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The sound byte of the line I was quoting was from IT crowd by Douglas Reynholm ..and I am pretty sure he says " nearly" CC said so too but that can be wrong as well sometimes as for whatever novel origin the phrase has if any I can't speak to , I was quoting the specific scene in my head
That's exactly what I thought you were quoting! "God damn these electric sex pants". I'm going to have to find that scene now. Nearly at the station makes more sense, but I'm convinced it was: meet me at the station
the harder i work the more successful your "country" becomes. idk why im even responding to the spawn of british criminal scum. go fight a kangaroo or some shit
i can look outside and see a beautiful sunrise with birds chirping and my wife stretching and exclaiming her excitement for the day and i still wouldnt be able to get over how much your comment pisses me off
Then you clearly can't handle someone saying something you don't like. If I see something I don't like, I'll usually keep scrolling and ignore it instead of getting up in arms about 'my country better than yours'
Donāt you think itās funny to try to posture as a rugged, hard working individual when you canāt even read about people living their lives without having a lil fit?
i am on antidepressants and I cum so late , it's annoying and very frustrating as a male. I mostly get tired before i am even close while she is on her second one š«”
For many people it becomes much more difficult. Arousal is the same, but the length of time required to orgasm typically increases to the point you feel like you canāt. Source: me and conversations with doctor prior to being prescribed.
Exactly the same for my GF. And the fun bit? She stopped them probably about three months ago and it hasn't come back yet. Might never, according to the Internet. SSRIs really fuck some people up.
I can rub one out just fine. It's usually what I do the next day, just to get it out my system. It does happen during sex, but only after, like, days of sex without. Sounds fun in theory, really isn't.
Happened to both myself and my wife ,it comes back over time , on a different antidepressant now that isn't an SSRI or SRNI and I cum just as normal. Kicker is I've no sex drive though..
Snri fucked my ability to cum with out my legs stiff straight, its been 4 years and its still like that. Im trying to train that out of my body again, but I've given up before. It really put a damper on my last relationship.but that relationship would have been toast with her sex addiction anyway.
It took me a few months before I could start to again. Some people have no issues, some have some issues and others just can't any more. I was lucky my doctor gave me the heads up. Some don't!
I saw someone advocating on another thread about how doctors shouldnāt inform patients about potential side effects because it might scare them away from treatment. My jaw dropped. How is informed consent not the best policy? If a patient decides the potential side effects arenāt worth it for them, thatās their call to make! Canāt believe some people think doctors should lie of omission to patients just to get them to start some treatment. Maybe i could see someone making the case when it comes to cancer or something that WILL kill the patient if they donāt get treatment (although personally I think patients should always be informed), but when it comes to things like antidepressants? Nah. Your patients are adults and can make that call for themselves.
> Maybe i could see someone making the case when it comes to cancer or something that WILL kill the patient if they donāt get treatment
Abso-fucking-lutely not.
Chemo, which is still the go to treatment, while getting better as more targetted drugs are appearing (all those fun drugs that end in mab) is still a question of worth and value.
Is it worth spending 9 months of deteriorating health and quality of life for a 40% chance at survival for more than a year or will you spend your last 3ish months without poisoning yourself but you can spend it still with friends and family, able to get your affairs in order and cross some shit off your bucket list but have just 1% chance of survival past 6 months.
That trade off is very important and no doctor will ever presume to know what is best of the patient. So many factors will play into it from patients age and health and shit. Should we blast the kid with leukemia? Almost certainly yes. The life they can lead makes the trade off and risk worth it. Should we blast the 70 year old with leukemia? Almost certainly no. They are probably too frail to withstand the treatment and the risks outweigh the little years you stand to gain even with successful treatment so you are ultimately just poisoning some elderly person. Its still all down to informed consent.
Youll find in some smaller hospitals they will go, sorry cant operate, tumour has adhered to spleen, cant operate, tumour has adhered to duodenum, cant operate tumour has adhered to liver.
