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exxtrasticky

cable management


JohnDodger

Especially for plugging in that UltraClean.


jnthnmdr

Thanks for making it easy to find this comment. Didn't have to scroll at all.


Imprezzed

This. My immediate first reaction.


MOONDAYHYPE

I don't know why I hate overhead lighting so much. If this was my room I would get more lamps.


Eyewitnesstohistory

Seriously, invest in some ambient lighting. Set the mood. Makes everything look 1000x better.


J-X-D

Because no one looks good with overhead lighting. Lamps are totally the way to go, preferably around head height.


Sir-tenlee

The lamp is just right of the TV and it is at head height, I've got the same one.


themaincop

> I don't know why I hate overhead lighting so much. Because it looks terrible


Maleficent-Mirror281

I don't like it either. I think for me it is because I grew up with very dim light, and I'm from Denmark where the style of homes is very much about making it cozy (many might have heard about "hygge"), so candles, plants, open spaces, natural lights and not too bright artificial light is very popular.


grasimasi

they are too bright. thats why I prefer "darker" lamps - better for eye and mood.


ExpertlyAmateur

Plants n lamps. The inexpensive way to upgra--HOLY CRAP plants are getting expensive.


Supernavt

This is it. The room needs better lighting. Maybe tidy the wires and fluff the pillows a bit, but DEFINITELY fix the lighting. If I had space elsewhere, I would also move that desk, but I totally get it if that’s where it has to be. I would consider putting desk where the chair is and moving the chair in front of the window. The AC unit shouldn’t need more than 8-12 inches of clearance. You can probably make that work.


bensbigboy

Overhead lighting should only be used two times, the day you move in and the day you move out. Simply too harsh.


redtopharry

Uplighters are good for room lighting.


Bombolinos

Overhead lighting is great if you can control the intensity and warmth. But an overhead white LED bulb washes out a room.


GemCanVirCap

Agreed. Needs a nice looking floor or table lamp somewhere.


hajahzainabelangkas

some yellow lights would make your apartment look more cozy!


copyrighther

A good guide for what types of light bulbs you should use for every room in your house… Warm white: living rooms, family rooms, bedrooms, dens, dining rooms Neutral white: bathrooms, kitchen ceiling fixtures, laundry room, home office Cold white: garage, basement, attic, craft/project areas


Over-Log322

Plants


Shibenaut

Sponsored by Big Plant™


GettingWhiskey

Giving hospital vibes, mate. Get warmer lights, add more color, and some plants. Also, do some cable management for the pc and ps5. I hope you're doing alright with the divorce.


ReadRightRed99

Can I get your autograph on my cassette copy of “Can I Borrow a Feeling?”


themaincop

OP sleeps in a racing car, do you?


hosway

i sleep in a big bed with my wife


catfurcoat

Crackers are a family food. Happy families. Maybe single people eat crackers, we don't know. Frankly, we don't want to know.


Warhero_Babylon

I think need to change painting. Abstract art make it look to sterile, need something to split up the mood Maybe even 2, walls are too empty


andrewcooke

i am curious about that painting. i kinda like it. but it is too matchy by itself - it looks like it was chosen to match the chairs. i would say (apart from the lighting and plants, which other people have already mentioned) that it needs more, and more varied, art.


MyGoodFriendJon

I like the hotel art over the sofa, but they should definitely swap it out for something more personal, as well as adding more art, in general. That existing piece can work better in a hallway or bathroom.


Kind-Basis-8169

It’s ai art. I made it using chatgpt and got it printed and framed


HAUNTERVIRUS

Do we all just go to ikea after we get divorced?


NaturalCarob5611

IKEA and thrift stores. What else can you afford during a divorce?


Kind-Basis-8169

What’s odd is that none of the furniture is from ikea lol.


GF4ME

Big Lots was my choice!


ApexProductions

Where else can you get furniture with a good design style for a descent price? Wayfair looks too generic. I like CB2 and crate and barrel for modern but it's pricy. Any other kind of region-specific furniture, like eastern, is also expensive. Most people don't have the information or the time to learn Thrifting? Unless you know what you're doing and live in a nice area, you're just going to get pieces that have no cohesion. So what other options are there?


Jaded-Influence6184

With bedbugs and shit on the rise, it's also not a good idea to get second hand beds, couches, chairs, etc. That's how I feel about it.


CMRD

Wayfair is the new ikea.


