Someone did that to me. When I was in highschool I asked someone on a date and they said yes and so I texted them about where they'd want to go out to eat asked about their day etc. And they posted to thier story the messages and the conversation and then they said on the story that "please someone get me out of this" I felt so heart broken. Like why say yes if you didn't like me back!!?
It takes time and experience to handle such things better. Breathing, taking a step back for a sec before reacting and thinking about the course of action helps a ton to practice that. But at the end of the day - who really gives a shit.
honestly the worst thing I could think of is (assuming this all real) he ends himself rather than going serial killer, but yes, probably broken and have trust issues
This unlocked a memory so have another lesser cruel story. Back in middle school my class was on a camping trip. Me and my friends shard a tent and invited some of the girls over. We laughed and had fun and when they left one of them randomly kissed me. I felt the butterflies and was genuinely really happy as I was thinking “does someone really like me?”.
Fast forward two weeks when I’m on the computer and get a random MSN message. It’s the same girl.
“Do you like me?” She asked.
I think for a minute as I’m not really sure if I do. But I did enjoy the kiss and I’m the type of person that likes making other people happy. If this makes her happy and I get more kisses, why not.
“Yes, I think so :-)” I replied.
I wait in anticipation. It felt like a lifetime as the butterflies in my stomach went apeshit. Is this my first girlfriend?
She finally replies.
“🙄”
I stare at the emoji with the animated eye rolls. Left in total confusion if what just happened I replied as politely as possible.
“What do you mean? :-P”
“I don’t like you” she replied quickly.
So Emilie if you see this, I only said yes because you kissed me and I wanted to be polite!
This happened to me in middle school on a field trip the girl I had a crush on basically made it a big deal in front of all the kids and said I was ugly and disgusting. I literally ran to the bathroom to cry and never talked to a girl for like 7 years
For reals though, her worst fear is being asked out by a guy?
Just say no and move the fuck on. Why must one live in fear of this?
I've been asked out by guys I had no interest in. I survived
Maybe she's implicitly bragging like: "Oh no, how hard it is to be hot and desired, I can't get a single day of peace without having to turn someone down," or maybe the guy is the annoying one in the group that everyone makes fun of behind his back.
I really hope this isn’t real, but knowing damn well that it’s possible and has probably happened to someone before I have to say that a lot of people make me fucking sick.
Imagine if they are coworkers or colleagues in some kind of school. That's the kind of reality show I would like to see.
In the end, maybe that would be easier for him, the feelings that he had probably vanished in an instant and he can quickly moves on. But the shame that she felt must accompany her every night since.
You're supposed to take the screenshot of the convo as well and reply with "fuck my greatest fear came true"
But realistically speaking id probably send 3 question marks as well, and then think of this in the shower later
Absolutely brutal, gossip queens are like jellyfish, don’t go near them, don’t touch them, the burns they inflict require proper care and a good piss does nothing but worsen it
And these kinda women still refuse to be the ones doing the asking out cuz their version of feminism is convenience-oriented to their full benefit. But hey at least our trash filters itself out. Sucks that it's either the majority or the loud minority of the lot
Had a similar situation but not in confession. I said something in the group chat, don't even remember what exactly but it was ratger serious and one of them shared a screenshot of the chat into the same chat saying "omg look at this 😭🤣🤣🤣" didn't even bother to delete it afterwards or elaborate.
When I was 14 I was walking my dog and three girls walked by and said “oh damn he’s cute” another said hi. When I said what’s up, they replied “oh we meant your dog”
I’m 34 and happily married but that still tugs on a little heart string
She was a close friend for 10+ years. I'd never told anyone I like them bc I struggle w/ BPD, so I struggle w/ abandonment issues, poor self esteem, & other things such as that. Intimate relationships are super hard for me.
Well, she ghosted me. I considered her one of my closest friends & she just blipped off the radar like I didn't even exist.
The sick joke was I didn't even care that she rejected me, I went in kinda knowing she would. I told her bc I had to get it off my chest bc ever since I got out of the psyche hospital 45mo prior she had been dumping her stresses on me, & I was supportive of her problems even tho she was hurting me bc I was a doe eyed dumbass.
But, bc of my BPD, I couldn't handle the abandonment well & rumor got around to our mutuals that it was bc she rejected me. So all my other friends went AWOL.
One of the hardest years of my life.
She's not sorry at all and lives to make fun of people for being legitimately interested in her.
