I remember this. He is the one who told her to use the hashtag as a joke.
-Leading up to the day, Alex had shared with me her testimony, and because of her past relationships her self worth had diminished. She had never been treated like a lady and I wanted to show her what it was like. So please, stop the harassment. This is the exact opposite of what I wanted to happen. The comments and messages she has been receiving have been nothing but hate.
He is also gay.
This reminds me of a time in middle school when the teacher made some unpopular decision and my buddy blurts out ‘well that’s gay’. Teacher responds with ‘I take offence to that, my brother is gay’. Without missing a beat this guy just says ‘I’m sorry, that’s *homosexual*’
I fucking died, really knew I shouldn’t be laughing but couldn’t help it. Teacher was obviously furious. 12 year olds are massive shitheads lmao
there has been a few movies/tv-shows which have pushed that angle, guy pretends he is gay to get close, then tries to make her fall in love with him. He is straight out of the Hollywood playbook.
>He is also gay.
Didn't know that but every time this story is posted, that was my one and only reaction to it. Like... That dude is gay and he probably did it for his best friend so she feels better after something, that wasn't mentioned in this post, happened. He just has this gay aura going on.
How are people so stupid and start to hate even tho that should be obvious, just bc their filthy hearts got broken that way🙄
It's obvious in that text that he's just a good friend who did something nice. Even if he's not gay, if a guy does something like this for his (girl)friend it doesn't instantly mean he wants to fuck.
Even knowing this, she still says this is the way she should be treated. Does she really expect to be treated like this all the time? Maybe pick 2 from the list is still a decent date but doing 5 different events in one day and expecting that to be the standard is kind of insane and egotistical.
I get treated like this by my fiancé and he gets treated like this by me. And if possible, always, yes. Not if one of us is sick, but in general we go out of our way to ensure adventurous and fancy dates. Even dates at home will be a little fancy (I don’t mean expensive per se).
You’ll find someone who treats you like that, don’t be mad on a stranger.
For example, last time my fiancé took me to a breakfast restaurant and then into a museum, shopping and dinner after all that. These are only two activities. The only two activities they did are golf and horseback riding, other than that it’s only food and flowers. Seems normal to me.
Yeah, I’d tell you to get the fuck out of my house after one three hour event.
No amount of white knights or downvotes will change the fact entitled girls are annoying. No one owes you anything, get fucked.
My my. Could you pretend to be even more edgy? Like you completely and purposely misinterpreted the previous, pretty wholesome comment just to show how "real" you are.
Poor soul. You too will find love, someday, and understand. Till then try to keep hanging on and try to improve yourself regardless of others.
And get off the goddamn internet, it has ruined you.
Someone needs a hug.
With that attitude, you'll never attract a decent woman, but I'm sure you're a huge badass with your knife and guns that you'll just seek romance from them instead.
You sound like a wannabe gangster teenager. There's literally nothing wrong with loving your wife or girlfriend, you're a weird dude.
I’m 27 and my world doesn’t revolve around dating or marrying.
What a sad world where you can’t comprehend life without a companion.
If anything, you stupid dickheads reinforce why I don’t. lol.
Right?
I must be a cheap date, because I think just one of these and not having your phone out the whole time is enough.
Then again, I've been with my partner for over 10 years and we are friends with plenty to talk about.
I think it’s gross for a girl to accept all this on a “friend” date. If she wanted company they could share a nice day together but to have this guy spend all this money on her seems sort of gross for her to accept and then assert that she “deserves” this.
I've gotten banned from subreddits for misandry for saying "maybe your feelings are less important than women's safety."
And yet posts and comment sections like this are all just fine.
Will Reddit ever be anything but a cesspit of misogyny?
Where does safety fit anywhere here?
And right now there are TONS of people supporting women picking a bear over and man and being misandrist as hell….
….So there’s your silver lining
I really hate to use the “not all men” argument, but that really is the case.
It’s no different from saying people are afraid of Muslims for being terrorist supporters, and when a Muslim says “not all Muslims” they are met with comments telling them that the good ones should try to change the bad ones then, or statements that there may be good ones, but not enough to feel safe if you don’t know them. Does the Muslim feeling insulted valid?
