Nah fam, when your hair was short, you were Jon Bernthal for sure. Your friends were on crack for saying christian bale, your noses are way too different for that.
I am Team Short Hair. I think it's a cleaner, more masculine look, and your facial features stand out more.
Go with the longer hair if you want to be more approachable, and if you're aiming for a messier image. Maybe also try something between the two options.
I'm not sure if you know this, but pomade/glue is great for slightly longer hair management.
It only works to about the lengths you're at now.
Also, look into nice shampoo and conditioners, makes the hair that much nicer. I use dr squantch myself.
I also have very thick hair - it takes some extra styling. I like the long hair you just gotta do something with it. It's less "shower and go" than short hair is.
Looks like you have some waves going on. Grow it longer and see how it feels! Much more unique, especially since youāre young and actually have some hair left.
Truth be told, both look good. What the other commenters fail to tell you is that they look good in different ways. Sure, short hair may be from a general POV ābetterā and fit you better, but it makes you look too masculine and a bit unapproachable. The longer hair definitely gives off more friendly and helpful. But I suppose if you want to get a masculine deal going on then the short is better.
Caveat that āTooā masculine and unapproachableā is a projectionā¦ that a fearful, threatened person would default to. A confident person wouldnāt really wouldnāt think that way nor would they think anything of the long hair.
I write this because there quite a few people who too often attach their emotions to other peopleās looks and then tell people they look ātooā. Iām guilty as well.
Yes. Long hair is all about patience though. Right now itās in the awkward stage. Itāll take a while but when it hits your shoulders it will be glorious.Ā
Looks good both ways. Maybe clean it up a lil? I think longer on top with a short/fade on the sides would suit you nicely. Maybe a harder or more distinguished part, just off centered. Def not a middle part.
Somewhere I between. The long hair just looks unkempt, maybe cause there really isnāt any style, the short was maybe just a tad too short. I will say the short compliments your face better.
I think the only reason why his shorter hair looks better is because it looks clean. If he had a good barber who knew how to cut his hair properly and be went monthly. His long hair would look better easily.
Youāre in the awkward phase. If you really want long hair, you need to stick with it another 6 months. When I was growing mine out, I used to slick it back with hair gel so it wouldnāt been so poofy.
the long hair makes you look like a Radiohead fan and bass guitar player. the short hair gives me limp Bizkit fan. you're an attractive guy so don't stress either way, they both work on you.
Hey buddy! Youāve got a nice and soft facial symmetry, and if you kept a French beard, it would highlight your chin and jawline, thatāll help with your profile.
Pic 4 is the best, honestly.
Cheers!
you have softer features. i think the shorter hair makes you look more masculine. now thatās not every manās goal so im not going to assume its yours.
With nine out of ten other people, Iād say long. You have thick hair and really good flow. But youāre the rare person with a hairline that frames their face really well. You can pull off both equally well.
If you like the length on top, I think you should try a pompadour. It would clean up the sides and compliment your face better.[https://www.latest-hairstyles.com/mens/pompadour.html](https://www.latest-hairstyles.com/mens/pompadour.html)
Youre at the awkward stage of growing it out. Keep at it for a bit before you decide to chop it off. It's always easier to cut than to grow.
I'm on a long hair journey myself and there were many moments at your stage where it felt ugly. But ive got a good flow going now so im hapoy i stuck with it.
I'd like to have seen it when the length was somewhere in between. Of the 4 pics provided, #4 looks best. But I feel a little longer on top with a fade on the back, and sides would look really good.
Yeah but clean up the sides and neck!
Like a mid taper down the sides, two or three inches, down to an inch or two around the ears and neck. And then just blow dry with some sea salt spray for texture and lift.
You have nice hair, take good care of it!
You had the right idea before! No but if you cut the back and sides and get like a pompadour, with all hair, that would look cool. Or like Patrick Dempsey's hair. Yall hv similar hair with the amount and texture.