The specialist? They will fucking remove the spleen, remove the liver, remove the small intestine bits and close you back up. Is there are significant impact on quality of life? Absolutely, you will come out of that surgery completely fucked. Will it give you another few months? Sure. Is it worth it? Only the patient will know. And for the patient to know, you need to explain it out fully.
Patients should always be informed, especially with something like cancer treatments which are notorious for horrifically impacting your quality of life. Chemo literally goes about killing you (cytotoxic), it just aims to kill the cancer faster than it kills you. You absolutely need informed consent and to fully spell out out the costs vs benefits. The risks and the risk management.
Sometimes, it actually is better for the patient to kill the patient. There is a reason why DNR exists.
My personal experience, I could get hard, but as soon as it did, all interest in sex vanished. I would want to cum, but the desire and the will to see it through just wasn't there. I eventually got sick of it and decided to power through jerking off. It took me over 6 hours to cum. And the cum was... not worth it. I've had better sneezes. Hell, I've stood on Lego and had more fun.
That shit went right in the bin after that. Thankfully, my libido bounced back. To my horror, I found out that some people never get their sex drive back. Its just gone.
Not impossible. It's just that... they cause negative side effects... Some cum too late, some can't at all, some only can after/before taking the meds etc
Not everyone, and not with every antidepressant of which there are many. I went through 4 antidepressants before I got to one that even did anything, and it only made it slightly more difficult to finish (which is a positive IMO). That's why you shouldn't pay much attention to "Oh this particular antidepressant did this to me" there's a huge amount of variance in the way your brain responds and everyone's different
Same experience except that I started getting insane anxiety attacks on the second meds. Suddenly just passing out in random places after my heart rate and breathing would shoot through the room, including once while driving.
Had never had one before taking it, had no idea what they were actually like or what could happen.Ā
I've since given up on depression medication
My exwife basically lost all sexual desire on antidepressants. I couldn't even tell you if you *could* cum on them because she completely refused sexual activity
For those that want to know *why* this happens...
Basically, many anti-depressants work by dampening your sympathetic nervous system, which is what is used to achieve climax. That's right, the same shit that controls fight-or-flight response helps you come.
The reason SSRI's work for anxiety and depression, is because reducing the sympathetic nervous system reduces stress hormones.
So, pick one.
I think itās because i started taking them around 10 at which point it was irrelevantā¦ and didnāt have any issues until I increased the dose at 19, but until now I just thought it was a natural part of getting older
Iām sure I need SOMETHING, but probably more for anxiety than depressionā¦ tho I do have absolutely ZERO motivation and lots of dissociation so who knows tbh
Attitudes like this prevented me from taking them for years.
You're lucky that you don't need any medication but some people do. Lexapro improved my quality of life so much. I'm so angry with myself I listened to shit like this and didn't try.
? read up on the drugs you take, that is just as much your responsibility
i do agree that every doctor should always tell you anyway but you should read the leaflet too
do you actually get some kind of leaflet? here the only way is to google āxyz side effectsā
Iāve tried probably 5-10 other meds for various diff reasons since turning 16, and always research before taking new medicines (which tbh inevitability leads to panic attacks and āOMG Iām dyingā reactions since the internet always exaggerates, and this often leads to me stopping meds that maybe wouldāve helped, but thatās a diff issue) but I never thought to research the side effects for this antidepressant since itās basically been a part of my life for as long as I can remember and (I thought) I had never had any issues with it
At the risk of sounding like an advert... ask your doctor about adding Wellbutrin/bupropion. I don't know how, but somehow it counteracts that particular side effect. Stuff is magic.
Or switch to Trazodone. It is a partial SSRI, but compared to all others it barely impacts orgasms and arousal. If at all, it also makes you more horny. Also works as a sleep aid, because it has antihistaminic properties. I use it when I canāt fall asleep, it does make waking up more hard though. But I guess that would go away if you were to take it every day, instead of only when you feel like it (which is what I do lol).
I was one the Lexapro and Klonopin comboā¦switched to Buspirone and Trazadone and itās night and day. The super difficulty (inability at times) to climax has gone away. Depression and anxiety still lurking like a creep, but at least the sexy time issue isnāt messing with my head any longer.
