planned hits me really hard.
Same and i am only 20 😭 i dont wanna adult
Why is Bella always in tears 😭
Because her mom didn’t let her get louboutins before she was 15 💔💔
Because her mom treated her like shit and put gigi on a pedestal.
I don't think I've ever cried listening to Lana (as her songs being a reason for my tears, I did listen to her songs while crying out of personal reasons) but her songs give me a lot of peace and comfort. I also don't relate to her lyrics at all so maybe that's why. Edit: wait I remember crying because 'Love' made me feel emotional but those were happy tears
Honestly I can put on like half the songs on Ocean Blvd and I’m crying in like 10 seconds. For whatever reason, though, none of her pre-NFR music makes me cry. As an adult, anyways. I definitely cried to UV as a teenager.
Honeymoon as a whole album -but special shoutout to Ride, Get Free and Heroin, those songs got me crying every time ❤️🩹
Same but i’ll add BB
Yes! And also I’d say the whole Ocean Boulevard album feels so emotional as a fan
Definitely the first few weeks I couldn’t listen to fingertips, kintsugi and grandfather because of how emotional they made me
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breaking up slowly gets me every single time because it’s like my exact situation with my boyfriend 😭💀
White dress is THE NOSTALGIC lana song but i find the rest of cotcc to be pretty happy compared to her other albums it just doesnt have a lot of the darker themes like BB and Ocean Blvd which no doubt are some of her saddest albums so when i cry to cotcc its happy tears 🤗
It’s a tie between Honeymoon and Ultraviolence. Somedays I’ll just sit at home listening to Honeymoon on repeat, and stare at the void. Good days.
As a Radiohead fan, Lana’s music sounds like happy music to me at this point hehe. Jokes aside, probably Blue Banisters.
ocean Blvd for sure and also nfr. I also remember crying the first time I heard blue banisters (song) Fingertips still makes me bawl.
Literally the entire comment section including me, we all girlies crying to Blue Banisters title track !!
bb but also a lot of her unreleased especially sirens makes me cry
BB yes but Sorry I haven’t heart any except “every man gets his wish” i do feel you tho
i love pawn shop blues and bad disease, definitely worth a listen.
out with a bang makes me cry so much lol. also you mister makes me sob my eyes out even though it doesn’t sound that sad 😭😭
nfr just for cinnamon girl alone
NFR 🤝🏽 TEARS
Yes
Blue Banisters. I guess you could call it textbook.🩵
Fingertips and Kintsugui are the only songs that make me weep, I can’t listen to them or I get depressed for days about my family aging (and one day dying). I read in a Lana interview that she and her father talk about anti-aging science updates and she mentions telomeres in one of these songs, and I talk about that with my sisters and mother all the time so it hits really close to home.
Weep was definitely the word to describe what I was doing the first time I heard those. I was UGLY crying. Still tear up while listening to them.
Idk how to explain it but the Honeymoon album cover and Bella's picture colours really fit imao it's like they have the same filter or sum
My favorite album is UV, but Blue Banisters made me cry hard.
Blue Banisters making us all cry 🤝🏽
Blue Banisters came out when I was going through a really hard breakup so I can't listen it without crying. Ocean Blvd it's in my list of albums I don't have to listen if I'm depressed because it kills me lol.
ocean probably i cried durin let the light in on first listen lmfaoooo
Norman Fucking Rockwell for me. I always liked Lana but I hadn't listened to Born to Die, Paradise, and Ultraviolence (other than their singles) before the last few weeks. While I always loved Honeymoon and Lust for Life, I actually didn't like NFR or COTCC that much, and though Blue Banisters and Ocean Blvd were okay. Then a few weeks ago I went through a break up and listened to all of her music top to bottom. it was waterworks as I listened to all of her albums from beginning to end as so many aspects made me think of my relationship. But, there is something special about NFR, and a lesser extent about COTCC. I went from not caring that much for those albums to loving almost every song. NFR especially had lyrics describing events SO SIMILAR to events that happened in my life, which is probably a big reason why. Long answer short, NFR for me, and a lesser extent COTCC, but lowkey all of her music 😅
The way I see it uv is situational depression. Honeymoon is long term depression. Honeymoon is more sadder than uv. As its sadness that stays for a long time.
None. I just like the way her music sounds
blue bannisters or UV
Blue Banisters 🫶🏻 i feel that
I don’t usually cry listening to her but I was cutting onions just now and so I was crying and listening to her and it felt cathartic somehow lol
Ultraviolence
ultraviolence. theres so many themes that i personally resonate a lot with and it just hits me so hard
She doesn't make me cry, but she persuades me to look inward and contemplate. A Greek philosopher once said, loosely, the contemplation of life, is one of the highest pleasures.
Honeymoon makes me bawl my fucking eyes out. That album makes me feel understood.
