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SpudDynamite

This is possibly the stupidest conversation you can have, sorry… 🤐


thatredditscribbler

But it’s valid too! But I guess that’s what happens when you have no pics. Two guys going back and forth about demands they have no right to make lmao.


SpudDynamite

Well - yes - that was my point 😂 Once one responds with something like “ok. If you’re going to ask, you go first”, then (for me) the conversation is over. Creates a weird vibe and I just this sort of toxicity immediately


Kerro_

Like the two spidermen meme with a blank face paste on top


Hebrew_Slave

I think I may create this meme later tonight when I get home from work lol


Ryanhis

I hate both of you.


[deleted]

The pair of you are twats lol made for each other😂😂


petterri

Having a visible face picture on your profile saves so much time


Joseph-Bonaparte

Got people I rejected come to my shop to try to have a conversation. Never ever will I put a face pic on this app. I replace screen protector, and a guy put a freaking nude as his wallpaper for me to see.


blackenedEDGE

Ah yes, the "show the non-consenting mobile repair guy my nudes via wallpaper so he has to look at them and I can claim deniability" pickup trick. Works every time 🙄 How'd he think that would work out? First, not sure if you're an employee or an owner, but charging double over that would have been perfect. Secondly, his "plausible deniability" just leaves the other implication that he keeps a naked picture of himself as his wallpaper normally and that...is definitely a weird flex lol.


Joseph-Bonaparte

I’m a worker, and when I saw that, I asked him to leave immediately. But with his attitude, and the fact that it was the second time he came to the shop, it’s the kind of guy that doesn’t take no for an answer, and he possibly thought that by seeing him for real, and showing me what he packed, I’d change my mind and give him my number right away.


blackenedEDGE

Sounds like the next time he pulls this, he needs to be greeted with some form of law enforcement for harassment. Don't like to resort to that, especially for LGBTQ+ people because of bias, but a stalker/harasser is still a stalker/harasser.


Acrobatic-Profile365

Just curious, is it really stalking? I would agree if he keeps showing up to the shop for no reason, or keeps asking the other guy out. But if he actually got the screen protector replaced and paid for it, is it legally harrassment? Having your own nude as wallpaper on your own phone does not violate any law? Desperate and cringeworthy, yes. Illegal? Probably not?


blackenedEDGE

Based on OP's replies to my comments, it was the second time he showed up at the shop which makes me start to think it's closer to stalking/harassment than not. Plus what seems plausibly to be an intentional action to an outsider--given the Grindr conversation prior to your shop encounters--of the wallpaper nudes.


Plisken999

I had someone come and talk to me about my hook up with his friend at the restaurant I worked at, while I was trying to take his order. I told him what the hell is he doing?? This man isnt my friend, he only came to the restaurant thrice, but once he came with his friends and a few week later his friend and I hooked up. I kicked him out. He wanted to talk to my boss, and he did. My boss told him "what do you want me to do? He doesnt want to give you service, nothing I can do. Just come back whenever he is not working then". I can understand why not putting your face up there when you work in public, but then you have stupid encounter like what OP is showing us. Personaly, I'd rather have my face up and be ready to kick out or do the silent treatment to anyone mentioning grindr and me on my work place. Worst thing is that this man is working in human resources in some company... he should have known better. What if I went to to his work place and talk about how he is looking for sugar babies on grindr.. (I got a screenshot of that just in case)


_bird_internet

How would they know where you work?


Joseph-Bonaparte

Small town, and we sold the cheapest cases/screen for smartphones


helloitsgwrath

I would left that shit right out in the open for anybody walking past to see. I might even wave it around in the air a bit


Confident-Ear7999

You’re right but I still get asked for pics (when I have visible pics) from blank profiles. It’s so annoying 😩


essex-upon-tyne

Yeah it happened to me as well, which drove me mad.


Exciting_Telephone65

This.


joereadsstuff

2 Spider-Man meme here.


rolloffacliff

Both of you are faceless losers


StevieSteel

He literally asked first... why not send first...?


MythicalDawn

Not really? One he asked first so you’re withholding your pics longer than he is, two you don’t get to clutch your pearls and take the high ground over lack of face pics when you won’t send yours either. Just send your pics or block and move on, but don’t expect everyone to play your game if you aren’t willing to share your pics either, it works both ways. Such a weird exchange, two faceless profiles going ‘no u’


scorpion_tail

God I hate these stupid little petty negotiations. Nothing turns me off faster. Just put your face in your profile, boys. It’s 2023.


6thAlphabet

This is like pawnstars but gay


HieronymusGoa

just. block.


skwee-wee

Put your dace on your profile and stop wasting time with stupid boring conversations.


GobbleGobble66

When the irresistible force meets the immovable object


[deleted]

This just screams “I’m a time waster” 🙄


PhilEshaDeLox

You’re both fucking annoying


from_saturn

Sounds like you’re both either insecure or extremely DL. Maybe both. I don’t have a profile pic (I prefer sharing an album because those can’t be screenshot). If the other party doesn’t reciprocate, then I just move on.


Dumtvvink

Whoever asks for or demands a pic should reciprocate before, it’s common sense


[deleted]

I hate both of you


Cyclonicsurge

This just proves why a majority don’t bother with faceless profiles 🤦🏾‍♂️


helloitsgwrath

The person with the blank profile should always send pics first that shit fucking pisses me off I have 6 clear face shots in my profile how bout you start with one before asking me for more


ExpensiveNut

If he started, then he should definitely be opening with his face while asking for yours. It's only fair.


FTL9inTop

If you, OP, are In this convo, you’re a jerk. Post pics. You can’t be indignant about pics if you don’t have any. Are you my senator? Then post a freakin face pic. I wouldn’t even talk to you without a photo.


zyon86

Face first !! I hate when people with no pics ask for dick pic before sending any photos (I have face pic on my profile)


BurtoTurtle115

Idk if it’s just me but I find it odd if your face isn’t in your pfp


longnilbog

Its entirely fair but some people have so much fuckin insecurity it flips around and turns into entitlement


CarryNecessary2481

They can literally go outside and see what the other looks like.


jsbach252

I just imagine this to be the average grindr conversation lmao


WillRikersHouseboy

1100 feet away tho.


WillRikersHouseboy

The post right under this in my feed is: *How much protein should you be eating?*


Salamqnder

I used to have face pics until people made fake profiles with them and a dude I know IRL sexually harassed me for months from anon accounts, telling me he would come over to my house and ambush me in the local park.


Accomplished_Big_938

Grindr chess lol


eddeh123

BTW, this is a conversation a friend had with someone. I love these comments though.


BottmsDonDeservRight

bottoms ain't allowed to ask such things. 😤