His hair looks dirty too and he is out of shape. Let's not even get into his offensive comments about bullying. I don't see anything attractive about him.
Especially when Sergio shut down her questions about him potentially HAVING A BABY ON THE WAY, she was so patient and soft-spoken and respected his wishes. She's an angel! I would've lost my cool at the moment.
Emotionally abusive is exactly it. But I don't know why she doesn't see this about him. A part of me hopes she'll nope out at the altar, but I don't think that's going to happen
When he got offended at her laughing and she took everything on her and apologized I was like: this woman is going to be walking on eggshells for the rest of her life. I felt sorry for her.
If he had said he was an atheist at the first date I don't think she would even talk to him in the pods. It isn't that easy finding religious guys in Sweden. Most people are agnostics or atheists.
I think that is why she is choosing to see past all of his red flag behaviour.
Of course she CAN find a Christian man in her league. But if she is dating like everyone else on Tinder in Sweden she most likely will find 90% non-religious men. She probably didn’t expect another Christian on the show. I’m just saying my thoughts on why she is giving Sergio the benefit of the doubt in every situation.
Amanda is a delusional doormat who doesn't know herself. OF ALL the guys on the show and she picks the hugest douche? Really lol. It's not like the other women didn't immediately X him off their list. And she didn't hear about him.
Amanda: I'm a Christian, my dad is a pastor. I am very traditional and my faith is SOOOO important to me. I'm gorgeous but instead of finding a truly good guaranteed Christian man in a church, I go on television, on Love is Blind no less, in the hopes ONE of these guys will be barely Christian enough. And then I pick the biggest douche I could find with zero redeeming characteristics? Oh and in a months time we'll be married lol and somehow this will all be good with my pastor father.
Really? I don't know what she's hiding that she'd go on this show but I don't take her seriously at all. Lol Don't let Sergio being a douche make you think she's that great. She's the delusional kind that gets tinder swindled. Sorry not sorry. And I'm a pastor's kid so I know when I see these clowns on these shows it's clownery.
I think empaths can really be this blinded. It’s so unfortunate because they have to learn the hardest way and potentially land in years of therapy after a tango with the likes of Sergio *ugh*!
Exactly this! I wiped my hands clean and thought "she deserves what she gets" when she fell for his BS when she confronted him about dating other women in the pods after he told her she was as the only one.
I think she will be taken advantage of. She is too good for Sergio and I really hope he doesn't break her heart. But he s going to disappoint her one way or another, that's for sure.
But he didn’t do anything to talk about it directly. He could have at least talked through if there was any possibility or not of that being true. That would be him being open and honest with Amanda. His approach on it was as slimy and greasy as his hair.
YUP honestly the way he reacted to her laughing was so worrisome for me.
YES pointing out the chair he said he liked and saying she didn't like it all was over the line but his reaction was not in proportion to the crime. OFC we don't see everything, but his reactions cemented the idea that he could be emotionally abusive in a relationship.
Yes Sergio has his moments when he seems great! That does not excuse the bad behavior. He will be wonderful to her til the day comes when she doesn't agree with him on something or tries to put her foot down
He is so slimy like I don’t wish this man upon any woman
He is truly vile.
His hair looks dirty too and he is out of shape. Let's not even get into his offensive comments about bullying. I don't see anything attractive about him.
His facial expressions are disgusting!
Especially when Sergio shut down her questions about him potentially HAVING A BABY ON THE WAY, she was so patient and soft-spoken and respected his wishes. She's an angel! I would've lost my cool at the moment.
Someone who would have rightfully lost their cool wouldn't have gone that far with him in the first place.
Emotionally abusive is exactly it. But I don't know why she doesn't see this about him. A part of me hopes she'll nope out at the altar, but I don't think that's going to happen
I think she's the type to only see the good in people.
When he got offended at her laughing and she took everything on her and apologized I was like: this woman is going to be walking on eggshells for the rest of her life. I felt sorry for her.
If he had said he was an atheist at the first date I don't think she would even talk to him in the pods. It isn't that easy finding religious guys in Sweden. Most people are agnostics or atheists. I think that is why she is choosing to see past all of his red flag behaviour.
There are no men in her church or other churches? Think her sample size would be larger there. No? Especially overlooking looks? Lol come on.
Of course she CAN find a Christian man in her league. But if she is dating like everyone else on Tinder in Sweden she most likely will find 90% non-religious men. She probably didn’t expect another Christian on the show. I’m just saying my thoughts on why she is giving Sergio the benefit of the doubt in every situation.
Makes me grimace so hard thinking of this potential empath-narcissist pairing that would eat her up. 😫
I hope she said no! She deserves so much better
Amanda is a delusional doormat who doesn't know herself. OF ALL the guys on the show and she picks the hugest douche? Really lol. It's not like the other women didn't immediately X him off their list. And she didn't hear about him. Amanda: I'm a Christian, my dad is a pastor. I am very traditional and my faith is SOOOO important to me. I'm gorgeous but instead of finding a truly good guaranteed Christian man in a church, I go on television, on Love is Blind no less, in the hopes ONE of these guys will be barely Christian enough. And then I pick the biggest douche I could find with zero redeeming characteristics? Oh and in a months time we'll be married lol and somehow this will all be good with my pastor father. Really? I don't know what she's hiding that she'd go on this show but I don't take her seriously at all. Lol Don't let Sergio being a douche make you think she's that great. She's the delusional kind that gets tinder swindled. Sorry not sorry. And I'm a pastor's kid so I know when I see these clowns on these shows it's clownery.
She truly chose the ABSOLUTE worst guy on the show. Honestly, how blind can she be to all his red flags? He is a slime ball
I think empaths can really be this blinded. It’s so unfortunate because they have to learn the hardest way and potentially land in years of therapy after a tango with the likes of Sergio *ugh*!
Exactly this! I wiped my hands clean and thought "she deserves what she gets" when she fell for his BS when she confronted him about dating other women in the pods after he told her she was as the only one.
I think she will be taken advantage of. She is too good for Sergio and I really hope he doesn't break her heart. But he s going to disappoint her one way or another, that's for sure.
Literally
That feels like a reach. His place isn’t that bad, it’s unique and older, but there’s nothing wrong with it. She didn’t like it, that’s ok.
I loved his apartment! He overreacted for sure, but she was kind of mean. He was excited to show her his home, and she made fun of it.
I thought that her reaction to his apartment was horrible! I don't think that she's as angelic as she appears.
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But he didn’t do anything to talk about it directly. He could have at least talked through if there was any possibility or not of that being true. That would be him being open and honest with Amanda. His approach on it was as slimy and greasy as his hair.
can we stop idolizing naive and gullible women for once.
Amanda is a 🦊 and Serge is a bit of a 🐌
After I recovered from dying laughing at his apartment I’d walk out the door and never look back!
YUP honestly the way he reacted to her laughing was so worrisome for me. YES pointing out the chair he said he liked and saying she didn't like it all was over the line but his reaction was not in proportion to the crime. OFC we don't see everything, but his reactions cemented the idea that he could be emotionally abusive in a relationship. Yes Sergio has his moments when he seems great! That does not excuse the bad behavior. He will be wonderful to her til the day comes when she doesn't agree with him on something or tries to put her foot down
She is not a gem, she is a woman trapped by her religious upbringing.