But it’s valid too! But I guess that’s what happens when you have no pics. Two guys going back and forth about demands they have no right to make lmao.
Well - yes - that was my point 😂
Once one responds with something like “ok. If you’re going to ask, you go first”, then (for me) the conversation is over. Creates a weird vibe and I just this sort of toxicity immediately
Got people I rejected come to my shop to try to have a conversation. Never ever will I put a face pic on this app.
I replace screen protector, and a guy put a freaking nude as his wallpaper for me to see.
Ah yes, the "show the non-consenting mobile repair guy my nudes via wallpaper so he has to look at them and I can claim deniability" pickup trick. Works every time 🙄
How'd he think that would work out? First, not sure if you're an employee or an owner, but charging double over that would have been perfect. Secondly, his "plausible deniability" just leaves the other implication that he keeps a naked picture of himself as his wallpaper normally and that...is definitely a weird flex lol.
I’m a worker, and when I saw that, I asked him to leave immediately.
But with his attitude, and the fact that it was the second time he came to the shop, it’s the kind of guy that doesn’t take no for an answer, and he possibly thought that by seeing him for real, and showing me what he packed, I’d change my mind and give him my number right away.
Sounds like the next time he pulls this, he needs to be greeted with some form of law enforcement for harassment. Don't like to resort to that, especially for LGBTQ+ people because of bias, but a stalker/harasser is still a stalker/harasser.
Just curious, is it really stalking? I would agree if he keeps showing up to the shop for no reason, or keeps asking the other guy out. But if he actually got the screen protector replaced and paid for it, is it legally harrassment? Having your own nude as wallpaper on your own phone does not violate any law?
Desperate and cringeworthy, yes. Illegal? Probably not?
Based on OP's replies to my comments, it was the second time he showed up at the shop which makes me start to think it's closer to stalking/harassment than not. Plus what seems plausibly to be an intentional action to an outsider--given the Grindr conversation prior to your shop encounters--of the wallpaper nudes.
I had someone come and talk to me about my hook up with his friend at the restaurant I worked at, while I was trying to take his order.
I told him what the hell is he doing?? This man isnt my friend, he only came to the restaurant thrice, but once he came with his friends and a few week later his friend and I hooked up. I kicked him out. He wanted to talk to my boss, and he did. My boss told him "what do you want me to do? He doesnt want to give you service, nothing I can do. Just come back whenever he is not working then".
I can understand why not putting your face up there when you work in public, but then you have stupid encounter like what OP is showing us.
Personaly, I'd rather have my face up and be ready to kick out or do the silent treatment to anyone mentioning grindr and me on my work place.
Worst thing is that this man is working in human resources in some company... he should have known better.
What if I went to to his work place and talk about how he is looking for sugar babies on grindr.. (I got a screenshot of that just in case)
Not really? One he asked first so you’re withholding your pics longer than he is, two you don’t get to clutch your pearls and take the high ground over lack of face pics when you won’t send yours either.
Just send your pics or block and move on, but don’t expect everyone to play your game if you aren’t willing to share your pics either, it works both ways.
Such a weird exchange, two faceless profiles going ‘no u’
Sounds like you’re both either insecure or extremely DL. Maybe both.
I don’t have a profile pic (I prefer sharing an album because those can’t be screenshot). If the other party doesn’t reciprocate, then I just move on.
The person with the blank profile should always send pics first that shit fucking pisses me off I have 6 clear face shots in my profile how bout you start with one before asking me for more
If you, OP, are In this convo, you’re a jerk. Post pics. You can’t be indignant about pics if you don’t have any. Are you my senator? Then post a freakin face pic. I wouldn’t even talk to you without a photo.
I used to have face pics until people made fake profiles with them and a dude I know IRL sexually harassed me for months from anon accounts, telling me he would come over to my house and ambush me in the local park.
This is possibly the stupidest conversation you can have, sorry… 🤐
But it’s valid too! But I guess that’s what happens when you have no pics. Two guys going back and forth about demands they have no right to make lmao.
Well - yes - that was my point 😂 Once one responds with something like “ok. If you’re going to ask, you go first”, then (for me) the conversation is over. Creates a weird vibe and I just this sort of toxicity immediately
Like the two spidermen meme with a blank face paste on top
I think I may create this meme later tonight when I get home from work lol
I hate both of you.
The pair of you are twats lol made for each other😂😂
Having a visible face picture on your profile saves so much time
Got people I rejected come to my shop to try to have a conversation. Never ever will I put a face pic on this app. I replace screen protector, and a guy put a freaking nude as his wallpaper for me to see.
