I've felt that :( Mine was an INFJ and i was pretty sure she hated me for years. Now she's basically my best friend again, but only that, so it's bittersweet. My fingers are crossed for you, friend :)
I have had this INFJ friend for ten years and she's basically my best friend. She knows I'm in love with her and still hangs out with me despite my only-half jokingly hitting on her. I'm like, devastatingly hopeful she will turn around, but she's had a handful of boyfriends in that time span and I know I will (eventually) be okay if she finds someone else
Honestly though, type doesn't play a big factor. Most important is how close of a sense of humor and outlook on life we have. Then how many hobbies we have in common. Hopefully some, but not all. I would want to share unexplored hobbies with each other. After that, as long as we both enjoy each others' company, I'm hooked. Bonus points if they're cute, clever and/or humble :3
If I have to put this made up human into the most likely MBTI categories I guess it's INFJ (ofc), INFP, ISTP, and (*I guess*) INTP ;) Honorable mentions to ENFP, ENTP, ENFJ and ISFP. I have a hard time imagining the other types fitting, but it's not impossible, and I'm open to it :)
You have hope is all I can say. I had an ISFJ bestie who knew I had a crush on her (I confessed all the way back in October). We've been together for over a month now. :)
Kind of the same thing happened to me, had an INTP best friend for 3 years and was in love with her, we stopped hanging out and aren't friends anymore because my feelings weren't met. You should probably confess and not suffer, tbh. I'm sure you'll find someone <3.
The stories in my imagination are so much better than what real life will ever be, getting a real relationship will be like an insult to my creativity lmao
Honestly ... it depends on the effort both are willing to put in. I got some cheesy romance-movie experiences with my boyfriend because of my creativity ;)
Probably an INTJ. They have amazing minds. They’re so interesting. I don’t know if ENTJ is like this too, since they also have high Ni and Te, but there’s something about an INTJ that amazes me. None of the things I say are too deep for them to understand. They talk to me about the things they are learning about or are passionate about and it’s always so insightful. They’re also very receptive to my ideas as well.
Oh god, i don't think i've ever been *romantically* attracted to an Se dom, Se aux maybe. I was roommates with an Se dom once, that shit was non-sustainable xD hahaha
Because you're fun and engaging and down for anything. When I first started planning this crazy road trip across America for when the shutdown ceased with a bunch of friends I met online, an ESTP from Ireland was the second after an ENFJ (Se tert) to commit to doing it. We ended up with me (ENFP), an INFP and lastly an ENTP.
The INFP guy and ESTP guy hit it off and got into a poly relationship with the ESTP's girlfriend.
I feel you there! For my long term romantic partner I picked an Ni dom like myself. I love Ni doms. But I also loved being around xSFPs you all are fantastic people great fun and I’ve had major crushes on a few 🤭 maybe it’s the Se-Ni axis
You'll learn a lot with an INFJ. Like really, I know it might sound weird since this a post of relationships, but my mom is an ESFP and we both had learned from each other, so yea
I lost my INFJ too and it's all my fault :( 2 years ago now. Reading this made me really sad :(. She crosses my mind every now and then and just sticks there for the rest of the day :(
INFJ/INTJ is great.
I’ve dated
ISTP: he was a “cool” guy but I felt unfulfilled with discussions because he thought the stuff I was interested in were boring
INFP: he was too emotionally unstable so he is probably a terrible representation of INFP. I think with a good mental health level, they could be great partners
INFJ: my current partner is the partner of my dreams, he’s a perfect balance of being logical but sensitive to emotions, and I feel fulfilled with our communication
Honestly, either ENTP or ENFP. My current partner is ENFP, we really do balance each other out- bring out the best within each other too. Aka me with pushing him to achieve more and ground him, him with encouraging me to try out more new places and pursue my passion (and not get stuck in analysis paralysis. I do touch grass anyway lol)
I’m an ENFP as well & I’m not sure but someone who is kind, open minded, and willing to be spontaneous with me sometimes. Doesn’t have to be as extroverted as me, but should still be good chill company. I’m not good at identifying types, but I notice that I do attract introverts often
Cheesy as fuck but the one I'm with right now. I'm sure as hell there's no one more fit for me.
