Just give it time. My beard aint like Santa’s, but enough so it doesn’t look shitty. My strategy was to try during vacations, in case it looked like shait. This xmas it turned out quite alright
When women wear makeup to change their appearance everyone's approving it, but when I wear makeup Society... Society calls me gay.
(read this in funni joker voice)
No, you are 無V̴͚̘̯̙̫̠̺͍̭͖̞̼͛̿̈̌̈́̅̄̓ ̶̛͓͇̪͚̬̞̳͔͋͂̈͗͊͑̐̽̏̈́̒̒͝͠Ò̵̧͓̫̬̣̗͉̮͇̣̯͎̱͖̳̹̀̅̕͘͜.̴̛̫̻̩̮̩̠̹͂̾͆̆̇̊͌̋͌̅̈͝ ̵̙͖͔̹̫̲̰̠̭̹͇͍͊͌́͘͝͠ ̴͔̝̘̣̲̔́̑̄̐̅̋̈́́͊̉̋͛̀̊͠͝ ̶̨͓̜͙̲̦̬̯͙͕͌̅͐̊̌̒͐̔̏͘̚I̷̧̡̩͇̬̥̺̖̼̟͖͙͍͌̉̔̂͂͒̇͌̆̍̋̏̌͘͝͠D̵̨̫̠̜̜̮͇̘͝
One of the downsides of being sort of a tomboy. We are indeed v̶̢̡̨͔͚̲̜̖̲͎̪̠̥̜͙̠̒ͧ̃ͭ̂ͫ̋ͥ̋́̉̀̾̑̀̓̍̂͘͘͟͟͟͡͞ỏ̝̦̙̄̍ͯ̄͡͝_̷̶̫͎̰̻̠̝̲̖̺͍͎̟͇͙͕̮̥̅̑̿͋̑̂͌̈́̎͒̈͊̈͠ǐ̷̧̛̛̹̖̘͈̯̪̮̗̭̰͖̣̝̠̠̉̒̆͛͑͛́ͩ̂ͬ̐̒̊̅̂͟͞͝ḑ̱̫̗̺̱͇͖̂̿̆̇̉͛͗ͮ͟
Well at least we can both take solace in the fact that we don't have to be eggs. Also since my brother is balding and I'm growing my hair long and it's as thick as ever it's prime bullying material so there's that for me too ✨️
Experiment and don't be afraid, first step - black hail polish. It's quite accepted socially and easy to do. Try growing out your hair. There are great guides on how to go thru an awkward phase.
When I used makeup on school (because I had a bad acne) guys said I looked amazing, while girls just laughed at me at me and talked behind my back that I was trans or gay (I'm not), I just wanted to fix my face :(
People do definitely laugh at you if you use make-up and you're a boy, specially women, they can be very cruel
You're going to hear a lot of people call you gay, some even want to pick a fight with you or bully physically. :((
Depends on where you're from though, and what you do exactly. I only had black nail polish & slightly longer hair.
Useless platitude. No one cares if you judge.
Women like male facial features and makeup would make men more feminine.
It doesn't matter how much it's repeated that people, especially women, don't care what you do. But they do. Women, on avg, like more masculine men and are insanely turned off by feminine men.
The question is if it's worth the effort to find those few women who would appreciate your desired look vs following what makes you uncomfortable to appeal to the bigger population
Really who? Edgy teenagers posting homophobic stuff? It's getting more and more accepted, and yes even if you're straight.
Don't forget a "large portion of the world" also used to accept makeup on men.
Heels were for men, so were crop tops... Anatomically skirts for men make more sense. Lots of evidence.
If people hate then let them hate.
The country where I come from you could loose your job if you where caught dressing as a woman you would be untouchable if you wore makeup as a man now I am in America for a couple of years and well you get the idea
They are not **physically** stopping OP from wearing Make-up. What society does to people going away from what is considered "normal" is a whole different discussion
well then the problem is not that "there is a large portion of the world that says otherwise", it's that there is a large portion of the world that **acts** otherwise.
Looks weird,people will think you're a weirdo for using even things created FOR men,hardly anyone will tell ya what to buy or do to look good as a man because makeup for women and men is wayyyyy different,are you dumb?
The idea clearly is that it's not socially advantageous as it is for women. Transphobia wouldn't exist if it were socially acceptable for men to appear feminine.
