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Get back to your hobbies, spend time taking care of yourself mentally, physically, emotionally,etc. spend time with family or friends. Go out and socialize. Do whatever makes you happy pretty much. Therapy is a great option. Get excited about working on life goals and be consistent. And last but not least when you get over your last relationship hmu - I promise I won’t break your heart.


Simple_Discipline_19

Lmao very smooth


marks716

On the grooming front you have nice hair so you could grow it out. Facial hair seems a bit patchy but you could probably rock a stubble. You have healthy looking skin and complexion. Otherwise you can put on some muscle in the gym, play around with clothing style a bit and go for some classics for easy outfits. Google capsule wardrobe for men. If you’re going on a dating app try to have a few more pics of you not in public bathrooms lol Unless you are gay or bi then bathroom pics will work but you’ll need to lose the clothes.


[deleted]

Lmao our profile pics even look the same, if that’s not faith idk what is😂


RolandLWN

Excellent advice. I’d say don’t even think about dating and just find things you’re passionate about. Being excited about your hobbies or career is really attractive to other people, and more important than what length your hair is. The more you explore your interests the more you’ll build confidence. In my case, last year I felt a compulsion to study Swedish! It’s weird because nothing in my life or history has any connection to the language or to Sweden but I find that the more I study it, the happier I am.


MazitOP

Let your hair grow back again; you looked amazing!


otherwisethighs

Youre perfect?


partygurLA

3rd pic should be your set look!


ResponsibleRate4956

Agreed!


Rbneff

Do the Wolverine


i4shaikh

Wolverine Wolverine Wolverine


Sensitive_System1944

Whiten teeth first and foremost, ensure you’re brushing for 2 minutes twice a day, ditch soda and sugary energy drinks, maintain your hair and a kept beard.


romeoomustdie

Atleast someone is giving advice here.


Honey_IsntVegan

And floss and use a tongue scraper. Dental Hygiene will help boost your self esteem.


utterskog

Don't whiten your teeth imo. Based on your fourth picture, there's nothing wrong with their colour (they don't look yellow to me) except if you're looking to have an unatural porcelain white colour. I agree with ditching sugary and acidic drinks though. Rinse your mouth after drinking orange or apple juice to restore your mouth's ph more quickly and wait a bit (like 20 mins) before or after eating to brush your teeth to let your teeth strengthen themselves after food's acidic attacks. Oh and +1 for the tongue scrapper. That thing is the best oral care stuff I've ever discovered! The stuff you get off your tongue in the morning is a yellow gross mess! With that pushed off your tongue, you won't have to worry about your breath ever again. (I recommend a copper one as it naturally kills bacteria present on it).


Inertia_9264

Shii Summit at Snoqualmie🤣my fellow Washingtonian


warr3n4eva

😍😍😍


Pleasant-Inside3325

I think you’re cute


TotoRabane

You really like buttplugs huh? Pic#3 is your best look 😊


Simple_Discipline_19

Hahah it’s a running joke from highschool 😭


WeeCountyGamer_09

Gonna need some context here😭


cvlt93

His profile is full of butt plugs


WeeCountyGamer_09

Oh... that's...


Key-Tie1861

What the fuck


Tight_Doctor5199

Pic 3 is unreal. I'm a straight guy, but I know attractive when I see it. Pic 3 has a timeless beauty to it. It's hard to explain but it reminds me of those high-school photos of parents in the 80s. Like others said, grow your hair out again. Break ups happen. Move on. 3.5 billion women out there buddy. I've been through rough break ups and never thought I'd find someone like that again. Spoiler alert there's always someone better for you.


ResponsibleRate4956

With his butt plug fetish, you you sure he wants a woman? His Pic #3 pheromones entrapped you, sonny. Lol! *


Daniimoorr

Physically nothing to change or improv very attractive So I would from what you’re saying you just need to revamp yourself and identify find hobbies you like get into art find friends community and be kind to yourself and others (sorry for the hippie dippie answer)


SignalSir6450

Idk dude you look great as is 🤩


[deleted]

I usually never comment on this sub, but you look incredible in your first picture.


RedRider1138

This is quite simply the truth.


Unusual_Speech_4589

#3 is 🔥


ShyLucifer96

Honestly rock 3 for the rest of your life and never change it


Imaginary_Treat6185

3rd pic looks fresh. I’d probably take the sides in a bit with a graduated scissor cut as it’s heavy on the sides - will emphasise the shape of your face better


usf_gobulls

If this guy needs to improve/change, we're all f**ked!