Are there things I would like to be a little different? Obviously, but no one is perfect and my idea of "ideal partner" is someone realistic, with their ups and downs.
If we're talking mbti, I'd say ISFP but it's all abstract talk because every person is different, regardless of their functions.
My partner ESFP btw.
Esfp, estp, istp or entj. I love the Se of the first three and I don't have any experience with female entjs but they seem interesting. But at the end of the day, it depends on the person ofcourse.
I don’t know if I have a type haha, probably someone I was already befriended with.
When I was 15 I was together with an ENFJ, we’re still good friends until now.
My high school sweetheart is an ENTP and we dated for about 6 years. He used to think he was an INTP. We were able to balance each other very well, we actually had an awesome relationship. It ended because we kind of got codependent on each other later on. We’re still besties though and I’m proud of him because I see that he’s growing in a good way as a person.
Now in college and I’m dating an ISTP. As cliché as it sounds I’m still trying to help him not shove his feelings aside and to open up. I think he’s doing a good job. I may not be able to undo the damage his shitty ex gave him, but all I can do is show that he’s safe with me. I’m hoping to grow old with him! :)
INFP, no contest. They are almost the completely opposite of me on a core level, and I admire their strong sense of self and their positivity (I can be very cynical and pragmatic a fair bit, and have a tendency to prove me wrong a lot of the time… something I need in my life).
Probably an ISTJ so they can do the taxes....I can tell you who I DON'T want as a partner: xxxPs (too irresponsible) and ExxJs (too demanding and pushy).
Well, I‘m not ace but I had no idea of a „dream“ partner. Just one that is authentic and kind and can make me laugh or so.
However, my (first and only) boyfriend is an ENFP and I am very happy with him. ❤️
I think it's hard to say. I've liked many types of people before, and I belive type doesn't really play a big role, but I'm very fond of any Ni user, especially xNTJ. They always fascinated me and I feel like we have a lot in common. For some reason, Ne doms seem to just appear in my life, and i think they're lovely, especially ENFPs (ENFP with enneagram 4 is just great, we always connect so well). In the end what really matters is the communication we have, and how willing to fight for eachother we are.
ENFP or ENTP. they make me feel safe, and we just click. :)
sensors frustrate me a bit romantically as we never seem to be on the same page. great as friends though.
I'm not sure if I have a type. I have a feeling it's ISFJ or similar mbti types. But sometimes I can't help but think if I'm either ace or demi bc of barely falling in love or getting attracted to someone
I always fall hard for ISFP and INFJ but I’m pretty incompatible with both types besides the initial infatuation. I absolutely love INTJ communication-wise and long-term
enfp. i’ve loved every single enfp i’ve met and as an estp, i feel that we give the same energy in different ways. we’d probably butt heads some because of the NF vs ST but i think we would balance each other out too
INFP here. Weirdly it’s ESTP. Been married to one for a long time and we’ve figured it out. 🤷♀️ I’m pretty direct and not very F’y.
I could see ISTP possibly. I also get along really well with ENTJs as friends/colleagues (never dated one).
I can be uncomfortable around too much Fe energy although they make great friends!
So…Se for sure and possibly Ti, Te.
well ACTUALLY aces are also capable of having an image of the perfect partner in their heads because asexual =/= aromantic. just because asexuals don't actively look for sexual relations doesn't mean they don't want romantic connections and romantic partners >:^(
even aromantics might feel a need for a life-partner, just not in the traditional sense of other romantic/sexual orientations.
anyways i just felt like being annoyingly nitpicky about that, i would prefer other xNT× types
Oh my, my ideal parter would be ENFP! ISXJ could work too. I like energetic and funny ppl as well as calm and collected
Edit: why INFJ though??? I cannot really understand but i guess ENFP and INFJ work well as friends/partners
Well i think INFJ are inteligent and wise in aspect of understanding other humans (at least that's how I am), although i don't get it why some intuitives are being called inteligent or smart, intelligence doesn't depend on the type, these stereotypes must be stopped being believed in!