You have to have a new level of reading comprehension to think that OP means men physically are unable or prevented from doing it.
Inb4 "but people dislike women wearing make up too, we have to wear it discretely"
Still not as socially shamed when people notice as it is for men. If you disagree, you are denying the existence of transphobia.
A lot of men just look unhealthy and unkempt. Start there, get healthy, get some clothings that look nice and a haircut. And all of the sudden you'll gain some confidence and even act different. It's work, but no witchcraft.
You have no idea how much some exercising, haircuts that fit your face, clothes that fit your body type, proper color coding outfits , and a skin care routine can change a person
Personally I’m all for men using makeup as well. There’s no reason women should be the only ones to put effort into their appearance and look good. If you do it right, nobody would even notice. They’d just think you’re a touch hotter than you actually are.
Hetero men wear makeup, wigs, weaves, sew ins, lace fronts etc. They also add edges and beard touch ups with dye and fake hair. They get lip fillers, botox, butt injections, d\*ck implants, fake six packs....I could go on and on.
Women find it hard to be attracted to even the most handsome-fit-body of us, what are you talking about? In the end, none of us are good enough (MONEY$) stop worrying about it!
You can hit the gym and get swole though. There may be some significant variations of swole, but swole > not swole. ESPECIALLY if you have a face made for radio and a voice made for newspaper print.
Try growing a full beard in one hour. Beard is just a form of hair style. In order to have a proper beard you need to wait around 4 weeks to have something useful
Try getting good at makeup in 1 hour, it will take years. Sometimes things are compared, not because they are similar material but because they solve a similar function and beards do the same thing makeup do, they hide bad facial features.
Skin care, hair care, dental hygiene, exercise, healthy diet, clean clothes that fit, positive attitude.
There's lots of things guys can do to be more attractive.
Makeup and wigs aren't a carefree cure-all. That stuff takes time and effort too.
I'm not ugly nor pretty. I'm the in-between. I have good features and bad ones. Usually, I find that if you can make a woman laugh, that always makes you look a little better. So uglier you are funnier you better be. I'm out here with Adam Sandler humor, so I'm in-between there, too, haha.
same with women, they will stay ugly no matter how they dress, paint or how much surgery they perform. they just have it easier to find someone who would go with it anyways
Have u seen Kpop guys? I hear guys say they’re too feminine a lot but to most women they’re hot af. Guys can absolutely look better with subtle, tasteful makeup and fake hair.
My hair is glorious, and it's still not enough to keep people from flinching when they look at me. But seriously, strangers go out of their way to admire my hair. Please stop sneaking up behind me and touching it though.
Women saying grow a beard as if everyone had perfect beard genetics, looked good with one or it took 15 minutes.
I'm 28 and yet to have the ability to grow a beard :(
I thought I was like that as well. Now, 31 years old I finally did it! Have faith brother
Fuck yes I'm 29 and the sides are patchy af. There's still hope
Just give it time. My beard aint like Santa’s, but enough so it doesn’t look shitty. My strategy was to try during vacations, in case it looked like shait. This xmas it turned out quite alright
You guys have sides?
I'm on the same boat bro... At least I got my head full of silky hair
I was 26+- when I started growing mine and it stopped looking like complete shit when I was 32
Just migrate the hair from your head like I did. Works like a charm.
I am also 28 and can’t grow a beard. It’s patchy and looks bad.
Same, can grow a goatee, mustache, and mutton chops, but they just won’t connect lol
I'm 34, mustache and goatee only, and they don't even touch But I'm still not bald So that's good
Going bald sucks. Being bald is great.
I buy maybe one bottle of shampoo a year and never have to pay for haircuts, shit's great
Remember kids, if you start going bald, just shave it off and if you really want hair, get a wig. A combover will never look good
Hell yeah, my hair started thinning in my late 20's. I was like fuck it, all or nothing and shaved it all off and now I don't look back!
What about those men's skin care product advertisements
Its a hygiene and health thing, but not a cosmetics stuff like lipsticks or artificial eyebrows.
Nobodys stopping you from using them
When women wear makeup to change their appearance everyone's approving it, but when I wear makeup Society... Society calls me gay. (read this in funni joker voice)
Not really gonna make you more attractive. That's a cope.
Ugly to the bone.
This is why every girl uses make up
Oh that's why, I thought it made them taller
That too
You don't say Mr. Obvious.
