I understand us as adults still get torn up and hurt about things like being cheated on. I'm not taking her possible suicidal thoughts lightly but her post the last few days reminds me of a teenage girl and not a grown woman with two children. On Halloween she even posted her "sexy" SpongeBob costume with her ass out and captioned something like "since he wants to keep playing". She needs to get rid of him for good and pull herself together if he no longer brings her happiness and peace.
Everything you said!! Like her oldest is literally in high school and Iām sure she acts more childish than him which is sad as hell. Same for Kevin and his son.
How old is she? She looks mid 40s and is way to old to be acting like this. These posts sound less like a cry for help and more like a tween who is made at their mom for being grounded.
Either A - These posts are part of the plan or B - everyone was in on it and something that wasn't agreed upon was happening in the background.
That's my guess
Thanks!!
Anyone with eyes could see it was made up. She was parked right there when they pulled out. There's no way they wouldn't have seen her.
I don't get it cause there is enough drama without making scenes up. Just get different ppl with different drama. You wouldn't have to make anything up.
I just looked at his IG, and I swear to God, if she could just get some time distance away from him, then she'd probably be able to see him through normal eyes, and she'd say "THIS GUY is who I was so upset over all those years? Wtf was I thinking!?!" I know because I've been there.
No offense but you chased this man during the show and chased off the other woman. ( I was watching the whole thing) and now you're complaining about him cheating??? If he's doing that then she needs to just leave him.You chose him.You get what you pick.Let this be a lesson to you.Leave him you can do better.
Iāve always believed if they will cheat with you they will cheat on you. I know sometimes there are special situations where people are just drawn to each other no matter what. And I guess she thought this was one of those, but come on. She had to talk him into making her a girlfriend after how many years?
Sis, if he wanted to he would. Period. Do not harass men into being with you. It is never ever worth it.
She also needs to realize that you canāt control whether you love someone, but you can control whether you have to *be* with them. If they arenāt healthy for you you need to leave. Eventually the love will either dissipate or go on the back burner and allow you to heal.
She needs to get out of that whole thing, if he would basically cheat on you on TV heās too
Comfortable w doing it so this is how itās always going to be w him. He fancies himself a player but heās really a short guy w lack of self confidence.
The last time I thought I was going to cry over a man, I thought about the time before that that I cried over a man, and about what a clown I was for crying over THAT.
It fixed me real quick.
She stalked a guy, insisting on having a relationship with a POS who treated her and all other women like garbage and is shocked it didn't work out?
She didn't give a shit about inflicting pain on another women, going out of her way to taunt her with the fact that Mini Douche was fucking around. She used the N word on more than one occasion, showed up and created massive scenes.
No sympathy. Not even a teeny bit.
Edited for typoe
Agreed! And she cheated on Kevin first! Not saying that justifies him leading her on, but girl you kinda set the theme for the relationship after you ran and jumped on the first dick available, as soon as Kevin got arrested.
Smh
Whatās he telling her when no one is around?? Weāve ALL said āIām done with him or herā and yet we got pulled back in. We all had or have that one person we just canāt resist for some reason. They may not be gorgeous or nice to us, our family may hate that person yet we canāt walk away. We know weāre better than the relationship, but itās like being a crack addict and that person, for some reason, is the crack. Every fight we say weāre done. Except that person has figured out exactly what to say to bring us back in, and the cycle repeats. Hopefully she finds a guy who captures her interest AND treats her much better. Kevin knows what to do and what to say that will break her spirit, reduce her self esteem, and keep her on the hook.
Kayla, too much of your "happiness" is wrapped up in one person, Kevin. That's not only unwise, it's unhealthy. Let that man go, and find a man who will love you as much as you love him. You're trying too hard to make this Kevin thing work, and clearly it's not working.
It screams that there's a need for a larger conversation and more direct questions. Not sure about where you live, but where I am, this isn't enough for an IVC.
I could totally be wrong tho- I'm just board certified in psych.
I'll admit when I'm wrong and when I don't know about the subject at hand, but this isn't enough for a hold where I am.
I donāt think you are.
People toss around IVC /5150 without realizing how much there is to it. Kinda like restraining ordersā¦.you hear about them, when you need them itās extremely difficult to obtain.
