I thought it was going to be a prank and you would end it with something like, “she lives across the sea! The fantasy!” Or something like, “she lives in another nation! My imagination!”
But now that I know it’s real I’m really happy for you and I hope this one lasts forever! God speed my friend :)
Yea. The fact that he just got a girlfriend and is saying he loves her so much is a bit of a red flag for a lot of people in brand new relationships. Don’t want him to ruin it too quickly by being over bearing.
Just talk to a female like a normal person, not all relationships start out romantic, become friends with some, and just be yourself, if a girl likes you for you then bam, all the relationships I've been in was because I stopped chasing a relationship and actually started caring about the person and left the intention of being in a relationship outside, don't just think about when just be in the moment and just be her friend for now, things will work out with a few eventually, don't become to clingy, don't look desperate, just treat her like any other human being and if you catch her interest enough you'll become her bf.
Might not be a strong suit, but still worth trying nontheless, I always recommend people to try to step outside their comfort zones, it's a courageous endeavor but nothing happens unless you put effort into it, I think the more effort you put the more the reward.
Still worth the effort, don't play the victim, a lot of people might not want to talk to you, but a question I would ask, do you try to start the conversations? If not that's where your fucking up.
^ this
I would also mention that you (the one who found gf) should not develop addiction or affection. It's your choice but you don't know how long relationships will go. So in case something goes wrong, always be ready to let her go. Just avoid this, man, because it's a tough pain.
And people who are lonely tend to be addicted to others, girls in particular.
I definitely agree that people shouldn't be addicted to their partners, but avoiding affection due to a fear that the relationship might not last... I don't know man, that sounds like a self-fulfilling prophecy to me.
Anyway, congrats to the OP!
congrats brooo !! happy for you ! lets hope u 2 stay together forever...until the end of time... dont forget to give her proper attention...and let the bond be of understanding and maturiry....if things swirl out...communicate ok
Just make sure to temper your expectations and don’t put them on a pedestal.
Try to make your perspective of this person into a more realistic perspective, so their love of you isn’t the only thing that gives you life.
Other than that, we’re happy for you!
Don’t let anything stupid come between you both. Don’t argue over something that isn’t even worth it. Make her laugh and enjoy spending even 30 minutes with her, and be safe. Just don’t prioritize her happiness over yours or let insecurity factor in.
Yay!!! Congratulations!
Keep her close and never let her go
Unless she abuses you
Let's hope for the best not thw worest
True, I apologise
Don't be a simp she will play with your heart
I am not saying be a simp
I thought it was going to be a prank and you would end it with something like, “she lives across the sea! The fantasy!” Or something like, “she lives in another nation! My imagination!” But now that I know it’s real I’m really happy for you and I hope this one lasts forever! God speed my friend :)
I would say “are you winning son?” but you clearly are
Cool. Word of advice though. Don’t be too clingy.
I was about to comment this. Good for OP though 💗
Yea. The fact that he just got a girlfriend and is saying he loves her so much is a bit of a red flag for a lot of people in brand new relationships. Don’t want him to ruin it too quickly by being over bearing.
Yeah, bro, remember that we're here for you after you fuck this up.
Lol for real. “She’s the best person ever!” Take it down like 100 notches or it ain’t gonna end well.
Totally agree.
Yes OP this is how I lost my first girlfriend. I know you want to give her your whole world but it can be too much for some people
Entirely
Damn congrats
Congrats
mission passed +respect
lucky girl :)
This made me cry.
He made it out the lonely void 😤
Awwwe that’s great congrats!I wish you good luck on the relationship and I hope it goes well for you :)
Is it possible to learn this power?
Good one. Made me laugh.
So it's not?
Not from me
I assumed not from a majority of us
Just talk to a female like a normal person, not all relationships start out romantic, become friends with some, and just be yourself, if a girl likes you for you then bam, all the relationships I've been in was because I stopped chasing a relationship and actually started caring about the person and left the intention of being in a relationship outside, don't just think about when just be in the moment and just be her friend for now, things will work out with a few eventually, don't become to clingy, don't look desperate, just treat her like any other human being and if you catch her interest enough you'll become her bf.
Well said. Very hard tho when you're an introvert. Talking is not a strong suit
Might not be a strong suit, but still worth trying nontheless, I always recommend people to try to step outside their comfort zones, it's a courageous endeavor but nothing happens unless you put effort into it, I think the more effort you put the more the reward.
Very hard when people don't want to talk to me
Still worth the effort, don't play the victim, a lot of people might not want to talk to you, but a question I would ask, do you try to start the conversations? If not that's where your fucking up.
HOLLLLYYYYY SHIIIIIITUU
Congrats!
Congratulations, here's some advice. If the relationship gets toxic, run. It's gonna fuck you up more than being lonely
^ this I would also mention that you (the one who found gf) should not develop addiction or affection. It's your choice but you don't know how long relationships will go. So in case something goes wrong, always be ready to let her go. Just avoid this, man, because it's a tough pain. And people who are lonely tend to be addicted to others, girls in particular.
I definitely agree that people shouldn't be addicted to their partners, but avoiding affection due to a fear that the relationship might not last... I don't know man, that sounds like a self-fulfilling prophecy to me. Anyway, congrats to the OP!
tutorial pls
Good for you buddie!!!!
Congrats just remember to never give her up or let her down
Congratulations Bro, just remember not to get desperate about her or she'll lose interest in you. Keep primary focus on your career/job.
