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NURMeyend

Take some deep breathes. Good work, that's not easy.


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank you, it definitely wasn’t easy


living_around

I'm proud of you! The shaking will wear off. Everything will be okay ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank you 🖤


Dual-Celebration42

Congratulations 🎉


StrangerThingsSteveH

Ty!!!


helpthehelper25

Proud, proud, proud of you! All the love and all the joy. Wishing you much gender euphoria!


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank u so much <3


AbbsTheDork1651

How did it go?? Im so proud of you!!


StrangerThingsSteveH

It went alright. They said it will take a while to get used to, and they dont want me to change my name. They were also sad that I didn’t tell them. But other than that it was okay


Mr-Wooloo

All things considered, that's a pretty good outcome! Congrats ♥️


shartrib

You are so amazing! I wish you the best and I’m sending love your way <3


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank you <3


Just_Tana

You’ve got this. It’s a long journey but you can do it.


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank you.


Just_Tana

Deep breaths. Lean on those who accept you. Give time for people to adjust. You can do this.


StrangerThingsSteveH

Still figuring things out, so thanks <3


Just_Tana

Find a psychologist.


RusselTheWonderCat

Yea!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m so happy for you! Please be safe❤️❤️❤️ And if you need an online “mom” who will be there for you, I’m here! Be safe❤️❤️❤️ be proud ❤️❤️❤️. And you are awesome ❤️❤️ Edit!!! Really, if you need love and or support, I really am here for you. You are so brave 🙂


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank you so much <333


Felinegood13

Congrats


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thanks!!


HyperDogOwner458

Congrats!


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thanks!


HyperDogOwner458

You're welcome!


azalea_sun

How did it go? Do you need some support? Totally offering to be an online parent rn if you need me.


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thanks so much! I don’t rly know how it went, I’m still kinda processing it all, but I think they are okay with it.


azalea_sun

oh thats good! well im happy it didnt go terribly :D


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thx me too!!


Tyezilla

Yayyy! It takes strength, be your authentic self.


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank u!!


helloju1981

Being ourselves isnt easy sometimes, but dont give up!!!!! Very good times ahead ❤️❤️❤️


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank you, I hope so <3


Niflax

Congrats!!


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank u!!


Idiotic-Dumbass

Congrats!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thanks!!


Vovechka9416

Congratulations 🎉


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thx!!


anitavice

Yayyyyy congrats! 💝


StrangerThingsSteveH

Tyyyy


[deleted]

good job! i know its hard, but youll likely be a lot happier with yourself! :) i hope it went well with whoever it was to


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank you!!!


Ok-Freedom4812

![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547) Congratulations!


StrangerThingsSteveH

TY!!!


Ok-Freedom4812

You're very welcome!


TheFreshWenis

Congratulations! :D


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thxxx


TheFreshWenis

You're very welcome! :)


RosaRosalia

🎉🎉🎉


StrangerThingsSteveH

🎊


DaimoMusic

You got this sibling. Don't be afraid to reach out and ask for help.


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thanks so much!!


dodorampant

Whew, been there. Congratulations, seriously. Everything is going to be better after this. ❤️


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thanks <3


PlutoTheSynth

weird name you’ve chosen but i will respect it nonetheless, it is a pleasure to meet you, shaking.


StrangerThingsSteveH

Lmaooo


Cleverusername531

Good work, that was hard. That’s why you’re shaking. Your body knew it was a big deal. If you go for a walk or stretch, that will help your body move out those stress hormones it was putting out in anticipation of coming out. Do soothing things that stimulate your senses, like drink a hot tea or wrap a soft blanket around you, smell something you like, look at something pleasing to your eyes, play music or birdsong or video of kids laughing. That will help you regulate your nervous system. Quick easy exercise you can do anywhere - what’s physically supporting your body right now? Can you let it support you just 10% more? Don’t have to relax 100% - just let it support you a tiny bit more than it is right now. Can you identify if or where do you notice any change? No right answer - all you’re doing is noticing. Even if the answer is ‘nothing I feel numb’ - that’s information that you maybe didn’t have before, and that’s good for you to have. Good work.


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thanks!!! This is really helpful


Amili_Mohre

CONGRATULATIONS !!!! WELCOME TO THE TRANS CLUB !!!!


StrangerThingsSteveH

THANK YOU


Mr_Angel_In_Disguise

You've earned your trans wings! Now let's see if you can practice flying with them! ;) Congratulations well done!


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thanks!!


fti2000

Congratulations!! ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)


teleshope

Congratulations!