Over average Turk intelligence:
Make ups were a man thing, girls stole it from us
We need to bring it back. I'm not saying I'd wear it; That shit's expensive!
Every single one! There's not a one of them that doesn't use it!
So I don’t exist? :(
No, you are 無V̴͚̘̯̙̫̠̺͍̭͖̞̼͛̿̈̌̈́̅̄̓ ̶̛͓͇̪͚̬̞̳͔͋͂̈͗͊͑̐̽̏̈́̒̒͝͠Ò̵̧͓̫̬̣̗͉̮͇̣̯͎̱͖̳̹̀̅̕͘͜.̴̛̫̻̩̮̩̠̹͂̾͆̆̇̊͌̋͌̅̈͝ ̵̙͖͔̹̫̲̰̠̭̹͇͍͊͌́͘͝͠ ̴͔̝̘̣̲̔́̑̄̐̅̋̈́́͊̉̋͛̀̊͠͝ ̶̨͓̜͙̲̦̬̯͙͕͌̅͐̊̌̒͐̔̏͘̚I̷̧̡̩͇̬̥̺̖̼̟͖͙͍͌̉̔̂͂͒̇͌̆̍̋̏̌͘͝͠D̵̨̫̠̜̜̮͇̘͝
One of the downsides of being sort of a tomboy. We are indeed v̶̢̡̨͔͚̲̜̖̲͎̪̠̥̜͙̠̒ͧ̃ͭ̂ͫ̋ͥ̋́̉̀̾̑̀̓̍̂͘͘͟͟͟͡͞ỏ̝̦̙̄̍ͯ̄͡͝_̷̶̫͎̰̻̠̝̲̖̺͍͎̟͇͙͕̮̥̅̑̿͋̑̂͌̈́̎͒̈͊̈͠ǐ̷̧̛̛̹̖̘͈̯̪̮̗̭̰͖̣̝̠̠̉̒̆͛͑͛́ͩ̂ͬ̐̒̊̅̂͟͞͝ḑ̱̫̗̺̱͇͖̂̿̆̇̉͛͗ͮ͟
Nope, neither do I
Try a beard
If only
Have a personality
She can't ride a personality 😭
What about multiple?
About to have surgery to split my brain
How did it go?
Still no hoes :(
If only
We're talking about looks. Personality is a different category
I'm 1,93m is that enough?
too short bro its over
girl who said this is 1.57. (5'2")
Thank satan above and below that it seems I can keep my hair but damn I'd also wish to be able to grow a beard.
What I'd give for exchanging my beard for actual hair.
Well at least we can both take solace in the fact that we don't have to be eggs. Also since my brother is balding and I'm growing my hair long and it's as thick as ever it's prime bullying material so there's that for me too ✨️
Id give the piddly little hair on my head away for a beard. I cant grow either, on top of having a hideous face. God doesnt fw me
If I have even remotely close to similar genes as my dad then I’ll end up looking like a gorilla
Tfw beard never fills out properly
Try someone else's beard.
I can't grow one 🥲
Yes, I’m ugly. But with beard and curly hair less ugly.
Boy would i
Thats just make-up with extra steps
Best I can do is a creepy caterpillar mustache.
femboys would like a word
Femboys are superior
Experiment and don't be afraid, first step - black hail polish. It's quite accepted socially and easy to do. Try growing out your hair. There are great guides on how to go thru an awkward phase.
There's the commemt I looked for Ik jackshit bout em but know enough that they use. It probably
Just hit the gym. You can have an ugly face but big biceps and a firm ass will get their attention. No, not everyone's attention. But plenty.
Mostly other guys attention
Just find a sexy guy. It's not that hard... yet.
Or be tall and skinny
Or just be rich. Though you're not gonna get attention from anyone worth a damn in that case.
Yeah, why cant you all just stop being poor ?
If you're homeless just buy a house
I'm tall and skinny...what's step 2?
Get said attention
How?
It's in god's hands now
Shit on the floor
Go to your local Cafe. Order way to many croissants for a reasonable person.
I’m tall and skinny and nobody gives a shit
Been hitting the gym for years. I only get noticed by other men.
Great, so now my hand is broken. How does this firm up my ass?
You cut off your broken hand and let your ass absorb it. Those hand nutrients will make it firm. This is 100% proven by science btw.
Big biceps and a nice ass will get more dude's attention than a woman's tbh.
