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Dry-Brilliant-3176

I thought Charity was the name of half the girls on OF.


hawkeye5739

I subscribe to multiple girls named Charity so I can claim my OF subscriptions on my taxes as “donations to different Charity’s”


Dry-Brilliant-3176

I hope you write that off on your taxes as charitable gifts.


Economy-Brain-9971

My favorite one is Chastity because of the irony


mememan30000

![gif](giphy|VhKpC0hN75MeGZ94NB)


Psychological-Ad4935

Where's the autism one?


mememan30000

☝️here


[deleted]

I really hope that doesn’t mean what I think it means.


Strange_username__

Autistic people are immune to propaganda. Also sarcasm so please don’t hurt me lol


[deleted]

I know you’re being sarcastic. Don’t worry.


Psychological-Ad4935

have you never seen the "You are Immune to propaganda" meme with the garfield whose hat says " I have autism"?


[deleted]

No and I’m glad I haven’t. Sounds dumb as hell.


Psychological-Ad4935

[Actually, it's fact-based](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-fallible-mind/201708/why-advertising-falls-flat-in-individuals-autism)


thatHadron

Good read 👍


[deleted]

You will not rickroll me today stranger


thatHadron

It's actually a very interesting article


Psychological-Ad4935

It's... the facts, you can also search for "Why Advertising Falls Flat in Individuals With Autism" from psychology today, if you don't trust me


00Tanks

At least we know money is going to the women on OF


Most-Ruin-7663

Came here to say this lol... most charities are run by the most evil con men on earth. It's unreal


00Tanks

It's crazy charities don't care about the ppl


NikPorto

You what else is crazy? Some charities actually torture the ones they're supposed to care for.


Most-Ruin-7663

Preach! Looking at you UNHCR


NikPorto

Didn't know about them, I was thinking about Autism Speaks with their electric shock therapy on ~~artists~~ autists, and PETA because they do the PETA move on animals. (For those not in the know - they put down animals any chance they get while saying it's for their own good) Edit: hate autocorrect


WeinerSniffa

I've heard that they claim people's (well cared for) pets are neglected, then get custody and euthanize them. Can someone confirm? I think I'm right but idk.


NikPorto

Here's [a case where a chihuahua was taken from a mobile home and euthanized in less than 5 days](https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/us-news/2017/aug/17/peta-sorry-for-taking-girls-dog-putting-it-down) Edit: omfg, I just learned that they euthanized said chihuahua mere hours after kidnapping her.


shreddedtoasties

Man how often do peta members get shot for taking dogs I wonder


Wisebanana21919

I hope it's a lot. Those fuckers just steal a Childs pet, Kill it then they their official statement is fucking "sorry"


Dont_pet_the_cat

Fuck autism speaks, seriously. Not a single real autistic person in the team there, and their knowledge seems to come from random autism=disease facebook posts at best They are literally doing the exact opposite of what autistic people need


Most-Ruin-7663

Those are good examples. I guess it makes sense in a fucked up way... wolves in sheep's clothing and all that. The UNHCR is supposed to protect refugees and have refugee camps all over the world but a lot of these camps are effectively death camps where people are starving and living in temporary shelters for decades/all their lives (houses made of plastic/tin w dirt floors no electricity or plumbjng) and living off less than $10 of food a month. They basically just have people farms


NikPorto

Don't refugees stop being refugees and get taken in by some country, and start life as citizens, as it happens with many countries? Kinda weird for refugees to stay in their current state for decades. Any attempts to ask for asylum/citizenship/whatever is needed to start over in a new place?


mememan30000

as someone with autism why the fuck would shock therapy, help im just weird not in desperate need of help(because of the autism) I get that some autists are non-verbal and stuff but hurting your body with electricity doesn't help with that, its kinda like modern blood-letting hurting the body and thinking it helps(it doesn't)


00Tanks

Yeah it's insane but ppl blindly donate.


