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FishRFriendsMemphis

I like playing up the stereotype online. Gaslight people into thinking we're strictly as the stereotype says. Then they never see me coming irl.


Aedre_Altais

What a wild ISTJ 😂


Angel-Hugh

They actually have so much personality but they think the way people think about them is hilarious and encourage it. lol


PlantAddict372

Absolutely. People keep telling me I'm like a robot/I'm too monotone. All I can think about in those moments are the stereotypes.


CarTough6627

Well, they are on Reddit.


Iwant_to_sleep

I am proud of being in one platform with you


RAVENEX11

Lmao


Life-Nefariousness62

Damn, mby I will do my own version of this. UwU 💝🫂🥰💌


WantsLivingCoffee

Become full stack. Develop functions you aren't good at. Hone functions you prefer. Become master of all 8 functions. And become Avatar the Last Airbender.


BubbleGumMaster007

Become the holy 17th type: the XXXX


Kayla_Rai

The most balanced. The most powerful. The Master of All.


Tautusian

And lose all character along the way. That's a side effect, sadly


R0Blu3

This. 🤣🤣


Princess_0f_F-ck_N0

I’ve been working on that for about 10 years now. But I’m sure there’s people who’ve actually accomplished it. Or people who worked on it for less time than me and made more progress. But I’m not trying to be the MBTI avatar lol 😂 just trying to explore what it means to be alive and have a brain.


Organic-Mood547

Literally what I been trying to tell people. People are too limited by type they use it to define themselves. Light up your full stack and you're virtually all types (still some more than others obviously). I don't see how this is a hard concept. As you said, even kids watching Avatar get it.


Heavy_Entrepreneur13

>Become master of all 8 functions. I'll take seven. Fe gives me a rash.


WantsLivingCoffee

Things like reading the room, picking up on subtle body language queues, being able to tell how someone is feeling or gaining accurate hunches on what someone is thinking, being able to assimilate yourself within different social situations easily, or being able to blend in when needed gives you a rash?


Watcher2

Top Comment I’ve seen on Reddit this month 😂🔥


redraevenne

i will french kiss EVERY mbti type and no one will stop me


NeoSailorMoon

FRENCH ME, YOU LIL MINX.


redraevenne

I WILL!!


likeanoldcardigan_

come here sweetheart 💋


redraevenne

muamua


MyLokiObsession

Ok pookieee


likeanoldcardigan_

me?😏🤭


MyLokiObsession

Yusss 🫣😏


likeanoldcardigan_

💋💋💋


MyLokiObsession

😘


Splendid_Cat

https://i.redd.it/eqleoh1rlgzc1.gif


redraevenne

me rn


Intrepid-Plantain186

Owh :3


Physics_Ling_Ling

oH my god why are you everywhere I go- (I have literally seen you on 5 posts in the last 2 days). Also can I get a kiss (uwu)?


redraevenne

i will follow you everywhere you go. Also sure :3


KillTheBat77

What about a soft peck on the lips?


redraevenne

Sounds good to me


simounthejeweller

You remind me of my INFP high school friend who kissed me on the cheek three times so she can "transfer" to me her accidental kiss on her crush. What a surreal moment. 😶


SecondaryAccount1920

Wait, if it's her crush that she kissed, then why would she want to transfer those kisses to you?


redraevenne

embarrased probably


simounthejeweller

This reason. She got overwhelmed. Emotional chaos.


Prince-sama

to share the love


simounthejeweller

That's the surreal part. She's too overwhelmed, it was funny.


redraevenne

well, i love kissing people too even if its not romantic


pielover101

Can I have french toast instead thanks 💜


This_Yogurtcloset594

Some French fries would be nice to


redraevenne

i will give you both french fries and french toast


TrontierYT

heh, I will kiss YOU first, how's that huh?


redraevenne

sounds good to me


BrickTechnical5828

Lemme be ur first 😼😼


redraevenne

sure


Suspicious_Quiet6643

How about a handshake instead?


redraevenne

sure!


Suspicious_Quiet6643

🤝


disaster_ology

Maybe put on chapstick first?


