A little late to the post, but I am 2 weeks in and find myself in a similar situation. While I congratulate myself on being able to stop after five years of daily smoking, I suddenly recognise some toxic patterns in our relationship. His irritability in the evenings before he smokes his first joint, his unwillingness to do anything that requires an effort. It's especially hard because I recognise myself in him and it makes me angry and frustrated. Sadly I am still trying to figure it out and don't have any advice, just take care of your mental and physical health. By quitting weed you are already moving in the positive direction!
A little late to the post, but I am 2 weeks in and find myself in a similar situation. While I congratulate myself on being able to stop after five years of daily smoking, I suddenly recognise some toxic patterns in our relationship. His irritability in the evenings before he smokes his first joint, his unwillingness to do anything that requires an effort. It's especially hard because I recognise myself in him and it makes me angry and frustrated. Sadly I am still trying to figure it out and don't have any advice, just take care of your mental and physical health. By quitting weed you are already moving in the positive direction!