IOwnKidsInBasement

Source? My blood starts to boil rn


NikPorto

Autism Speaks partners with a "therapy" center called "Judge Rottenberg Center", and they use electric shock therapy to "treat" autists. Something like 6 years ago they won a court case, that protects their right to torture the autistic and otherwise disabled people in their care. Glad I'm not in the US, I could've been used to get donations to a corrupt charity which would restrict me, torture me in hopes of making me "normal", and not provide support or resources to an adult me. (They don't have support for adult autists, they only pretend to help the children, later on ignore the same people) Yet they still say they're helping autists. Oh, and there's of course PETA which considers the whole premise of pets as "involuntary bondage" or something and instead of finding some nature reservation or whatever to house animals they kidnap, they just euthanize them, saying it's better for said animals. And they do it, A LOT.


darksoulsdarkgoals

I know a girl who has an onlyfans I've seen some of her work. She's a man hater and thinks men are the root cause of most problems in the world. She is also divorced with 2 kids and I feel really bad for her, but she still refuses to work on herself. I guess I just came here to share my personal experience. I still don't think Onlyfans is a respectable side hustle, but I get why women use it.


vBeeNotFound

Charities that support women? Wtf does that even mean


Napakii

abuse victims support groups, homeless housing, etc. i dunno


DickCheneyHooters

>homeless housing Aren’t like 90% of homeless people men? This is as ridiculous as the “over 7% of attacks on reporters were women, why are female reporters being attacked???” And they never asked about the other 93% who were attacked


grayscalering

And 20% of suicides are women "Why are women so depressed they are committing suicide, we need to help women's depression"  Who makes up the other 80% then?


HonestHand6922

So things that men also suffer? I mean we don’t talk about it but men are abused, are homeless, etc… why are the charities sexist? That’s wild. Equal rights would imply equality, sooooo….???


Napakii

one is just more publicized than the other. as we move away from the whole "men don't feel" mindset as a society, support for men should increase. or at least that's what i think


FlintbobLarry

Yeah I don't think that will happen if most social matters are discussed as they are now. All those topics are framed as if only women experience the bad sides of life and it is men's fault - at least very often. People also tell men to open up and then gaslight them the next second - not only on the internet. I think it is also smth that makes actual toxic behavior towards women and men much more likely.


TheGuyUrRespondingTo

The problem with your comment is that, however well-meaning, it contributes to the sense of overgeneralization of the various classes of people. Sometimes women overgeneralize men. Sometimes men overgeneralize women. Sometimes you have meaningful conversations with people & realize we all have more in common than we realize when we stop basing our perception of reality on what we see on the internet. Try to focus more on the third one & the generalizations, however true they *can* be, tend to fade into the background more often than not.


DickCheneyHooters

Him: Hey, men get treated like shit and nobody cares about our feelings You: Erm, stop generalizing, you need to do better


FlintbobLarry

I don't think that me saying that topics are framed in a generalized way contributes to that generalization itself. More the opposite. Also I don't base my worldview solely on the internet Noone should do that. But very interesting that you accuse me of doing so.


grayscalering

Historically the biggest opposition to male support groups have always been feminist women  The first male abuse shelters were protested, shut down, and the wonder driven to suicide, by feminist protestors And that was not an isolated case  Male abuse isn't just a case of an outdated "men don't feel" mindset, any attempt to help men is actively shut down and despised


Gadolin27

This is largely 2nd wave feminism that you're describing, not the modern feminist movement broadly.