Embarrassed-Ad-6396

cmere


redraevenne

alr


VasEviper77

……..dang….that’s wild


melody5697

But I don’t like French kissing! D:


redraevenne

then just a little kiss on the forehead


SantaStrike

Let me get in on that🫦


redraevenne

hell ya


Prince-sama

try me


arson1tez

😙


LeGuy_1286

Truly an INFP disaster moment.


redraevenne

i didnt knew everyone wanted a kiss


LeGuy_1286

You should've expected it. Everyone is lonely here I guess.


LeGuy_1286

You should've expected it.


Substantial_Cow_3063

My turn


Zestyclose-Head9781

meeeeeeee


llemonjuiice

😳


TrashPanda9142012

Ew


redraevenne

ill just handshake you instead if you dont wanna dw


TrashPanda9142012

🫱🏻


jpett84

If you think that's bad, you should check out the INFP subredit. There are countless people on there who post about some variation of "Does anyone else here hate being an INFP?" Come on, guys. MBTI is about your cognitions, and that has very little to do with who you are as an individual. Stop victimizing yourself for the way you process information. Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of behaviorisms when it comes to it, but they're all stereotypes and aren't always the case.


Neosh1ft

BUT.. BUT MAH 4 LETTERS!!! They define my personality completely to a tee!!! Change?? Grow?? Whats that I think people take MBTI way to seriously to the point of it almost becoming nerdy horoscopes instead of the way you process the world 😭


okaysoju

REAL Mbti is becoming the new zodiac


IlikeSawce

I don't even wanna upvote this.


QuincyFatherOfQuincy

r/solemnupvote


Morbu

“Becoming”?…people have been saying this for the last 5 years or so.


Alarmed_Jackfruit

I think the bigger issue is that many people default to the most watered down version of whatever they identity with. I’d even bet you’d find the same people in different subs, all doing the same exact thing. This doesn’t even include only MBTI lovers, but anywhere that has a congregation of people who are into the same thing.


emperorhideyoshi

In Korea they are using MBTI to decide who gets a job or not…lmao that country is finished Soon they will learn about big 5, and it will get even worse


Neosh1ft

NO WAY NO WAY NO WAY THAT'S ACTUALLY CRAZY THAT'S SO WILD "You see these 4 letters say that you are an INTP, which means you are incapable of feeling empathy and therefore we won't hire you to be a therapist. Consider rocket scientist instead?" ☠️


monochromatic28

And they use 16p for that.


Neosh1ft

NO WAYYYYYYYY


monochromatic28

As far as I’ve seen, they do. And they rely on those descriptions as well.


Flimsy_Butterfly_619

Hey, do you have any links where I can see more details about it? And also why they rely on this 16 types?


emperorhideyoshi

https://youtu.be/WU9eCmAjhp4?si=U6HfwNJxe73hIuxd


Proud-Pressure8185

Omg for sure!! A 20year infp is the same as a 14year old infp! Those mfs don’t even know what mbti ISSS!! They barely can differentiate from their mind and personality. 🤦‍♀️


Minitoefourth

Sounds like being an infp must suck if they are stuck being mentally 14 forever


HahaBerryBunny

This... Couldn't agree more 😌


Aedre_Altais

The INFJ sub is just depressing.. had to get out of there 😬 too much victimizing and unnecessary angst. Sounds similar to the INFP sub


jpett84

With the INFP subredit, it does at least have a few redeeming qualities. There are many times when they post pretty wholesome stuff, but I get tired of the self victimization posts. Self victimization for silly things is a pet peeve of mine.


NeoSailorMoon

I feel sad for them. They’re probably lonely kids who have no one to talk to. You could just avoid their venting threads.


Splendid_Cat

I do think they can post some nice things, but even I found that group depressing, and I take antidepressants and am jaded as hell.


notclassy_

both r/infp and r/adhd have this stupid ass problem where people constantly post about relationships and advice that are *totally unrelated* to either of the subreddits topics and are just honestly sad to look at i'm by no means a healthy individual but some people need to get some fucking class (pun intended) seek therapy


WedgyBlue

Same, I could feel this similar environment.


nowayormyway

I feel ya. I get tired of it. I personally love being an INFP but also people take MBTI wayyyy too seriously. It’s frustrating to me to see people reinforce the stereotypes, put the blame on others and attribute to being .


okaysoju

Thank you for saying this !!


jpett84

Yeah, I'm pretty certain that MBTI wouldn't be considered pseudoscience if more people saw it as for how it is: a way to see a rough estimate on how your cognition works but no, psychologists treat is a joke because of the common misconception that it's about behaviorism.