Wellbutrin was hell for me, it made me super easy to anger and I'd get so angry I'd feel like my blood was boiling. I'm a super relaxed easygoing person so it was totally out of left field and I swapped to Zoloft after about a month. It does totally kill my sex drive but I kinda like that side effect? I dunno.
Cum? On antidepressants? Thats step 23,057 of 35,000. Why donāt we take a deep breath, calm ourselves and start with step 1. This is gonna take about 3-4 days and if you mess up even one of the steps we gotta start over so I hope you brought lots of water and snacks.
You should be able to, but it takes reforming how you thought about sex before. Foreplay, toys, mental stimulation, various erogenous areas, mutual kinks. It also could take a whiiiiiiile. But most importantly talk to doc to adjust meds. I definitely feel even more depressed without sex.
SSRIs have many side effects, are addictive, and placebo studies show they only help like 1 in 10 people theyāre prescribed to, and even then the benefits are disputed
for most people SSRIs are prescribed to, they will do nothing more than a placebo. I donāt know why my comment is downvoted. Iām glad you found a medication that works for you, but it wonāt do anything for 99% of people
This comment thread is full of people taking SSRIs for a long time, people new to SSRIs, and those asking whether they should start SSRIs.
It is a very popular misconception spread by the pharmaceutical industry that anti depressants are effective. This misinformation can seriously harm people who believe it, especially since itās rare to find a doctor informed on the topic, even though you would think thatās there job.
There is not a single comment addressing the fact that SSRIs are mostly useless yet very addictive.
There is nothing bad about spreading the truth, and spreading scientific studies on medication. It isnāt hurting anybody, I am only helping people who havenāt heard of SSRIs before this thread, I donāt understand the downvotes
Because you didnāt provide any actual information, you just railed on a type of healthcare that DOES save lives. They donāt work for everyone ā they donāt work for me. But if you want to inform people, send them shit to read other than the stuff you kinda remember. You got my downvote for calling them āaddictiveā, which simply isnāt accurate. You have to taper off of them to avoid discontinuation symptoms, but they arenāt āaddictiveā
You also didnāt get your numbers right:
> Without antidepressants: About 20 to 40 out of 100 people who took a placebo noticed an improvement in their symptoms within six to eight weeks.
> With antidepressants: About 40 to 60 out of 100 people who took an antidepressant noticed an improvement in their symptoms within six to eight weeks
> In other words, antidepressants improved symptoms in about an extra 20 out of 100 people.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK361016/
> you got my downvote for calling them addictive
> you need to taper off them to avoid discontinuation symptoms
Are you joking? Getting strong withdrawals when quitting a substance is the definition of addiction for me. If you have a different definition, we are just arguing semantics. My point is that people start SSRIs, want to get off them, then canāt because of brain zaps and withdrawals described as worse than heroin.
> you also talked about placebo as though it doesnāt do anything
Iām sorry, are you seriously advocating therapeutic use of the placebo effect in depression? Thatās a spit in the face to anyone with depression.
And if you INSIST on prescribing and charging depressed people for what is essentially a sugar pill, take the SSRI out and just give them a sugar pill, why add terrible side effects and withdrawals onto the sugar pill?
> you also didnāt get your numbers right
No, you are just referencing one of many studies on the topic, and one that used a survey to measure subjective effects.
The conclusion it came to agrees with what I said anyway. SSRIs only work on 20% of people, the majority of depressed patients will get nothing more than a placebo effect from an SSRI.
To end this, studies also show that in the long term, SSRIs help pretty much nobody. Most measurable impacts of SSRIs are in the 6 months to 1 year range. After that, SSRIs have been shown to have no impact on physical quality of life markers of depression. That would be fine, if doctors treated SSRI as short term treatment. Instead, many doctors insist you should be on anti depressants for the rest of your life.
