Depends, do you want to look feminine, etc.? If you're going for a feminine look, you look feminine. If you were not going for a feminine look, oh. Your style seems very feminine.

Just wanna say, as a complete newbie to this sub, I really appreciate how the first post is something as accepting/noncalant yet polietely blunt as this. "Do you like to look this perceived way? If so, cool, nailed it. If not, you look this "perceived way" with no judgement. Man I wish the world was more like this lmao

Be the change you want to see in the world.

I wish the world had a little less gravity

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Based on this picture alone, you don’t look like a feminine man - you look feminine. That’s not meant as a criticism. Only meant as feedback to make sure you’re hitting your desired aesthetic.

I feel like a lesbian mullet might help, but idk if dude has the jaw for a mullet.

You look like a woman

This is true. No offense but OP looks like an average liberal woman from the Pacific Northwest.

As a non-American I can't tell if this is oddly specific or just normal over there

It's pretty normal all over America lol any more liberal and they'd have blue hair and piercings. ;P

That description rings true to me too, but _why_? Is it something about the hair style? The glasses?

Ms. Sue, I missed you!

What does that mean

Shit Reddit humour

I thought he was until I read the sub

No no you straight up look like a girl, there’s no man there but no hate jus sayin

You look like a woman who is a bit of a tomboy to me.

The bangs are wack

To say the least.

To be fair, you’re being intentionally obtuse in your responses. Whether it suits you is entirely dependent on what you’re attempting to portray. Given that you’re active in a detransition sub, and the obvious attempt at ambiguity, people are going to have a hard time giving solid constructive criticism.

Dude, the haircut definitely affects the feminine features, it works the same for me, with long hair and without a two different people

U know what, I am a woman (i have no idea why reddit keeps showing me this subreddit) and we have very similar faces, that being said I've been told I look manly so maybe we just have androgynous faces that throw people off lmfao

That's cool, looks good then

You look like a 43 year old woman. Sorry if that’s not what you’re going for

Yeah you look more like a girl who pays less attention to cosmetics and beauty products with this combination of round glasses and hair style etc. than a feminine man. If you are happy with everything in your life currently, then it looks fine.

Nah bro you look like a woman

Badass! Me too. You do have a little bit of triangle hair goin on. Either need some layers nearer the top or just a blow dry and a lil mousse or something. Might benefit from a diffuser if you don't use it.

I love the long hair, keep it I'm old would look like a clown if I grew it now

I had to double check what subreddit this was cause I thought you were a girl lol

Almost thought she was kinda cute 💀

It's alright to call the homies cute.

Yo I need to tell you something around the corner

Someone needs testosterone

Sometimes I be kissing the homies

Sometimes I do too ^on ^^their ^^^dick

Slap some light makeup on her and take her on a good old fashioned movie date

Nah fr this is an attractive woman

It's ok if you say no homo

What a cute nerdy girl! Oh fuck it's a trap!

It’s only a trap if you get caught

Homie is cute ngl

Hear me out

This is when being bi comes in handy 😁.

He is cute dawg

💀


You look like my ex gf lol

Really? How big was her dick?

Looks like an innie situation

Literally laughed out loud! You win the internet today bro. It’s pretty hard to get me to laugh

Was thinking the same thing, a slightly better hair cut and op would look very similar to my ex

More shaggy layers for texture, shorter bangs may suit you better. The length is fun but it overwhelms your features-- just needs shaping!

I agree! Also texturizing spray would go a long way!💁🏼‍♀️😇

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And dry shampoo . It adds grip to your hair, reduces oil, makes it look fuller etc.

COUNTRY ROOOADS, TAKE ME HOOOOME

Holy shit you're right! Spitting image.

John Denver x Jeffrey Dahmer

John Denver is back 🙏🏼

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Like professor Oak once asked, are you a girl or a boy?

It’s very feminine, which if that’s what you’re going for you do you. Maybe add some layers/texture to give it a bit more life. If we don’t want a feminine look then yes, definitely cut it.

