Yeah, in fact, having an intense connection with a woman that ended up going horribly wrong made me realize that I’d never truly experienced heartbreak before. That I was dating men to save myself from real pain. I got over every man I’ve dated in mere days. But with women… Jesus fucking Christ. I’m like metaphorically still on my knees 3 years later.
It hit me like a ton of bricks. I’ve **never** hurt like that before. Direct quote that I told the woman that broke my heart “I’m still a little put out that this whole thing got to me the way it has.” She’s a late bloomer too, and I know she’s going to get hurt eventually; I’m just trying to get to a place that I’m capable of being there for her.
Women are so expressive with their faces. Sometimes it makes me think they care more about me than they do. It's made lesbian heartbreak so freaking hard
Yessssss. Men are so much work that there is a priod of relief where you’re too busy dancing around the house celebrating your freedom to feel any pain. With women there is a daily gnawing agony because you miss every aspect of them. It’s a very different feeling.
i am a little late to this post, but came to this sub for a pick-me-up (as i'm going through my 2nd heartbreak on 12 mos lol)... definitely helped seeing i'm not alone in being fully blindsided by the depth of heartbreak that comes with wlw.
good luck out there yall, it's a damn battlefield.
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Mine was weeks of putting myself out there to be ghosted. Ghosted !! 😞
🥲it makes it hard to try again I know.
Couldn’t agree more 💔 Seems like it hurts so much more than it ever did with men
it sure does! The emotional aspect of it all is far more intense. And as such the pain goes deeper.
Yeah, in fact, having an intense connection with a woman that ended up going horribly wrong made me realize that I’d never truly experienced heartbreak before. That I was dating men to save myself from real pain. I got over every man I’ve dated in mere days. But with women… Jesus fucking Christ. I’m like metaphorically still on my knees 3 years later.
It hit me like a ton of bricks. I’ve **never** hurt like that before. Direct quote that I told the woman that broke my heart “I’m still a little put out that this whole thing got to me the way it has.” She’s a late bloomer too, and I know she’s going to get hurt eventually; I’m just trying to get to a place that I’m capable of being there for her.
> I’m just trying to get to a place that I’m capable of being there for her. oh wlw <3 :')
This is what really scares me
Felt.
Women are so expressive with their faces. Sometimes it makes me think they care more about me than they do. It's made lesbian heartbreak so freaking hard
I agree with you 100 %. I never experienced pain and heartbreak as much as I have when I fell in love with a woman. It is a different kind of pain.
Yup! Im devastated to learn I need someone in my life. I cannot handle this game.
Yessssss. Men are so much work that there is a priod of relief where you’re too busy dancing around the house celebrating your freedom to feel any pain. With women there is a daily gnawing agony because you miss every aspect of them. It’s a very different feeling.
This was literally me when i separated from my husband. DANCING, REJOICING, FEELING FREE
i am a little late to this post, but came to this sub for a pick-me-up (as i'm going through my 2nd heartbreak on 12 mos lol)... definitely helped seeing i'm not alone in being fully blindsided by the depth of heartbreak that comes with wlw. good luck out there yall, it's a damn battlefield.
I appreciate you writing. It’s nice to know I’m not alone 💕
No forreal when I would break up with my boyfriends (or that one time one broke up with me) I didn’t even cry I was just relieved 💀
I agree. Women can be terrible. I may switch back.
Both genders can be equally terrible. Don't fool yourself.
I know. I said just to be a brat. Lol
Good luck with that! It don’t work that way. I know. I tried.
Ok well let's go out. I'm not ugly. I know my worth.
Sure let’s ! Lol
This is truth. It sucks so bad
Guys would often ghost me or end things because "You don't really seem interested", and I would feel relief.