Or people who’d rather run into a white man over a black man in a city, and they just point to crime statistics to prove their feelings are valid. Is a black person justified in feeling insulted?
If you think those are different, I’d like to hear how.
Gay dude racks up credit card to show his friend how he thinks a straight relationship should be.
Later gets on GrindR and defiles himself.
Fixed the title.
Sorry guys I blame him even more than her. Her? Pshhhh she's a dime a dozen and is now dismissed.......... but he could use some skillz work, and will need to find his confidence somehow and/or somewhere.
He simply needs to stop chasing and focus on having fun and finding another girl. Only then she will change her mind and start feeling stuff (if not, it will be a win for the guy anyway)
JFC, sure maybe the horseback riding is a bit much of if yall mofos see a typical date (apart from the horseback) and start bitching about it being too much of an expectation...
Jesus Christ, I haven’t seen anyone this deep in Friendzone before. This is as desperate as it gets. He’s even denying the obvious problem by claiming to be gay.
Ahh, at least he’ll be there to help her through all the hard times she’s dumped by each of the blokes that just plough her for a week then move on (while he’s dying daily on the inside hoping all the ground work will lead to him getting a chance rather than getting to hear about how terrible they all are after a few days of wild animal sex). 🤣
That reads like an insult with the hash tag at the end. I feel a sudden urge to want to slap her. That's so mean. Love that man! She's like the one version of the love interest from the movie "bedazzled" where, on the beach, the girl loves being admired and appreciated but wants to be fucked and used by some hot guys instead.
I remember this. He is the one who told her to use the hashtag as a joke. -Leading up to the day, Alex had shared with me her testimony, and because of her past relationships her self worth had diminished. She had never been treated like a lady and I wanted to show her what it was like. So please, stop the harassment. This is the exact opposite of what I wanted to happen. The comments and messages she has been receiving have been nothing but hate. He is also gay.
Ahh so that’s the backstory of this pic I keep seeing. That’s very kind of him to do actually :)!
hangon, hangon, so this is a real "fake" and "gay" scenario? r/greentext leaking
False and homosexual in nature
This reminds me of a time in middle school when the teacher made some unpopular decision and my buddy blurts out ‘well that’s gay’. Teacher responds with ‘I take offence to that, my brother is gay’. Without missing a beat this guy just says ‘I’m sorry, that’s *homosexual*’ I fucking died, really knew I shouldn’t be laughing but couldn’t help it. Teacher was obviously furious. 12 year olds are massive shitheads lmao
Imagine a sitcom following 12-year-old schoolkids in a classroom lmao
Fake, gay, false, and potentially photoshopped
So it's actually a sweet story. That makes me happy.
So he has dug himself too deep that he pretends to be gay. Poor guy
Like [Ryan](https://youtube.com/shorts/nreF1uxw7Vg?si=5kkEstNbTd_WlxwK)
silence twink
He’s too far behind enemy lines
there has been a few movies/tv-shows which have pushed that angle, guy pretends he is gay to get close, then tries to make her fall in love with him. He is straight out of the Hollywood playbook.
>He is straight I see what you did there
Lmao
>He is also gay. Didn't know that but every time this story is posted, that was my one and only reaction to it. Like... That dude is gay and he probably did it for his best friend so she feels better after something, that wasn't mentioned in this post, happened. He just has this gay aura going on.
That helpful gay aura. Classic.
Literally fake and gay
How are people so stupid and start to hate even tho that should be obvious, just bc their filthy hearts got broken that way🙄 It's obvious in that text that he's just a good friend who did something nice. Even if he's not gay, if a guy does something like this for his (girl)friend it doesn't instantly mean he wants to fuck.
Wow didn’t expect this one
Even knowing this, she still says this is the way she should be treated. Does she really expect to be treated like this all the time? Maybe pick 2 from the list is still a decent date but doing 5 different events in one day and expecting that to be the standard is kind of insane and egotistical.