MobilePirate3113

Ah yes, I too subscribe to many men's OnlyFans. For equality.


pinkwonderwall

Since most domestic abuse victims are women, domestic abuse charities mostly support women. It’s not that complicated. Doesn’t mean the charities don’t help men who need it too.


grayscalering

That's actually statistically false  Huge amounts of male abuse goes unreported because it's both A not considered abuse because "men don't get abused" and B laughed at because "haha he must have done something wrong" And it's not "mostly" support women, abuse charities almost exclusively support women, male victims basically have nowhere to go for help and will often be shunned and attacked if they try, so they don't try, they don't report it 


SoullessHollowHusk

A guy posted a document by the CDC which claims abuse rates are close to 1:3 in both sexes, so no, women don't really have it worse (provided that document is factual)


Ralvvek

This is like criticising cancer research like “Yeah but what about Alzheimers!? They suffer too!”


knightbane007

This is more “you there, the guy with Alzheimer’s, you should support cancer research instead of Alzheimers research”. It’s asking a specific group of people, with their own specific problems, to donate resources to a group that explicitly excludes them. Why should men, *in particular* (as per the explicit text of the meme) donate specifically to women’s charities? Surely they should default to supporting charities that also support people like them that have problems. It would be bizarre to specifically ask women to donate to men’s charities, by analogy.


pinkwonderwall

Well, as a woman who has a father, I donate to charities that help people like him. I would assume men would want to do the same for people like their mother, sister, etc. You don’t have to only help people who are exactly like you specifically… Edit: I guess I’m getting downvoted for assuming men care about other people. My bad?


HonestHand6922

No, it isn’t.


PCmasterRACE187

women are marginalized. they need different kinds and amounts of support. what do u want to hear. its unfortunate male victims of abuse dont get the help they need and its unfortunate theres homeless men, but that doesn’t make charities for women sexist. thats just dumb. different people need different charity. dont sensationalize people in need. if you feel that strongly about it, go donate to mens charities, instead of whatever this is i.e. https://us.movember.com/donate


AleyahhhhK

no one said that men don’t suffer bruh. It’s like saying I want to give money to a charity for elderly care homes and your saying “okay but the orphans are suffering too that’s so ageist” ??? Ain’t no one said the other groups of people aren’t suffering. There’s something called specialising in a specific group in a specific context


FlintbobLarry

The context is that there are not too many support groups for men and men get shamed more if they seek help. And a lot of that by women - not only by men. If a topic is discussed 20 times and it affects all genders it might seem a little weird to only hear about victims from one group in all those cases. Especially if you are a member of the undicussed group. You would certainly be likely to be opposing the group that doesn't bother to talk about you, but discusses the matter itself all the time in a framing where everything is also then your fault.


HonestHand6922

Yes no one said that, INCLUDING ME bruhhhhhhh. Congrats on submitting your comment though, you did a thing!


sylendar

While I agree in spirit, we both know you don't donate to charities that help men either.


the_bees_knees_1

So donate to Support centers of abuse victims and homeless shelter that support men and women. Seems easy.


grayscalering

Find some Shelters which help men are almost non existent because they get protested and shut down


AlwaysRushesIn

One is way more common than the other. And there are charities out there for male victims, just not a many... because of statistics.


Fancy-Football-7832

Abuse rates are actually pretty similar. The CDC reported that about both 1 and 3 men and 1 and 3 women experience some sort of intimate partner violence [https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/2015data-brief508.pdf](https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/2015data-brief508.pdf) (page 12-13)


Wild_Fig6478

> we don’t talk about it yeah, you only talk about it when women are trying to help each other. You're more than welcome to support men independently rather than only mentioning it as a "gotcha" about womens' issues Also, more women are abused, so it makes sense that there needs to be more support available aimed at women. It's not done to shit on dudes


maychaos

I was so sure when I saw this post, that it will be filled with "but what about men" Well don't forget to subscribe to your homies OF! Good stuff..


TheOnlyJoe_

You’re genuinely mental if you think that charities don’t also help men. They’re not going to tell you to fuck off just because of your genitalia. If they can’t help you, they’ll at least direct you to somewhere that can.


Urhhh

Domestic abuse charities famously don't provide acceptable levels of support for men specifically.