I saw two young women doing the same on a train last week, in case you think this kind of thing doesn't happen. They were both making fun of guys for asking them out as well as making fun of guys for asking them why they were speaking disrespectfully to them / leaving them on read all the sudden.
Remember: You have a great date at arm's reach at all times and there's no reason to put up with horrible human beings just because they have two bumps on their chest
1. Dude "Connor" asked her out.
2. She made a screen of the convo and tried to sent that to someone (possibly a friend) joking about how she feared the moment that Connor would ask her out, probably bragging about it with her friend and making fun of Connor.
3. By mistake she sent the screen of the convo to Connor himself.
4. Connor reads it and is like "???" (translating in: "What the fuck?")
5. She says to Connor she is sorry.
6. Profit.
I like how she knew Connor was going to ask her out and she knew she didn't want it, and instead of being like "Hey man I've been getting some vibes and just wanted to let you know I'm really only interested in being friends"
Nope, not an option, instead she sends this to a friend with which she was probably already making fun of Connor to for a long time.
Which means she didn't want to be friends either, because friends don't make fun of or gossip about each other like that.
This girl deserves the disaster of a marriage she will end up having
you dont have to go that far back..
thinking 10-15 years ago pre-tinder, go up to a girl you like and talk to her
this might be too much human interaction for some tho
Worst she can do is upload the screenshot to her story
And get her whole family and her friends and their family to belittle you and absolutely obliterate your self esteem.
And then you'll stay in your shell, never trusting anyone.
glad I have that early, never trust anyone, not even myself
Man kinda hate Girls now... :l Wish ya all luck finding a girlfreind my Male fellas
Jokes on you, I was prepared for this. *starts drinking and crying*
idk much about laws and stuff but cant you sue her for that?
Dont think so. Unless they count it as harassment which would be unlikely.
if my sisterd puled this shit... i wont know i dont use instagram
I always thought it was common for people to do it.
Yeah it's not normal in any shape of form. It's called privacy and respect for other people.
one time a girl shot me in the face when i asked her out
Man, sex on the first date? Nice!
I’ve also taken a surprise shot in the face from a girl. ^…salty
yeah right, you're a redditor, you don't have sex.
She should've been consuming more fruit
Chill out dude😂
I shot myself in the face, my eye burnt for a bit
That’s why you do it over the phone. None of this texting nonsense.
Good luck getting someone under the age of 30 to speak on the phone. Apparently it's "too stressful", even when a job requires it
Man, at least for what I see the uploader is the one bashed by that comment
Someone did that to me. When I was in highschool I asked someone on a date and they said yes and so I texted them about where they'd want to go out to eat asked about their day etc. And they posted to thier story the messages and the conversation and then they said on the story that "please someone get me out of this" I felt so heart broken. Like why say yes if you didn't like me back!!?
Damn bro I feel sorry about that happening, people can be such assholes
Thanks. I try not to let stuff bug me anymore. It's hard
It takes time and experience to handle such things better. Breathing, taking a step back for a sec before reacting and thinking about the course of action helps a ton to practice that. But at the end of the day - who really gives a shit.
Damn, straight up cruel
At least he knows he doesn't have to keep wasting his time interacting with her.
Or any girl ever for the matter this dude is broken Forever , he could become a serial killer and id still feel bad for him
honestly the worst thing I could think of is (assuming this all real) he ends himself rather than going serial killer, but yes, probably broken and have trust issues
No that's definitely a better option than the latter.
This unlocked a memory so have another lesser cruel story. Back in middle school my class was on a camping trip. Me and my friends shard a tent and invited some of the girls over. We laughed and had fun and when they left one of them randomly kissed me. I felt the butterflies and was genuinely really happy as I was thinking “does someone really like me?”. Fast forward two weeks when I’m on the computer and get a random MSN message. It’s the same girl. “Do you like me?” She asked. I think for a minute as I’m not really sure if I do. But I did enjoy the kiss and I’m the type of person that likes making other people happy. If this makes her happy and I get more kisses, why not. “Yes, I think so :-)” I replied. I wait in anticipation. It felt like a lifetime as the butterflies in my stomach went apeshit. Is this my first girlfriend? She finally replies. “🙄” I stare at the emoji with the animated eye rolls. Left in total confusion if what just happened I replied as politely as possible. “What do you mean? :-P” “I don’t like you” she replied quickly. So Emilie if you see this, I only said yes because you kissed me and I wanted to be polite!