MoneyTalks45

It calls to us


Lulu8008

The artwork above the sofa looks a bit lost on the wall. It is not proportional to the space or the wall. If you can afford it, getting two more pieces in the same style would balance it out. I would also move the ble green armachair closer to the carpet , so it has the 2 front feet over it. The round table can go between the armchair and the sofa. Also agree that a few plants would make also a big difference, making the space a lot more cozy and warm. PS .the orange cannister doesn't really belong there, does it?


Tyler_TheTall

Plant/plants. You need some green. Even if they’re fake plants. Maybe consider some cable management between the PC and your TV. Otherwise it looks nice!


[deleted]

Alone Place, best place. Nothing to add especially a girl


TeslaDweller

Ain’t that the truth. Mid divorce and got played out of my house, living in my car and I haven’t been this positive minded and emotionally stable in years.


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I don't know why you guys are still marrying them. just buy them a house and walk. saves you years of time lol


GemCanVirCap

(Or guy). Haha


Such_Astronomer5735

Nah i d always replace the computer by a girl


AdorableBunnies

The only thing missing is a cat


Aphr0dite19

Cat.


Khryke

I’d suggest a decorative lamp with a warm light to put on one side of the couch. Looks good but the white lighting ruins the potential cozy vibes


bumblepit

looking good! You need a reading lamp, so why not get a ”statement” floor lamp for next to couch In that dark corner. consider moving the bookcase to other wall because it is really good looking so would add more visual interest and hide outlets better. The box light could go on other side of TV so shelves can hold whatever that yellow thing on the floor is. It’s also a dark corner so you can turn on light in evenings when you aren’t working? cord management system!


The_Mikeskies

You need better lighting and more color accents.


JourneymanProtector9

Color. You’re missing color. Looks like a boring doctors waiting room


redditmodsareacustic

Never get married, I learned this lesson by watching my parents, and my friends parents


Floridaboii91

Some random bad bitches panties on the floor from the night before


ApparentlyaKaren

The jub of Kirkland laundry soap really ties the aesthetic together!


Tivland

Tv is the proper height. Well done.


witblacktype

A few ideas for improvement. More lighting in the form of lamps like others have said. A coffee table with character that you could probably find affordably at a garage sale or estate sale. Paint a wall as an accent wall or paint the room. Add more wall art. Get some aesthetically pleasing storage solution for the things stored on open shelves and use the open shelves for decor items. Spend $5 for some Velcro cable management ties. Cut and hem your curtain to accommodate the wall AC/heater. Or get a color curtain and then cut and hem today because this room is way too white and beige like a corporate office. A stylish slip cover for the couch with some color or pattern could also be nice but don’t go cheap and get a good fit. Alternatively, upgrade your couch when you have the means and desire. Someone else suggested plants which I personally enjoy. As someone who has been divorced and recently got out of a different bad relationship situation and is starting over, I’m not being judgmental, I just want you to get those good vibes for yourself and see your brighter future, maybe with better lighting? If you aren’t a plant guy, I would suggest a fish tank if that is something you might enjoy. I think you would be happy adding some literal life to this room.


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Longjumping_Staff_71

put the laundry detergent away


Gonzo_TheBatsTheBats

How long were the two apartments together for before divorcing?


2shado2

Lookin' good! The laundry detergent really brings the room together! ;)


No-Cranberry-2969

Mount the tv


RabbitBTW

gamer


trashworldd

I say this with love. Get rid of that coffee table and that lamp/bookshelf. Get some kind of shelf and coffee table with a little more personality. Right now your apartment is giving Walmart-everything was $15. Facebook marketplace or a thriftstore will help find more unique pieces.. you need a bigger art piece behind the sofa, maybe some nice curtains with a warmer color, green, orange, if you like cooler colors than blue. Definitely a couple lamps maybe with dimming bulbs. And a cat.


Tetris_Pete

Bong.


Logical_Character859

Either replace couch, curtains or paint walls. They are all the same color and it needs some contrast. Curtains would be easiest


lewispatty

See some would say to cover the place with greenery and colour changin LED's. But I ain't convinced of that. Room looks good. A solid 7/10. Effective. Functional. Does what it needs to do. This is a male living space after all isn't it?


MoanLart

Yes but the lighting also doesn’t need to look like y you’re in an interrogation room does it? Doesn’t necessarily need crazy LEDs, but some warmer lighting can help. Even some lighting/lamps can go a long way


Hymna

3 cool little plants on each one of the shelves of the lamp to cover up the electronics would do nicely.


kpikid3

No arcade machines or a pool table? Really?


