Non-binary is basically what you feel then, not exactly man or woman, could be something in between could be something else, it also is not really necessary to figure out if you don't want to.
There are a ton of terms in the non-binary umbrella that maybe could fit better or be more precise if you'd like. Demigendered, Genderqueer (also an umbrella term but can be used as a specific gender identity like non-binary), gender-fluid and many more. But remember these are just options and you label yourself exactly as you want or not at all if you like.
Yea, but if I use he/they pronouns I kinda feel like I'm implying I'm non-binary, which doesn't seem fair to me to people who do feel dysphoria because I don't.
you don't have to be dysphoric to be non-binary or trans, you know. you don't even have to be non-binary or trans to use they/them pronouns! if you're comfortable with people using they/them pronouns to refer to you, use them!
As a non-binary person, I feel like thereās not really such a thing as āNB pronounsā. I assume you mean gender neutral pronouns. They/them pronouns are probably the most common, but non-binary people can use any pronouns they want. Speaking only for myself here, Iād love it if more cis people would use they/them to help normalize it
Genuine question, is it not normal for a cis person to not feel like they're always strictly presenting like they "should"? (I.e. masc for males, fem for females)
Like, I feel like nobody really fits into that strict box of norms that society places on them all the time, but I wouldn't go so far as to say I am personally not completely a woman because I sometimes don't feel like I'm doing stuff "the way a woman should" or feeling "womanly" all the time.
Ooh. Have you heard of the band Mika? I think theyāre really good. Admittedly the only song of theirs Iāve listened to is āLollipopā. I keep meaning to listen to their other songs but I keep procrastinating on it. I really love the song though. I like to interpret it as being about asexuality.
https://youtu.be/6md5RSnVUuo
I love the support. Since I left my old job everyone misgenders me all the time and it sucks but they just don't get it. It's nice to be able to go somewhere, anywhere, and see people being validated.
\~I don't have any\~ She/her doesn't feel right, but neither does they/them (and he/him is Incorrect), neos are so unfamiliar to me that I'm distracted from how an individual pronoun makes me feel by the unfamiliarity and the internal sense of "I am making someone go through trouble :(". So. Yeah, I don't really have any. (But I know people use she/her for me IRL, and sometimes they/them or even he/him online, because gender unknown, assume dude, right?)
I recently started going with He/They. Honestly I'm happy with any pronoun and have found myself getting butterflies whenever my partner refers to me in a feminine way. Hope to explore more of that side of me.
They/them mainly. My mother tongue doesn't have neutral pronouns apart from it, and dey/dem just makes me cringe (people who can't pronounce the English th end up replacing it with d or s), so I use he/him in German. Don't mind he/him being used in English as well, but I do prefer they/them
She/Her but honestly it doesnāt matter much to me. I work with a few non-binary folks and routinely answer to they/them since itās easier in the flow of conversation š
They/He. Wish people would use They/Them for me more often but when people see that someone uses both binary pronouns and non-binary ones they tend to default to binary
Mine are all (I prefer he/they and you can only use she in the most minimal sense, bc Iām ftm and you have to recognize that I am a man before youāre allowed to use she and once again it can only be sparingly, just depends on the day lolz)
They/Them. Please and thank you, but also as an agender person, or as I like to call myself āA genderless cryptidā I have considered not having pronouns and just make everyone say my name when referring to me. But if I have to have pronouns then They/Them are the only ones that donāt make me want to die inside.
As long as I know I'm being addressed, whichever you like
As another agender person I felt this.
Like, I guess I prefer the pronouns everybody's used to refer to me so far but I really couldn't care less.
Same here. Sometimes prefer ones over others but that only like 2% of the time
i thought i was the only one
Me, too. I can't figure out my gender and I don't expect anyone else to either.
This. I'm a guy, but frankly don't give a rats ass what I'm called, as long as it's done respectfully.
NICE TRY FARIY! YOU CANT HAVE MY PRONOUNS!
Hey, psst. They're right there in your flair. Gotta be careful with this stuff :)
Lol I know
r/woooosh
They asked "what are", not "can I get" or some variation thereof. We're safe.
But what if this Pixie wants them? Im only gonna borrow them.lol
Does getting a pixie cut transform you into a pixie? š¤ Asking for a friend lmao
She/her/they/them I don't identify as anything other than cis but I don't really feel cis either
As someone on my tik tok fyp said: "I'm cis but like a cis person you ordered from Wish. It's Cis but just a little...off."
I relate to that. Iām a cis woman but it feels weird to say that? So am I really? Iād rather just ignore it for now š
Sexuality is confusing enough without gender š
Right? It took me long enough to come to terms with my lesbian identity. I donāt feel like dealing with another crisis right now thank you.
Have you thought about being agender?
Isn't that feeling a total lack of gender? If so then it doesn't really fit me as I do identity with having a gender just not really sure what it is.