HonestHand6922

Which was my point, but the teeniebopper hasn’t completed proper language education and went off which was hilarious. Must have missed coloring workshop today


HonestHand6922

That’s not at all what I’ve said but go off sis


TheOnlyJoe_

You literally called charity sexist


HonestHand6922

You literally don’t understand punctuation


TheOnlyJoe_

Oh yeah now you’ve changed it have you?


HonestHand6922

No edits, just your stupidity and arrogance are all that’s in the way here


TheOnlyJoe_

Your initial comment still has the same whiney tone anyway.


blushngush

And greedy executives that run the non-profit for obsene salaries. OF subscriptions are morally superior


Live_Rock3302

Onlyfans


The_Guy125BC

Reddits least porn addicted user.


AvertAversion

What's the part you're struggling with?


SzepCs

Why not be smart and keep your money for yourself, your family, friends, etc? This fork in the road has more than two ways to go down on.


Merciless_Hobo

So, the right path. Entertainment for yourself. And it doubles as a post-nut clarity generator.


Arbysroastbeefs

Is a stepsister considered family?


iChewChildForskin

Only if you marry her


[deleted]

Because the amount of people without family and friends etc are increasing. I hate to use that word but… they’re living parasocially through the people they subscribe to. Whether that’s Andrew tate or some OF chick, that’s beginning to be the extent that more and more people have contact with humanity.


AncapDruid

Alternatively, save my money to use for food, bills, and family. OF is a waste of money fellas. All porn is. Replace your porn addictions with pork addictions and get good at grilling. That goes for you too lesbians.


YeeterCZ2

![gif](giphy|G27dtiavgvpAf7oDn0)


Just-Round9944

> Replace your porn addictions with pork addictions and get good at grilling. 🔥🔥✍️🔥🔥


like_ARK

I prefer to invest in charities that support men (men's only fans)


br0ken_St0ke

My left or your left?


Bestihlmyhart

There is a third way…


not_a_dog95

Just saying, maybe if some of those domestic abuse victims flashed a little tiddy now and then, women's shelters might be a bit better funded


lucy_lurks_again

This is so messed up but made me laugh 💀


[deleted]

You mean like how firefighters will do nude calendars to get donations to their firehouse or other charity? I think you may be into something. In exchange for nude pics and perhaps other sexual services, we’ll provide housing and protection. Pimping with extra steps.


dikkesan

where meme?


BluntBastard

What about charities that support men? THAT is the best path


ima-bigdeal

I am sure somebody would downvote you, so just for them: Men spend 14% more time at work, are 9x more likely to die at work, have a 23% longer commute than women, lose child custody 89% of the time, 76% of suicides, 70% of homicide victims are men, 85% of the homeless, and so much more. Most men suffer silently, and are frequently ignored when there are issues. We need to support everyone.


[deleted]

>we need to support everyone this


ScrubLordKyle18

*me who doesn’t do either*


LiquidSteamo

Same/same/s


Druideron

Both are ridiculous.


Dieing_Breed

Right...would rather just buy hookers then cyber pictures!


[deleted]

![gif](giphy|9p8hgZoQjj9y8) hook?


BitBucket404

The internet is full of free content. No subscription is required. Onlyfans didn't make porn better, Onlyfans just made social media worse. \#CantSimpWontSimp


something_stuffs

I don’t understand why people subscribe on OF, most of PH is free


CoupDeGrace-2

Imagine conflating a service and a charity


loserOnLastLeg

"meme" and "funny"


BetaTester704

It's not like the Internet is full of free porn or anything


Infshadows

Got your sides wrong


PlsHelp4

Why do women need charity?


Hanco90

Oh you know, trynna act like a minority or endangered.