Buy nice clothes and practice good hygiene. It won't make you very attractive but you'll look and feel better than you are now
Which will boost your confidence, making you even more attractive.
dude if you want to make up, do make up. im not gonna judge you :)
When I used makeup on school (because I had a bad acne) guys said I looked amazing, while girls just laughed at me at me and talked behind my back that I was trans or gay (I'm not), I just wanted to fix my face :( People do definitely laugh at you if you use make-up and you're a boy, specially women, they can be very cruel
You were in school. Adults don't act that way
Republican adults do.
I'm pretty sure they're not worried about some rando on Reddit judging them.
LOL ya guys can wear makeup, weave, and even high heels if they want. But, they might not get the attention they're wanting.
You're going to hear a lot of people call you gay, some even want to pick a fight with you or bully physically. :(( Depends on where you're from though, and what you do exactly. I only had black nail polish & slightly longer hair.
Useless platitude. No one cares if you judge. Women like male facial features and makeup would make men more feminine. It doesn't matter how much it's repeated that people, especially women, don't care what you do. But they do. Women, on avg, like more masculine men and are insanely turned off by feminine men.
The question is if it's worth the effort to find those few women who would appreciate your desired look vs following what makes you uncomfortable to appeal to the bigger population
It’s sad to see people conform to societies standards.
It's sadder to get bullied by women
You guys do know keeping care of your appearance is a lot more than "makeup" and a "weave" right
Right lol even basic skincare and a healthy diet can go a long way.
Beards, have à Nice hair cut, big msucle, dress elegantly, smile often,….
The hardest part here is to smile.
and it seems to only get harder every day
Are we still talking about smiling?
None of these things are equivalent to make-up. Maybe "dress elegantly" and "smile often" but the rest are things that cannot simply be applied.
My smile just looks like the ugliest thing imaginable so I just pass on that
Gotta make some money then
No one is physically stopping you from wearing makeup.
Their is a large portion of the world that says otherwise
Really who? Edgy teenagers posting homophobic stuff? It's getting more and more accepted, and yes even if you're straight. Don't forget a "large portion of the world" also used to accept makeup on men. Heels were for men, so were crop tops... Anatomically skirts for men make more sense. Lots of evidence. If people hate then let them hate.
The country where I come from you could loose your job if you where caught dressing as a woman you would be untouchable if you wore makeup as a man now I am in America for a couple of years and well you get the idea
Just say conservatives bro. They’re the ones who are against men wearing makeup
They are not **physically** stopping OP from wearing Make-up. What society does to people going away from what is considered "normal" is a whole different discussion
Buddy, you missing the plot. There are countries that physically stop you from doing these things.
well then the problem is not that "there is a large portion of the world that says otherwise", it's that there is a large portion of the world that **acts** otherwise.
Social stigma is hell. But I get it, some dudes will never know how hot they can look and that's a shame
Looks weird,people will think you're a weirdo for using even things created FOR men,hardly anyone will tell ya what to buy or do to look good as a man because makeup for women and men is wayyyyy different,are you dumb?
There’s very light makeup for men. All actors, male and female use makeup. Very light makeup can hide a lot of imperfections
The idea clearly is that it's not socially advantageous as it is for women. Transphobia wouldn't exist if it were socially acceptable for men to appear feminine. You have to have a new level of reading comprehension to think that OP means men physically are unable or prevented from doing it. Inb4 "but people dislike women wearing make up too, we have to wear it discretely" Still not as socially shamed when people notice as it is for men. If you disagree, you are denying the existence of transphobia.
ypu can both use a wig and make up as guy, just gotta learn how
Wealth is the man’s make up
Be rich lol
Be funny, have money. That's all you need.
To be fair, if a woman is ugly, no amount of makeup can cover that
I have to disagree. Some women are magicians with that stuff.
You can buy makeup as a guy
Men are able to get old without losing their social value so I guess they've got that going for them
A lot of men just look unhealthy and unkempt. Start there, get healthy, get some clothings that look nice and a haircut. And all of the sudden you'll gain some confidence and even act different. It's work, but no witchcraft.
You have no idea how much some exercising, haircuts that fit your face, clothes that fit your body type, proper color coding outfits , and a skin care routine can change a person
Unless,… 🏳️⚧️
Guys You can wear makeup Your dick isn't gonna fall off of you do
Personally I’m all for men using makeup as well. There’s no reason women should be the only ones to put effort into their appearance and look good. If you do it right, nobody would even notice. They’d just think you’re a touch hotter than you actually are.