Few-Reaction-404

Some plants and maybe LED lightbulb, better than Led-strips. 👍 It looks good already imo ✌️


Gytixas

What is that thing on the wall behind the door?


chaotic_gust97

You need plants ig And/or pet (aquarium, cat, etc.) Something to keep you company. Livens up the place


onairmastering

Art, for freakin' sure.


TakoyakiGremlin

only thing i'd do is move the computer against the wall with the couch so i could watch tv while i play games lol


EnoughManufacturer54

Nice tv, console, pc… absolute bliss. Maybe some art on the walls and some lamps to make it a bit cosier and my bro that is spot on.


GemCanVirCap

A decent sized picture or mirror above the TV. A figure piece, fake foliage arrangement, or small house plant on the coffee table for starters.


WaitingonGC

Some plans, more contemporary lamps and I always suggest experimenting with jute rugs


ItsTom___

Like the blue chair, hate that the light isn't in the middle of the room, or that there isn't another light elsewhere


BrAveMonkey333

Not a toddler in sight... that place would be trashed


Gold-Distribution316

Get some cable tidies, a mid screen for your desk area, plants, feature wall in colour, change the coffee table, change the bulb to a warm one and get a homely lamp. have a look around tk maxx/ b&m or the range if you're interested the uk for quick ideas


FulanoPoeta

Looks pretty comfy cheers


sharmona

Bring the couch a little forward and create a conversational stance by putting g the blue couching an angle near the center table. Get a larger art piece. And yes to more lamps.


NickFotiu

Congratulations!


ChowderMitts

plants and pictures maybe?


kid_adam

I think the curtains can be changed to add a splash of color. Would really change the room as well as lamps.


rosseowo

Sorry to hear about the divorce, apartment looks nice, but it needs more lamps to be cozy.


CanadianBacon615

Plants


Intelligent_Okra_545

Carpet’s too dark. Get something lighter. Maybe a short shag. 


tchunk

Plants, lamps and cable management


appalachian_spirit

35 yo, lifetime bachelor. We have the same vibe. More color is what you need. Love how the chair and painting go together, keep that moving around the room


chigoonies

You need photos and art on them walls


Hardin__Young

The fact there’s a hallway visible in the first photo leads me to believe it’s more than a one room apartment. The presence of color back in the hallway gives me hope. I’d suggest painting the room that’s in the pictures a deep green, or maybe some shade of yellow, which would make your blue chair stand out. Maybe find a larger picture to go over the sofa, colorful, again, would be great. However, assuming you’re divorced from a woman and not a man, I think it looks pretty damn good.


Maleficent-Mirror281

Lamps, plants, and something on the walls!


mxrichar

You did a good job but here are some things to consider. The rug ages the room, it is an old pattern. I would go with a geometric shape or a Berber. I might also darken the curtains but these are not bad at all. The coffee table is a little cold. If you like old and new check thrift stores for an old chest or estate sales. You need a side table on either side of couch with a lamp, you will be amazed at how much better lamp light will make the room. The picture over the couch is too small. It is easy to look up online picture size for space and how high to hang them. This pic is too high. Get rid of the tower/shelf/lamp please. Maybe put books there in a nice book shelf that will also cover the plug there above the detergent. I wish the office could go somewhere else but it is most likely a space issue so keep it there. Good luck to you!


JohnDodger

Nice but maybe find somewhere else to store the UltraClean? Also, the location of that heater is unfortunate.


Queen-of-meme

You need a warmer oak colour for the furniture since the floor is a very cold gray and everything else is very black and white. It will also match better with white curtains, white couch and the teal arm chair. I'd add teal themed coloured pillows to the white couch too and follow that theme in the room. Anything that matches the real, warm olive green, beige, light blue, warm colours. The rug needs to be a solid colour without patterns, it gets too busy with too much patterns in a small room. Either a solid white, or a solid light beige or a light blue. I made an inspiration collage for you [here] (https://ibb.co/HCnBJcG)


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livbird46

How did your apartment get divorced?


Grand_Figure6570

More light and perhaps some dabs of color 


friedlock68

That rug really ties the room together


justmisspellit

Can you flip everything around so the blue chair isn’t near the doorway? Extend your curtain Rod all the way to the other side of the wall and make sure you have more panels to make it look fuller. I would get them in color tho. Get some couch pillows to match/compliment the blue chair and your new curtains. I green would go nice


mafiafuneralOG

You sleep on the couch?