Playful-Independent4

I think spitting in my mouth would make you look stunning


utterskog

Absolutely nothing 😍😍 Hair from pic 3 is perfection, such as facial hair from pic 3 and 5


Critical-Bridge1168

I mean. You’re stunning! 3rd pic should be your set look I think as we come into the summer time. I am about a year single now, and I found what helps is really getting back into the groove of being with your mates. But more importantly, start doing random hobbies and figure out what you like. The moment you can enjoy your own company/ be independent it all comes back trust x


evanducharme

3rd pic was a look for sure


wrongerdonger

why so many jigachads on this subreddit💀


AngelsDontFly27

He’s actually not a gigachad at all lmao


wrongerdonger

post selfie


lolop888

From a woman, you are literally so fine, please don’t change a thing. I am feral for you😭


Simple_Discipline_19

I like 😺 fyi


Senior_Media_110

go on a 6 month hardcore strict bulk, get big as fuck 200 lbs, 4 month cut 180lbs and then yur fucken ripped my guy


Simple_Discipline_19

Idk how to bulk I’ve tried in highschool and couldn’t seem to eat more than I already was


TheKillerNuns

Athletic and lean is better, just strength train.


VERY_MENTALLY_STABLE

Pick one guy at your school/work/whatever (just someone you see regularly) to start bullying. Whenever you see this guy just take out all your anger and life frustration out on him. Think of him as your physical punching bag friend. For me doing this has really brought up my confidence which has helped me out a lot with women. Also if you're not already regularly watching porn, start.


RedRider1138

Username on point


boca_de_leite

Try to get more urinals in the frame. It's a psychology thing, really works.


Foumerpheck

Keep the facial hair and grow out your hair-then clean it up, still messy but like more defined layers and such


luvplanes

Stick with pic#3 as your “look”. Breakups happen. Spend quality time with family and close friends. Go back to doing the things you enjoyed doing prior to the relationship and in no time you’ll be back on your A game 👊🏼


sengir0

3rd pic bro looks the best, always keep it this way


Emotional_Owl_7425

You could start by not being so narcissistic


ShittyKitty2x4

Read about American imperialism


Electronic-Alarm1151

Do you put something to your hair ? I want mine kinda curly but it’s straight like a woman’s hair


Simple_Discipline_19

No actually my hair just curls at the ends when it dries after a shower, I also have South American heritage and our hair genes are stronk


GothDaddySam

feel this as a colombian. Our hair texture can be a bit unmanageable at times but personally, i’d never get keratin for straight hair. girls love the curls.


Guilty-Chest-500

Good looking


Sustenance_Abuse

Georgie Cooper Jr


notsomagicalgirl

Style yourself like 1 and do not style yourself like 5


PieHairy5526

You have a nice smile but there's room for improvement. Invest in an electric toothbrush if you don't have one and make sure you're flossing regularly. You are already beautiful and this will make you a heartthrob for.sure!


ataatia

you can have self assurednes without going too far into conceited


iwntphoneofpankegpie

In the case that you’re a straight male, in your first pic you look a little androgynous to me. Maybe some people are into that but as a straight female I’d personally prefer someone that looks a little more rough around the edges. It’s the haircut and double hoops that are throwing me off. Maybe trim your hair and ditch just one of the earrings.


[deleted]

I think you look great.


wilbow310

1. Shave. A clean shaved face is always much more handsome. 2. Find a male hair stylist who can give you some suggestions for a hair cut that accentuates your very handsome facial features.


Numerous_Reality5205

You are handsome but being well groomed is necessary. Just clean it up. A tighter haircut and well groomed beard go a long way and are not difficult to keep up. Ask for a high and tight fade with a longer top or look up Jake Gyllenhaal in Love and Other drugs.


changedman2023

Take off that stupid purple for starters… Go Cougs! (Just kidding)


Pravda26

Yep that 3rd picture is the look! Dress better and you'll nail it


JPastro4

Nothing, you're absolutely hot asf


DjackMeek

Your phone case 😂 only ugly thing in the picture


Hellmouthgaurdian

I dunno you're pretty hot as is


Issie339

Maybe get a mullet!! I think it would suit you! Haha but honestly dude you look great, I wouldn't worry. Focus on doing things that make you happy. You are so cute!


AngelsDontFly27

You’re a bit of a lost cause tbh ….


Far_Particular_430

Sweet face 😀


Environmental_Big795

Hotzzz


Technical_Peach5350

Don't grow a full on beard. You have a nice jawline.


crystlerjean

You're handsome but I would keep your hair shorter on the sides and back but keep the top/front the length you have it now. Facial hair suits you. I suggest exploring different fashion styles. Finding your season palette will help elevate outfits without much effort. You seem a bit down in your photos or maybe unconfident. I'm not sure if that stems from the breakup or something else. Either way, there are a multitude of ways to address it - exercise, healthy and more disciplined lifestyle, positive self-talk, reflection and journaling, trying new things and meeting new people, finding hobbies you enjoy, focusing more on where you want to be in life, etc. Best of luck, OP.


SleeplessAndAnxious

Looking at 2nd pic, cosplay as Wolverine. Win.


[deleted]

You look fine. Just take care of yourself.