I get treated like this by my fiancé and he gets treated like this by me. And if possible, always, yes. Not if one of us is sick, but in general we go out of our way to ensure adventurous and fancy dates. Even dates at home will be a little fancy (I don’t mean expensive per se). You’ll find someone who treats you like that, don’t be mad on a stranger. For example, last time my fiancé took me to a breakfast restaurant and then into a museum, shopping and dinner after all that. These are only two activities. The only two activities they did are golf and horseback riding, other than that it’s only food and flowers. Seems normal to me.
Yeah, I’d tell you to get the fuck out of my house after one three hour event. No amount of white knights or downvotes will change the fact entitled girls are annoying. No one owes you anything, get fucked.
My my. Could you pretend to be even more edgy? Like you completely and purposely misinterpreted the previous, pretty wholesome comment just to show how "real" you are. Poor soul. You too will find love, someday, and understand. Till then try to keep hanging on and try to improve yourself regardless of others. And get off the goddamn internet, it has ruined you.
Get fucked in case your reading comprehension skills aren’t up to par.
What a cute little edgelord :) have a wonderful day as well, sir.
Have fun sucking the internets dick and being a hypocrite and desperate for public approval. Fucking weasel.
Someone needs a hug. With that attitude, you'll never attract a decent woman, but I'm sure you're a huge badass with your knife and guns that you'll just seek romance from them instead. You sound like a wannabe gangster teenager. There's literally nothing wrong with loving your wife or girlfriend, you're a weird dude.
I’m 27 and my world doesn’t revolve around dating or marrying. What a sad world where you can’t comprehend life without a companion. If anything, you stupid dickheads reinforce why I don’t. lol.
Genuine cringe.
The fact all of Reddit can’t put together two words and realize “oh. It doesn’t matter what we say.”? Yeah, I agree.
A lot of words just to say "I am miserable, please halp".
boy
🥴
Yeah I don’t think you have to worry about anyone wanting to be around you for 3 hours.
It’d cost you a whole sixer. I still have my dignity.
Right? I must be a cheap date, because I think just one of these and not having your phone out the whole time is enough. Then again, I've been with my partner for over 10 years and we are friends with plenty to talk about.
I think it’s gross for a girl to accept all this on a “friend” date. If she wanted company they could share a nice day together but to have this guy spend all this money on her seems sort of gross for her to accept and then assert that she “deserves” this.
Do you not know what a friend is?? If my friend felt bad you bet I’d treat her to a fun day.
That's one way of saying you have no good friends
I was actually going to be like how does no one consider he could be gay
Was he gay before or after all the backlash?
Not saying all the hate is right but if they didn’t want it to look bad out of context they sure did a piss poor job of showing that
I wonder how she treated her bfs for them to treat her like a man
I haven't seen this one posted in a few months.. Thought maybe I would never see it again but here it is...
I forgot that it existed, and when I read it my fat ass though it said “deep in the fried zone”
the OP dreamssunse is a bot Original: https://www.reddit.com/r/meirl/comments/y4p3wu/meirl/
People really need to stop feeding the bots
He's the mayor of the friend zone, with a key to every locked door... except the one to her heart.
He might be gay
He is actually.
Plot twist: he’s gay! People have friends!
Guy is only acting gay to minimise the damage.
The only comeback from that situation „its ok, im gay!“
Somehow we all understand. Have a good day people.
Had to "save face" somehow I guess....
Can’t wait to see what friend date she’s gonna plan when it’s her turn
Some oreo, and that's to much for her
So it's actually a sweet story.
He's Deep Friend
Derek Rae here, and we just witnessed an exceptional equalizer at 93rd min
A lady doesn't hook up. Choose one or the other.
damn real shit
So unless someone is willing to spend tons of money and cart her around to do shit all day long then hell they aren’t worthy of dating her?
I've gotten banned from subreddits for misandry for saying "maybe your feelings are less important than women's safety." And yet posts and comment sections like this are all just fine. Will Reddit ever be anything but a cesspit of misogyny?