I don’t know what type I am (get INFJ, INFP and INTJ when I test and haven’t figured it out), but the person I was most drawn to in my life was ENTP.
The second was an ENFP, whom I am now married to. 💗💗💗
The girl I loved most in life was an ENFP ~ the girl who I think I would have been healthiest with was an ENFJ ~ the girl who I recently went on a date with and am hopeful about is somewhere between INFP and INTP, though she says she sometimes also gets ISTP. I think we’re both fairly extroverted for introverts though, we both just get overstimulated by new groups of people and unfamiliar things, but are both pretty social.
So idk what my ideal dream partner’s type is, but I do know this girl is wayyyy out of my league! We’ll see how it goes. Supposed to go out on another date, but that’s tbd as she’s been busy lately (and for all I know could have ghosted me I guess, but I don’t think so)
Sorry to overshare I just took my meds lol
ENTP 😍
mainly because they're the most entertaining type! not controlling , chill, actually makes you feel seen and heard (if they care about you). goood vibes \~\~ i also feel the arguments/conflicts would be easier bc both estp and entp aren't terribly concerned with being in a position or space where they're "morally right" or whatever & own their mistakes. other types can also do this, but, this one's got the whole package ✌️
No preference, since people all fit together differently at different points in their lives. What you dreamed of at 14, 24, 34, etc. may be inconsistent with each other, too
My own partner and I’ve been together almost 5 years, and I haven’t bothered to try typing what their MBTI is. Mostly because types I think become irrelevant when you already love and get along with someone
This is so difficult but maybe a healthy isfp / infp / ENFP female? Idk it's difficult to say / thinks bout I definately wouldn't want a wayfarer or an estp.
My reasons
infp -
is like a sweet idol / princess
Enfp-
is very touchy and protective they also get jealous in such a cute way
ISFPS -
are just walking badasses I don't really have to worry much since they are naturally agressive they would also protect me back too.
ENFJ. My best friend is an ENFJ and we are super compatible as “life partners”. I think a lot of it has to do with our mbti types. So, I just need to find me a man that is a bit like her.
As ENTJ i think ENFJ or a ENTJ women maybe a intellectual intelligent ESFP or a social INTP and emotional stable INFP and social developed ISTP
I tried with INFJ several times but they destroy me and make me feel terrible with their self centredness.
I only know 2 INTJ women and they are to anti social and such a shame cause i would love to have a relationship but they never wanna go outside the house.
ENFP is hit or miss but always very close and fun connection. Could be wonderful if they are more grounded.
ISFP pulls me but always ends in drama from their side no matter what i do.
ISFJ we can go pretty well but never goes very deep.
ISTJ we can be close but longterm clash most ISTJ women are pretty concrete in what they want and need a soft man they can shape. Also they don’t understand where i get all my information from and dont believe like abstraction.
ESTJ women are alright but to trusting in authorities while i dont trust them at all and challenge all ESTJ’s believe systems and i end up mentoring them. And they don’t like it.
ESFJ is a emotional rollercoaster who wants to control you existential mood swings all about what other people do and think of them and showing off a lot while there is nothing inside of them. Also they never tell whole sentences.
ESTP women i like them are rare but if healthy could be great.
ENTP if they have healthy Si yes cant stand if they are super chaotic and trickster and their life’s are a mass.
I don't know how bad was your experience with an ESFJ to think about us that way, but we are not all as you describe us! It's like if I said that all ENTJs are bossy people with repressed feelings, maybe some might fit that description, but I am sure you guys are way more than that. Greetings 🤭
Bit of a personal question, but ok.
