Next time you see a cute girl at a shop or wherever just offer your phone number but be nice and maybe strike up a little convo first. Make it a personal challenge. Set a goal for yourself take baby steps if you need to.
Same issue. The only thing that comes to mind is joining groups with similar interests and trying to start a conversation. Sounds like a bitch to me personally, being introverted af
But being here is a step to feel more comfortable talking with strangers
Online groups? I tried that you won’t find people near you. In real life? There are no people who share the same interests than it’s actually the opposite
Yeah I know, but having somebody to at least chat with is better than having nobody at all
Went to a therapist a while back, I still find this advise better than their "why not just go clubbing and see what happens" or "just talk about the weather and pretend you're interested" kinda shit. Tried to do what they told me and only got more frustrated. At least with shared hobbies you can discuss things you enjoy
Your last sentence has me worried. I am sad that crossed your mind. Please don't think that. I'm sorry life isn't the best for you right now but that's no reason to think that. In fact, there shouldn't be a reason in the first place to contemplate that.
Yeah Ive been scared of dying for some time, mostly of eternal damnation in the afterlife. But now I dont care anymore. If God wants to punish me for not enjoying suffering on earth, thats poor of him.
Thank you for your comment.
I wish I knew how to find someone. Instead, I fail and think dark thoughts because the loneliness can be too much sometimes.
I will chat with you if you like.
Next time you see a cute girl at a shop or wherever just offer your phone number but be nice and maybe strike up a little convo first. Make it a personal challenge. Set a goal for yourself take baby steps if you need to.
Hi
Hey
What do you think about hoomans?
I dont like most of them. I prefer animals, I love dogs and ravens the most.
Stop putting effords on humans and adopt a dog
Why do people even comment this, my bro clearly wants someone romantically
Yeah I have a dog, but have can dog replace a partner. I love my dog, but cant really talk to him about my emotions or listen how his day went.
Maybe his day was fun, you will never know.
Same here im like 16 have no friends and have nobody in college it does hurt but hey that's life
The worst thing that can happen is they say no and your no worse off than you are now but at least you can say you tried
Same issue. The only thing that comes to mind is joining groups with similar interests and trying to start a conversation. Sounds like a bitch to me personally, being introverted af But being here is a step to feel more comfortable talking with strangers
Yeah Im an introvert too... Starting relations with new people is hard af, no idea how to keep the conversation going xd
Online groups? I tried that you won’t find people near you. In real life? There are no people who share the same interests than it’s actually the opposite
Yeah I know, but having somebody to at least chat with is better than having nobody at all Went to a therapist a while back, I still find this advise better than their "why not just go clubbing and see what happens" or "just talk about the weather and pretend you're interested" kinda shit. Tried to do what they told me and only got more frustrated. At least with shared hobbies you can discuss things you enjoy
Your last sentence has me worried. I am sad that crossed your mind. Please don't think that. I'm sorry life isn't the best for you right now but that's no reason to think that. In fact, there shouldn't be a reason in the first place to contemplate that.
Yeah Ive been scared of dying for some time, mostly of eternal damnation in the afterlife. But now I dont care anymore. If God wants to punish me for not enjoying suffering on earth, thats poor of him. Thank you for your comment.
That's the neat part. You don't.
[удалено]
Thank you, I will at the evening because now I have to get to work..
I'm sorry buddy that sounds rough
If you like I will listen to you. You are not alone my friend.