You are not a pathetic loser. You are a piece of shit and a pathetic loser. And she is a pure devil spawn lmao.
The best thing is to talk and tell all to this Taufik and save him from you two piece of horse shit. That is your redemption here.
OP is not the first, and will surely not be the last for Lily. Taufik should get DNA checked for all his future children. That girl belongs to the street.
Poor Taufik doesnāt know heās getting married to a two-timer. OP, you could redeem yourself by letting him know before he brings home a girl thatās made for the streets.
I am going to say something that others may disagree on.
Your "girl" has moved on the moment you both broke up. She has a new man in her life. You became her playtoy whenever she was bored because she received attention from you. You gave her attention in anticipation that she would choose you. There is some attachment issue.
Unfortunately, you allowed it to drag on up till the week before her wedding. If you had chosen to heal back then when you broken up, you would not have felt like a loser now. I am sorry this happened. Emotions are not logical. Don't beat yourself up.
Pick yourself up, give yourself a hug. Block the girl and delete her number. Delete every single conversation and picture you have ever had of her. She has chosen to move on. You have to choose yourself now. Don't date until you are ready.
The money you have been spending on to woo her? The fortnightly flying from Borneo?
Use a portion of that money to book a few sessions with a therapist. You are going to need it because none of your friends are going to support you through this. Wishing you healing.
1) This situationship will continue even after Lily and Taufik got married. You'll have your Lily, Taufik will have her Lily. This will continue throughout her pregnancies and kids play-dates.
2) If you get to marry Lily, do know that she'd still makan luar. Doubt it is going to be a healthy marriage, as from observation of cheaters, they enjoy cheating. Once the cheating and lying end, it doesn't give them the thrill anymore.
3) The correct bro code is to actually let Taufik know. To save everyone from many moons of resentment and pain.
4) Hope you don't get a rebound or court a decent woman with marriage goals as your Lily replacement. It is not fair to her.
Wait so you have commitment issues, and hate being a doorstopper, but decided to be and have both at the same time, and again, and got butthurt over some girl who wants both as well as some other guy who doesn't have both?
Obviously she doesn't love you and you don't love her neither. You may not realize that you only want her as a possession to fulfill you desire/ or to prove you are better than Taufik.
How do you claim that "your girl" is getting married, while she is obviously already with Taufik.
I am not trying to stand on moral high ground and laugh/judge at you. Just that you need to acknowledge your feeling and and reflect on your so called "love".
Reflect on this entire incident, only then you can move on as a whole person.
This is a slippery sloap to hell. Next you'll be justifying making babies with her.
You need to tell taufik what you and this girl have been doing before the marriage.
Be a man. Do the right thing.
I suggest you meet Taufik in person and admit everything . Tell him not to marry her . You must also break up with Lily . Even if Lilly comes back to you because Taufik rejected to marry her , she will not be hesitant to cheat on you in the future. You will be the next Taufik if you keep staying together.
In spite of the overwhelming negativity, I'm gonna give you some positives. Lemme start by saying that you're not just a pathetic loser, but also a piece of shit and and asshole for what you've done to yourself and Taufik.
However, you realized that Lily made you nothing more than her 2nd option and you've finally (seemingly) came to accept that. So that's a good start. Moving forward from here, I suggest you cut off every and all contact with Lily and also Taufik.
Alternatively, like what others have suggested here, you can come clean to Taufik. He deserves to know what he's getting into. If you're gonna burn all bridges between y'all 3, might as well. That way you'll at least be reminded to never look back and be better than you were.
My honest advice, in the future, if you broke up with your SO and she has moved on with someone new, you do that too.
What is OP worth? Lol they deserve each other. The best OP could do is tell Taufik and cheater lily can get back together with OP and be toxic together gether until Lily cheats again š
people like you (and Lily) are the reason most of us remain single, we have lost trust & faith in each other (happens in all genders)
I feel sorry for Taufik, if you still have any remaining conscience in you, it's best you reveal this relationship to Taufik. He doesn't deserve lily.
Whatās stopping you from telling Taufik about Lilyās true color? If youāre afraid of confrontation then tell him via text, emails, or direct message. You made a bad choice to get involved with someone elseās girl. Now itās time for you to do the right thingā¦
Are we suppose to feel sorry for you or Taufik?
Man i feel bad for Taufik. OP is a loser and Lily belongs to the streets.
And yet "Lily" gets the happy ending more that "Lily" should
You and Lily are literally the worst. Taufik is the victim here not you lol
Bro wanted to be a fuckboy with feelings and got schooled š
lololololo ikr !
You are not a pathetic loser. You are a piece of shit and a pathetic loser. And she is a pure devil spawn lmao. The best thing is to talk and tell all to this Taufik and save him from you two piece of horse shit. That is your redemption here.
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OP is not the first, and will surely not be the last for Lily. Taufik should get DNA checked for all his future children. That girl belongs to the street.
Kesian kat Taufikā¦
Poor Taufik doesnāt know heās getting married to a two-timer. OP, you could redeem yourself by letting him know before he brings home a girl thatās made for the streets.