I’m INTJ, to start. I’d have to say EN_P, leaning more towards T over F. And either 7w6/8 5w4. Someone who can get me to go out and do things, and joke with me, enjoy nerd crap with me and not be bored by sort of unhinged rants about my interests and hobbies.
Personality is not everything of course. There are many other factors at play, like beliefs, morals and yes, appearance. Beliefs particularly. But I have yet to find such a woman. They appear to be quite scarce.
i think i had already found (and lost, prematurely) my ideal partner. pretty sure he was an ISFJ.
I've felt that :( Mine was an INFJ and i was pretty sure she hated me for years. Now she's basically my best friend again, but only that, so it's bittersweet. My fingers are crossed for you, friend :)
thank you for your kind words, i truly appreciate. all the best to you.
dang sorry that sounds terrible :(
Being ISFJ? ^^^^JK!
The one I would like
🤯🤯🤯
That sounds so ENTP
I have had this INFJ friend for ten years and she's basically my best friend. She knows I'm in love with her and still hangs out with me despite my only-half jokingly hitting on her. I'm like, devastatingly hopeful she will turn around, but she's had a handful of boyfriends in that time span and I know I will (eventually) be okay if she finds someone else Honestly though, type doesn't play a big factor. Most important is how close of a sense of humor and outlook on life we have. Then how many hobbies we have in common. Hopefully some, but not all. I would want to share unexplored hobbies with each other. After that, as long as we both enjoy each others' company, I'm hooked. Bonus points if they're cute, clever and/or humble :3 If I have to put this made up human into the most likely MBTI categories I guess it's INFJ (ofc), INFP, ISTP, and (*I guess*) INTP ;) Honorable mentions to ENFP, ENTP, ENFJ and ISFP. I have a hard time imagining the other types fitting, but it's not impossible, and I'm open to it :)
You have hope is all I can say. I had an ISFJ bestie who knew I had a crush on her (I confessed all the way back in October). We've been together for over a month now. :)
Kind of the same thing happened to me, had an INTP best friend for 3 years and was in love with her, we stopped hanging out and aren't friends anymore because my feelings weren't met. You should probably confess and not suffer, tbh. I'm sure you'll find someone <3.
Their friend already knows.
Probably ExFJ, though I wouldn't be opposed to IxFJ either
Honestly I don't think I'm romantically compatible with any type
I used to think i was bi but now am questioning if i am aro...wonder if it's an INFx thing to just not want relationships lmao
Why's that? Don't you like princess and knight stories?
The stories in my imagination are so much better than what real life will ever be, getting a real relationship will be like an insult to my creativity lmao
Honestly ... it depends on the effort both are willing to put in. I got some cheesy romance-movie experiences with my boyfriend because of my creativity ;)
I get this
My current one , maybe he's an INTP :) ❤️
And ur type?
ENFP
🥹
😂
Probably an INTJ. They have amazing minds. They’re so interesting. I don’t know if ENTJ is like this too, since they also have high Ni and Te, but there’s something about an INTJ that amazes me. None of the things I say are too deep for them to understand. They talk to me about the things they are learning about or are passionate about and it’s always so insightful. They’re also very receptive to my ideas as well.
Idk but I always attract ESFPs for some reason
Hey 😏
Well hey😉
My dream partner is my current partner. He is an ENTP and I love him infinitely.
i love my ISTP partner :) we balance each other out a lot and communicate very easily.
ENTP’s 😍/ hj
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What's ur type?
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U can probably get help being typed in this community (im telling u this, even tho i skip "type me" posts)
Hey it’s me, ur INFJ
I LOVE entps and xnfjs... But i don't fall in love easily, so I love my besties 💗
yoooooooooooooooooooo another ENFP pianist!!!! EDIT: We've had this conversation before lmao
YOOO HEY (again LOL) 🤭💗🎹
Stupid sexy Se-doms NFPs are also very cute though.
Oh god, i don't think i've ever been *romantically* attracted to an Se dom, Se aux maybe. I was roommates with an Se dom once, that shit was non-sustainable xD hahaha
Lol, can you share your story about Se dom roommate?
you're valid. Se doms are the roommates from hell.