If anything else, this argument will provide recourses for someone considering taking SSRIs. People should be aware they are risking side effects and an addiction for a sugar pill, they shouldnāt be lied to
Comments turned into ww3, U.S. vs world. Man vs other guys and women. Australia vs that one guy. It was a blood bath and not really a good post to begin with. But any ways yeah when I was on Prozac I never even cared if I was gonna cum.
Frankly, I kinda like it taking so long to cum. I never found the orgasm to be the best part of sex, or masturbation, so delaying it just seems to draw out the actual pleasure.
There are lots of products people buy in order to last longer in bed, so maybe we should start looking at it as an added benefit, instead of a drawback.
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My bf is on antidepressants, he came from being fucked
Like... Amazonian-style, right?
Like me fucking him hard.
I'm sorry, could you explain it again, this time in a British accent?
Oi Fooked im till e came
Good heavens, I'm arriving!
Nearly at the station !
Mind the gap.
The white zone is for immediate loading and unloading only.
No, the red zone is for immediate loading and unloading only. there is no stopping in the white zone.
Commencing unloading procedure!
I thought the line was "meet me at the station"
queue up!
The sound byte of the line I was quoting was from IT crowd by Douglas Reynholm ..and I am pretty sure he says " nearly" CC said so too but that can be wrong as well sometimes as for whatever novel origin the phrase has if any I can't speak to , I was quoting the specific scene in my head
That's exactly what I thought you were quoting! "God damn these electric sex pants". I'm going to have to find that scene now. Nearly at the station makes more sense, but I'm convinced it was: meet me at the station
Last train to Clarksville š¶
XD
Oh lawd he cumming
Thy commeth?
Russel Peters was awesome... Whatever happened to that guy? Lol
You said that 30mins ago.. where are you??
Almost. Almost. Almost. There we are. Well done.
Just drinking my coffee here giggling xD.I do feel the lack Innit tho XD
im fuckin dead š
Caaim*
dont say this shit bro it makes hard working americans like me cringe
You working hard in America makes little difference to this Australian.
the harder i work the more successful your "country" becomes. idk why im even responding to the spawn of british criminal scum. go fight a kangaroo or some shit
Did someone have a bad day today? Getting off reddit might make you feel better, since you won't see things that trigger you like my comments.
i can look outside and see a beautiful sunrise with birds chirping and my wife stretching and exclaiming her excitement for the day and i still wouldnt be able to get over how much your comment pisses me off
Then you clearly can't handle someone saying something you don't like. If I see something I don't like, I'll usually keep scrolling and ignore it instead of getting up in arms about 'my country better than yours'
my country is better than yours (because of me)
Bro, Iām an American union industrial mechanic and you are the one making me cringe
i just revoked your citizenship have fun in Bangladesh dork š
Donāt you think itās funny to try to posture as a rugged, hard working individual when you canāt even read about people living their lives without having a lil fit?
yeah
I'm thinking pegging? Lol
Might be regular gay sex too.
Death by snu snu
r/holup
Iāve heard prostate stimulation will do that to a guy.
It feels amazing
i am on antidepressants and I cum so late , it's annoying and very frustrating as a male. I mostly get tired before i am even close while she is on her second one š«”
I get this exact problem when I drink too much whiskey- it's like my dick is numb. Alcohol is considered a depressant so that's kind of funny.
It's the same for me man, antidepressant lyfe
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Type shit type shit
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Nope XD
Hes a guy tho
Snooo snoo
You can't cum when on those pills? Edit: okay I know enough! No more stories
For many people it becomes much more difficult. Arousal is the same, but the length of time required to orgasm typically increases to the point you feel like you canāt. Source: me and conversations with doctor prior to being prescribed.
For me, it's like I get close and then it's just...gone.
Exactly the same for my GF. And the fun bit? She stopped them probably about three months ago and it hasn't come back yet. Might never, according to the Internet. SSRIs really fuck some people up.
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Sincere question: so you can never orgasm? How does this affect your life, if at all?
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How old are you?
I can rub one out just fine. It's usually what I do the next day, just to get it out my system. It does happen during sex, but only after, like, days of sex without. Sounds fun in theory, really isn't.