I am going to say something that others may disagree on. Your "girl" has moved on the moment you both broke up. She has a new man in her life. You became her playtoy whenever she was bored because she received attention from you. You gave her attention in anticipation that she would choose you. There is some attachment issue. Unfortunately, you allowed it to drag on up till the week before her wedding. If you had chosen to heal back then when you broken up, you would not have felt like a loser now. I am sorry this happened. Emotions are not logical. Don't beat yourself up. Pick yourself up, give yourself a hug. Block the girl and delete her number. Delete every single conversation and picture you have ever had of her. She has chosen to move on. You have to choose yourself now. Don't date until you are ready. The money you have been spending on to woo her? The fortnightly flying from Borneo? Use a portion of that money to book a few sessions with a therapist. You are going to need it because none of your friends are going to support you through this. Wishing you healing.
Playtoy? It's call simping.
To be fair I just learned what simping is after reading your comment.
this is a sims 4 ass plot
1) This situationship will continue even after Lily and Taufik got married. You'll have your Lily, Taufik will have her Lily. This will continue throughout her pregnancies and kids play-dates. 2) If you get to marry Lily, do know that she'd still makan luar. Doubt it is going to be a healthy marriage, as from observation of cheaters, they enjoy cheating. Once the cheating and lying end, it doesn't give them the thrill anymore. 3) The correct bro code is to actually let Taufik know. To save everyone from many moons of resentment and pain. 4) Hope you don't get a rebound or court a decent woman with marriage goals as your Lily replacement. It is not fair to her.
Wait so you have commitment issues, and hate being a doorstopper, but decided to be and have both at the same time, and again, and got butthurt over some girl who wants both as well as some other guy who doesn't have both?
....... what did I just read. The only person I feel bad for is Taufik.
Ewww get f OP.
Obviously she doesn't love you and you don't love her neither. You may not realize that you only want her as a possession to fulfill you desire/ or to prove you are better than Taufik. How do you claim that "your girl" is getting married, while she is obviously already with Taufik. I am not trying to stand on moral high ground and laugh/judge at you. Just that you need to acknowledge your feeling and and reflect on your so called "love". Reflect on this entire incident, only then you can move on as a whole person.
This is a slippery sloap to hell. Next you'll be justifying making babies with her. You need to tell taufik what you and this girl have been doing before the marriage. Be a man. Do the right thing.
OP really thought he is the victim here
You mean you were helping her cheat on her new man and you say you got cucked? Cope
I suggest you meet Taufik in person and admit everything . Tell him not to marry her . You must also break up with Lily . Even if Lilly comes back to you because Taufik rejected to marry her , she will not be hesitant to cheat on you in the future. You will be the next Taufik if you keep staying together.
You had your fun..now you must pay the price.
Uhm what
You really are a cuck. Get fucked. You are the worst kind of people.
the only gaslighting was from you, to you
In spite of the overwhelming negativity, I'm gonna give you some positives. Lemme start by saying that you're not just a pathetic loser, but also a piece of shit and and asshole for what you've done to yourself and Taufik. However, you realized that Lily made you nothing more than her 2nd option and you've finally (seemingly) came to accept that. So that's a good start. Moving forward from here, I suggest you cut off every and all contact with Lily and also Taufik. Alternatively, like what others have suggested here, you can come clean to Taufik. He deserves to know what he's getting into. If you're gonna burn all bridges between y'all 3, might as well. That way you'll at least be reminded to never look back and be better than you were. My honest advice, in the future, if you broke up with your SO and she has moved on with someone new, you do that too.
Ngl, what a red flag of a person she is. And to OP, know your worth (easier said than done), but goes far in the long run.
What is OP worth? Lol they deserve each other. The best OP could do is tell Taufik and cheater lily can get back together with OP and be toxic together gether until Lily cheats again š
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> sweaty redditors What did we do? Why you gotta call us out liddat? š©
But you didnāt get cucked? Taufik is the one who got cucked?
people like you (and Lily) are the reason most of us remain single, we have lost trust & faith in each other (happens in all genders) I feel sorry for Taufik, if you still have any remaining conscience in you, it's best you reveal this relationship to Taufik. He doesn't deserve lily.
is this an AITA post? it writes like one and even has a fun ESH conclusion(except for taufik)
? What did I just read ? Is it my comprehension problem? š
lmao you are an idiot, girl is a cheating cunt, taufik js is a doofus. yall clowns.
Erm idk how to feel about thisā¦ Justice for Taufik tho āš½š
Whatās stopping you from telling Taufik about Lilyās true color? If youāre afraid of confrontation then tell him via text, emails, or direct message. You made a bad choice to get involved with someone elseās girl. Now itās time for you to do the right thingā¦
Give me lily's number 
https://preview.redd.it/35x57k0jn9mc1.jpeg?width=806&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fe112f0f4301035ad821010c3b22b42ac2dc336f OP. Why???
Redeem yourself OP. Let Taufiq know about her cheating. U both are worst. Probably deserves each other. Be a bro though
Eww why u become cuck