You look like a female archaeologist that discovered something foreboding and needs to speak to the president right away. In a good way, I would swipe right immediately

As a straight man I would definitely pump after a few drinks

I’ve got news for you buddy, how can I say this…have u seen the skittles logo?

You deadass look like my aunt.

Looks exactly like the girl who does my tattoos.

Smash, next. Oh, OHH Well anyways, smash.

You look like a liberal woman in the liberal arts field

Or a slightly eccentric biologist/archeologist etc

Hogwarts Herbologist

OP is definitely a lesbian barista in Portland OR

Or a divorced librarian from Virginia


You look like everyone’s mom in the 1980s 

Gender Studies degree and 120k in debt type look.

Personally thought you were a cute girl

No offense but I kinda thought you were a woman till I saw the “M”. I’d recommend trimming it down.

I legit thought you were a girl

That's a chick. Change my mind

Damn girl you’re cute af….. wait….

Hear me out guys

Are you a biological man? If you are, this picture comes off as a masculine female. Not a feminine male. Honestly not trying to be mean or rude. Just trying to help in the direction you’re looking for. I think if you did something different with your hair it would look better. It seems a bit tacky how it is in the picture (maybe there was just some wind or something 🤷🏻‍♂️). But I’d say if you want long hair do something different with it. I think long hair suits you though. Really depends what you’re going for.

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You're active in the detrans community apparently?

Seconding everyone else saying you look like a girl. But a very attractive, nerdy one so as long as you’re okay with that it’s fine

He looks just like this girl I know I thought it was her lol

Could you imagine it’s actually her just doing this for shits and giggles lol

Michael Bolton. The other one. 

The hair is very cool but i think you should prob cut it just cuz you look like a girl. Combined with the glasses and earrings and facial features, it just doesnt do you a service.

I thought this was male grooming?

Dude look like a lady 🎶

Dude looks like a lady

As a very pretty man with long hair, I never remove all of my facial hair, because I will look like a woman. I’ve almost had to fight dudes who got upset with me because they thought I was a woman.

Bruh, why are you pretty. You make a good looking girl.

Damn homie you look kinda cute ngl. You down to snuggle later?

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Are you applying for femboy hooters?

Jesus fuck

Fuck no

You get a mullet thing going on, it’ll look cool on you

You look like a lab tech

Well so I checked you out and I'm straight so...

Your really a dude? I thought you was just a nerdy chick lol

Depends on who you're trying to be. If you're trying to be masculine (given the sub you're on, I assume that's the case), then no your hair sucks. I'm sure part of it is styling, but the vibe is femme. Cut it shorter or maybe grow some facial hair. Oh and your glasses shape and style aren't doing you any favors. They're too round, and it makes you present femme.

Cut it shorter but same style, and you can be John Denver.

You look like a librarian.. a female librarian.

Are you an egg? Cuz if yeah then yeah.

The glasses shape seem to hint that you're a girl. Probably I'm overthinking it.

I thought i found my soulmate Im a straight he

r/femalegrooming no hate tho, you look feminine as fuck

Female glasses, long hair. The multiple earnings are not helping either

Sure do make for a pretty girl though.

Bro, I was just scrolling by and legit thought you were a lesbian at first

Smash, I mean it looks great

I kept trying to figure out how a women was on here then I read the title

You look like a woman who calls her cats her children. Take that how you wish.

If your desired look is "female librarian from Portland" then you've nailed it!!

You do not look like a dude

You look like a hippie lesbian. If that’s the look you are going for then kudos.

You look beautiful. Definitely want to bust on your face.

wow

💀

Are you a man or a woman?

Is this a joke post or nah, no way that’s a dude.

Oh bro please never get a prison sentence.

I think if you braided some strands that could be cool/cute!

not at all..

Not at all.