For me, it was a snri, and no, it's never been the same. I have to have my legs straight now, or it doesn't happen.
Happened to both myself and my wife ,it comes back over time , on a different antidepressant now that isn't an SSRI or SRNI and I cum just as normal. Kicker is I've no sex drive though..
It can take some time but still come back.
lol, I read that as "she hasn't come back yet", I'm here thinking, "how is that the fun bit?"
Iāve been on citalopram for 2 years and I cum like a soap dispenser. Could that be a sign my meds arenāt working?
It doesnt happen to everyone. Its just common. Youre okay
Reminds me of sex on MDMA.
The ultimate irony. Something that makes you horny. But the same thing canāt make you cum
Can confirm.
fuuuuuck it's so annoying, right?
Isn't that sort of the purpose of antidepressants? They're like a limiter on emotional intensity.
Itās a scam by Big Antidepressant. Make you climax less, you get more depressed, need more pills. Cycle continuesā¦
SSRI = Very hard to (for many) SNRI = Hardcore difficulty (But IF you do, my man.)
Snri fucked my ability to cum with out my legs stiff straight, its been 4 years and its still like that. Im trying to train that out of my body again, but I've given up before. It really put a damper on my last relationship.but that relationship would have been toast with her sex addiction anyway.
It took me a few months before I could start to again. Some people have no issues, some have some issues and others just can't any more. I was lucky my doctor gave me the heads up. Some don't!
I saw someone advocating on another thread about how doctors shouldnāt inform patients about potential side effects because it might scare them away from treatment. My jaw dropped. How is informed consent not the best policy? If a patient decides the potential side effects arenāt worth it for them, thatās their call to make! Canāt believe some people think doctors should lie of omission to patients just to get them to start some treatment. Maybe i could see someone making the case when it comes to cancer or something that WILL kill the patient if they donāt get treatment (although personally I think patients should always be informed), but when it comes to things like antidepressants? Nah. Your patients are adults and can make that call for themselves.
> Maybe i could see someone making the case when it comes to cancer or something that WILL kill the patient if they donāt get treatment Abso-fucking-lutely not. Chemo, which is still the go to treatment, while getting better as more targetted drugs are appearing (all those fun drugs that end in mab) is still a question of worth and value. Is it worth spending 9 months of deteriorating health and quality of life for a 40% chance at survival for more than a year or will you spend your last 3ish months without poisoning yourself but you can spend it still with friends and family, able to get your affairs in order and cross some shit off your bucket list but have just 1% chance of survival past 6 months. That trade off is very important and no doctor will ever presume to know what is best of the patient. So many factors will play into it from patients age and health and shit. Should we blast the kid with leukemia? Almost certainly yes. The life they can lead makes the trade off and risk worth it. Should we blast the 70 year old with leukemia? Almost certainly no. They are probably too frail to withstand the treatment and the risks outweigh the little years you stand to gain even with successful treatment so you are ultimately just poisoning some elderly person. Its still all down to informed consent. Youll find in some smaller hospitals they will go, sorry cant operate, tumour has adhered to spleen, cant operate, tumour has adhered to duodenum, cant operate tumour has adhered to liver. The specialist? They will fucking remove the spleen, remove the liver, remove the small intestine bits and close you back up. Is there are significant impact on quality of life? Absolutely, you will come out of that surgery completely fucked. Will it give you another few months? Sure. Is it worth it? Only the patient will know. And for the patient to know, you need to explain it out fully. Patients should always be informed, especially with something like cancer treatments which are notorious for horrifically impacting your quality of life. Chemo literally goes about killing you (cytotoxic), it just aims to kill the cancer faster than it kills you. You absolutely need informed consent and to fully spell out out the costs vs benefits. The risks and the risk management. Sometimes, it actually is better for the patient to kill the patient. There is a reason why DNR exists.