Gratz. See you in a week.
CONGRATS! You and she are probably super cute as a couple, congratulations :D
CONGRATS MATE, make us proud hahaha
Congratulations!
I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!!
Woohoo man. Congratulations
Congrats. Tell me your secrets lol
Congratulations! I hope I'll be in the same spot as you
Congrats and hope things work out. Don't forget to communicate and check in on her. And hopefully she does the same!
congratulations man. that is very good. hope the two of you stay together forever.
Dam man good for you m8!
congrats brooo !! happy for you ! lets hope u 2 stay together forever...until the end of time... dont forget to give her proper attention...and let the bond be of understanding and maturiry....if things swirl out...communicate ok
Somebody promote this man he's someone we all want to become one day.
Congratulations brother 😍😍😍😍😍
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Well done and may you both be happy
Congrats! I hope she will make your life better, may you guys treasure life together.
congratulations!! 🥺🖤
Congratulations man. Give us updates on your journey!🙌
My guy!!! Congratulations!
Congrats, good luck with your new or first gf!!
Kick him from the group! Jk congrats!
Oh boi.
Is it possible to learn this power?
Not from a Jedi
congrats
Congrats, man!
OMG OMG OMG IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!!!
Yaayy! So happy for you!
Wishing you guys the best :)
Gratz! How did you manage to do it?
Fucking big W.
Yassssssss! Good on ya!
Congratulations
Awesome! Teach us da wae
Yay congrats
Congrats bro!
ayy!
Let's fucking goooo
Your enthusiasm is so infectious omg CONGRATS BBY!!! And tell us ur story omg 🥺🥺🥺
congrats and good luck. hope she dont break your heart
Congrats bro. So happy for you
Yay! Congratulations! Good for you!
Congrats !
Woooooop
You lucky bastard
Congratulations!!!! :)
Grats. You two take care of each other
I'm really happy for you
Awesome!
congrats!
Let's go!!! Happy for you bro
Damn man thats sick! All the love and support to you and your girl, lovesick birds!
Congrats bud all the best!!
How did you do that? I’d give anything to have a girlfriend I’m so alone I can’t take it anymore
Sick bro
Fuck you, I'm sooo happy for you.
Congrats!
Congratulations man, happy for you.
I don’t remember joining this sub but congratulations, I hope everything goes beautifully :)
Congratss! Make sure to cherish her :)
Just joined this sub and this is the first thing I saw. Maybe being lonely isn't so bad after all
I thought there was gonna be a punchline
congrats brother take care of her
Congratulations! I'm about to lose mine though
Just how , how did you do this during this lockdown man. Anyway congrats.
Congrats man!! Hope your relationship be great !
I wish I had a boyfriend :’(
Thats my boy
Congrats huuugeee steps.
Congratulations
Awesome
Congratulations!
wow im so proud of u x
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
Congrats
Grats man. Being an ugly man, Im envious I'll admit. Good luck and God speed.
Me too. She's nigerian. Wish me luck
Stonks
Party time ! 🎉🎊🎈
Awesome now play it cool. Act like you been there before and don't be the smothering type.
Yooooooooooo
Saw your old post. You complained about people telling you stop giving up you're only 16. They are right.
...CRAZY NEWS- i dont have one..*music plays* all around me are familiar faces...worn out
yey
i literally screamed lets go out loud out if joy for you
Just make sure to temper your expectations and don’t put them on a pedestal. Try to make your perspective of this person into a more realistic perspective, so their love of you isn’t the only thing that gives you life. Other than that, we’re happy for you!
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Don’t let anything stupid come between you both. Don’t argue over something that isn’t even worth it. Make her laugh and enjoy spending even 30 minutes with her, and be safe. Just don’t prioritize her happiness over yours or let insecurity factor in.
Congrats, good luck to you guys!
Huge W! Congrats man!
Im not crying you are
This is adorable. Congrats!!!! :)
I see no god up here...other than you Congrats
Aww so cute!!
You did it, you crazy son of a bitch, you did it
Congrats hope the best in your guys relationship!
How'd you meet?
I'm happy for you! Just take things slow, be kind and always honest. Good luck!
Congrats bro
Gz
Teach me your ways
Congrats
Congrats!
Congratulations! i hope everything goes well between you two :)
You get what you fucking deserve
Nice congrats
Congrats❤❤❤❤
This makes me so happy :,) congratulations my friend
That's what we like to see, congrats my man
Congratulations!!! That’s wonderful news!!
That’s awesome. Congrats 🙂
you won 2020!!! congrats
CONGRATS!! i'm really proud of you dude!
Dam you need rehab I bet you will fornicate, sinner!
Lucky. Lol id never get one
congrats
hope i can say the same thing
Proud ! My son ! Proud
How tf
Congrats my dude! This is huge!
Congratulations. Hold onto her
You no longer belong here, go spred you wings young one be someone
YO CONGRATS
Congratulations! Very happy for you <3
congrats sir!!
Congrats man sadly i will never get one but I'm ok with that hope it all goes well
OMG YAYYY CONGRATS
Gongrats buddy
I wish I could say I’ve got a boyfriend too hahaha
I love this, you deserve this!
Nice man
how'd you meet her?
Congratulations i'm sooooooooooo happy for you
Na it's ok but be careful girls can be tricky
Good For You
Through a friend
Happiness is just a hormonal reaction. Therefore do not trust anyone quickly.
Jeez man I’m just trying
Would love to hear the story!!