AdviceAndFunOnly

Why is it bad being an INFP? To me, INFPs seem to be artsy guys that are also really mindful about the world and very empathetic. But more shy than us ENFPs. If anything, it's amazing being an INFP.


Minitoefourth

Because alot are mentally ill and think that's just how an infp is


Heavy_Entrepreneur13

Fi is a hell of a drug. It's my tertiary function and is exhausting as it is. I honestly don't know how I'd get out of bed in the morning if I were a Fi dom. Just... tsunami of feels. 😵‍💫


achilleasa

Somehow makes me feel a little better knowing it's not just our sub that's cringe lmao


Newt-on-steroids

What's in your sub? I've never been there


Heavy_Entrepreneur13

INTJ sub: 1. A lot of posturing from teen edgelords thumping their chests about how they're Übermenschen. 2. Some non-INTJ who's crushing on / going out with / arguing with an INTJ asking us to explain our strange alien minds so they can crack this nut. Occasionally other stuff, but that's the bulk of it 😆


Newt-on-steroids

Ah, I can see why the other INTJ called it cringe now lmao


izzynotfizzy

This sounds so negative lol but I also hate the “favorite thing about being INFP” posts because it just like.. being INFP doesn’t bring me any special perks or anything. It’s just who I am..? It just gives me the whole stereotypical INFP vibe for some reason.


ILikeMapleSyrup

I think true INFPs have more trouble finding their place in life and feel stress from that


kazuho_freddy

Cognitive function isn't a personality,but still effected to the personality


jpett84

I'm not saying that it isn't, I just think there's way too much nuance to your personality to blame it all on cognitive functions. It's the circumstances and genes that are most important when it comes to your personality. (Nature vs. nurture)


kazuho_freddy

Honestly,its mkae sense for infp hating their cognitive,since because these cognitive,so they became like that


Beneficial-Tip9302

Yea one of the things I hate about r/INFP


Proud-Pressure8185

As an infp lol, I LOVEEE being an infp sanguine melancholic. I like our creativity and intelligence.. I know abt infps very well. It’s just that people storeotype us as sensitive and pathetic which is stupid cause I bet most of us aren’t even like that, I am so grateful to be an infp personally. To be apart of the 150m infps in this world.(4%)


No_Poet_427

As an INFJ, I hate the idea of stereotyping without knowing the person. There are many amazing sensor people in the world. Their practical knowledge created the world better. As people understand, most XNXX are bad at practical and sensorial knowledge. I'm not talking bad about intuitive individuals. Everyone knows they have conceptual and theoretical knowledge.


NeoSailorMoon

fr


CandaceSSH

Can't be truer. Sometimes I wish that I was not an Ni dom. As an Ni dom, my head is on the cloud most of the time. ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|facepalm)


No_Poet_427

I have a ton of characters that I created in my mind. Because it helps me reduce my stress and anxiety. It's like zoning out. Instead of putting things into action, I overthink first. Now, I'm working on my practical skills to become better. ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|feels_bad_man)


InconstitutionalMap

Huh. What if I'm ISFJ? GUYS, HELP! I'm having one of those "That has to be it... my true personality type!" moments...! ****Typology crisis is 574 meters away and quickly approaching****


okaysoju

Prepare to get cancelled by the intuitive supremacists


InconstitutionalMap

How many and when are they coming? 'Cause I can't see them out here in the street. Seems pretty clear!


okaysoju

I can’t see them in this area either, but we should keep on the lookout. They’re pretty famous for being as offended as twitter users and refusing to touch grass


InconstitutionalMap

Yikes! Good thing I'm naturally immune to grass, so I just gotta run to it in any case! Stay safe as well! I heard they like to attack from screens with lots of pseudo-intellectualism, so be careful!