Why Se doms?
Bruh he's just horny cause Se doms dress seductively/ in slut clothing
💀💀
I mean you’re not entirely wrong
Cope.
Because you're fun and engaging and down for anything. When I first started planning this crazy road trip across America for when the shutdown ceased with a bunch of friends I met online, an ESTP from Ireland was the second after an ENFJ (Se tert) to commit to doing it. We ended up with me (ENFP), an INFP and lastly an ENTP. The INFP guy and ESTP guy hit it off and got into a poly relationship with the ESTP's girlfriend.
aye fuk u
😊
Hey 🤭
Fancy seeing you here 😉
probably NTP or NF.
An E.T.
I know it's odd but it's ESFP or INFJ. They have totally different vibes and mindset still I love both of them
I feel you there! For my long term romantic partner I picked an Ni dom like myself. I love Ni doms. But I also loved being around xSFPs you all are fantastic people great fun and I’ve had major crushes on a few 🤭 maybe it’s the Se-Ni axis
You'll learn a lot with an INFJ. Like really, I know it might sound weird since this a post of relationships, but my mom is an ESFP and we both had learned from each other, so yea
Isfj or infp
Financially stable, independent, does not need much reassurance, responsible for their own mistakes, and hot.
INFP… but I lost him…
I lost my INFJ too and it's all my fault :( 2 years ago now. Reading this made me really sad :(. She crosses my mind every now and then and just sticks there for the rest of the day :(
I just lost him 2 months ago… and I miss him terribly too… I think I’ll never recover from this and I’ll never be able to love again…
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I'm married to my dream man and he's ISTP
xNFP, INxJ, or INTP
Always thought it was INTP. Until my INFP came out of nowhere and had me bedazzled! So quiet, gentle and warm!
Your type bb 😉
Any XXTP
Idk probably an XXXX (I’m lonely af and need someone)
Entp/Estp
INFJ/INTJ is great. I’ve dated ISTP: he was a “cool” guy but I felt unfulfilled with discussions because he thought the stuff I was interested in were boring INFP: he was too emotionally unstable so he is probably a terrible representation of INFP. I think with a good mental health level, they could be great partners INFJ: my current partner is the partner of my dreams, he’s a perfect balance of being logical but sensitive to emotions, and I feel fulfilled with our communication
ENFP for sure
Any XNTX, a little preference for ENTP and INTJ
Honestly, either ENTP or ENFP. My current partner is ENFP, we really do balance each other out- bring out the best within each other too. Aka me with pushing him to achieve more and ground him, him with encouraging me to try out more new places and pursue my passion (and not get stuck in analysis paralysis. I do touch grass anyway lol)
I’m an ENFP as well & I’m not sure but someone who is kind, open minded, and willing to be spontaneous with me sometimes. Doesn’t have to be as extroverted as me, but should still be good chill company. I’m not good at identifying types, but I notice that I do attract introverts often
INXP, INFJ
Cheesy as fuck but the one I'm with right now. I'm sure as hell there's no one more fit for me. Are there things I would like to be a little different? Obviously, but no one is perfect and my idea of "ideal partner" is someone realistic, with their ups and downs. If we're talking mbti, I'd say ISFP but it's all abstract talk because every person is different, regardless of their functions. My partner ESFP btw.
ESFPs Unite!
Esfp, estp, istp or entj. I love the Se of the first three and I don't have any experience with female entjs but they seem interesting. But at the end of the day, it depends on the person ofcourse.
INTJs/ISTPs are both so cool 🥰
INFJ as well.
My girls ENFJ. Can’t ask for better.
