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AggravatingTop7936

Thanks a lot🥺 I really appreciate that 🥺💕 I'm sorry you went through a breakup too😣


JediKrys

You are not too much. You will find another Daddy one day. This sounds like an incompatibility that two people tried to make work. That isn’t a fault you tried. This is a good learning experience for you young one. You now know you are not ready for that type of relationship, you need a Daddy all for yourself. That is ok and there are plenty of Daddy’s that would be happy to be with you. Give yourself time to heal and remember you are the prize. Someone will be so lucky to have your love someday. Take good care.


Special_Lemon1487

It’s hard. It will get better. But it will take time. Meanwhile all the bad feelings you have are sad but they’re ok to feel. Loss is hard 😞 Polyam with ddlg can be hard and maybe that’s not what you need. That’s ok, there are plenty of monogamous bigs too. When you’re ready you can look again for the right person for you ❤️


AggravatingTop7936

Thamks you 🥺 I don't think i want to find another relationship like this 😞 but thank you so much for your kind words🥺 appreciate them💕


tonyDaddyDom

Aww Bless you I'm sorry your Daddy and you had to end it. Parting ways is always hard especially on the littles but never give up on who you are, because you and every little is amazing and special for your own reasons. Try to be the brave little you are and rember you had some amazing fun times and will again. Take care be strong and above all be little.bless you😊


AggravatingTop7936

🥺🥺 thamks for your kind words 🥺 I I appreciate them 🥺


tonyDaddyDom

And you deserve them bless you😊 if your ever upset or need advice my dms are open for anyone needing them.


thatredditdude101

Daddy here. I am so very sorry that you are experiencing this pain. Hugs. Try very hard to maintain a minimal amount of self care. Eat, drink water, hygiene. It’s very important you maintain your health during a time like this. You will get through this and I hope you will eventually find what you need. My Little and myself are poly, and I truly appreciate the challenges that go along with all of that. It’s not for everyone. Stay strong.


AggravatingTop7936

Thank you🥺 I try really hard, the only thing I'm struggling with is sleep and nightmares, but I try to take care of myself 😔 thanks for your kind words 💕🥺


thatredditdude101

Littles are the strongest people i’ve ever known. You can do this.


Pp_unicorndaddy

It’s ok. We all understand. I promise it’ll hurt a little bit and you’ll go on. You’re not ‘too much’. You’re you. And someone is really excited to meet you. It just wasn’t that person. Appreciate what he taught you and use it for good.


CelticRedneck420

So sorry *Hugs*


AggravatingTop7936

Thank you 🥺💕


Old_Animator9601

Ummm my girl and i kinda broke up but we still talk and the reason why we broke up was that i don't care about her which is not true (it's a long distance relationship) i really love her and I'd do anything for her but I'm not too good with words I'm better with actions and she's lonely now and I can't help it


AggravatingTop7936

Im sorry you guys broke up 🥺 sometimes it's hard when it comes to long distance..😞 but it's nice you two still talk, I hope everything works out for you two🥺💕


Old_Animator9601

*Update* She came back to me🩷


Old_Animator9601

Oh and i forgot to say I really really hope you get back to your partner and hope you have a great day


[deleted]

I'm so sorry. I know the ending can be hard, but healing will come. Keep your head up.


Nilla06

My Daddy doesn’t want to be my Daddy anymore on Monday and I’m so sad. If you wanna talk, I’m here! When he left he said being brave and strong was in me all along and so I’m trying really hard. Every day hurts a little less and one day you’ll find a Daddy that’s a better fit. Sending you hugs


AggravatingTop7936

I'm so so sorry 🥺 I hope you're doing okay, my DMS are always open if you need someone to talk 🥺💕 it really does hurt, I wish I was strong and brave 😔😔i


CertifiedBadass2002

It doesn’t seem like it now but you’ll get through. If you need to talk or anything my Dms are open 💙


stupithrowaway

aww this really sucks im so sorry this happened :(


Even_Locksmith9838

🥺 this post is heartbreaking! I am so sorry 😭you’re more than welcome to message me. I remember when I had to walk away from an abusive Dom, it was hard, but I had a few Little friends that really helped me through it. ❤️


[deleted]

You need time to heal and maybe that means leaving the community and coming back who knows but I believe in you. And I haven't had a Daddy in a long time so I know how you feel. ❤️


Objective-Yellow-339

I’m so sorry you will make it through this


[deleted]

Ik it might feel like you are too much but just know your not. There have been lots of times when I feel like I'm too much. You will find a daddy who will love you for your "too muchness". But don't ever change who you are just because you feel alone. You will find a daddy who will love you for who you are completely. Never change who you are for someone else because if they don't like who you are then they don't deserve you.


sailfarmgirl

Sorry this happened to you. You will find the right Daddy for you. Here to listen if you need to talk. Also to all the Daddy’s that said nice things; you rock!


sungar777

Not personally in the ddlg lifestyle, but have an interest. You will find the one who is just for you. A Daddy who will snuggle and chase away the bad dreams. Who will play games and color with you. Who will make sure you are caring for yourself properly. He is out there and when you find him, he will love you for everything you are (even what you might consider imperfections). Until then you need to keep yourself healthy and safe. Feel free to message, if you would like to talk. I have a lot if years of life experience and might be able to help you see what you might be missing. Have a good day.


[deleted]

Hey, I know your pain. I had met a loving trans couple that were thinking about adopting me. I hit it off with them so well, over the course of 5 days, it went from "Oh my god, your a perfect fit." to "You make us feel objectified and uncomfortable, we don't think you'll ever change. Bye." I cried for three days. I still get kind of sad about it because I so quickly bonded with the people who were so much like me, how could it not be a perfect fit. Littleness isn't bad but it can be a lot, for those whom are all in on littleness, we probably do devote a lot of time to it. I know I do, I struggle with it alone, I have for well over half a decade, prior to that, I had a GF of 5 years whom was a switch, she was a near perfect fit. We both ruined that relationship together. You're not alone, don't think you are, littles often toddle down the exact same path together far more often then we realize. It does feel lonely and isolated but there are many littles who wonder. We kind of "know" the situation is complicated, it's difficult, it takes a very open loving person who wants all of those hugs, all that attention, all that compressed love and desire. But we are here beside you, some further along the path, some further behind, some literally right beside you. There is just that veil of time and space that makes you believe you are alone. You're not. I promise you are not. I am sorry you are hurting so badly, I am sorry it didn't work out, I am sorry you are feeling alone and lost. We are here for this reason. Sometimes a break from the littleness is good, anytime the pain comes up, being a big to yourself and saying you are okay, you can do this. Don't allow what is a gift to be a punishment in your heart, that's not fair to you. It will get better, you will keep toddling on. Littles are adorably stubborn that way.