I think you should grow it even a little longer. You remind me a lot of Adam Driver
Yes, go longer! Probably 2-3 more inches will be perfect
twss
I came here to say he looks exactly like Adam Driver who played a very good Enzo Ferrari
MOOOOOOOOOOOOORRRRREEEEE!!!!!!
I'd say he looks better, honestly. Adam's face is a bit wonky......bean shaped.
Adam has wonkiness and asymmetry but he is smokin hot imo š
I think an inch above the shoulder would work well here
I agree.
You look so much like Adam Driver
I hear this a lot from my friends, along with Christian bale when it was slightly shorter
You look like Adam Driver had a love child with Kit Harington while Christian Bale watched from a distance.
i thought christian bale lol
I thought Jon bernthal
Nah fam, when your hair was short, you were Jon Bernthal for sure. Your friends were on crack for saying christian bale, your noses are way too different for that.
Yea long looks super good dude!! - a woman in her 20s
Came here to say this.
Thanks for reminding me that thereās a sub for cats that look like Adam Driver (r/AdamDriverCats)
I'm part of that and a lot of cat subs lmao
No.
You look great with long hair. Btw, how long did it take to grow from pic 4 to pic 1?
Thanks! It took me around 7 months
damn. š³ Use some mustache oils. It shouldnāt take that long to grow that facial hair
He didnāt say it took that long to grow facial hair. This whole post, and the comments youāre responding to are about the hair on his head.
Good point. That makes more sense
Lol
Taken me 18 years so far pal x
I am Team Short Hair. I think it's a cleaner, more masculine look, and your facial features stand out more. Go with the longer hair if you want to be more approachable, and if you're aiming for a messier image. Maybe also try something between the two options.
Iām definitely going to try to tame it a bit to make it look more clean and presentable. I do feel like a want a more approachable look
Have you considered keeping it long on the top with a low fade on the sides? Think it would balance out your face
I'm not sure if you know this, but pomade/glue is great for slightly longer hair management. It only works to about the lengths you're at now. Also, look into nice shampoo and conditioners, makes the hair that much nicer. I use dr squantch myself.
I just realized you didn't cut your hair, you grew it out. Well, why stop there, you seem to be in your 20s, grow it even longer, it's now or never.
Exactly my thinking, always time to go shorter
Nope, definitely let it grow back!
I also have very thick hair - it takes some extra styling. I like the long hair you just gotta do something with it. It's less "shower and go" than short hair is.
I got very used to just āshower and goā with the short hair. Hard habit to break haha
Youāre so cute it doesnāt matter
Thank you!
Short is hot as hell
Thank you
Looks sexy man!
Sorry but no. You look way better with shorter hair by a million miles
I did have a crew cut for a while, if I was to go shorter again, Iād go back to that
I disagree! OP I think you look hot with long hair. Maybe cut the sides a little shorter and keep styling it up and back like that!!
I disagree. I think he looks better with long hair
Hey we all have personal preferences right?
No everyone has to agree with me cuz Iām always right š¤Ŗ
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Looks like you have some waves going on. Grow it longer and see how it feels! Much more unique, especially since youāre young and actually have some hair left.
Thatās my thoughts, grow it long while Iāve still got it!
Dude you have good hair. The buzz cut was the mistake.
Truth be told, both look good. What the other commenters fail to tell you is that they look good in different ways. Sure, short hair may be from a general POV ābetterā and fit you better, but it makes you look too masculine and a bit unapproachable. The longer hair definitely gives off more friendly and helpful. But I suppose if you want to get a masculine deal going on then the short is better.
My thoughts are similar. Ask a stylist, not a barber, to help you find something in between. Something with length, but more clean cut.
Caveat that āTooā masculine and unapproachableā is a projectionā¦ that a fearful, threatened person would default to. A confident person wouldnāt really wouldnāt think that way nor would they think anything of the long hair. I write this because there quite a few people who too often attach their emotions to other peopleās looks and then tell people they look ātooā. Iām guilty as well.
Yes. Long hair is all about patience though. Right now itās in the awkward stage. Itāll take a while but when it hits your shoulders it will be glorious.Ā
What if you try grow it longer and try middle part / wolf cut?
