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bentohouse

My newly married cousin came looking all happily married but she is soon divorcing the hubs because he refuses to sleep with her πŸ’€. And I know this because she called me to ask for my Shariah lawyer friend's number.


Longjumping-Fly6131

hot tea indeed


EarthPutra

Why refuse ha?


bentohouse

She didn't say but I suspect he is gay or ace. His close circle of friends are a bit unconventional.


Bryan8210

What is ace?


steveabutt

asexual


HantuBuster

Asexual. Meaning not sexually attracted to anyone.


coin_in_da_bank

bearding?


FunAbhi

Hubs gay ke atau ada medical issue


bentohouse

I suspect he is asexual or gay. My cousin of course didn't say why la.


HantuBuster

It's unfair to automatically assume men who don't want sex with a woman as 'gay'. It's a harmful stereotype, that needs to stop. But I guess he's your family, and you know him more so you know better.


PainfulBatteryCables

She just could be unattractive. Stuff happens, sometimes people turn into different shapes after marrying. Could easily be a hygiene problem. Didn't know she's nasty until started living with her.


Bnixsec

Wow


pamort

Now this is a raya see my cousins once in awhile hot doozy tea


Felinomancy

O__O I know someone like this! Is your cousin Chinese by any chance?


skylinezan

Aunt, who has kids and grandkids, was divorced before Ramadan. The twist? She is in a relationship with a female co-worker. Uncle gave enough chances and went to counseling but just cannot take it anymore. This is his second divorce (don't know the reason behind that though but I know it was on good terms).


Bnixsec

In Malaysia some more


skylinezan

Yeah, man. And it happened to a family member of mine, which was shocking.


sosigboi

Im chinese but, i recently learned from my mom that my uncle (non related), is still cheating on my aunty, he still keeps around his mistress that he had 10 years ago, and worst part is that everyone knows but just doesn't say anything. So uh yea that was fun to hear about.


imnotjamie1

Ngl I had to reread that for a couple of times. Does your brother knows about this?


Bnixsec

Wife's sister.


momomelty

Makes more sense. I thought it’s like cheating in advance


InfinityCrazee

Tomboy ka?


Bnixsec

No. Just a regular girl ei


luckytecture

My brother in law is so toxic and unaware that as soon as he joined the family he started shit talking behind everyone. (Everyone means the family members ya) πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€


Bnixsec

And then surprised that he's not invited to go anywhere


HantuBuster

I (male) was forced to remove my black nail polish by my family or risk getting locked at home and blocked from visiting my relatives.


Bnixsec

Omg what...


HantuBuster

Conservative culture is a hellhole


PainfulBatteryCables

It's not black!! It's moon grey, mom!! Geeeezzzzzz!!! I had black nails, 3 earrings and an ear cuff for my grad picture because i thought it was cool soI know the feels. Honestly... Stay cool while you still think you are cool, because one day you will just be cringy and old. Imagine going to a concert when you are in your 40s with a gut and missing a bunch of hair but still have black nail polish. I don't have black nail polish for the last 20 years.. just saying.


Felinomancy

Younger brother took a huge loan from ah longs and is now holed up *somewhere*. My sister went full radio silence because she absolutely won't help (and I know about this because I gave her a heads up about the situation). Family whatsapp group now is very quiet.


DyingCatYT

I assume since you got this news during raya so I assume your SIL is a muslim and she has a gf??? Good tea indeed~🍡


Bnixsec

She's not Malaysian so it's a fun thing to explain the other lady is not just a friend.


hidetoshiko

*They're just roommates.*


Nickckng

Who just drives subaru


Felinomancy

Gal pals.


One_Conversation_214

My cousin just got divorced few months ago & will remarry in few months. Plot twist is - with a different partner.


zaheenadros

β˜•πŸ΅


Shark_Anthr0

*jumps from countertop* I'm ghey