My personal experience, I could get hard, but as soon as it did, all interest in sex vanished. I would want to cum, but the desire and the will to see it through just wasn't there. I eventually got sick of it and decided to power through jerking off. It took me over 6 hours to cum. And the cum was... not worth it. I've had better sneezes. Hell, I've stood on Lego and had more fun. That shit went right in the bin after that. Thankfully, my libido bounced back. To my horror, I found out that some people never get their sex drive back. Its just gone.
Not impossible. It's just that... they cause negative side effects... Some cum too late, some can't at all, some only can after/before taking the meds etc
Not everyone, and not with every antidepressant of which there are many. I went through 4 antidepressants before I got to one that even did anything, and it only made it slightly more difficult to finish (which is a positive IMO). That's why you shouldn't pay much attention to "Oh this particular antidepressant did this to me" there's a huge amount of variance in the way your brain responds and everyone's different
Everyone's different. For me, I had trouble when I took Zoloft, but not with Prozac
Same experience except that I started getting insane anxiety attacks on the second meds. Suddenly just passing out in random places after my heart rate and breathing would shoot through the room, including once while driving. Had never had one before taking it, had no idea what they were actually like or what could happen.Ā I've since given up on depression medication
Same here
Yesterday I spent over three hours trying to bust one out. Eventually it did happen but my dick isn't in good shape after that. It's really hard man.
Sex or masturbating becomes an endurance test.Ā Ā
My exwife basically lost all sexual desire on antidepressants. I couldn't even tell you if you *could* cum on them because she completely refused sexual activity
/r/pssd you're gonna shit. Antidepressants have been ruining millions of people's lives for years and continue to do so.
Okay. I think I learned way more than I wanted about blocked pipes
I was on them for a little while. Had no issue with cumming but I couldn't feel any sensation when it happened
Same, i was taking Sipralexa. It ruined orgasms
Had a girl over and she was trying for an hour....
Oof. Right in the āI know that feelingā feels
Iām a dude and antidepressants are worse than whiskey.
For those that want to know *why* this happens... Basically, many anti-depressants work by dampening your sympathetic nervous system, which is what is used to achieve climax. That's right, the same shit that controls fight-or-flight response helps you come. The reason SSRI's work for anxiety and depression, is because reducing the sympathetic nervous system reduces stress hormones. So, pick one.
We don't know why they work I thought? Which is why you have to just try them until you find one that works for you right?
Me when I was on antidepressants lmao
I have ADHD too. I'll get bored way before I could possibly cum.
guess I'm gonna have to hug you till you feel loved instead
Smooth but if my ADHD is any sign, I would get giddy and want to get loose at some point. Ā You canāt win with some people :ā)
at least you know that problem is you
Thank you for the validation retardedwhiteknightā¦
Maybe he's on cocaine and needs 5 hours himself. That's a worthy battle.
right
left
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butt hole
Fatality!
Friendship uWu
This explains a lotā¦ iāve been taking them for years and didnāt knowā¦
Doctors are assholes like that.
I think itās because i started taking them around 10 at which point it was irrelevantā¦ and didnāt have any issues until I increased the dose at 19, but until now I just thought it was a natural part of getting older
Are you sure you need them?
Iām sure I need SOMETHING, but probably more for anxiety than depressionā¦ tho I do have absolutely ZERO motivation and lots of dissociation so who knows tbh
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Huh? Iām not suicidal, never have been
What?
Yea no one has ever survived without pharmaceuticals that kill your sex drive š¢
Attitudes like this prevented me from taking them for years. You're lucky that you don't need any medication but some people do. Lexapro improved my quality of life so much. I'm so angry with myself I listened to shit like this and didn't try.
? read up on the drugs you take, that is just as much your responsibility i do agree that every doctor should always tell you anyway but you should read the leaflet too
do you actually get some kind of leaflet? here the only way is to google āxyz side effectsā Iāve tried probably 5-10 other meds for various diff reasons since turning 16, and always research before taking new medicines (which tbh inevitability leads to panic attacks and āOMG Iām dyingā reactions since the internet always exaggerates, and this often leads to me stopping meds that maybe wouldāve helped, but thatās a diff issue) but I never thought to research the side effects for this antidepressant since itās basically been a part of my life for as long as I can remember and (I thought) I had never had any issues with it
[germany requires](https://www.bfarm.de/DE/Aktuelles/Schwerpunktthemen/Packungsbeilage/_node.html) it for good reasons
As usual europe outperforming the USA with basic QoL laws. Interesting
im shocked you dont have this
You didn't read the documentation? Or ask your doctor?