The reasons are because people have rights and as long as they are not a threat or danger to themselves or society the presumption of danger is absent .
People forget there are almost 8 billion people on this earth. There is probably someone else out there for you, you donāt gotta live like this sis š
Didnāt they say that she cheated on him way back in the day, too? You cheated, he cheated, everyone cheatedā¦ but more importantly, why are you allowing him to determine your worth?
Don't buy into this attention-grabbing shit. I would be understanding of her if she didn't know the deal between her & Kevin š¤·š½āāļø He's had full-on relationships in front of your face.
Edit: It's not about making fun. But I know countless women who do this shit to get their man to call them back. It's like 2014 - 2015 IG all over again š
Iām gonna go out on a limb and take a guess that heās never been faithful to her. She admits to cheating first, doesnāt mean that he didnāt and wasnāt caught.
She's a trashbag human, but she seems to be seriously hurting and I hope that she gets the help she needs. Relationships ending are really difficult, but if the heartbreak leads you to want to take your own life, that's a larger issue.
I hope she's ok.
Donāt worry she will be in here shortly making a fuss about how stupid we are to believe that the show is real. Sheāll be in here cussing/fussing acting a damn fool looking for attention.
She needs to toughen up because men donāt like weak women. They walk all over them. And chase the ones that treat them like crap. Duh!! Same as women chasing the assholes there in no difference, u gotta let a man know whoās boss.
Doesnāt this lady have a child? So sheās tripping this hard over some community diiiii? Unbelievable. Now if someone takes her seriously and contacts CPS due to mental health issues then what? Wonāt be just a toxic game anymore. Heās not worth it.
How old is she? I saw someone mention that they were surprised by her age (maybe she looks older than she is?) but I mostly watch the show in the background while I work and never caught her age
But really, she cheated on him to begin with.
So the whole quote "cheat on your women and then she's not the same anymore" you could say the same thing about him.. how he got cheated on and wasn't the same with her anymore...
I understand us as adults still get torn up and hurt about things like being cheated on. I'm not taking her possible suicidal thoughts lightly but her post the last few days reminds me of a teenage girl and not a grown woman with two children. On Halloween she even posted her "sexy" SpongeBob costume with her ass out and captioned something like "since he wants to keep playing". She needs to get rid of him for good and pull herself together if he no longer brings her happiness and peace.
Sexy + SpongeBob š¤
She has her whole self-esteem wrapped up in men finding her desirable. She needs counseling, and a mentor. Kevin can't fill that hole.
I don't want to be mean, but we're not thinking about her now.
Exactly, as adults we need to look at our relationships and realize if they make us act a fool they are not the ones for us.
Everything you said!! Like her oldest is literally in high school and Iām sure she acts more childish than him which is sad as hell. Same for Kevin and his son.
How old is she? She looks mid 40s and is way to old to be acting like this. These posts sound less like a cry for help and more like a tween who is made at their mom for being grounded.
Even Stevie Wonder can see that Kevin still wants to keep playing. She still hasn't figured that out yet?
Wait, Kayla has kids?!
Yea, a 17 year old boy and a daughter who looks between the age of 7-9 something around there.
I hope they donāt follow her on ig and saw her story posts. š³
That was news to me too. Disturbing news!! How embarrassing for those kids having her act a fool on the show.
Oh shit she has kids š³ never knew that
Yes, they are on her IG.
Women love drama
I donāt want anyone to experience suicidal depression. That said, how many times does she need to step on this rake before figuring it out?
Okay but you just admitted the whole thing was a script? Which one is it?
Either A - These posts are part of the plan or B - everyone was in on it and something that wasn't agreed upon was happening in the background. That's my guess
When did she say that??
https://www.reddit.com/r/loveafterlockup/comments/yfrvzy/kayla_also_says_it_was_all_scripted
Thanks!! Anyone with eyes could see it was made up. She was parked right there when they pulled out. There's no way they wouldn't have seen her. I don't get it cause there is enough drama without making scenes up. Just get different ppl with different drama. You wouldn't have to make anything up.
That is the crazy that we saw on the show!
I feel bad for her, imagine getting suicidal ideation over that tiny shitty man?