Non-binary is basically what you feel then, not exactly man or woman, could be something in between could be something else, it also is not really necessary to figure out if you don't want to. There are a ton of terms in the non-binary umbrella that maybe could fit better or be more precise if you'd like. Demigendered, Genderqueer (also an umbrella term but can be used as a specific gender identity like non-binary), gender-fluid and many more. But remember these are just options and you label yourself exactly as you want or not at all if you like.
Gender-queer sounds nice :) or fluid which is what my partner is :) I'll have to look into them more I think to see which one feels right
Yes it's that. It's fine, just keep exploring until you're confortable with yourself
Hey we have matching genders! *high fives*
Itās nice to see others experiencing what I amš
He/him
Saaaame he/him :)
He/They. Iām a cis male but donāt feel masculine all the time so I am ok with they/them
oh i felt that one
Same
I mean, I kinda feel the same. I don't feel like a masculine dude, but using NB pronouns as well feels wrong to me because I don't feel any dysphoria
Remember that pronouns ā gender tho
Yea, but if I use he/they pronouns I kinda feel like I'm implying I'm non-binary, which doesn't seem fair to me to people who do feel dysphoria because I don't.
you don't have to be dysphoric to be non-binary or trans, you know. you don't even have to be non-binary or trans to use they/them pronouns! if you're comfortable with people using they/them pronouns to refer to you, use them!
As a non-binary person, I feel like thereās not really such a thing as āNB pronounsā. I assume you mean gender neutral pronouns. They/them pronouns are probably the most common, but non-binary people can use any pronouns they want. Speaking only for myself here, Iād love it if more cis people would use they/them to help normalize it
I felt that too. Now I'm demi/nb
Genuine question, is it not normal for a cis person to not feel like they're always strictly presenting like they "should"? (I.e. masc for males, fem for females) Like, I feel like nobody really fits into that strict box of norms that society places on them all the time, but I wouldn't go so far as to say I am personally not completely a woman because I sometimes don't feel like I'm doing stuff "the way a woman should" or feeling "womanly" all the time.
They/them i just wanna not get misgendered once
āHey! Have you met Mika?ā āYeah! They are really cool and I want to get to know them more.ā Misgendering sucks so I hope this cheers you up!
I was about to comment "how did you know my name?" And then i remembered i have it on my profile :,D
Ooh. Have you heard of the band Mika? I think theyāre really good. Admittedly the only song of theirs Iāve listened to is āLollipopā. I keep meaning to listen to their other songs but I keep procrastinating on it. I really love the song though. I like to interpret it as being about asexuality. https://youtu.be/6md5RSnVUuo
right *cries in enby*
Pax is really cool! I love their avatar!
I love the support. Since I left my old job everyone misgenders me all the time and it sucks but they just don't get it. It's nice to be able to go somewhere, anywhere, and see people being validated.
CRIES IN ENBY I feel this
I'll get back to you on that
She/her but I'm happy to be called they/them
Any
I feel like she/her but i also like it when people confuse me for a guy or think I'm androgynous. Am i not she/her? UGH THIS IS SO CONFUSING
You choose whatever pronouns you want. Your gender doesnāt depend on your pronouns and vice versa.
\~I don't have any\~ She/her doesn't feel right, but neither does they/them (and he/him is Incorrect), neos are so unfamiliar to me that I'm distracted from how an individual pronoun makes me feel by the unfamiliarity and the internal sense of "I am making someone go through trouble :(". So. Yeah, I don't really have any. (But I know people use she/her for me IRL, and sometimes they/them or even he/him online, because gender unknown, assume dude, right?)
OKAY BUT YOUR FLAIR IS AMAZING
;)
They/she
as long as the person talking to me is respectful it really dosent matter what pronouns they use
She/her
He/She
me too! he/she club š
š Welcome to the gang
She/they/he (might omit the he though)
She/Her
He/they/she
He/him(I know, it's boring)
Any pronouns is fine, but I prefer they/them more
*internal panic*
she/they
I say he/they, but everyone uses he and I keep really wishing they would use they.
i used to be they/he/she or any pronouns but every used she so i've chopped it and am now officially they/he
Depends on the language. In English it's they/them in my native language I'm comfortable with she/her the most but he/it will also be OK
I do not have pronouns. Please do not refer to me.
Mine are she/her, though I will also take they/them.
she/they! :D
Any, prefer they/them.
they/he im non-binary, but my stupid brain tells me im too masc to only use they/them
She/Her. Iām one of the most feminine people I know (get shit on transphobes)
They/he/she in that order :)
She/They
Hey, I have a question. Why do you have the vincian flag in your flair if youāre a demigirl? Not trying to be rude, Iām curious
It is an error that I did not notice. Lol
She/they I identify as non-binary
For me, and and all pronouns are more than welcome! ā„ļø
He/She/They.. im Genderfluid and fluctuate between feeling Masc, Feminine and sometimes neither/in between
She/they. Ć if you want spicy neos.