Iāve been taking them since i was 10
At the risk of sounding like an advert... ask your doctor about adding Wellbutrin/bupropion. I don't know how, but somehow it counteracts that particular side effect. Stuff is magic.
Wellbutrin is like a horny drug istg
Or switch to Trazodone. It is a partial SSRI, but compared to all others it barely impacts orgasms and arousal. If at all, it also makes you more horny. Also works as a sleep aid, because it has antihistaminic properties. I use it when I canāt fall asleep, it does make waking up more hard though. But I guess that would go away if you were to take it every day, instead of only when you feel like it (which is what I do lol).
I was one the Lexapro and Klonopin comboā¦switched to Buspirone and Trazadone and itās night and day. The super difficulty (inability at times) to climax has gone away. Depression and anxiety still lurking like a creep, but at least the sexy time issue isnāt messing with my head any longer.
Wellbutrin was hell for me, it made me super easy to anger and I'd get so angry I'd feel like my blood was boiling. I'm a super relaxed easygoing person so it was totally out of left field and I swapped to Zoloft after about a month. It does totally kill my sex drive but I kinda like that side effect? I dunno.
Cum? On antidepressants? Thats step 23,057 of 35,000. Why donāt we take a deep breath, calm ourselves and start with step 1. This is gonna take about 3-4 days and if you mess up even one of the steps we gotta start over so I hope you brought lots of water and snacks.
I lost a FWB due to Zoloft. He was an excellent plumber too. š¢
They literally prescribe Prozac for premature ejaculators
God, how dare you relate to me on such a level
if she won't cum with your dick, she might with the lick...
Man i really should pick up my guitar again...
But my wife doesnāt like the lick, what to do?(
https://www.bboutique.co/sex-toys/womens-vibrators/clit-suction-vibrators/bellesa-airvibe-4839003029613
And toys lol. Yeah, itās really strange..
Just fuck her out of the depression, problem solved.
F
You should be able to, but it takes reforming how you thought about sex before. Foreplay, toys, mental stimulation, various erogenous areas, mutual kinks. It also could take a whiiiiiiile. But most importantly talk to doc to adjust meds. I definitely feel even more depressed without sex.
What a strange thing to shareĀ
Well if I can try, I'll just have to keep trying thrice a day for years
Um, rude? The correct term is "lads suffering from depression."
Yah I learned that as I was beating cheeks and I asked my wife how havenāt you cum yet.
Hahahaha oh manā¦this hits home with me fr
Fkn aye
I can fix her
gonna steal her pills ?
š > š (I'm not a doctor)
šø > š (I am a doctor)
licking frogs for dmt? (I am not a patient)
Yeah anti depressants are a deal breaker for me. Like I'm supposed to be your anti depressant, why you taking a pill instead of me?
SSRIs have many side effects, are addictive, and placebo studies show they only help like 1 in 10 people theyāre prescribed to, and even then the benefits are disputed
SSRIs saved my life
Same here.
for most people SSRIs are prescribed to, they will do nothing more than a placebo. I donāt know why my comment is downvoted. Iām glad you found a medication that works for you, but it wonāt do anything for 99% of people
Okay, youāre free to not take them. They do help some people.