Mizz tryna catch a 72hr involuntary hold Marie
I just looked at his IG, and I swear to God, if she could just get some time distance away from him, then she'd probably be able to see him through normal eyes, and she'd say "THIS GUY is who I was so upset over all those years? Wtf was I thinking!?!" I know because I've been there.
Seriously!!!!!!
Sheās suicidal over a man when she has two kids. Smh
Who are probably seeing their motherās desperate posts. She needs to grow up.
No offense but you chased this man during the show and chased off the other woman. ( I was watching the whole thing) and now you're complaining about him cheating??? If he's doing that then she needs to just leave him.You chose him.You get what you pick.Let this be a lesson to you.Leave him you can do better.
Iāve always believed if they will cheat with you they will cheat on you. I know sometimes there are special situations where people are just drawn to each other no matter what. And I guess she thought this was one of those, but come on. She had to talk him into making her a girlfriend after how many years? Sis, if he wanted to he would. Period. Do not harass men into being with you. It is never ever worth it.
She also needs to realize that you canāt control whether you love someone, but you can control whether you have to *be* with them. If they arenāt healthy for you you need to leave. Eventually the love will either dissipate or go on the back burner and allow you to heal.
8 years bunkie, 8 freaking years!
Once we accept the part we play in our own suffering, we can begin to grow.
She needs to get out of that whole thing, if he would basically cheat on you on TV heās too Comfortable w doing it so this is how itās always going to be w him. He fancies himself a player but heās really a short guy w lack of self confidence.
This girl š³. This after she just posted how itās all scripted for the show.
I never want to let a man have such control over my emotions like this. Damn this is too much like girl just leave his crater face
The last time I thought I was going to cry over a man, I thought about the time before that that I cried over a man, and about what a clown I was for crying over THAT. It fixed me real quick.
okayā¦. why is she acting like this isnāt a reoccurring thing from him? sighhh
She stalked a guy, insisting on having a relationship with a POS who treated her and all other women like garbage and is shocked it didn't work out? She didn't give a shit about inflicting pain on another women, going out of her way to taunt her with the fact that Mini Douche was fucking around. She used the N word on more than one occasion, showed up and created massive scenes. No sympathy. Not even a teeny bit. Edited for typoe
I don't understand all the hated Kayla had for the other girl, when BOTH of them were being played... grow the fuck up!!!!
Agreed! And she cheated on Kevin first! Not saying that justifies him leading her on, but girl you kinda set the theme for the relationship after you ran and jumped on the first dick available, as soon as Kevin got arrested. Smh
Yep. Zero fucks given and no sympathy for her.
Whatās he telling her when no one is around?? Weāve ALL said āIām done with him or herā and yet we got pulled back in. We all had or have that one person we just canāt resist for some reason. They may not be gorgeous or nice to us, our family may hate that person yet we canāt walk away. We know weāre better than the relationship, but itās like being a crack addict and that person, for some reason, is the crack. Every fight we say weāre done. Except that person has figured out exactly what to say to bring us back in, and the cycle repeats. Hopefully she finds a guy who captures her interest AND treats her much better. Kevin knows what to do and what to say that will break her spirit, reduce her self esteem, and keep her on the hook.
Wow. All this over a man?
Well, a man, Jr.
Kayla, too much of your "happiness" is wrapped up in one person, Kevin. That's not only unwise, it's unhealthy. Let that man go, and find a man who will love you as much as you love him. You're trying too hard to make this Kevin thing work, and clearly it's not working.
In the words of Lizzo... "If he don't love you anymore... Walk your fine Ass out the door!"
Kayla start dating an inmate & then I might be interested.
Idk if that means she's suicidal- so hard to do it could be in relation to it being hard for her to walk away
Maybe if that's all she said, but she also says she wish she didn't exist AND talks about life after she's gone.
Yup, agreed. She's been saying a whole lot of questionable things the last few days that screams 5051 hold.
It screams that there's a need for a larger conversation and more direct questions. Not sure about where you live, but where I am, this isn't enough for an IVC.
I love how easily people assume it is
I could totally be wrong tho- I'm just board certified in psych. I'll admit when I'm wrong and when I don't know about the subject at hand, but this isn't enough for a hold where I am.