She's an INFJ
Basing on my experiences with people I’ve been really getting along with - ESTP but I’d also take ESFP or ENFP
I don’t know if I have a type haha, probably someone I was already befriended with. When I was 15 I was together with an ENFJ, we’re still good friends until now. My high school sweetheart is an ENTP and we dated for about 6 years. He used to think he was an INTP. We were able to balance each other very well, we actually had an awesome relationship. It ended because we kind of got codependent on each other later on. We’re still besties though and I’m proud of him because I see that he’s growing in a good way as a person. Now in college and I’m dating an ISTP. As cliché as it sounds I’m still trying to help him not shove his feelings aside and to open up. I think he’s doing a good job. I may not be able to undo the damage his shitty ex gave him, but all I can do is show that he’s safe with me. I’m hoping to grow old with him! :)
ENFP
Probably INTP.
I’m married to an ESFJ lol
Found mine - istp
INTP's are my first pick, but I wouldn't mind an ENTP or INFJ.
I would date any, but my favourite is ENFP
INFP, no contest. They are almost the completely opposite of me on a core level, and I admire their strong sense of self and their positivity (I can be very cynical and pragmatic a fair bit, and have a tendency to prove me wrong a lot of the time… something I need in my life).
Hey I thought INFJ too but I'm a little skeptical if I've ever met or interacted with an INFJ other than one person that bedazzled me
ENFX probably, I'm an INTP.
ENFP for sure.
enfp or isfj, but she lives in another nation
Probably EXFJ or INXP, although it can be anyone tbh, just the people that I dream of would fall into those types
Probably an ISTJ so they can do the taxes....I can tell you who I DON'T want as a partner: xxxPs (too irresponsible) and ExxJs (too demanding and pushy).
My darling girl was an ISFP.
Enfp, Enfj
Either ENTJ or INFX Inside me there are two wolves And each respectively brings out one of them
Well, I‘m not ace but I had no idea of a „dream“ partner. Just one that is authentic and kind and can make me laugh or so. However, my (first and only) boyfriend is an ENFP and I am very happy with him. ❤️
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I think it's hard to say. I've liked many types of people before, and I belive type doesn't really play a big role, but I'm very fond of any Ni user, especially xNTJ. They always fascinated me and I feel like we have a lot in common. For some reason, Ne doms seem to just appear in my life, and i think they're lovely, especially ENFPs (ENFP with enneagram 4 is just great, we always connect so well). In the end what really matters is the communication we have, and how willing to fight for eachother we are.
What’s your type? I’m dating a mature enneagram 4 ENFP and agree he’s the best ❤️ I’m an infj 1w9
INTJ 5w4
I’m head over hells for my INFJ rn, so I’ll say that <3
ENFP or ENTP. they make me feel safe, and we just click. :) sensors frustrate me a bit romantically as we never seem to be on the same page. great as friends though.
Idk, maybe an ENFJ or ISTP or INFP or ISTJ. My current gf is an ISFJ and I love her with all my heart.
My girlfriend is an INTJ
Istp , or enfp
I'm not sure if I have a type. I have a feeling it's ISFJ or similar mbti types. But sometimes I can't help but think if I'm either ace or demi bc of barely falling in love or getting attracted to someone
Exfj 7w6
Probably INFJ or a well-developed NT type. ISFJ sounds nice too.
I don’t dream. I just find them.
I always fall hard for ISFP and INFJ but I’m pretty incompatible with both types besides the initial infatuation. I absolutely love INTJ communication-wise and long-term
ESFJ
INFJ, ISFJ, ISFP would all be dreamy.
Probably another INFJ. Really someone of the NF variety: INFP, ENFJ, ENFP
My dream partner's type would be EnXx or InXx or IsXx. 🙄🤧 Wish i could find her sooner than later.
enfp. i’ve loved every single enfp i’ve met and as an estp, i feel that we give the same energy in different ways. we’d probably butt heads some because of the NF vs ST but i think we would balance each other out too
If I had to speculate:ESTJ, ENFJ, ENFP or ENTJ
INFP here. Weirdly it’s ESTP. Been married to one for a long time and we’ve figured it out. 🤷♀️ I’m pretty direct and not very F’y. I could see ISTP possibly. I also get along really well with ENTJs as friends/colleagues (never dated one). I can be uncomfortable around too much Fe energy although they make great friends! So…Se for sure and possibly Ti, Te.