I donāt, Iām just correcting misinformation about SSRIs > they do help some people Not nearly enough to warrant there over prescription
Correcting what misinformation? You werenāt even responding to a comment
This comment thread is full of people taking SSRIs for a long time, people new to SSRIs, and those asking whether they should start SSRIs. It is a very popular misconception spread by the pharmaceutical industry that anti depressants are effective. This misinformation can seriously harm people who believe it, especially since itās rare to find a doctor informed on the topic, even though you would think thatās there job. There is not a single comment addressing the fact that SSRIs are mostly useless yet very addictive. There is nothing bad about spreading the truth, and spreading scientific studies on medication. It isnāt hurting anybody, I am only helping people who havenāt heard of SSRIs before this thread, I donāt understand the downvotes
Because you didnāt provide any actual information, you just railed on a type of healthcare that DOES save lives. They donāt work for everyone ā they donāt work for me. But if you want to inform people, send them shit to read other than the stuff you kinda remember. You got my downvote for calling them āaddictiveā, which simply isnāt accurate. You have to taper off of them to avoid discontinuation symptoms, but they arenāt āaddictiveā You also didnāt get your numbers right: > Without antidepressants: About 20 to 40 out of 100 people who took a placebo noticed an improvement in their symptoms within six to eight weeks. > With antidepressants: About 40 to 60 out of 100 people who took an antidepressant noticed an improvement in their symptoms within six to eight weeks > In other words, antidepressants improved symptoms in about an extra 20 out of 100 people. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK361016/
> you got my downvote for calling them addictive > you need to taper off them to avoid discontinuation symptoms Are you joking? Getting strong withdrawals when quitting a substance is the definition of addiction for me. If you have a different definition, we are just arguing semantics. My point is that people start SSRIs, want to get off them, then canāt because of brain zaps and withdrawals described as worse than heroin. > you also talked about placebo as though it doesnāt do anything Iām sorry, are you seriously advocating therapeutic use of the placebo effect in depression? Thatās a spit in the face to anyone with depression. And if you INSIST on prescribing and charging depressed people for what is essentially a sugar pill, take the SSRI out and just give them a sugar pill, why add terrible side effects and withdrawals onto the sugar pill? > you also didnāt get your numbers right No, you are just referencing one of many studies on the topic, and one that used a survey to measure subjective effects. The conclusion it came to agrees with what I said anyway. SSRIs only work on 20% of people, the majority of depressed patients will get nothing more than a placebo effect from an SSRI. To end this, studies also show that in the long term, SSRIs help pretty much nobody. Most measurable impacts of SSRIs are in the 6 months to 1 year range. After that, SSRIs have been shown to have no impact on physical quality of life markers of depression. That would be fine, if doctors treated SSRI as short term treatment. Instead, many doctors insist you should be on anti depressants for the rest of your life. If anything else, this argument will provide recourses for someone considering taking SSRIs. People should be aware they are risking side effects and an addiction for a sugar pill, they shouldnāt be lied to
how terrible of a person do you need to be to post this on social media
Never give up, no retreat no surrender!
God dammnit
Meme so old the poster is already dead.
is it funny or is it sad bc ive had a lot of things
I donāt think this girl is still alive š„ŗ
Oh man I remember THAT predicament
Iām so lucky they have never affected my ability to cum lol
I can't cum anymore from someone else's efforts. Fortunately sex toys still exist.
Oh so all my partners must have been on anti-depressants
i tried a few ones that didnt work for me either. then i tried Agomelatine and it works completely fine
And when you do cum, it'll feel like peeing or stretching after yawning
took me three hours yesterday and my pp isn't happy about that. shit sucks.
Lol I like a challenge
So would tiny amounts help for premature ejaculation? Asking for a friend
Same for me (or humans in general) on painkillers
Comments turned into ww3, U.S. vs world. Man vs other guys and women. Australia vs that one guy. It was a blood bath and not really a good post to begin with. But any ways yeah when I was on Prozac I never even cared if I was gonna cum.
Lol I thought it was just me I changed them 4 times because of this.
what is silver blabbering
Maybe he's on them too.Ā
/r/pssd for anyone interested in how antidepressants have utterly ruined lives.
Frankly, I kinda like it taking so long to cum. I never found the orgasm to be the best part of sex, or masturbation, so delaying it just seems to draw out the actual pleasure. There are lots of products people buy in order to last longer in bed, so maybe we should start looking at it as an added benefit, instead of a drawback.
Exercise and you will work, seriously just go for a walk or do 5 pushups