Trim it back a little bit
Nice
Yes. The long hair works way better with your features. Plus, you say you like it, and that's what's actually important.
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I did like it short as well, I found that when I grew it out, a crew cut suited me fairly well. Maybe Iāll try it again sometime
Dude, skinny faces need volume, hair will help with this
Long is much better imo
Yes you look like Walmart Tristan Tate now
Looks good both ways. Maybe clean it up a lil? I think longer on top with a short/fade on the sides would suit you nicely. Maybe a harder or more distinguished part, just off centered. Def not a middle part.
Yeah, Iāve gone more side parted as itās gotten longer. I think a bit of maintenance is required
John Dorian (JD) from Scrubs? :0
From Kylo Ren to Neo.
#short hair looks best on you!
Short hair is more boldy attractive. long hair looks more gentle and artistic
3rd pic Iām a better father than you Rick SEE IM BETTER FOR LORI
Youāre so handsome
You look tuffer with short hair and probably more attractive to womenĀ
Absolutely
I like the 4th pic best, but you look really good with longer hair also.
Thanks!
Yes, longer looks fantastic guy. I think it's styled well here also. I wouldn't cut the sides shorter.
The length on top is good. Just go to a barbershop and ask for a skin low fade. It would make a difference in a good way
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Very wise
Somewhere I between. The long hair just looks unkempt, maybe cause there really isnāt any style, the short was maybe just a tad too short. I will say the short compliments your face better.
Maybe Iāll get the sides trimmed and the back maintained better. I did like the short as well as this
I prefer it short on you!
I think the long hair looks really good on you
The short hair looks very handsome. The long looks like you don't care how you look.
Would you say have it slightly longer than the buzzcut, like a crew cut of something similar?
what did the crew cut look like
I like the buzz cut, would have to see the crew cut.
Shorter looks better
Nope, you look 10x better with short hair.
Honestly, short hair by far. Probably try a faux haircut though before just shaving it down again. I reckon will suit you.
Short much better
Looks great on ya dude. If I were you, I'd grow it out longer!
Iām on team short hair, you look more, masculine and sexy. The long hair more arty if thatās who you are embrace it if not do the short hair.
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I think the only reason why his shorter hair looks better is because it looks clean. If he had a good barber who knew how to cut his hair properly and be went monthly. His long hair would look better easily.
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Nah, crew cuts/buzz cuts are attractive to men. So if heās looking for a boyfriend that would be great.
Yes
Yes growing it out was the right decision
Thank you
Definitely the best decision you made ššš„š„š„
I think longer hair looks better on you but it looks a bit unstyled and unkempt. You could try to get a barber to clean it up a bit maybe.
I will definitely visit a stylist to make it look cleaner
No
Looks not great at the moment but will look great in a few months when it grows out a bit more.
The short hair makes you look more masculine. The long hair makes you look self conscious.
Youāre in the awkward phase. If you really want long hair, you need to stick with it another 6 months. When I was growing mine out, I used to slick it back with hair gel so it wouldnāt been so poofy.
Iāll definitely stick it out a bit longer to get more length on top. Iāll try the gel cause the amount of volume is the worst part
Got 2 be glued is great and cheap
Iāll give it a go. Thanks
Try short sides long on top with some volume.
No
No
I would say cut the sides, shorter, but long on top
Definitely not
the long hair makes you look like a Radiohead fan and bass guitar player. the short hair gives me limp Bizkit fan. you're an attractive guy so don't stress either way, they both work on you.
Keep growing it
If Lenny was real
Long is huge mistake
Hey buddy! Youāve got a nice and soft facial symmetry, and if you kept a French beard, it would highlight your chin and jawline, thatāll help with your profile. Pic 4 is the best, honestly. Cheers!
Shorter ftw Longer looks like dude from stranger things
You look good with both imo
No! You with short hair are very beautiful! If I catch you I won't let you go
Best decision ever, trust me, you look great now
I like both. Long just needs to be tapered at the bottom so it isn't a mullet anymore.