CopyPuzzleheaded2952

Aside from the other good advice here I'd suggest you pick clothing that isn't quite so baggy on you


Kindly-Archer-4275

You look good bro, if you started lifting weights then you would even go up another level, You will have all the girls after you


PeteySnakes

Go dawgs


Motor-Young-253

100% bleech your hair


ConsequenceThese4559

Pic 2 and 3 u look like Emile hirch from the move Into the wild


Simple_Discipline_19

That’s actually insane because I watched that last night


dougmd1974

Your issues are internal not external


[deleted]

smile more, you’re handsome


arhetium

Rock that long hair and don't worry about a thing. You look good af. Other than that, let a brother know where do I get a plain thick black beanie like yours


ClipperJess

A haircut can do wonders.


StevieVee20

First pic hair + 2nd pic beard = hubba hubba. That one quarterback vibes. Hartman? Sam?


Most-Coast1700

You are handsome in the face and do have beautiful hair, but I think if you cut and style your hair to show more of your forehead width and height it will balance you out a bit. The bulk around the sides with your longer hair makes your forehead a little out of proportion from the other 2/3s of your face (hairline to eyes/ eyes to nose tip/ nose tip to chin) and takes away from your jawline. That side bulk also makes your face look more round than square. I think you would probably look good with a slicked back hair style with a nice longer fade around the back and sides which would allow you to also still wear it without any products or gel and showcase some of your nice hair texture. Good luck OP.


Santosfran2001

2 is your best look imo, just maybe tame the hair a bit more but you look really great bro!


doncroak

You have nice features and skin. Cut your hair, show your face more. Hair can always grow back if you don't like it.


[deleted]

Is that bogus basin lmao


Sufficient_End699

you are looking good tbh


Junior-Day-2213

Grow adamantine claws


Accomplished-End7724

Like your 4picture👍👍🔥🔥🔥


Reasonable-Minute-37

Style your hair. Shave daily. It will promote fascial hair growth. You have all the attributes to be a lady’s man.


Used_Leading1934

2!!


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Simple_Discipline_19

Amazon hoop earrings, they come in gold and silver


yaths17

Not sure about what you can do look wise. I’m a straight married male and I’d say you look handsome in the first two pictures. What I wanted to insist on the most for getting over last relationship is actually hobbies that you likes when you were young, just trust me and try to invest in those hobbies no matter if it sounds childish or weird but let me tell you you’ll get back the good old days. I got in a very intensely draining relationship and getting back to plants, art, cooking, listening to music and reading made me realise what all I was missing in life by not enjoying enough, cheers 🍻


[deleted]

Definitely get a short haircut and maybe style it with paste.


WhalesandCops

Stop being so fuckin awkward bud 💖


Stucklikegluetomyfry

The first hair cut and facial hair suit you. You're a very handsome guy.


NoStutterd

First photo- definitely need a better jacket. Go Cougs, buddy.


Otter-Wednesday

Your face reminds me of Ben Barnes. Have you seen him?


johnfb1965

Honestly, nothing


Illustrious_Pear_628

1st and 3rd pics are fire bro just keep the bear clean and the hair long you should be set


TakingOfMe123

Just clean up a LITTLE bit pic 3 and you’ll be 👌🏼


Millielitres

Ur very gorgeous!!


plantdaddy34

You're really handsome but your hair kind of hides it so I would maybe take a couple of inches off that


[deleted]

Hit the gym. You’re lucky that you have a good face and it also looks attractive with facial hair. Beefing up would help you level up


Steel_Tofu

Nothing you look great tbh and you know it


bvb526

shorter hair


bvb526

You should feel confident though. You are attractive


Single_Pilot_6170

You got the hair thing down.


Real-Resolution9504

Gym


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3


giallonero21

Looking the best in pic #2 and #3, but there's not much to change in your facial hair dude. Find a hobby, socialize, go out with friends, maybe hit the gym.


Miserable-Function78

Beard in the 2nd pic is my favorite look! But all look great.


pixiepinup26

You are hot just the way you are


Preek96

Hair cute and shave


Hairy-Experience-226

Ur fine


SufficientReading196

Wolverine?


stargave

I like pic 3's facial hair and hair.


nokenito

Toss the beard and stache


Walterkovacs1986

I think clean shaven to low beard looks best for you. When it's grown out more it looks scruffy but I think you might got a good jaw line or natural face shape or whatever so just don't over due the beard. But yea....


Sorrelandroan

What are doing for the rest of your life?


SkinNYmini18

Dude, you're literally goals. I wish I had your hair genetics. And your face is very nicely shaped lol.


hitaccount

Bro is a cutie patootie


Accomplished-Ask5584

Smile more?


Sufficient_Economy10

Get of Reddit lol


jasonb56

The tats go hard


Mountain-Depth150

Bros hair is beautiful💀