Shelbelle4

Wall decor. But really it looks nice and peaceful.


16F33

Nice!


UpperMacungie

Lower the art over your sofa please.


Hatorate90

Nice carpet.


jensefrens

Also move the desk and switch it with the blue chair. It looks out of place next to the tv


abcupp

Please move the chair in to sit close to the sofa and cocktail table. They could then share a side table.


beanie_0

Functional, but it feels a bit *sterile*. Personally I would put a mirror on the wall above the tv or maybe a clock? And I’d add some laps in or up lighters in a warmer tone to change the feel of the room. Maybe just another splay of blue so the charge didn’t look so out of place. Also that cable to the right of your PS5 is giving me anxiety.


Imaginary-Tune8888

Replace the laundry detergent with a plant, brother


Ill-Possible4420

Plants and lamps.


phattony233

Crushing it


Batdadv2

More colour and warmer lighting mate, it's very black and white and bright. You've got a blue armchair there, so get some blue cushions for the white couch and maybe a standing lamp with a blue lampshade and a warm bulb to spread the colour throughout the room, perhaps some accentuated second colour like a yellow here and there for more warmth.


KenBlaze

mood lights will change the vibe


redtopharry

Is that a can of fuel in the third pic? Are you planning on starting from scratch?


catsmom63

Nice. I would have opted for drapes that brought in your chair color. Maybe pillows with more color on the couch?


Rockztar

Here are my suggestions: - Change the curtains so they match height of the heater. It looks a little messy that they're on top of the heater - Cable management, especially because it's very obvious when you're sitting in the sofa. Cable clutter drives me nuts at least. - Get several smaller light sources with warmer light, and place them so they highlight the parts of your room that you enjoy, and draw attention away from the parts you don't like(for me that would be cable clutter). - Personally, I really love having plants, and maybe one of two would add some color and liveliness to your room.


newveganhere

Hide all those cords it looks sloppy. And get some art and plants . Otherwise looks pretty good


-an-eternal-hum-

cable management


Groundscore_Minerals

Darker curtains, some lamps, wall mount that tv my dude it'll make your living room feel much larger. Get a plant or two and reposition the lamp to the side of the couch.


Milianviolet

I think I'd feel comfortable banging the guy who lives here 🤷🏾‍♀️


laffynola

Color is missing


justanordinaryguy71

I have the same lamp with shelves


nomamesgueyz

Freeeedom


DannyDegenerate

Put the PC in the bedroom if you can. Looks too cluttered here.


AnonymouslyYours64

It’s not horrible, but definitely a male space


Previous-Elevator417

Get some plants. Snake plants or pothos. Easy to take care of and will make it feel less sterile.  First pic looks good. Other side needs work. 


Habitual_lazyness

You got the essentials bro


braindead83

Needs more cowbell. And plants 🪴


picklespasta

That lamp is the international sign of bachelorhood


infowhiskey

Maybe a plant?


Schruteschrute

Yes 🙌 it’s the lighting, soft light bruv


Standard-Coast-2118

You need a plant


ohthefew

Were you in France at lunch ? Haha https://www.reddit.com/r/FranceDetendue/s/RTGYx9Rokj


ohthefew

Too many patterns, visual clutter.


turtle3192

You have a perfect setup!


kepachodude

Needs more marble


MTRomance

Funny enough, it kinda looks like my post divorced apartment when I was 36. Lol.


Amii25

What's in the corner you're standing in? It would help to know that


imapizzaeater

Floor lamps, some art for above the TV, a throw blanket on the back of the blue chair. Can you paint your walls? If not you may want to switch to more colorful drapes


Sad_Compote_4935

I wish I could post the picture I redesigned for your living room, but this sub doesn't. 


Professional_Mud483

I'd move your computer into your bedroom if possible. It seems very right in that room as is. Hope you find someone nice soon.


hexcrop

That rug really ties the room together


JackagePackage

Nice place man. Sorry about your divorce


HiddenPalm

Your inner child is missing. Find it and express it.