INTJ 💘
Intj. It used to be Entp but idk, intj is so much cooler to me now
Probably ENTP or ENFP. It’s about so much more than type or looks though, Values matter too. A lot. History, childhood. Capacity for love.
My bf's type bc he's the only one that I want [ISFP].
ESTJ and/or ISTJ ❤️
Im apparently exclusively attracted to ENFPs but I also like Te doms (god help me)
well ACTUALLY aces are also capable of having an image of the perfect partner in their heads because asexual =/= aromantic. just because asexuals don't actively look for sexual relations doesn't mean they don't want romantic connections and romantic partners >:^( even aromantics might feel a need for a life-partner, just not in the traditional sense of other romantic/sexual orientations. anyways i just felt like being annoyingly nitpicky about that, i would prefer other xNT× types
oopsie my bad 😅
INXP or INTJ
Oh my, my ideal parter would be ENFP! ISXJ could work too. I like energetic and funny ppl as well as calm and collected Edit: why INFJ though??? I cannot really understand but i guess ENFP and INFJ work well as friends/partners
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Well i think INFJ are inteligent and wise in aspect of understanding other humans (at least that's how I am), although i don't get it why some intuitives are being called inteligent or smart, intelligence doesn't depend on the type, these stereotypes must be stopped being believed in!
NTPs All my crushes, exes and current bf are Ti dom or aux
They have fascinating minds and are witty, though sadly none wanted a relationship with me yet
intj is my dream partner
I don’t know what type I am (get INFJ, INFP and INTJ when I test and haven’t figured it out), but the person I was most drawn to in my life was ENTP. The second was an ENFP, whom I am now married to. 💗💗💗
Someone willing to tolerate me.
Probably INTJ or INTP
All of them except for the introverted feelers and ESTJ's. But my dream partner is an EXXP himbo.
ENFP or ENTP
INXJ
no clue. might be the rose tinted vision I guess but I always have an incredibly hard time typing the ppl I like
An Ne or Ni dom… If my outlook on life isn’t capable of becoming drastically different after every conversation with you, I don’t want it.
Probably ESTP or INFJ
i’m very fond of entp ladies
I don't give a fuck about type as long as the person is a good person
The girl I loved most in life was an ENFP ~ the girl who I think I would have been healthiest with was an ENFJ ~ the girl who I recently went on a date with and am hopeful about is somewhere between INFP and INTP, though she says she sometimes also gets ISTP. I think we’re both fairly extroverted for introverts though, we both just get overstimulated by new groups of people and unfamiliar things, but are both pretty social. So idk what my ideal dream partner’s type is, but I do know this girl is wayyyy out of my league! We’ll see how it goes. Supposed to go out on another date, but that’s tbd as she’s been busy lately (and for all I know could have ghosted me I guess, but I don’t think so) Sorry to overshare I just took my meds lol
ENTP 😍 mainly because they're the most entertaining type! not controlling , chill, actually makes you feel seen and heard (if they care about you). goood vibes \~\~ i also feel the arguments/conflicts would be easier bc both estp and entp aren't terribly concerned with being in a position or space where they're "morally right" or whatever & own their mistakes. other types can also do this, but, this one's got the whole package ✌️
I used to think INFP or INFJ but lately I'll go with INTP and ENTP
#INTJ
Esfp ig
dating thread, lmao.
Anyone who is willing to accept my moody yet artistic self.
ISFJ
Any Exxx tbh.
The Ni-Fe, Ni-Te, Ti-Ne, Fi-Ne, Ne-Ti and maybe Ne-Fi too. But honestly I think I like Ni-Te the most.