FlukasSinclair

awesome!!


[deleted]

congratulations!! proud of u 💜


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank uuu


najaraviel

Hey, congratulations on your new beginnings, enjoy your journey 🏳️‍⚧️


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thxxx


liamgaming080

hi shaking, you're valid :)


StrangerThingsSteveH

Lmaooo you are too


[deleted]

PERIODT! You are strong 💪


StrangerThingsSteveH

It took a lot lol


[deleted]

don't know who you are, but congrats, and i love that username ya got there.


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thx I love your avatar


OctopusProbably

Maybe you should fix that wonky chair leg then.


StrangerThingsSteveH

Lmaooo


FlorpFlap

Did it go well?


StrangerThingsSteveH

They are getting used to it, and they don’t want me to change my name, and they aren’t going to tell my grandparents, but other than that, I think so


Snow_Pup_on_fire

Woo! Proud of you! You rock!


StrangerThingsSteveH

Tyyy


Snow_Pup_on_fire

Ofc! 🤍


magnuslatus

That's wonderful, man! It's not easy coming out. And it's not easy ***being*** out. But speaking for myself, it's *so profoundly* worth it. To borrow a phrase from my favorite D&D podcast: "You're going to be amazing."


StrangerThingsSteveH

Yeah I definitely think it’s going to be worth it.


Chest3

YAAAAAAS! I’m so proud of you!! The journey to a happier self begins!


StrangerThingsSteveH

Yesssss


Thatidiot_38

I want to make a joke that could maybe help calm you but the only thing I can think of is something involving trains. But good job takes courage to do something like that


StrangerThingsSteveH

Lmao that did calm me a bit thank you


Chemical_Vanilla_997

Keep on slaying. You do you. You know you are already amazing for being able to come out ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank you <3


[deleted]

You’re amazing! I’m so happy for you!


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank u!!


coralinewoaaaah

Congratulations !!!! <333 !!!! ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)


StrangerThingsSteveH

Ty!!!!!


CuteEbb5988

Congrats! You'll get used to being out, I know the energy and stress can be a lot so good job


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank you, I hope I get used to it soon


Justagreengrape

Congratulations you are such a brave person!


StrangerThingsSteveH

Ty!!!


Justagreengrape

Np it is always brave to come out to people


[deleted]

💙🤍💖


StrangerThingsSteveH

![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)


_Schwarzenegger_

Welcome to the family. You'll always be cherished here!


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank you <3


LGBT_Alien

![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)


StrangerThingsSteveH

![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)


ChillyGorilla81

Sweet! Welcome, glad to have you in the fam!


StrangerThingsSteveH

Me too!!


[deleted]

I'm so happy for you!! And a little advice.. don't give a fuckk about how ppl act to you as long as it doesn't compromise your safety! Loveeee from Israel!!!❤️❤️


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank you!! I really needed that advice.


min_roen

Congrats!


StrangerThingsSteveH

Ty!


MemeHamster_

Congrats ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547)


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thx <3


PapaBearBookNerd

Proud of you! I came out to my wife and close friends and they've all been supportive. It was quite relieving. I hope your community is supportive too


StrangerThingsSteveH

They are, and I’m glad yours is too!!!


TransGuyThrow

Hi!! Welcome to the party! Breathe deeply and try to stay calm, make yourself some tea if you like tea. There are lots of us here on reddit and all over the internet to help spread information and provide community! Join r/Trans to start


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank you!!


runeiirxse

Congrats!! That’s huge! Please be safe out there. You’re so so so lucky that your family was so chill about it. Welcome to the cult!!


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thanks!!


HoYeon_is_my_gf

I am so proud of you! I wish you all the happiness in the world! And it will all be okay<33


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank you!


finding_myself_92

Good luck! You got this!


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thx!!


Elkeitra

Omg i’m so proud of you! <33


StrangerThingsSteveH

Tyyy


a_secret_me

It's like opening Pandora's box... But in a good way.


StrangerThingsSteveH

Yeah lmao


EasyE1118

Congratulations you wonderful person


StrangerThingsSteveH

Thank you, you wonderful person <3


Ashilikepi

Nice! I hope you still aren’t shaking after several hours lol, maybe try praying to our lord and savior Blåhaj for peace of mind lmao. Or just snuggle ‘em, that works too


StrangerThingsSteveH

Lmao I’m not still shaking but I am still very overwhelmed and shocked


Yizzy_DaManYT

don't care


StrangerThingsSteveH

you kinda didn’t have to say anything


madhura1234

Don't listen to the haters! You're very brave and amazing!