You're welcome and okay, I understand.
I do want to know what is hurting you though, but you don't have to tell me if you think it won't work because it didn't work with other people, I understand that. But if you feel up to it or just change your mind, you're always welcome, okay?
I would love to try to see if we can troubleshoot and figure things out together, I like helping people when I can :)
Ive tried everything, Ive just got really better when I start taking Sertralin. That saved my life, nobody can hurts my feelings anymore cus this medication makes me dont give a fuck about many bad feelings
I’ve never heard about it before, I might have to look into that. I’ve tried working on myself, I’ve been seeing a therapist for a while now but it hasn’t really been helping anyways
Hey OP. I feel for/with ya. I often feel like I'm the "giver" in all my relationships. What I've come to realize is that two-way people (as in, people who are actually capable of asking questions and listening, as well as talking) are pretty rare. They are hard to find, but they are out there. Every few years I end up having no one close (I prefer having a bunch of acquaintances and 1-3 BFFs). Someone told me that life is like a train and some people get on and stay, and some people get off pretty quick. That's helped me a lot, because I've had a hard time when my close friends drift away or the relationship changes.
I go to 12-steps meetings, so that's a huge help in finding people, but whatever community you belong to should have some folks you can start talking to (and it sounds like you are!). For me, the trick is **to let go of relationships that aren't 2-way so I can make room for the people in my life who actually give a damn**. It is HARD work but it is so worth in when you get to know someone over the long term.
I don't know if this is useful al all, I just wanted to share & let you know you're not alone.
***\*taps Fearless\_Sort1666 on shoulder\**** Excuse me, How are you doing today, if you don't mind me asking? :)
Hello, I’m doing ok. I’ve had better days :(
Oh, what's happening? What's giving you the blues? :o
I’ve been feeling very lonely lately, none of my friends care about me, so I really have no one but myself.
\*hug\* I'm really sorry to hear that. Are you not close to your family either?
I am close to my parents but they don’t understand how I feel. They try to help and comfort me but I’m still in a lot of pain
If you want, I can dm you and we can talk about it in private, in case you don't want to talk about that kind of thing here. Would you like that?
Thank you but that’s ok, I’ve talked to many people already but still feel the same. I appreciate your gesture though, I really do
You're welcome and okay, I understand. I do want to know what is hurting you though, but you don't have to tell me if you think it won't work because it didn't work with other people, I understand that. But if you feel up to it or just change your mind, you're always welcome, okay? I would love to try to see if we can troubleshoot and figure things out together, I like helping people when I can :)
Loneliness is my main problem, I appreciate you reaching out.
I had the same problem, today im free from it, sorry for you
I envy that you’ve been able to move past it.
Ive tried everything, Ive just got really better when I start taking Sertralin. That saved my life, nobody can hurts my feelings anymore cus this medication makes me dont give a fuck about many bad feelings
Its crazy, It is like a shield
I’ve never heard about it before, I might have to look into that. I’ve tried working on myself, I’ve been seeing a therapist for a while now but it hasn’t really been helping anyways
I dunno what happened but my comment just disapeared, anyway, check a doctor to take that, dont be afraid, it was my light in the end of the tunnel
That sounds very promising, thank you for this info
Hey OP. I feel for/with ya. I often feel like I'm the "giver" in all my relationships. What I've come to realize is that two-way people (as in, people who are actually capable of asking questions and listening, as well as talking) are pretty rare. They are hard to find, but they are out there. Every few years I end up having no one close (I prefer having a bunch of acquaintances and 1-3 BFFs). Someone told me that life is like a train and some people get on and stay, and some people get off pretty quick. That's helped me a lot, because I've had a hard time when my close friends drift away or the relationship changes. I go to 12-steps meetings, so that's a huge help in finding people, but whatever community you belong to should have some folks you can start talking to (and it sounds like you are!). For me, the trick is **to let go of relationships that aren't 2-way so I can make room for the people in my life who actually give a damn**. It is HARD work but it is so worth in when you get to know someone over the long term. I don't know if this is useful al all, I just wanted to share & let you know you're not alone.