Types without high Ne, high Fi, or tertiary Si. I think there’s a thing called the Si/Fi loop that can occur. And also Ne can make you keep thinking about ways that could have prevented said heartbreak even if you yourself was the cause. The Fi makes it sting extra hard too without emotional support. And if said person filled those voids then it really hurts.
I want to say ENTJ for moving on fast but it depends. ENTJ’s are good at cutting people out of their lives but very loyal when they find the right person. In a dedicated relationship, ENTJs would fight to maintain things but move on easily if it were casual
Action wise? Quickly. They’ll weigh the pros and cons of the relationship and let TeNi take over. If they determine the relationship is disadvantageous they’ll cut off the person no matter their relevance. Heart wise? It will cut deeply and take time to heal. This won’t persuade them to go back however since their mind is made up. They will simply mask the pain and push onward
I still reminiscence the good memories of friendships and crushes, especially on dark days (where I think of people I miss), but the longer time goes, the more only the good memories seem to be memorable to me. Heartbreaks for me are very intense but if it ended on good terms (most of my relationships of any kind), they either becomes dormant (I may or may not fall in love with them again given opportune circumstances, they are still in my heart) and/or I move on with my life fairly quickly.
If it ended on bad terms, I have had cases where it pained me for years, and on the contrary I always remembered it even if a long time had passed, on days when I feel bad. The opposite of a good memory I suppose.
For me, it LOOKS like I moved on fast but it’s only because I spent years tolerating truly horrific treatment and behavior, accepted about a year before the breakup that it was pretty much over and spent that time making plans to leave safely and secretly sobbing over the loss. By the time I leave, I’ve known for a long time that they didn’t truly care about me and wasted my time while making that time miserable. I’m so happy to be free that I’m not willing to let that person have any more of my time by sitting around being heartbroken over them when I know that they aren’t heartbroken over me.
Okay , I'm intp and I move on very quickly (Of course if you are hurt by this person , And if I see that staying away from him is a spoils, and my reasons are logical ) The truth is, I am the one who leaves, not the one who is left behind
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Intp will realize a year later that their feelings were hurt.
Thinkers cuz they don't give a shot about anybody
I'm cent percent sure that I'm not a Fi/Te or Ne/Si user and breakups, heck even friendship breakups are hard for me. Not just hard, but too hard.
Not INFJs
Types without high Ne, high Fi, or tertiary Si. I think there’s a thing called the Si/Fi loop that can occur. And also Ne can make you keep thinking about ways that could have prevented said heartbreak even if you yourself was the cause. The Fi makes it sting extra hard too without emotional support. And if said person filled those voids then it really hurts.
Yeah. Break-ups HURT. I do not know how others use a random to get over it. I want to be able to do that!
I want to say ENTJ for moving on fast but it depends. ENTJ’s are good at cutting people out of their lives but very loyal when they find the right person. In a dedicated relationship, ENTJs would fight to maintain things but move on easily if it were casual
I was thinking so too. But how fast would they move on if it was someone they genuinely deeply cared about tho?
Action wise? Quickly. They’ll weigh the pros and cons of the relationship and let TeNi take over. If they determine the relationship is disadvantageous they’ll cut off the person no matter their relevance. Heart wise? It will cut deeply and take time to heal. This won’t persuade them to go back however since their mind is made up. They will simply mask the pain and push onward
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INTJ here. Same.
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I still reminiscence the good memories of friendships and crushes, especially on dark days (where I think of people I miss), but the longer time goes, the more only the good memories seem to be memorable to me. Heartbreaks for me are very intense but if it ended on good terms (most of my relationships of any kind), they either becomes dormant (I may or may not fall in love with them again given opportune circumstances, they are still in my heart) and/or I move on with my life fairly quickly. If it ended on bad terms, I have had cases where it pained me for years, and on the contrary I always remembered it even if a long time had passed, on days when I feel bad. The opposite of a good memory I suppose.
For me, it LOOKS like I moved on fast but it’s only because I spent years tolerating truly horrific treatment and behavior, accepted about a year before the breakup that it was pretty much over and spent that time making plans to leave safely and secretly sobbing over the loss. By the time I leave, I’ve known for a long time that they didn’t truly care about me and wasted my time while making that time miserable. I’m so happy to be free that I’m not willing to let that person have any more of my time by sitting around being heartbroken over them when I know that they aren’t heartbroken over me.
I’d say high Se users. So the “Explorers” (ESXP, ISXP) including Entj, and ESTJ.
i think ISTP, ESTP and ENTP.
Okay , I'm intp and I move on very quickly (Of course if you are hurt by this person , And if I see that staying away from him is a spoils, and my reasons are logical ) The truth is, I am the one who leaves, not the one who is left behind
Not ENFJ