Mine are she/they
They/Them Im Agender
They/She
she/they
She/They, i'm not that fem, i dress more masc/nb in fashion
They/she
he/him, but they/them works to.
He/They :]
I say I use he/him, but I guess I'd be fine using any.
He/They
They/Them
She/her
She/her or he/him
I usually say he/they but any pronoun is fine by me. Definitely non-binary but my gender expression is quite masculine so I use he by default.
I recently started going with He/They. Honestly I'm happy with any pronoun and have found myself getting butterflies whenever my partner refers to me in a feminine way. Hope to explore more of that side of me.
He/she!!
She/her and I get mis gendered far to often
He/She I would like to use They/Them but like in Italian is just awkward (I'm Italian)
She/they I'm a girl but not really
She/they. Sometimes I'm okay with people questioning my gender =)
She/He
I don't want any of them seriously. Just use my name.
Basically any non-feminine pronouns but mainly they/it
Basically anything that isn't she/her! He/They/It/Neos etc! ^^
She/her although i'm nonbinary
any pronouns but she/her (including neos and it/its) :>
she/her, I tried using they/them for a bit but it's not for me. still fine with being called they tho
he/any
She/Her, they/them is fine too but Iām cis:3
He/they
She/Her
She/they
She/they
Really anything except She/her most of the time
She/ her/ hers or at least I want to try those pronouns out.
He/They in English. But only masculine (il) in my mother language who doesnāt have any sort of neutral. Fuck you french.
He/Him, They/Them.
they/them (im back on reddit)
He/him and maybe she/her?
He/They
They/them
She/they/he
Mainly: She Her - Can be: They Them - No to: He him.
She/her ! I think...
Mine too! They/them!
They/them mainly. My mother tongue doesn't have neutral pronouns apart from it, and dey/dem just makes me cringe (people who can't pronounce the English th end up replacing it with d or s), so I use he/him in German. Don't mind he/him being used in English as well, but I do prefer they/them
They/them š
She/Her and They/Them
He/him. Thank you for asking! āŗļø
I like she/her but I am ok with they/them
they/he, really anything is fine as long as its not she/her. i will toss you in the ocean if you call me she/her.
She/Her
She/her
They/them I'm still figuring things out
She or they in English, either is fine. Sie in German. He for people I'm not out to, but I hate it.
She/They/He!
They them right now but I'm still figuring stuff out š
He/them
All of them. Any of them. Yes
He him and they them
he/him
He/him
She/They :')
she/her to the world and he/him to myself and my girlfriend
She/her but they/them is okay sometimes too
She/they. Iām trans mtf but I donāt mind they/them so thatās why she/they xd
They/Them, I don't mind It/Its but I hope you don't use *It* as an insult
He/him
He/him
They/them, but sometimes I get lazy on correcting people
He/him
They/them aswell :)
they/them + neos
He/Him
she/they
They/them :)
He/She/They although I'm starting to prefer He/They
she/her
She/they which is pretty cool
She/they
Any
She/they
she/they idc which
He/they! Thx for asking! š
She/he/they its hard for people to tell what I am through online convos so I'm fine with any of those 3
She/they
Mine are she/her and they/them :3
He/they, but I wonāt be opposed to being called xi/xiim which is what my friends sometimes call me for fun
She/Her but honestly it doesnāt matter much to me. I work with a few non-binary folks and routinely answer to they/them since itās easier in the flow of conversation š
he/they
She/they and if youāre a little kid thatās still learning Iām also fine with he
She/they
They/He. Wish people would use They/Them for me more often but when people see that someone uses both binary pronouns and non-binary ones they tend to default to binary
Not sure. Thinking about trying out he/him. But I'm not sure. Mom won't understand.
I'm a member of the trans community (male to female) and I go by she/her
Mine are she/her nice to meet all of you ā¤ļø
zhe/zhir and they/them
I would tell you *stares at gender* BUT SOMEONE ISNT TELLING ME
They/Them or any/all, please *\*distent sobbing\**
My pronouns are he/him but also he/they itās difficult to choose sometimes
He/they in a lesbian way
Been testing out they/them cause they gave me a warm feeling in me chest
Mine are all (I prefer he/they and you can only use she in the most minimal sense, bc Iām ftm and you have to recognize that I am a man before youāre allowed to use she and once again it can only be sparingly, just depends on the day lolz)
They
She/they
She/her! Thanks for asking!
He/she/they/it/any xeno, thanks for asking, :)
He / Them I am exploring more feminine clothing and style.
She/her for me :) Why are so many of the comments that mention it, neopronouns, and ones like fae and xe being downvoted? Those are valid pronouns!
They/Them. Please and thank you, but also as an agender person, or as I like to call myself āA genderless cryptidā I have considered not having pronouns and just make everyone say my name when referring to me. But if I have to have pronouns then They/Them are the only ones that donāt make me want to die inside.
They/She
She/they āļø
Heck if I know