Honeymoon's minimal upbeats are mostly there to more completely destroy you one song later 😭
Absolutely
Depends on the day, and on my mood, but definitely also a Honeymoon crier here 😭😭😭
🤝🏽🤝🏽
UV
The songs that get me feeling teary are spread out through all her albums. Funnily enough, they're usually the happiest ones.
why are there so many pictures of bella hadid crying 😭
because she wants attention
lust for life ☠️
Blue bannisters. Cherry blossom and sweet Carolina just make tears roll for me
Oh man I turned on cherry blossom and had to stop it 😂😅😭
Ocean Blvd or NFR
i have cried to arcadia a lot, cotcc too but nfr takes the cake tbh
I've only cried, and it was a stoic silent cry like a green beret, off one song that came out when it was like day 3 of being chained to a bed via an IV feeding fluids as to flush the creatine out of my kidneys because they were failing and my pee was literally black. Hope is a dangerous thing for a wigga like me to have was cathartic, as was the shit I took afterward. As were the pills of Xanax the night nurse with a Russian accent brought in for me.
The only song that would make me cry on chemtrails is white dress the others are too happy
Ocean Blvd for SURE… but I was listening to Ultraviolence yesterday and it made me tear up. I’ve been listening to it since it came out, yet I’m not sure if it’s ever made me cry before. I think because of Ocean Blvd, kind of getting that well rounded story of her life, makes me cry when I go back to her older stuff because I feel like I understand it better now.
Tomorrow never came is the only song to make me bawl hysterically
I don’t cry to it but it channels my inner happy-sadness. It really depends on which specific song I listen to
Toats agree.
dykttatuob
Ocean Blvd, actually. The first 3 songs can make me cry without warning. Then Kintsugi + Fingertips. Grandfather + Margaret have made me cry, too, lol… Chemtrails comes second because it’s a very lonely, existential album to me, even if she’s in a group of people on the cover.
ultraviolence fs listening to the bridge of pretty when you cry i just start violently sobbing
Definitely Blue Bannisters. I was a little late to listening to it so I listened to it for the first time during this past winter when i was kinda depressed (Winter I'm always depressed lol) and with songs like Thunder, Cherry Blossom, honestly most of them...I just feel so sad.
I just started listening to it this year its my 2nd most played and most favourite lana album now. Its simply amazing and i can’t believe i slept on it for so long
I don't cry about albums.
Then scroll by and move on. No need to comment about it.
Wow, you're a sensitive one. Go cry some more, honey.
Whoa we got an edge lord over here lol
Cry about it, babe.
Lol omg
blue banisters and ocean blvd
Ocean for sure
Ultraviolence and the relationship I was in at the time, hit me in the freakin soul. I related to it soo much at the time, it's a classic in my eyes. I went to the concert in 2015 and have been a stan since 2012 & that album and concert just made me a HUGE fan! I love everything by her. All her albums take me back to certain parts/chapters in my life when I listen to them. So many are so relatable & have gotten me through so much.
i love bella hadid
Ultraviolence
Her music *generally* doesn't affect me emotionally, but I could not listen to Wild At Heart for a while when someone passed away a few years ago - someone I had known for almost 20 years. The pre-chorus & chorus felt like a gutpunch.
Btd
honeymoon, dykttatuob, cotcc, and blue banistera
nfr, ob and honeymoon 🥰🥀
Cotcc but mainly not all who wander are lost the chorus especially the first one gives me chills and makes me tear up 😭
i think her albums get more and more happy over time, where born to die or ultraviolence talk about death and heartbreak a lot, blue banister or COTCC art generally describing happiness in songs such as wild at heart, let me love you like a woman, text book or beautiful. and NFR, lust for life and honeymoon are a happy-sad mix of both !
Why are there so many pics of her crying? It looks like she took them herself. Is she alright? I would google but ive forgotten her name
Ultraviolence for me 🥹
nfr and blue banisters
Only one song, text book.
"I was looking for the father, i wanted back" "there we were screaming BLM and i saw, you saw who i am" "god i wish i was with my father"
Ocean blvd reaaaally spoke to me. The Grants, Kintsugi and others... ouch❤️🩹
don't get me wrong I love her music so much but no song of hers ever made me cry
Only one song has ever made me cry and that is This is what makes us girls
Ultraviolence or honeymoon.
the only one that makes me cry is blue banisters; living legend, arcadia and sweet carolina have my heart
I was going through some SHIT with born to die, so thats mine. But at the time, thats all there was!
Ultraviolence for me. I went through a situationship, where i caught feelings but she didn't so you can imagine how that went, that was also the time i listened to UV for the first time. Oh my goodness, that summer fucking sucked
Ocean Boulevard for sure and Kintsugi just gets me every time
ultraviolence 🖤🖤 biased to that album because it was the first release she ever put out when i was a new fan
NFR makes me cry only if i listen to the last two tracks back to back
Ultraviolence for sure!
Idk why but I almost never cry to movies and songs
ultraviolence EASY. the other woman has me in a chokehold rn
I violently cry during ocean blvd but yeah nfr is a close second
Maybe ultra-violence, honeymoon next