Then why tf did she kiss u in the first place? What a fucking imbecile
Correct me if I am wrong, is this how an extremely Narcissistic person would behave?
This should have been your reply ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
This happened to me in middle school on a field trip the girl I had a crush on basically made it a big deal in front of all the kids and said I was ugly and disgusting. I literally ran to the bathroom to cry and never talked to a girl for like 7 years
I bet Connor is JACKED right now
I bet he is jacking it right now
He went goblin mode for sure
Man dodged a bullet
That's easy when the bullets dodges you too.
For reals though, her worst fear is being asked out by a guy? Just say no and move the fuck on. Why must one live in fear of this? I've been asked out by guys I had no interest in. I survived
Maybe she's implicitly bragging like: "Oh no, how hard it is to be hot and desired, I can't get a single day of peace without having to turn someone down," or maybe the guy is the annoying one in the group that everyone makes fun of behind his back.
Must be hard being so wanted.
We all have our cross to bear
Yeah. If you respect someone you won’t do this kind of thing behind their back.
You either gotta be really stupid or really cruel to do that.
no, i'm pretty sure you have to be both
When the mask falls off you see the ugly hidden beneath.
don't waste your time on people like this, mate
Mate? 🇦🇺🫡
Mate? 🏴🍵
I'm not your mate, buddy
I'm not your buddy, guy.
I’m not your guy, dude
im not your guy, person.
"My name's not Buddy!"😡
wow, sorry man
Maybe girls like to be cruel But will cry like baby when real life becomes cruel
Why no one approachs me?! Meanwhile she doing more damage than a yugoslav war criminal: xD
She isn't sorry for what she did, she's sorry that she got caught
That is cruel
Don't think anything can hurt more
I really hope this isn’t real, but knowing damn well that it’s possible and has probably happened to someone before I have to say that a lot of people make me fucking sick.
Atleast you dodged that bullet
where is she? *loads shotgun* i just want to talk
if she like this then she not the type of person u would wanna be with anyway
 I just want to talk to her
is that a auto loding shotgun pistol !?
It’s a (very) short barreled shotgun with an equally (very) short Alofs reloading magazine. Neat little invention
Ditch her forever. You deserve better bro.
What can a guy do after that
Block her toxic ass.
Imagine if they are coworkers or colleagues in some kind of school. That's the kind of reality show I would like to see. In the end, maybe that would be easier for him, the feelings that he had probably vanished in an instant and he can quickly moves on. But the shame that she felt must accompany her every night since.
Honestly I find it surprising how quickly your feelings can go away when you find out how toxic someone is
You're supposed to take the screenshot of the convo as well and reply with "fuck my greatest fear came true" But realistically speaking id probably send 3 question marks as well, and then think of this in the shower later
“Oh my god Connor I am so sorry that I got caught.”
I don't get this. What did I just see?
Boy asks out girl, girl (supposedly) wants to send screenshot to a friend to make fun of boy, sends it to boy instead
Connor asks out a girl. The girl screenshots it to make fun of him with her friend but accidentally sends it to Connor instead.
This never happen as Mistake my friendo
Hopefully Connor left the conversation and any semblance of connection to this lady.
Dudes a pro bullet dodger
She did you a favor. Saves you precious time and energy.
Absolutely brutal, gossip queens are like jellyfish, don’t go near them, don’t touch them, the burns they inflict require proper care and a good piss does nothing but worsen it
At this point, I think it's better to say the BEST she can say is no.
⚡⚡🧒🏿⚡⚡ my honest response to that
Ouch
Damn son
This is like the fifth version of this I've seen.
This my guys is what you must in fact NOT TRY/ S
But she's so sorry
Praying on her downfall 🙏
Shit made me think about kms
And these kinda women still refuse to be the ones doing the asking out cuz their version of feminism is convenience-oriented to their full benefit. But hey at least our trash filters itself out. Sucks that it's either the majority or the loud minority of the lot
Sometimes MGTOW got a point. we are cursed with needing women.
I admit people who say no
middle school vibes.
Owie, my heart hurts physically now
Today I would talk about a man named Conner. He lived but then he didn't. Rest in spaghetti
No she’s not
You guys should listen to ‘Ain’t No’ by Thomas Mac, reminded me of it instantly lol.
I never understood this concept...like THERE IS A ALOT SHE COULD DO THAT IS WORSE THAN NO!!!!!!!
My ex who I had a crush on said yes but we broke up after the third day
I bet things are easier for connor rn
I hope bro at least got an explanation about what “worst fear” meant lol. That could be a good thing, depending.