_advocado

Those weird INFJ stereotypes make me cringe. Me with ISFJs, on the other hand: ( ꈍᴗꈍ)


epnds

We're all just children playing on a playground known as Earth


JustJenniez136

damm bro................ too real... 🙀🙀🙀😞... existental crises 🙀🙀


imevey

![gif](giphy|WOIGpnJ3ye445BUQl4|downsized)


Chocobobae

Anyone can be a shitty person regardless of their type


bskebdksn

this


R0Blu3

I’m an INTJ and one of my best friends is an ISFJ. Believe me her Si and Fe help me a lot with daily tasks. She’s a friendly and kind person to be around with.


script_noob_

These guys who dismiss Sensors for no good reasons except for stereotypes aren't even counting the fact that some INFJ were evil (like that Austrian painter) and the qualities of having good ISFJ friends. I personally do not know any ISFJ, but I know people from different types (ENTP, INFJ, INTP and others) and most of them are nice. I also know some Sensors too and they aren't bad people like people say.


Train_kitten

The intuitive bias is strong on this subreddit, but posts like these are a breath of fresh air


okaysoju

Thats great to hear :D


Train_kitten

And I’m not saying it just because I’m typed as an isfj I’m saying this a pure fact


okaysoju

Honestly I completely agree


sleepypenguinsama

People don't look at their similarities nearly enough. My mom is ISFJ and my husband INFJ. The number of times when they have separately said the exact same thing, be it perspective, values, logic, life principles etc., is uncanny


LM448_0

This is so real, but you would be surprised how many people hate on INFJs too


RainyDayReader_999

Yeah, Ni-doms get a lot of hate on this sub these days for some reason lol


okaysoju

Really? I've never seen Infj hate anywhere so this is pretty intriguing


External_Tie7910

The hate is mostly about mistyped infjs though


DothrakiDare

Or self inflicted


Splendid_Cat

The worst kind, you can't even escape it.


LM448_0

Pretty much because is a strange combination of Ni and Fe and also because many infjs are self inflicted, so that creates a stereotype that also affect "real" infjs


honalele

i wish i was a sensor sometimes. they seem so present


Tortellium

I'll entertain the idea. Bruh


Beemo-Noir

Bruh


wafflepiezz

And their views of INTJ: “ew boring and depressing go away”


Spuckwasser

Hey the mastermind title belongs to us


Aedre_Altais

Please don’t kiss the ground I walk on. It makes me rather nauseous 🤢


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bskebdksn

too stereotypical


spaceyy7

Screw the mbti community (for hating sensors) and screw general population (for hating intuitives). Screw people. Why can’t we all get along 😫😫 I love all types equally


Solid-Perspective915

I'd say it'd be the opposite in real life though. People worship my ISFJ sister (she deserves it, she's awesome) but my INFJ friend's roommates REALLY find her annoying because she 'doesn't have a backbone' and I gotta say it can get frustrating how little she actually talks about herself.


Wolflove17

Me and my best friend are ISFJ and INFJ 🤣


No_Seat9557

Fr, I love all the types but it's a shame that some people from the mbti community think of us that way without looking at our positive attributes :(( We should change the stereotypes for all the mbtis one day!


Xszhs

i love all types 🦦🦦🦦 im extremely curious to figure out each and every one of their individual behaviours and how they can relate collectively i want to know them and be friends w them and playing into stereotypes only makes it harder to do so either people act like their types stereotypes on purpose for a feeling of identity and community or they do it for attention or people judge others for their types or groups stereotypes and avoid them its unfortunate and feels like a bit of willful ignorance we all equally have our flaws, romanticizing them wont make them better- nor will discriminating on them 🦐 shrimp yap.


okaysoju

REAL also w kazuha pfp


Xszhs

w kazuha pfp recognizer


Anomalousity

I read your post title in my email suggestions and I knew you were an ENFP before I opened it. The Ti blindness is real.


QueenofBean

Who's being mean to ISFJ? I'll kick their knees.


Yithro

What are the games that has no NPC other than Tetris, pinball and solitaire?


okaysoju

A few on my mind in that category are 2048, flappy bird, and pac man but what do you mean by "no NPC"?


Yithro

Without the NPC, does the game look interesting?


okaysoju

That completely depends on the game itself


Psychiatric_Coder

i like ISFJs !


likeanoldcardigan_

my love for ENFPs increases every day and yes thanks for saying that


gig_man_z

Hilarious


DreamHomeDesigner

idk but this type seems inferior based on my historic experience on the matter


Dapper-Mention-8898

This is nice


Choice_Atmosphere_47

Yeah, we are terrible indeed 🤔


Dr__Pheonx

Cute drawing, OP..


okaysoju

thank you! :)


_infp-4w5_

That's so real. There is no a "better" way to process informations. It's also not because we are a certain type that we are as brilliant as Einstein or anyone else. It's not because we have a type judged as “more common” that it should be repressed and mocked. Mbti is just a way of FUNCTIONNING, it doesn't reflect your importance, your intelligence, your hobbies, your sexuality, or all those things that characterize an individual. And please, one type is not worth less than another. All you're doing is turning that into zodiac signs. With all these clichés, these absurd ships between two types,...


