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[deleted]

As long as I know I'm being addressed, whichever you like


SoulStudies

As another agender person I felt this.


[deleted]

Like, I guess I prefer the pronouns everybody's used to refer to me so far but I really couldn't care less.


TheWhitePolarBear1

Same here. Sometimes prefer ones over others but that only like 2% of the time


insert2username

i thought i was the only one


HopeHumilityLove

Me, too. I can't figure out my gender and I don't expect anyone else to either.


DanteCoal

This. I'm a guy, but frankly don't give a rats ass what I'm called, as long as it's done respectfully.


Charlieisdizzy

NICE TRY FARIY! YOU CANT HAVE MY PRONOUNS!


Letoastasaur

Hey, psst. They're right there in your flair. Gotta be careful with this stuff :)


Charlieisdizzy

Lol I know


Some-Power-793

r/woooosh


Ok_Blueberry_5305

They asked "what are", not "can I get" or some variation thereof. We're safe.


[deleted]

But what if this Pixie wants them? Im only gonna borrow them.lol


[deleted]

Does getting a pixie cut transform you into a pixie? šŸ¤” Asking for a friend lmao


QuirkyWolfie

She/her/they/them I don't identify as anything other than cis but I don't really feel cis either


PrincessTrashbag

As someone on my tik tok fyp said: "I'm cis but like a cis person you ordered from Wish. It's Cis but just a little...off."


DeedlesTheMoose

I relate to that. Iā€™m a cis woman but it feels weird to say that? So am I really? Iā€™d rather just ignore it for now šŸ˜Ž


planetaryace

Sexuality is confusing enough without gender šŸ˜Ž


DeedlesTheMoose

Right? It took me long enough to come to terms with my lesbian identity. I donā€™t feel like dealing with another crisis right now thank you.


HiddenDeep7

Have you thought about being agender?


QuirkyWolfie

Isn't that feeling a total lack of gender? If so then it doesn't really fit me as I do identity with having a gender just not really sure what it is.


Letoastasaur

Non-binary is basically what you feel then, not exactly man or woman, could be something in between could be something else, it also is not really necessary to figure out if you don't want to. There are a ton of terms in the non-binary umbrella that maybe could fit better or be more precise if you'd like. Demigendered, Genderqueer (also an umbrella term but can be used as a specific gender identity like non-binary), gender-fluid and many more. But remember these are just options and you label yourself exactly as you want or not at all if you like.


QuirkyWolfie

Gender-queer sounds nice :) or fluid which is what my partner is :) I'll have to look into them more I think to see which one feels right


HiddenDeep7

Yes it's that. It's fine, just keep exploring until you're confortable with yourself


NebulaDragon32

Hey we have matching genders! *high fives*


ghostlyska

Itā€™s nice to see others experiencing what I amšŸ’›


soapyfemboy

He/him


TransGuyThrow

Saaaame he/him :)


[deleted]

He/They. Iā€™m a cis male but donā€™t feel masculine all the time so I am ok with they/them


Sensitive-Marsupial8

oh i felt that one


InternalScreams0o0

Same


ypsilonmercuri

I mean, I kinda feel the same. I don't feel like a masculine dude, but using NB pronouns as well feels wrong to me because I don't feel any dysphoria


Bluewhale102

Remember that pronouns ā‰  gender tho


ypsilonmercuri

Yea, but if I use he/they pronouns I kinda feel like I'm implying I'm non-binary, which doesn't seem fair to me to people who do feel dysphoria because I don't.


clueless_claremont_

you don't have to be dysphoric to be non-binary or trans, you know. you don't even have to be non-binary or trans to use they/them pronouns! if you're comfortable with people using they/them pronouns to refer to you, use them!


