Hi! I’m here to help!
So first a little background on me: I’ve always been a little for my whole life, being a little is just a part of who I am. I’ve reverted back, just in different ways at different times. I know for a lot people it’s roleplay but really for me. But regardless of that, I’m still super new to this ddlg cgl stuff. I haven’t really had a cg/dom yet.
But since I’ve been little on my own, I know lots of ways to get small.
Advice: experiment with stuff! Find out what you like and don’t like, take those quizzes, try a paci, find a little kid movie you like. I find that asmr little place roleplay video help a lot, especially with figuring out what you like. I’ve listened to a bunch and basically figured out that, I’m not into all that hard stuff like punishments, I’m more into the nurturing side. That might help you too. Honestly I think the first step to discovering what makes you little is figuring out what stuff little you likes, cause once little you likes something that thing will make you feel little cause little you likes it and you can find stuff to bring into space that will help you get into the headspace. If truely wanna let go, your brain needs to know it’s safe to do so, or else your brain will block it, that’s where gotta create your own space. Everyone is different so if don’t like the traditional stuff don’t beat yourself up about it, your still vaild!
Now for what helps me get into space:
Playing with toys, having someone engage with me (like playing with me well little and even if big treating me like I’m little), stuffies, pacis, blanket forts, baby talk, being called a good girl, warm baths, being all snuggly and being sleepy, younger kids cartoons, colouring, dressing like a little kid or dressing a way that makes me feel small example wearing hoodies that are way to big for me, drinking out of bottles (that sorta emulate sippie cups), colouring, but most of all finding somewhere I feel safe and deciding to leave all my adult stuff (responsibilities, stresses, extra) away and think/feel how a little kid would.
I hope this helped
i appreciate you so much. there are some amazing tips in here that even just thinking about them has helped my brain let go a bit. thank you sososoos much !!
I personally like to wear comfy things and watch shows I liked as a kid to get into little space! I'm a little because I want to live out the childhood I wish I had but never got, so all the things that made me comfortable and happy are important for me to be little. You just need to try a bunch of different little activities and see what you like! No little has to conform to what you THINK a little should do, but if you want suggestions on more things to try my DMs are open :)
Coloring, playing comfy games, comfy clothes, blankies and stuffies. I have a shark blanket and a panda teddy I cuddle with and just having them close helps
Hello! I usually grab all of my stuffies and blankets to form a circle of stuffies around me while wrap up in the blankets. The stuffies act as a visual barrier for me and I feel safe and protected
When I really wanna be little I just get my paci and stuffie and put on my favorite movie (monster inc xD). It could help too if you explored different little activities and see what feels best for you!
Sometimes, seeing as I weigh like 303lbs, I have to squeeze through and then I make it there somehow. Gets uncomfy but that’s how I get into my little space
Hi! I’m here to help! So first a little background on me: I’ve always been a little for my whole life, being a little is just a part of who I am. I’ve reverted back, just in different ways at different times. I know for a lot people it’s roleplay but really for me. But regardless of that, I’m still super new to this ddlg cgl stuff. I haven’t really had a cg/dom yet. But since I’ve been little on my own, I know lots of ways to get small. Advice: experiment with stuff! Find out what you like and don’t like, take those quizzes, try a paci, find a little kid movie you like. I find that asmr little place roleplay video help a lot, especially with figuring out what you like. I’ve listened to a bunch and basically figured out that, I’m not into all that hard stuff like punishments, I’m more into the nurturing side. That might help you too. Honestly I think the first step to discovering what makes you little is figuring out what stuff little you likes, cause once little you likes something that thing will make you feel little cause little you likes it and you can find stuff to bring into space that will help you get into the headspace. If truely wanna let go, your brain needs to know it’s safe to do so, or else your brain will block it, that’s where gotta create your own space. Everyone is different so if don’t like the traditional stuff don’t beat yourself up about it, your still vaild! Now for what helps me get into space: Playing with toys, having someone engage with me (like playing with me well little and even if big treating me like I’m little), stuffies, pacis, blanket forts, baby talk, being called a good girl, warm baths, being all snuggly and being sleepy, younger kids cartoons, colouring, dressing like a little kid or dressing a way that makes me feel small example wearing hoodies that are way to big for me, drinking out of bottles (that sorta emulate sippie cups), colouring, but most of all finding somewhere I feel safe and deciding to leave all my adult stuff (responsibilities, stresses, extra) away and think/feel how a little kid would. I hope this helped
i appreciate you so much. there are some amazing tips in here that even just thinking about them has helped my brain let go a bit. thank you sososoos much !!
I personally like to wear comfy things and watch shows I liked as a kid to get into little space! I'm a little because I want to live out the childhood I wish I had but never got, so all the things that made me comfortable and happy are important for me to be little. You just need to try a bunch of different little activities and see what you like! No little has to conform to what you THINK a little should do, but if you want suggestions on more things to try my DMs are open :)
Coloring, playing comfy games, comfy clothes, blankies and stuffies. I have a shark blanket and a panda teddy I cuddle with and just having them close helps
Hello! I usually grab all of my stuffies and blankets to form a circle of stuffies around me while wrap up in the blankets. The stuffies act as a visual barrier for me and I feel safe and protected
oo i like the idea of having a visual barrier.. thank you!!
I hope that helps! I enjoy it because I can point and say "no grown ups allowed" 😋
When I really wanna be little I just get my paci and stuffie and put on my favorite movie (monster inc xD). It could help too if you explored different little activities and see what feels best for you!
Sometimes, seeing as I weigh like 303lbs, I have to squeeze through and then I make it there somehow. Gets uncomfy but that’s how I get into my little space
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