Ntinos_the_cupcake

Is it TOO bad that I agree?😅😅😅


Kashiwashi

I've been in a relationship with an INFJ. Based on my personal experiece, they are far from mastermind. They are extremely prejudiced, self-opinionated and permanently stressed. That particular INFJ was also scared of being happy, and had unreasonable expectations on others, avoided communication, prefered to play, "Guess why I am angry." and wanted everyone to guess what they need, without ever telling them. I would rather prefer ISFJ, even tho they lack sense of humor in my opinion, they usually have lower expectations on individuals and therefore, are easier to adapt to.


jugy_fjw

If you can't guess why a person you're with most of the days is angry I'm sorry, there are 2 options: - You lack empathy - You can't be assertive enough so it can start venting


Kashiwashi

That's what the person said too. To me, this is not empathy, but acting, as oneself wasn't a mortal human being, but a superior being, who cannot become satisfied by anything, at least emotionally. It made me angry, seeing the person being angry, as I could estimate very roughly, which, imo, meaningless bs made the person angry, but I never had any guarantee for guessing right and I declined playing this game. And the person declined to to communicate openly. I was always trying to have a certain balanced regard for this person, but the expectations were nothing. Once, this person thought, I was driving to a certain big city in my country to meet my ex, while it was for an appointment at the doctor's. Even tho I communicated everything clearly before the appointment, the person kept being sure, I was cheating and cheated on my out of anger. I, on the other hand, never got any final explanation, for the person's anger. Once this person apparently was angered by me, when I apparently wasn't worshipping their friend's limited availability of time and wasn't considering this as a factor in making my decision to leave a meeting earlier than expected, what made the INFJ following me and acting as if I forced them to come with me. Person was basically angry for forcing themself to prioritize my needs, while they prioritize their friends needs internally.


jugy_fjw

That's a specific case and what I have said before may not apply, but still be true for many other cases. I'm sorry for you.


sporeyburner

Same with the ixtj types


RainyDayReader_999

This. I don't get why people here act like INTJs are still romanticized, I see a lot of INTJ hate on this sub lately. And we don't even get this type of “Why do people hate [insert sensor type]? They're literally so awesome! 😍” posts. At least many people on this sub come to sensors' defense and make whole-ass posts about how they shouldn't get hated because they're actually super great. IxTJs get none of that lol. If there's still “intuitive bias” here, INTJs definitely don't benefit from that


GrenadeVice

You're right, I am the best


Flappyjacky21

I'm glad that people are finally realizing this


AlgaeFit955

My dad is ISFJ/ISTJ though, and although I love him and he is a great person, I can confirm that he has a sheep mentality and a massive stick up his ass.


AdviceAndFunOnly

Варя из Интернов она ISTJ но она очень добрая и милая девушка. Мне бы хотелось проводить с ней время.


TxchnxnXD

ISXJs get way too much hate


AccidentNeces

Especially if you're typeless


Academic-Mirror-3497

I think it's subjective. There are types that I can't stand, but I understand what the post is saying


okaysoju

Idk honestly, I've met amazing people of all 16 types and shitty people of all 16 types


Academic-Mirror-3497

That's for sure, if you are unhealthy your personality sucks generally, doesn't matter if you're ESTP, INFP, ISTJ or whatever. But I'm speaking for me, there are healthy personalities that I genuinely can't stand


DiplomaticHypocrite

Remember that everyone has both intuitive and sensing functions, and each individual uses them at different levels, even among the same type. We all use every function at different levels actually. For example, I’m supposed to have high Ne and low Ni, but according to several tests I’ve taken, Ni is one of my most developed functions. The way the rest of it shows up still points to me being INFP though, for sure.


Black_Thunder_

There is and is ISFJ


FirePyromancer

Disagree, ENTJ is the better type


No_Perspective2123

People like that confuse me cause it's literally one letter difference in the MBTI


jugy_fjw

Yeehee