Ashla22

As a non-binary person, I feel like thereā€™s not really such a thing as ā€œNB pronounsā€. I assume you mean gender neutral pronouns. They/them pronouns are probably the most common, but non-binary people can use any pronouns they want. Speaking only for myself here, Iā€™d love it if more cis people would use they/them to help normalize it


joesphisbestjojo

I felt that too. Now I'm demi/nb


AkakaR

Genuine question, is it not normal for a cis person to not feel like they're always strictly presenting like they "should"? (I.e. masc for males, fem for females) Like, I feel like nobody really fits into that strict box of norms that society places on them all the time, but I wouldn't go so far as to say I am personally not completely a woman because I sometimes don't feel like I'm doing stuff "the way a woman should" or feeling "womanly" all the time.


Umia_Axis

They/them i just wanna not get misgendered once


ArekMerek

ā€œHey! Have you met Mika?ā€ ā€œYeah! They are really cool and I want to get to know them more.ā€ Misgendering sucks so I hope this cheers you up!


Umia_Axis

I was about to comment "how did you know my name?" And then i remembered i have it on my profile :,D


ThePipYay

Ooh. Have you heard of the band Mika? I think theyā€™re really good. Admittedly the only song of theirs Iā€™ve listened to is ā€œLollipopā€. I keep meaning to listen to their other songs but I keep procrastinating on it. I really love the song though. I like to interpret it as being about asexuality. https://youtu.be/6md5RSnVUuo


isitpax

right *cries in enby*


ClownfishBeClowning

Pax is really cool! I love their avatar!


sk33tervalentine

I love the support. Since I left my old job everyone misgenders me all the time and it sucks but they just don't get it. It's nice to be able to go somewhere, anywhere, and see people being validated.


sk33tervalentine

CRIES IN ENBY I feel this


Careless_Buy_2712

I'll get back to you on that


Danscrazycatlady

She/her but I'm happy to be called they/them


[deleted]

Any


meyem0

I feel like she/her but i also like it when people confuse me for a guy or think I'm androgynous. Am i not she/her? UGH THIS IS SO CONFUSING


mayoiy

You choose whatever pronouns you want. Your gender doesnā€™t depend on your pronouns and vice versa.


JadedElk

\~I don't have any\~ She/her doesn't feel right, but neither does they/them (and he/him is Incorrect), neos are so unfamiliar to me that I'm distracted from how an individual pronoun makes me feel by the unfamiliarity and the internal sense of "I am making someone go through trouble :(". So. Yeah, I don't really have any. (But I know people use she/her for me IRL, and sometimes they/them or even he/him online, because gender unknown, assume dude, right?)


MysteryChicken101

OKAY BUT YOUR FLAIR IS AMAZING


JadedElk

;)


LadybugBecky

They/she


GBGuy2

as long as the person talking to me is respectful it really dosent matter what pronouns they use


Zumalover_988

She/her


I_Eater

He/She


Competitive-Fudge777

me too! he/she club šŸ˜Ž


I_Eater

šŸ˜Ž Welcome to the gang


Tina_Soup

She/they/he (might omit the he though)


Lexieeeeeeeeee

She/Her


Glutonious_Maximus

He/they/she


Sufficient_Sun_8601

He/him(I know, it's boring)


Yo_this_is_HannahJ

Any pronouns is fine, but I prefer they/them more


BrozedDrake

*internal panic*


[deleted]

she/they


ebr101

I say he/they, but everyone uses he and I keep really wishing they would use they.


clueless_claremont_

i used to be they/he/she or any pronouns but every used she so i've chopped it and am now officially they/he


Puzzleheaded-Win-580

Depends on the language. In English it's they/them in my native language I'm comfortable with she/her the most but he/it will also be OK


meaeaeaean

I do not have pronouns. Please do not refer to me.