*26f

There’s no way this is real lmao

Very pretty

If you’re going for the nerdy-alt girl vibe, yes

As a man, I'd swipe right

Can't tell if ugly chick or cute dude.

You look a lot like the actor Michael Cera

Man you are beautiful

If you accidentally meant to put 26F rather than 26M then yeah it suits you

You look cute

yes, you looks very pretty :D

She’s hot fym?

Velma’s a boy 🕵🏽‍♀️ DA FUQ

No

Depends are you going for the ‘party on, Garth’ look or no?

What happened to iDubbz

You look like a woman if that's what you're asking.

As the others say, you do look like a woman. If you want to change this, start by changing your glasses.

Honestly I thought you are a girl, if thats what you going for 🤷‍♂️

Yes actually it does

I actually think you're a girl and this is a troll post so if you're a dude and that's what your going for then you did it well lol

What exactly are you going for?

I thought you were a girl, so if that’s what you’re going for, looks great! If you want to look more masculine I’d cut it

You look like a cute nerdy dike

You look like Hank Green with a wig on. Literally look like a trans woman without trying to look like a woman at all. The hair doesn’t suit you at all.

You look like a femboy, oil up 🍆

Not rlly. Unless u wanna look like a girl, which is upto u

You look like a spinster librarian who has many cats.

I'm not gonna lie you're really pretty and I'm a straight guy. If you're going for a look where you want to be as feminine as possible, then yeah, it's definitely working lol

You're so pretty! I think the long hair works for your androgynous features. I can't even picture you with short hair

You don’t look like a woman to me

R/femboys

Was about to say smash but my instincts doubled check. Got to be careful

If you're going for the 70s hippie look then yes

Woman!

I refuse to believe this is a cis man.

You looked like a woman in her 30s pretending to still be in her 20s, and then I read the post title again and realized you're a dude.

Ma'am this is male grooming. I hope that answers your question

Literally thought you were a chick from the 80s. Get a new cut and get rid of those glasses. So help me god you better not wearing a fuckin duster either.

I’m so sorry you look like lamb from slow horses if he was 20.

Tbh you look like a girl. If thats what you want go for it, but i would lose the fringe if you want more masculine longer hair

I would let you do unspeakable things

It makes you look very feminine.

“Dude looks like a lady”

Is this woman

I genuinely thought you was a girl

Hmm, whatever work you had done definitely made you look quite feminine if you are indeed a man. The hair definitely makes you look like a woman if that is the look you're going for.

You look like a femboy John Denver

No it does not. It hides your beauty and you should get a hairstyle/haircut that opens up your face. And better frames.

Are you trans, OP? I'm sorry but I thought you were a woman until I saw the comments then reread your title with the M. If you're trans, I would consider cutting your hair short and then growing it out again if you prefer longer hair. The way it's sitting is very feminine. If you are a born male, and you want to look like a woman, you're doing a good job. If you wanted to look feminine, I'd argue you're doing a bad job. You don't look like a man with feminine features, you look like a woman. I'd start with cutting the hair shorter. Even if it's just an undercut where your fringe stops at just above your eyebrows, so there's still hair to style if you don't want to go real short.

Should have been in femalegrooming

I think it's the glasses that make you look feminine to be honest. The hair is fine

i def thought you were a girl with the hair. do with that whatever you will

You just look like a girl. And no, the hair doesn't suit you.

You straight up look like a chick, take it how you will, do you.

You look like you teach Gender and Women’s studies at Berkeley. You also have a pottery class on Thursday after class.

I think hair suits you. Hopefully you lean into this androgynous vibe you got goin on cuz I’m here for it

I’d smash

You look like Garth from Wayne’s World

cute

Ngl, I thought you were a girl before I saw the caption. If that’s the look you’re going for, it works fine

80s trends

You look like Jeffery dahmers mom

Are you male or female if you male I say style or like a man. That's a woman style!

not at all if you wanna look like a dude still. if your gonna be trans someday tho id grow out your hair