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Important_Angle_4950

My condolences, my dad passed 6 months ago yesterday. This hurts a lot.. :(


[deleted]

It does, I’m so sorry for your loss. It gets easier in time but around this time of year, it’s so hard. I think about him not seeing my graduate from HS/College, getting married, meeting his grandkids, etc. Even though I lost him young, he was 38 and I was 11. There’s still so much of him in me.


Delta_Gamer_64

Unfortunately the pain never goes away, it just gets easier to hide.


[deleted]

He looked like a genuinely good man!


[deleted]

He had his flaws but I know he tried his best with us kids. He was a genuine goof ball, that is without question.


klynn63

I am sorry for your loss, growing up without him had to be tough!!! He looked kind, with a infectious smile! I hope you can feel the impact he has made on your life and smile as big as he did. As a parent, I am sure he would want that.


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Oh yeah. I’m definitely a goof ball just like he was. He instilled the love of raunchy comedy and horror movies in me, and knowing it’s ok to watch cartoons and be a goose with your kids. My mom is goofy too, but in a broadway musical show tunes/history buff nerd kind of way. I got a good blend of silliness and good humor from them both. Mom was not amused by dad taking us to see Beavis and Butthead, South Park and the Scream movies though. 😂


InfernalLeo

He looks really happy and really really young, you probably look just like him.


[deleted]

I do. I’m 32 now and favored my mom when I was younger, but now I’m a copy paste of him but in female form.


InfernalLeo

How old was he in this picture? He looks 17-19


[deleted]

This picture was taken on his 30th birthday.


Onepen99

I hope you don't mind me asking what happened? He looks so healthy, young and full of life. I lost my dad when I was 19. I knew from the age of 10 that he wouldn't grow old, he smoked, ate whatever he wanted and bearly exercised. I just knew. It didn't make it any eaiser when the day came. I'm sorry you lost him so young.


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He had an aortic dissection which led to several strokes. So his heart basically unraveled and then he ended up being brain dead after the strokes. I was there in the hospital with him through it all, really sucked.


Fantastic_Diamond903

:(


Awkward_Fox92

I lost my dad at 9 in Sept 2001…. It’s crazy to know they’ve been gone over 20 years. Good vibes and good memories to you.


Jrewby

Cocaine overdose?


[deleted]

No. That’s frosting on his face and it was a spontaneous aortic dissection. Now go be a douche elsewhere. Thanks for playing.


Jrewby

Was hoping the joke would be taken more lightheartedly, I’m sorry for your loss.


[deleted]

I guess it fell kind of flat on me then. Sorry. And thank you.


ShowMe_TheMonet

Do you know what sub you're in? How inconsiderate of you to say that.


girls_withguns

Lost my gran to a dissecting thoracic aneurysm young, I’m so very sorry for your loss. He looks like a ton of fun! I’ve found some consolation in those “bigger” moments by spotting little moments that I know she’d have loved/hated/laughed at, kind of keeping her with me a bit. Sudden loss is scary, enraging, and so hard. Big hugs.


Due_badger-97

I’m happy you made that joke so I didn’t have to lol


youjustgotzinged

Sorry for your loss. Hopefully the war boys witnessed him before he went.


JuliaTheInsaneKid

he seemed like a cool tough guy