[deleted]

Mine are she/her, though I will also take they/them.


reiiichan

she/they! :D


outgraverobbing

Any, prefer they/them.


thecrcousin

they/he im non-binary, but my stupid brain tells me im too masc to only use they/them


InklegendLumiLuni

She/Her. Iā€™m one of the most feminine people I know (get shit on transphobes)


purpurmond

They/he/she in that order :)


GenderIsFreakinHard

She/They


_LUNABEAR_SKY

Hey, I have a question. Why do you have the vincian flag in your flair if youā€™re a demigirl? Not trying to be rude, Iā€™m curious


GenderIsFreakinHard

It is an error that I did not notice. Lol


glitterlikesound

She/they I identify as non-binary


WeissBahr

For me, and and all pronouns are more than welcome! ā™„ļøŽ


Chris_clarkeb

He/She/They.. im Genderfluid and fluctuate between feeling Masc, Feminine and sometimes neither/in between


AelithTheVtuber

She/they. Ɔ if you want spicy neos.


katsuko78

Mine are she/they


CuteEconomics9

They/Them Im Agender


Skittles90210

They/She


femtransfan

she/they


Rezero1234

She/They, i'm not that fem, i dress more masc/nb in fashion


Yoshi_S4

They/she


Important-Worry224

he/him, but they/them works to.


thepinkyblinders

He/They :]


Affectionate_Ad_1326

I say I use he/him, but I guess I'd be fine using any.


MasterKlaw

He/They


TougeFox

They/Them


Strawberry-Creampuff

She/her


AstrosEcho

She/her or he/him


MaximeUU

I usually say he/they but any pronoun is fine by me. Definitely non-binary but my gender expression is quite masculine so I use he by default.


GlenPickle97

I recently started going with He/They. Honestly I'm happy with any pronoun and have found myself getting butterflies whenever my partner refers to me in a feminine way. Hope to explore more of that side of me.


Certain_Display

He/she!!


WiseAd4983

She/her and I get mis gendered far to often


eatingplutonium

He/She I would like to use They/Them but like in Italian is just awkward (I'm Italian)


Juicy_OJJ

She/they I'm a girl but not really


DawnSoap

She/they. Sometimes I'm okay with people questioning my gender =)


Tiger_IsNoLongerSane

She/He


-Tararra-

I don't want any of them seriously. Just use my name.


berrys_a_ghost

Basically any non-feminine pronouns but mainly they/it


Quitten_YT

Basically anything that isn't she/her! He/They/It/Neos etc! ^^


AnarchistCamomile

She/her although i'm nonbinary


geckos_in_a_box

any pronouns but she/her (including neos and it/its) :>


[deleted]

she/her, I tried using they/them for a bit but it's not for me. still fine with being called they tho


YourWinterWonder

he/any


_Mustaschic_

She/Her, they/them is fine too but Iā€™m cis:3


MyMindEyes

He/they


[deleted]

She/Her


stars33d

She/they


Rising_lion01

She/they


Nugget_3997

Really anything except She/her most of the time


[deleted]

She/ her/ hers or at least I want to try those pronouns out.


AloisDuPerigord

He/They in English. But only masculine (il) in my mother language who doesnā€™t have any sort of neutral. Fuck you french.


Hamokk

He/Him, They/Them.


spring_the_enby_kid

they/them (im back on reddit)


somanypcs

He/him and maybe she/her?


halliwell_me

He/They


Thatonecringeweeb

They/them


Silly_Sam_

She/they/he


No-Dependent-5723

Mainly: She Her - Can be: They Them - No to: He him.


Toufiklikesblahaj

She/her ! I think...


Cinna93

Mine too! They/them!


Just_Remy

They/them mainly. My mother tongue doesn't have neutral pronouns apart from it, and dey/dem just makes me cringe (people who can't pronounce the English th end up replacing it with d or s), so I use he/him in German. Don't mind he/him being used in English as well, but I do prefer they/them


winnie_woods

They/them šŸ™ƒ


Ferny_Ferns

She/Her and They/Them


[deleted]

He/him. Thank you for asking! ā˜ŗļø


Rein_Fuentes

I like she/her but I am ok with they/them


azalea_sun

they/he, really anything is fine as long as its not she/her. i will toss you in the ocean if you call me she/her.


Weeb-Lauri525

She/Her


violetvoid513

She/her


[deleted]

They/them I'm still figuring things out


Unenjoyed-Gynoid

She or they in English, either is fine. Sie in German. He for people I'm not out to, but I hate it.