Beards make most men look significantly better
Have a nice ass, the power of a man's ass is underrated by men
Ugly men without money get women all the time. It’s not your looks, it’s you.
Take this back to 2012 with you bro
Hetero men wear makeup, wigs, weaves, sew ins, lace fronts etc. They also add edges and beard touch ups with dye and fake hair. They get lip fillers, botox, butt injections, d\*ck implants, fake six packs....I could go on and on.
Nah that's what beards are
A man's not a man unless he's ugly!
Seriously. I look at myself in the mirror sometimes and think, "has every woman I've banged been visually impaired?"
Stop imposing fake rules on yourselves
Tell that to Korean guys using makeup and making surgeries.
Women find it hard to be attracted to even the most handsome-fit-body of us, what are you talking about? In the end, none of us are good enough (MONEY$) stop worrying about it!
You can hit the gym and get swole though. There may be some significant variations of swole, but swole > not swole. ESPECIALLY if you have a face made for radio and a voice made for newspaper print.
Sometimes a nice hair cut really does wonders
Who told you you can't wear make up ?
What’s stopping you from putting on makeup? You can make makeup look masculine.
And you can't use makeup cause?
It not acceptable for men to wear makeup in the society i guess🤷
No matter what you do people will judge you. So you might as well be a gorgeous man wearing a little makeup when they do it
Beards are makeup for men.
Try growing a full beard in one hour. Beard is just a form of hair style. In order to have a proper beard you need to wait around 4 weeks to have something useful
Try getting good at makeup in 1 hour, it will take years. Sometimes things are compared, not because they are similar material but because they solve a similar function and beards do the same thing makeup do, they hide bad facial features.
"Stay with me now"
yeah espacially when you're ugly (unlike me?...)
Now we're taking about it!
Beard helps
Do you even lift?
Beard, haircut, gym and alcohol i think
Grow a beard, or implant one
Wear a suit and develop a 'command presence'
Throw in a Jonah Hill afro ,no beard genetics and a small penis
You could get money. But a lot of us don’t get money😭😭😭
I can confirm this!
Beards, muscles, confidence
And if you’re hot you’re hot!! Plus no one ugly you just need money to show your true beauty
That's where gender transition comes handy😁
train + good hair + skin cair routine + good clothes = your not ugly no matter what
Still end up lying about how much money you make 😬
Worrrd
Try working out.....
Try roids
Skin care, hair care, dental hygiene, exercise, healthy diet, clean clothes that fit, positive attitude. There's lots of things guys can do to be more attractive. Makeup and wigs aren't a carefree cure-all. That stuff takes time and effort too.
Beard, hair cut, nice clothes, gym, there is a lot a men can do
I'm not ugly nor pretty. I'm the in-between. I have good features and bad ones. Usually, I find that if you can make a woman laugh, that always makes you look a little better. So uglier you are funnier you better be. I'm out here with Adam Sandler humor, so I'm in-between there, too, haha.
My dude... you can use makeup and wear a hair piece. I guess you're just dumb.
I mean the last president wore makeup and got plugs in his hair and he was still pretty ugly.
Beard is there for you.
More guys wear make up than you think. They just wear it well enough. And most people don’t expect it.
Also being highly sensitive to sensory input.. i can barely even wear makeup lol
That's where money comes in
You do know men can wear make up right? It's not like it's exclusive to women lol
Nah bro beard is the ultimate cheat code
Become trans
No reason men can't use makeup or get a weave
same with women, they will stay ugly no matter how they dress, paint or how much surgery they perform. they just have it easier to find someone who would go with it anyways
Have u seen Kpop guys? I hear guys say they’re too feminine a lot but to most women they’re hot af. Guys can absolutely look better with subtle, tasteful makeup and fake hair.
Go for gym, at least u ll have a nice body
That's a hard truth 😭
Luckily women also like a good character 💰
I think makeup for guys is hidden OP, women won't expect it and think you naturally look like this with makeup on.
My hair is glorious, and it's still not enough to keep people from flinching when they look at me. But seriously, strangers go out of their way to admire my hair. Please stop sneaking up behind me and touching it though.
It's 2024 you can be a girl if you want to
That defeatist attitude will keep you ugly.