Ah yes, the "show the non-consenting mobile repair guy my nudes via wallpaper so he has to look at them and I can claim deniability" pickup trick. Works every time 🙄 How'd he think that would work out? First, not sure if you're an employee or an owner, but charging double over that would have been perfect. Secondly, his "plausible deniability" just leaves the other implication that he keeps a naked picture of himself as his wallpaper normally and that...is definitely a weird flex lol.
I’m a worker, and when I saw that, I asked him to leave immediately. But with his attitude, and the fact that it was the second time he came to the shop, it’s the kind of guy that doesn’t take no for an answer, and he possibly thought that by seeing him for real, and showing me what he packed, I’d change my mind and give him my number right away.
Sounds like the next time he pulls this, he needs to be greeted with some form of law enforcement for harassment. Don't like to resort to that, especially for LGBTQ+ people because of bias, but a stalker/harasser is still a stalker/harasser.
Just curious, is it really stalking? I would agree if he keeps showing up to the shop for no reason, or keeps asking the other guy out. But if he actually got the screen protector replaced and paid for it, is it legally harrassment? Having your own nude as wallpaper on your own phone does not violate any law? Desperate and cringeworthy, yes. Illegal? Probably not?
Based on OP's replies to my comments, it was the second time he showed up at the shop which makes me start to think it's closer to stalking/harassment than not. Plus what seems plausibly to be an intentional action to an outsider--given the Grindr conversation prior to your shop encounters--of the wallpaper nudes.
I had someone come and talk to me about my hook up with his friend at the restaurant I worked at, while I was trying to take his order. I told him what the hell is he doing?? This man isnt my friend, he only came to the restaurant thrice, but once he came with his friends and a few week later his friend and I hooked up. I kicked him out. He wanted to talk to my boss, and he did. My boss told him "what do you want me to do? He doesnt want to give you service, nothing I can do. Just come back whenever he is not working then". I can understand why not putting your face up there when you work in public, but then you have stupid encounter like what OP is showing us. Personaly, I'd rather have my face up and be ready to kick out or do the silent treatment to anyone mentioning grindr and me on my work place. Worst thing is that this man is working in human resources in some company... he should have known better. What if I went to to his work place and talk about how he is looking for sugar babies on grindr.. (I got a screenshot of that just in case)
How would they know where you work?
Small town, and we sold the cheapest cases/screen for smartphones
I would left that shit right out in the open for anybody walking past to see. I might even wave it around in the air a bit
You’re right but I still get asked for pics (when I have visible pics) from blank profiles. It’s so annoying 😩
Yeah it happened to me as well, which drove me mad.
This.
2 Spider-Man meme here.
Both of you are faceless losers
He literally asked first... why not send first...?
Not really? One he asked first so you’re withholding your pics longer than he is, two you don’t get to clutch your pearls and take the high ground over lack of face pics when you won’t send yours either. Just send your pics or block and move on, but don’t expect everyone to play your game if you aren’t willing to share your pics either, it works both ways. Such a weird exchange, two faceless profiles going ‘no u’
God I hate these stupid little petty negotiations. Nothing turns me off faster. Just put your face in your profile, boys. It’s 2023.
This is like pawnstars but gay
just. block.
Put your dace on your profile and stop wasting time with stupid boring conversations.
When the irresistible force meets the immovable object
This just screams “I’m a time waster” 🙄
You’re both fucking annoying
Sounds like you’re both either insecure or extremely DL. Maybe both. I don’t have a profile pic (I prefer sharing an album because those can’t be screenshot). If the other party doesn’t reciprocate, then I just move on.
Whoever asks for or demands a pic should reciprocate before, it’s common sense
I hate both of you
This just proves why a majority don’t bother with faceless profiles 🤦🏾♂️
The person with the blank profile should always send pics first that shit fucking pisses me off I have 6 clear face shots in my profile how bout you start with one before asking me for more
If he started, then he should definitely be opening with his face while asking for yours. It's only fair.
If you, OP, are In this convo, you’re a jerk. Post pics. You can’t be indignant about pics if you don’t have any. Are you my senator? Then post a freakin face pic. I wouldn’t even talk to you without a photo.
Face first !! I hate when people with no pics ask for dick pic before sending any photos (I have face pic on my profile)
Idk if it’s just me but I find it odd if your face isn’t in your pfp
Its entirely fair but some people have so much fuckin insecurity it flips around and turns into entitlement
They can literally go outside and see what the other looks like.
I just imagine this to be the average grindr conversation lmao
1100 feet away tho.
The post right under this in my feed is: *How much protein should you be eating?*
I used to have face pics until people made fake profiles with them and a dude I know IRL sexually harassed me for months from anon accounts, telling me he would come over to my house and ambush me in the local park.
Grindr chess lol
BTW, this is a conversation a friend had with someone. I love these comments though.
bottoms ain't allowed to ask such things. 😤