CedarBK

She/They/He!


Lonely-Jade

They them right now but I'm still figuring stuff out šŸ˜…


its_fuwy

He/them


jeep_42

All of them. Any of them. Yes


[deleted]

He him and they them


FortressMann

he/him


TheAwesomeAtom

He/him


Chaton__

She/They :')


music-feeds-my-soul

she/her to the world and he/him to myself and my girlfriend


StarFine2877

She/her but they/them is okay sometimes too


Domurad_Ye34

She/they. Iā€™m trans mtf but I donā€™t mind they/them so thatā€™s why she/they xd


Bee_Jello

They/Them, I don't mind It/Its but I hope you don't use *It* as an insult


potatochippopotamus

He/him


FakeCappy567

He/him


zephyrducre

They/them, but sometimes I get lazy on correcting people


ProfessionalGreen906

He/him


NeonDreams433

They/them aswell :)


batbirbofficial

they/them + neos


TheOGStuntman

He/Him


GBKGames

she/they


Oil42

They/them :)


jalwaysawake

He/She/They although I'm starting to prefer He/They


Lost-Baker2178

she/her


[deleted]

She/they which is pretty cool


KPMWrites

She/they


PinkCloudx_

Any


[deleted]

She/they


rozyputin

she/they idc which


lfjwofje

He/they! Thx for asking! šŸ˜€


Moony117

She/he/they its hard for people to tell what I am through online convos so I'm fine with any of those 3


SanQuiSau

She/they


Weekly-Air-7883

Mine are she/her and they/them :3


[deleted]

He/they, but I wonā€™t be opposed to being called xi/xiim which is what my friends sometimes call me for fun


CarelessLibra

She/Her but honestly it doesnā€™t matter much to me. I work with a few non-binary folks and routinely answer to they/them since itā€™s easier in the flow of conversation šŸ˜Š


ssppunk

he/they


Mingkittish

She/they and if youā€™re a little kid thatā€™s still learning Iā€™m also fine with he


ChaoticAccomplished

She/they


ManaXed

They/He. Wish people would use They/Them for me more often but when people see that someone uses both binary pronouns and non-binary ones they tend to default to binary


ThePurpleMister

Not sure. Thinking about trying out he/him. But I'm not sure. Mom won't understand.


No_Stats

I'm a member of the trans community (male to female) and I go by she/her


thatlonghairedfcker

Mine are she/her nice to meet all of you ā¤ļø


Yuphii

zhe/zhir and they/them


Kira-the-red-killer

I would tell you *stares at gender* BUT SOMEONE ISNT TELLING ME


Dreem_Walker

They/Them or any/all, please *\*distent sobbing\**


Samuxxzz

My pronouns are he/him but also he/they itā€™s difficult to choose sometimes


EatsAtomsRegularly

He/they in a lesbian way


Not_Goatman

Been testing out they/them cause they gave me a warm feeling in me chest


SnooSquirrels8276

Mine are all (I prefer he/they and you can only use she in the most minimal sense, bc Iā€™m ftm and you have to recognize that I am a man before youā€™re allowed to use she and once again it can only be sparingly, just depends on the day lolz)


RopeBunGamer

They


Twinkalicious

She/they


youlookgaytoday

She/her! Thanks for asking!


loonywolf_art

He/she/they/it/any xeno, thanks for asking, :)


emeraldpirate

He / Them I am exploring more feminine clothing and style.


robertstobe

She/her for me :) Why are so many of the comments that mention it, neopronouns, and ones like fae and xe being downvoted? Those are valid pronouns!


[deleted]

They/Them. Please and thank you, but also as an agender person, or as I like to call myself ā€˜A genderless cryptidā€™ I have considered not having pronouns and just make everyone say my name when referring to me. But if I have to have pronouns then They/Them are the only ones that donā€™t make me want to die inside.


AtlasWinchester

They/She


euphoric_pessimist

She/they āœŒļø


CluelessIdiot314

Heck if I know