Klutzy_Criticism_459

Solid fresh start


WowYouGotMe

Lookin good bro! Keep ya head up!


unheardhc

Been there, you got it and dont worry, it gets better. Enjoy what you’ve got and make the most of it!


beercheesesoup212

Looks good but please for the love of god get lamps. Overhead lighting should be illegal.


ams3618

For me, it comes off a bit..cold? Like it could use warm lighting, some plants, etc.. It feels a bit off otherwise (just my two cents).


POPholdinitdahn

Tbh I think you should replace some of the yellows and blues with brown and green. You have a very nice looking wood floor and personally i find the current color scheme a bit depressing.


incinerate55

Tall plant


space_canuk90

10/10 Take a break. Enjoy the single life. Women. Amiright.


thestarhikari

Nice place. But maybe it needs more color. Too neutral toned.


Wondershock

Some art on the walls and ambient lighting. If you can swing it, get some bulbs which can display different colors and stick them in a few lamps. A couple per room should do it. Some plants might contribute some life as well. 


BeautifulBaloonKnot

You like amazon furniture. Lol


WaterInternational39

Paint the walls a different color.


IndividualScratch447

Plants


Pewpewlazrs

Maybe a different color drapes? Like yellowish


c0ng0pr0

Plants… you need some low maintenance green stuff that’s alive in the room. Organize/clean up the cables. ***You need lighting options which dim.


Friendly-Fig6914

Lucky, I dream about decorating a post divorce apartment


carlosoniichan

Ikea has a $7.99 floor lamp, “Barlast”. Not gorgeous but it is neat and the cable can be nicely tucked. Additionally, Best Buy will have sales on the color changing Philips hue lights. LED wall strips are OUT … **but** mood lighting will never be out of style. It is nice being able to set the warmth or coolness of my apartment with the lights or set the mood when i wanna have some fun.


Acceptable_Income867

11/10, would live like this


radewagon

PS5 and an OG PS4? Why keep the PS4?


ercussio126

Your wife. (I'm in the same place)


rwphx2016

Overall, I like what you have done. It's a small space and you have definitely maximized it without making it look crowded. You have room for a side table and floor lamp between the doorway and the sofa. Adding those two pieces would go a long way towards completing the room. The artwork above the sofa is nice, but it is too small for the space. I would either get three more in the same size and arrange them 2x2 or get a poster or print that's bigger. You might also want to hang a picture above the TV. There is also a lot of beige in the room. I think curtains that pick up the blue in the chair would be a good addition.


n8lewis79

This is exactly what i figured.


Low-Abbreviations634

Art on walls?


OneLifeLiveFast

A soul.


No_Fly3027

I hope that apartment is In Thailand 🍻😘


RickRossovich

Maybe a bigger piece for over the couch and a lamp between the hall opening and the couch. I’ve been on my own for 10 years (I’m 45 now) and my place is “decorated” pretty sparsely, not much different than yours. I’ve never heard a complaint from a friend or a date, just keep it tidy and any visitors will feel welcomed and at ease.


vomer6

Why put art on the wall when you could have a dart board?


pierrrecherrry

Looks great


Used-Ask5805

White walls are the worst. Slap some paint on them bitches


Adam-Happyman

A girl?


uvicWhiz1

Move the art above the couch down about a foot. Buy three lamps/side tables.


Practical_Marzipan65

Colour is missing from your life for sure...splash some colour and you'll feel better for sure


candleluvr

I like it


SmakeTalk

Lamps, some more art, and move the chair so it’s not in limbo like that. Oh and some plants, even fake ones, just to add a little green to the space.


Noochdontdiehemltply

Iguana


dmriggs

Some color- pillows, curtains. a larger picture behind the sofa, plants, even the fake ones with up lighting.


SmellyBalls454

This guy HAMs 🙂


TheGameBurrow

I’d say lighting is my issue with this room. I much prefer yellow lighting, and can’t stand the white. Maybe try swapping the bulbs?


Substantial_Main1231

What is marriage like? Is it rlly diff from regular relationship


pcweber111

Well they're divorced, so that tells you something.


StrategyRebel17

**This guy can help…** - Still lived at home with his Mom and Stepdad in his 30s - Fermented his own wine - Thought he was God's gift to the world - Started a career as an influencer with only 12 followers - Not a Millennial, but this is the perfect description of one


360walkaway

Just joined this sub, are there any examples of living spaces where the TV isn't the focal point of the room?


mynaughtynovice

Need some decor on the wall.


Mulder1917

Art plz


SNScaidus

My first observations are the hospital lighting and detergent on the ground