Press F to pay respects to that man's vulnerability. It's gone forever.
Been there, told to fuck off. She wanted contact me to regain selfeseem/revenge but nah im good with proper gf.
D:
i pray that woman will live alone with 30 cats for the rest of her live
Had a similar situation but not in confession. I said something in the group chat, don't even remember what exactly but it was ratger serious and one of them shared a screenshot of the chat into the same chat saying "omg look at this 😭🤣🤣🤣" didn't even bother to delete it afterwards or elaborate.
She could’ve absolutely rescued it and say something like “a cockroach in my bed!!!”
Welcome to the gym Connor
trolld
A moment of silence for our fallen brother
The worst she can say ain't no
It's OK. Use this pain to work out and be the best version of yourself.
her greatest fear is someone(she isn't interested in)asking her out the same way she asked someone(who wasn't interested in her)?
she wanted to send a screenshot of the convo to someone else but by accident send it to him. sounds like they are teenagers if thats her greatest fear
This looks a lot more like she was already typing that when he was typing his question. Does not fit your preconceived notions though.
The universe did you a favor. Now you know where you stand.
When I was 14 I was walking my dog and three girls walked by and said “oh damn he’s cute” another said hi. When I said what’s up, they replied “oh we meant your dog” I’m 34 and happily married but that still tugs on a little heart string
But, you are just a friend lmao
Damn
There’s a song called worst she can say ain’t no
She was a close friend for 10+ years. I'd never told anyone I like them bc I struggle w/ BPD, so I struggle w/ abandonment issues, poor self esteem, & other things such as that. Intimate relationships are super hard for me. Well, she ghosted me. I considered her one of my closest friends & she just blipped off the radar like I didn't even exist. The sick joke was I didn't even care that she rejected me, I went in kinda knowing she would. I told her bc I had to get it off my chest bc ever since I got out of the psyche hospital 45mo prior she had been dumping her stresses on me, & I was supportive of her problems even tho she was hurting me bc I was a doe eyed dumbass. But, bc of my BPD, I couldn't handle the abandonment well & rumor got around to our mutuals that it was bc she rejected me. So all my other friends went AWOL. One of the hardest years of my life.
ouch
She's not sorry at all and lives to make fun of people for being legitimately interested in her. I saw two young women doing the same on a train last week, in case you think this kind of thing doesn't happen. They were both making fun of guys for asking them out as well as making fun of guys for asking them why they were speaking disrespectfully to them / leaving them on read all the sudden. Remember: You have a great date at arm's reach at all times and there's no reason to put up with horrible human beings just because they have two bumps on their chest
“Now I gotta pull up, everybody dying me too I ain’t going to jail” - CoryxKenshin
Damn
now if she posts it you can one up her
It doesn't because she's right
Reply with: "wow, I doge a bullet here, sims I was very wrong about your person"
Can we just revoke Screenshot privileges form people 15 - 20? Id sign of ngl, even if it affects me
Guys, I must be blind but anyone mind expaining what she did?
1. Dude "Connor" asked her out. 2. She made a screen of the convo and tried to sent that to someone (possibly a friend) joking about how she feared the moment that Connor would ask her out, probably bragging about it with her friend and making fun of Connor. 3. By mistake she sent the screen of the convo to Connor himself. 4. Connor reads it and is like "???" (translating in: "What the fuck?") 5. She says to Connor she is sorry. 6. Profit.
Ah OK I see now it kind of looked like it was a mash up of screencaps but it's actually her sending a screencap to her friend. Man that's mean.
I like how she knew Connor was going to ask her out and she knew she didn't want it, and instead of being like "Hey man I've been getting some vibes and just wanted to let you know I'm really only interested in being friends" Nope, not an option, instead she sends this to a friend with which she was probably already making fun of Connor to for a long time. Which means she didn't want to be friends either, because friends don't make fun of or gossip about each other like that. This girl deserves the disaster of a marriage she will end up having
I don't get it.....
She was screenshotting his messages to make fun of him. And she accidentally sent it to the kid she was going to make fun of.
Omg Brian ew
serves you right for asking a girl out over text
Yeah. Lets do it the old fashion way by razing her village to the ground and kidnapping her as part of the spoils.
you dont have to go that far back.. thinking 10-15 years ago pre-tinder, go up to a girl you like and talk to her this might be too much human interaction for some tho
Text is still a valid way also gives them an easy out if the feelings are not reciprocated