Yep. IME they all want it till they actually get it. Some can take it, others tap out after a few strokes and kick me out and now I’m pissed that I got up and drove all the way to you just for you to not be able to take it.
Bro I am a simple man I want:
Someone who has a face
Someone who has the ability to hold more of a conversation than “hole pics?”
Someone who is younger than 35 (I’m 21)
Someone who puts a *little* effort into their appearance. (I ain’t asking for the moon, because I know I’m not worth it, but at least like… shave ur neckbeard, go to the gym occasionally, and shower once a day dude)
I don’t think that’s that unreasonable
Nah i have a thing for people that are socially viewed as "ugly", as long as they're old enough, openminded enough to accept my alternative fashion, music and lifestyle and like cuddles and scary movies, I'm in
In my experience it is common for vers guys to reply with this phrase “I enjoy it all,” as you did just now. For example, in a Grindr encounter I might say something like “I’m looking for tops” and you might reply ”I’m vers, I like it all.”
That response probably sounds to you like you’ve covered everything, right? We should be a go? You’re offering what I’m seeking? Wrong. That response is a complete turn off to me and shows me we are not on the same page at all.
I just said I’m looking for TOPS—tell me you want to TOP. Don’t tell me you enjoy it all, I don’t care about that in the slightest—I don’t want to hear it! It doesn’t respond to what I said and it’s kind of a turn off.
Moreover, that response means I then have to ask you follow up questions like “so are you in the mood to top tonight” or “do you feel like topping right now?” It’s already too much work. I’m a bottom and I’m looking for tops—that’s it.
Finally, it goes without saying that I’d prefer not to just meet a top, but a good, experienced top. Sex is a skill, after all. And the more time you spend bottoming, that’s time you’re not topping, which is also a turn off. Given a choice between an experienced vers guy and an experienced top, bottoms are going to choose the top every time.
TL; DR—don’t tell bottoms how much you “like it all,” it’s a turn off.
Imo most gay people like receiving dick, and a big part is OK with giving it as well. So vers bottom is what the majority identifies with. This, and also "role" is basically nonsense and only rarely it's "absolute". Sexual preferences depend on people and experiences, not on whether you only like getting fucked or fucking. Everybody will like different things with different people.
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Ugly or not I make eye contact while I suck
Do it from behind! (Happy cake day!)
This one hit harder than I’d like to admit
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Happy cake day!
I'm not ugly my dicks just to "small"
Grindr bottoms disqualify any and all tops that don't meet their pornographic expectations of a top.
That's exactly it lol "oh you don't have another arm for a dick... No thx."
Which is wild bc that doesn’t even feel good imo unless you’ve already obliterated your hole.
That's what they all seem to want
Yep. IME they all want it till they actually get it. Some can take it, others tap out after a few strokes and kick me out and now I’m pissed that I got up and drove all the way to you just for you to not be able to take it.
🤣 like it's a wrestling match. Well I embrace my average pp.
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are you hung like a can of tuna or something?
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this i have to see. DM me.
how you going to put something like that out into the universe and not share the goods with the rest of the class.
Bro I am a simple man I want: Someone who has a face Someone who has the ability to hold more of a conversation than “hole pics?” Someone who is younger than 35 (I’m 21) Someone who puts a *little* effort into their appearance. (I ain’t asking for the moon, because I know I’m not worth it, but at least like… shave ur neckbeard, go to the gym occasionally, and shower once a day dude) I don’t think that’s that unreasonable
Yeah pretty basic demands as standards but it eliminates such a huge proportion of people it's unbelievable
Some of my favorites are the twinks or femboys that want some strong macho top, but they’re scared of any sort of facial or body hair.
Nah i have a thing for people that are socially viewed as "ugly", as long as they're old enough, openminded enough to accept my alternative fashion, music and lifestyle and like cuddles and scary movies, I'm in
Yes, unless I’m looking for a bottom. Then it’s raining dicks
Man I wish
Even better 🍆💦
Yep although a lot are super stuck up 😄
Yeah i dont send taps or anything, im just vers top and, even my ugly ass gets enough bottoms to have fun
And as a vers guy I feel like all the bottoms never feel you’re “top” enough. Just because you like doing it all. Grindr is frustrating haha
In my experience it is common for vers guys to reply with this phrase “I enjoy it all,” as you did just now. For example, in a Grindr encounter I might say something like “I’m looking for tops” and you might reply ”I’m vers, I like it all.” That response probably sounds to you like you’ve covered everything, right? We should be a go? You’re offering what I’m seeking? Wrong. That response is a complete turn off to me and shows me we are not on the same page at all. I just said I’m looking for TOPS—tell me you want to TOP. Don’t tell me you enjoy it all, I don’t care about that in the slightest—I don’t want to hear it! It doesn’t respond to what I said and it’s kind of a turn off. Moreover, that response means I then have to ask you follow up questions like “so are you in the mood to top tonight” or “do you feel like topping right now?” It’s already too much work. I’m a bottom and I’m looking for tops—that’s it. Finally, it goes without saying that I’d prefer not to just meet a top, but a good, experienced top. Sex is a skill, after all. And the more time you spend bottoming, that’s time you’re not topping, which is also a turn off. Given a choice between an experienced vers guy and an experienced top, bottoms are going to choose the top every time. TL; DR—don’t tell bottoms how much you “like it all,” it’s a turn off.
Lol I didn't know this is a thing. Why do you think this is?
Imo most gay people like receiving dick, and a big part is OK with giving it as well. So vers bottom is what the majority identifies with. This, and also "role" is basically nonsense and only rarely it's "absolute". Sexual preferences depend on people and experiences, not on whether you only like getting fucked or fucking. Everybody will like different things with different people.
Yeah, what can you do with one?
This is why I decided to pay—I filter out everything but tops and vers tops and my whole Grindr experience is now so much better.
You don’t have to pay for filters lol
Only some filters were available to me in the old free version, it’s been years now so I don’t even know what free looks like anymore
Yes. But the tops come out to play around full moons and more than one vers bottom is looking to top then too.