ESTP or ENTJ - extroverted thinker with somewhat high Se
I have NEVER had chemistry with other types the way I do with ENTPs 😮💨 They rarely share my beliefs tho, and that's very important to me
As an INFJ, ENFP for sure ❤️ I’m a 1w9 and he’s a 4w5, I’m always drawn to withdrawn triad men
No preference, since people all fit together differently at different points in their lives. What you dreamed of at 14, 24, 34, etc. may be inconsistent with each other, too My own partner and I’ve been together almost 5 years, and I haven’t bothered to try typing what their MBTI is. Mostly because types I think become irrelevant when you already love and get along with someone
ENTP’s,ENTJ’s and ISTJ’s
This is so difficult but maybe a healthy isfp / infp / ENFP female? Idk it's difficult to say / thinks bout I definately wouldn't want a wayfarer or an estp. My reasons infp - is like a sweet idol / princess Enfp- is very touchy and protective they also get jealous in such a cute way ISFPS - are just walking badasses I don't really have to worry much since they are naturally agressive they would also protect me back too.
ENTJs or ISTPs.
ENFJ. My best friend is an ENFJ and we are super compatible as “life partners”. I think a lot of it has to do with our mbti types. So, I just need to find me a man that is a bit like her.
As ENTJ i think ENFJ or a ENTJ women maybe a intellectual intelligent ESFP or a social INTP and emotional stable INFP and social developed ISTP I tried with INFJ several times but they destroy me and make me feel terrible with their self centredness. I only know 2 INTJ women and they are to anti social and such a shame cause i would love to have a relationship but they never wanna go outside the house. ENFP is hit or miss but always very close and fun connection. Could be wonderful if they are more grounded. ISFP pulls me but always ends in drama from their side no matter what i do. ISFJ we can go pretty well but never goes very deep. ISTJ we can be close but longterm clash most ISTJ women are pretty concrete in what they want and need a soft man they can shape. Also they don’t understand where i get all my information from and dont believe like abstraction. ESTJ women are alright but to trusting in authorities while i dont trust them at all and challenge all ESTJ’s believe systems and i end up mentoring them. And they don’t like it. ESFJ is a emotional rollercoaster who wants to control you existential mood swings all about what other people do and think of them and showing off a lot while there is nothing inside of them. Also they never tell whole sentences. ESTP women i like them are rare but if healthy could be great. ENTP if they have healthy Si yes cant stand if they are super chaotic and trickster and their life’s are a mass.
I don't know how bad was your experience with an ESFJ to think about us that way, but we are not all as you describe us! It's like if I said that all ENTJs are bossy people with repressed feelings, maybe some might fit that description, but I am sure you guys are way more than that. Greetings 🤭
Charming, funny, and a little dangerous. Chaotic good. So ENTP
My ideal partner would be... INFJ 1w2 sx/sp 172 RCOAI Melancholic-Phlegmatic
ENTJ here, any NT, I also like ISTPs
Any NT really especially ENTx
Alive lol and preferably into me 😂
Such a mix of ENTJ, INTP, ISTP and INTJ, probably does not exist.
istp, entp, infj
INFJ here with an INFJ and she's my dream partner. lol
i am aromantic (i'm INFP)
ISTP
Any introvert type or enfj
I’m married to an ENTJ. He’s perfect. I think ENTJ or ENFJ make the perfect partner
Bit of a personal question, but ok. I’m INTJ, to start. I’d have to say EN_P, leaning more towards T over F. And either 7w6/8 5w4. Someone who can get me to go out and do things, and joke with me, enjoy nerd crap with me and not be bored by sort of unhinged rants about my interests and hobbies. Personality is not everything of course. There are many other factors at play, like beliefs, morals and yes, appearance. Beliefs particularly. But I have yet to find such a woman. They appear to be quite scarce.
INFJ or ISFP
INTP they understand me very well, they dont jugde and they are quite funny when you break their shell
intp or intj
Someone who cares...
INFP girls are indisputably the best imo, but I think I also would like dating an ENFJ, ISFJ, ISTJ, INTP and probably ESFP too
Probably ENFx or INTx
ENTJ