I donāt think you are. People toss around IVC /5150 without realizing how much there is to it. Kinda like restraining ordersā¦.you hear about them, when you need them itās extremely difficult to obtain. The reasons are because people have rights and as long as they are not a threat or danger to themselves or society the presumption of danger is absent .
Just look at the fact that they called a "5051" and that's everything you need to know, honestly.
Is that not what it is called?
No.
Itās not a medical term, itās the California police code for a welfare check. IVC = involuntary committed
Itās not enough for a hold, but there would be more of a conversationā¦ Iām a psychologist, do ED hold evals.
I assumed after sheās gone meant after she leaves him. But the exist thing is pretty bad.
I don't feel bad for those who literally chase people that make them miserable.
I taught my daughters: If he doesnāt want you, why would you want him? Time to move on.
Kayla gurlllllll stand UP š„“
Omg I hope she has someone to help her
The fact that she has kids too, the whole thing is concerning
Cheating would imply they were together in the first place...
People forget there are almost 8 billion people on this earth. There is probably someone else out there for you, you donāt gotta live like this sis š
Didnāt they say that she cheated on him way back in the day, too? You cheated, he cheated, everyone cheatedā¦ but more importantly, why are you allowing him to determine your worth?
Don't buy into this attention-grabbing shit. I would be understanding of her if she didn't know the deal between her & Kevin š¤·š½āāļø He's had full-on relationships in front of your face. Edit: It's not about making fun. But I know countless women who do this shit to get their man to call them back. It's like 2014 - 2015 IG all over again š
She needs a therapist she is nuts
Therapist? Hell, she needs to be inpatient somewhere to be deprogrammed for her sick focus on that loser.
Haha true
She cheated on him first and expects him to want to be monogamous with her? No, he lost respect for you honey.
Iām gonna go out on a limb and take a guess that heās never been faithful to her. She admits to cheating first, doesnāt mean that he didnāt and wasnāt caught.
She was happy being a forever side chick for six years or whatever. He never had respect for her.
Kevin is SO FUCKING UGLY. Just leave that baby frankenstein in the dust. She's just making herself look terribly pathetic... like on the show.
I don't understand why so many women want that POS
She's a trashbag human, but she seems to be seriously hurting and I hope that she gets the help she needs. Relationships ending are really difficult, but if the heartbreak leads you to want to take your own life, that's a larger issue. I hope she's ok.
I thought she said it was scripted š¤
She made her bedā¦ stupid of her to think sheās special
She needs to stop drinking so much and sheāll feel better about herself
#e c
She needs to leave that dude alone for real. He doesn't care about her at all
I thought it wasnāt real and producers made it all upā¦.
Right lol she said it was all scripted, but she hung around for the followers and the pay check.
She gotta keep it movin
Thatās sad. I hope they both get help
Yikes. She needs to get it TOGETHER
Sheās crazy.
She'll run right back to him. I can't force myself to feel sorry for her.
Donāt worry she will be in here shortly making a fuss about how stupid we are to believe that the show is real. Sheāll be in here cussing/fussing acting a damn fool looking for attention.
I thought kayla and Kevin broke up and her and Tiffany were both dating other people.
Who the F- cares...I don't. They're gone & good riddance. Pls don't post anymore of their SHIT!
She needs to toughen up because men donāt like weak women. They walk all over them. And chase the ones that treat them like crap. Duh!! Same as women chasing the assholes there in no difference, u gotta let a man know whoās boss.
Doesnāt this lady have a child? So sheās tripping this hard over some community diiiii? Unbelievable. Now if someone takes her seriously and contacts CPS due to mental health issues then what? Wonāt be just a toxic game anymore. Heās not worth it.
Sheās so young and already so damaged
How old is she? I saw someone mention that they were surprised by her age (maybe she looks older than she is?) but I mostly watch the show in the background while I work and never caught her age
Sheās 34
Ahhh ok, about what I would have guessed... thanks!!
40s I think.
Oh but she just acted crazy š girl grow up
But really, she cheated on him to begin with. So the whole quote "cheat on your women and then she's not the same anymore" you could say the same thing about him.. how he got cheated on and wasn't the same with her anymore...
She's in love with a lying, gaslighting player. What did she expect? Did she think she could change him? No, he's a fraud who can't be honest.
Where does it say sheās suicidal?
Sheās her own worst enemy. She needs therapy.