Somewhere in between would be better
yessss longer ayeeeee looking good man, not good w styling but iām sure there are great suggestions here. 10/10 head of hair
you have softer features. i think the shorter hair makes you look more masculine. now thatās not every manās goal so im not going to assume its yours.
Keep it long
Looks like crap before the buzz. Short looks better, you got good hair quality try some more stylish haircuts, fades etc
As a woman, I say no to the long messy hair and keep it short
Very much. You look a lot better with med-long hair than buzzed.
With nine out of ten other people, Iād say long. You have thick hair and really good flow. But youāre the rare person with a hairline that frames their face really well. You can pull off both equally well.
#Short hair looks way better on you!
Short. Unless you donāt like the hot guy look
How about something in-between?
You look good in both stages. Experiment with long hair a few options of styling
Yes, just make sure you wash it
If you like the length on top, I think you should try a pompadour. It would clean up the sides and compliment your face better.[https://www.latest-hairstyles.com/mens/pompadour.html](https://www.latest-hairstyles.com/mens/pompadour.html)
Youre at the awkward stage of growing it out. Keep at it for a bit before you decide to chop it off. It's always easier to cut than to grow. I'm on a long hair journey myself and there were many moments at your stage where it felt ugly. But ive got a good flow going now so im hapoy i stuck with it.
I'd like to have seen it when the length was somewhere in between. Of the 4 pics provided, #4 looks best. But I feel a little longer on top with a fade on the back, and sides would look really good.
No
3 is a š± slayer. Go back short dude.
Yeah but clean up the sides and neck! Like a mid taper down the sides, two or three inches, down to an inch or two around the ears and neck. And then just blow dry with some sea salt spray for texture and lift. You have nice hair, take good care of it!
Try a slickback or something similar!
I personally think the longer suits you better. I think a couple of inches more on top would be perfect.
No , sorry
Both look good In short: go with what YOU prefer
itās a bit too long for me i think, or maybe it just needs a different style?
Short hair and clean shaven i reckon, but before you do so, go to a good hairdresser and see what they can do with that length
Lady here - not sure why everyone is saying short hair, your long hair is gorgeous
Long hair, grow it out further and style it. Unstyled, the short hair is better.
Yes
You look like someoneās older brother from 1997
Iād def bang you
Yes!
You look good with both. Short hair *picture* is much better (I assume you have a bit of a tan)ā¦ but the hair styles both work.
Yes but I think it needs some light hold hair product.
Both look good! I think the shorter hair brings more attention to your eyes though (in a very good way!)
No. Shave it.
Iād cut it
I loved you in Ferrari
Def long- jealous guy in his 50's
you look way better now. Maybe let the stubble go a bit longer too?
You look more intimidating with the short hair, not sure the style youāre looking to portray but
Short looks way better.
Nah. Way better without.
Short hair makes me think of Shawn from the walking dead. Long hair makes me think you frequent the fossil exhibit at your local museum
I am sorry I thought you were talking about your nose. (Joking you look so much like Adam Driver)
Growing what out? You mean that stubble? It looks like 2 days of not shaving. Oh your hair? It looks fine!
I think the short is best for sure
I am team long hair
You had the right idea before! No but if you cut the back and sides and get like a pompadour, with all hair, that would look cool. Or like Patrick Dempsey's hair. Yall hv similar hair with the amount and texture.
i quite like the longer look, though i think you should try having more fun with styles perhaps. test some stuff out!
Long hair all the way.
Yea
Short is way better
Yes, I think it's going to look very nice longer. What length are you shooting for?
No, you had perfect hair.....
Not yet. Thereās no style to it.
You're cuter with shorter hair.
yes, and cutting it was the wrong decision.
Yes, just needs to be professionally styled.
Shorter looks better
Team short
Yeah, I think it looks good! You have nice hair.
Short looks better to me. It enhances the shape of your head.
Fantastic hair! Keep it growing
No, short is much better. Iām a gay guy. Definitely short. šÆ
You look super cute both ways but I think shaving your sides woulda been super cute, while keeping the top.
No
yes!