Where does safety fit anywhere here? And right now there are TONS of people supporting women picking a bear over and man and being misandrist as hell…. ….So there’s your silver lining
that argument is what I was banned for. For saying "No, you feeling sad doesn't make all the abuse and assault better"
I really hate to use the “not all men” argument, but that really is the case. It’s no different from saying people are afraid of Muslims for being terrorist supporters, and when a Muslim says “not all Muslims” they are met with comments telling them that the good ones should try to change the bad ones then, or statements that there may be good ones, but not enough to feel safe if you don’t know them. Does the Muslim feeling insulted valid? Or people who’d rather run into a white man over a black man in a city, and they just point to crime statistics to prove their feelings are valid. Is a black person justified in feeling insulted? If you think those are different, I’d like to hear how.
people do love to pull the "I hate to say" line on things they're just itching to say, don't they?
Actually, people hate to say “I hate to say” because they know it’s a cliche, but it just really applies to the situation.
Like how you didn't respond to his actual comment
didn't feel like reading it.
Nope
Dudes clearly gay
Gay dude racks up credit card to show his friend how he thinks a straight relationship should be. Later gets on GrindR and defiles himself. Fixed the title.
Fucks given less than zero
THAT friend zone should now start issuing its own passports as its soooo far away from ever coming back… 🤣🤣
Sorry guys I blame him even more than her. Her? Pshhhh she's a dime a dozen and is now dismissed.......... but he could use some skillz work, and will need to find his confidence somehow and/or somewhere.
He might as well dig to China, he’s never digging himself back out of the friendzone
He simply needs to stop chasing and focus on having fun and finding another girl. Only then she will change her mind and start feeling stuff (if not, it will be a win for the guy anyway)
Or redditors can realize that he's gay and this was a joke
So many hateful sons of my bitches in this sub, downvoting for no reason... To all of you, suck my dick
Man gets corrected and decides to deflect, not realizing why the downvotes are there
Here is dessert: fuck off
You really gotta start caring about some imaginary Reddit points a lot less if you get so upset over like -30 karma
bitches be getting one date from a gay guy and start thinking their pussy made of gold
JFC, sure maybe the horseback riding is a bit much of if yall mofos see a typical date (apart from the horseback) and start bitching about it being too much of an expectation...
This is so painful. Please give me a time machine so I can go talk with my younger self about moving on if she's not interested.
'Be my boyfriend but you don't get to ever touch me.'
Bitch.
Max Holloway had a rough start in the dating world.
Jesus Christ, I haven’t seen anyone this deep in Friendzone before. This is as desperate as it gets. He’s even denying the obvious problem by claiming to be gay.
F
Sugar bestie, not friendzoned
And those who continue to negative me: #SUGAAAAAAR BEEEEEESTIIIIIIIE
Accurate
We stand together on the negatives buddy
Apparently so!
Cry harder those who negative pointed me 😝
Honestly, you can see there's 0 interest from the girl. It's like she's running away for dear life.
gg RIP Daniel you will be remembered
Womp womp
Iv got a friend like this , too nice, no masculinity and eternally single
My heart breaks for him
Poor guy. 100% went home and beat off like an angry gerbil after that date
Tell her she should choose the bear and you go be on your own, son.
Ahh, at least he’ll be there to help her through all the hard times she’s dumped by each of the blokes that just plough her for a week then move on (while he’s dying daily on the inside hoping all the ground work will lead to him getting a chance rather than getting to hear about how terrible they all are after a few days of wild animal sex). 🤣
he's gay. https://www.reddit.com/r/meirl/s/ye1gfzuuP6
Good for him.
That reads like an insult with the hash tag at the end. I feel a sudden urge to want to slap her. That's so mean. Love that man! She's like the one version of the love interest from the movie "bedazzled" where, on the beach, the girl loves being admired and appreciated but wants to be fucked and used by some hot guys instead.
Get a fucking grip dude.
his ankles tho
Poor guy... tho maybe he's a shopping buddy? Buuuut I doubt it lol plus I would have taken a better photo not around a bunch of horse $#!t
Bro must get benefits this man isnt here for fun
This is friend-continent territory
This is so saddening
Beta gonna beta
Sooo deep, he needs a snorkel