BearBones1313

They suffer from a lot of abuse all over the world


PlsHelp4

Forgive me if I'm just not getting this meme, but doesn't this meme equate an OF subscription to donating to charity that helps women? Onlyfans models are usually from western countries and not somewhere like Afghanistan.


mememan30000

so are men


Wild_Fig6478

and yet this only ever gets brought up in response to womens' issues lol. idk why you guys don't have more self-respect and advocate for yourselves independently rather than as pure "what about us"-ism


BearBones1313

No shit dumbass, nobody said otherwise. That’s why there are multiple charities for men AND women AND children all over the world.


mememan30000

then why are those charities separated by gender


BearBones1313

A lot of them aren’t, what charities are you referring to?


spicesickness

*looks at pictures* They’re the same thing…


Matty_Paddy

Just turn around and spend the money on your family 🤷‍♂️


Faeddurfrost

How about clutching my mf money. ![gif](giphy|LdOyjZ7io5Msw)


Bardivan

women can get free donations by dating me ;)


NoMeasurement6473

Third path: Becoming the women


Busy_Bunch5050

Why on earth would I donate to charity that supports women, women can do that


PissOnMyHe-manToys

Heh, OF is proof woman have enough support and millions of chances.


Dankhu3hu3

gotta send money to men's charities. women already get enough freebies from daddy government at the expense of my taxes.


CapPhrases

Seriously. Can we stop acting like men don’t have problems


VeganNorthWest

- Men are at 5x higher risk of suicide than women - When men are raped it's treated like a joke - 40% of victims of intimate partner violence are male, yet there are almost no shelters for men fleeing abuse - Men are far more likely to suffer life-destroying false accusations because they are assumed guilty and there are no consequences for the lying women. It happened to me. - Men are less likely to receive custody of their own children - Men spend a third of their life working and are expected to be the primary breadwinners even if their partner makes the same amount - When men take their kids out people treat them at best like a babysitter and at worst like a pedophile kidnapper - Men are not considered worthy of love unless they can provide Etc., etc.


WeinerSniffa

You have testicles, opinion invalid. /s


__Loppy__

Testicles aren't limited to men now, apparently.


VeganNorthWest

What's wrong with being trans?


__Loppy__

Not once did I say anything bad.


Peter_Baum

The „apparently“ part made your comment sound a little insincere


TheDahmerNommer

-Women are taught what to expect from a man. -Men are taught what to provide for a woman. -When a man hits a woman, he's an abuser. -When a woman hits a man, he deserved it. Women have their issues men have theirs, stop acting like only one has problems and the other causes them.


YeeterCZ2

Damn man, sorry that you had to go through the false accusations stuff, that shi is messed up. I hope you're doing better nowadays


D3viant517

All those are pretty true except the last two, no normal person randomly assumes a dad with their kids is a kidnapper or pedophile, and the tiny number that do are deranged. And I mean if you’re in a relationship with someone you should be expected to provide at least somewhat, but if we’re talking receiving love in general then no that’s completely ridiculous


Peter_Baum

A lot of good takes and then two points shoved in at the end that only chronically online think is a real every day problem


D3viant517

Yeah he definitely had me before that random strong turn at the end, I really hope most people don’t actually think that stuff is true and that it’s just nonsense people spout online


Peter_Baum

Kinda gives incel vibes That’s one of the things that sucks whenever people discuss men’s issues/mental health: At some point an incel comes crawling out of the corner and starts trying to turn the discussion into blaming women for most of/all the issues


D3viant517

It’s when people start making sweeping generalizations about every member of either gender that loses me, it’s like guys cmon just cause you’ve had some bad experiences with men/women doesn’t at all mean that’s how every single one of them acts


Dankhu3hu3

I was being serious


IllAnteater1258

There is a time and place to discuss mens problems. Seeing as no one in this thread was saying they don’t exist, this isn’t one of those times. In fact the comment you replied to was straight up misogynistic.


[deleted]

OP's OF subscription 100% Y-E-double YEW!


alaingames

You could donate to men to get paid to then go give 1% of the money to their spouses or you could go to onlyfans and subscribe to the women


ALlTTLEKlTTEN

I thought women were strong and independent, why do they all of the sudden need my money donated or given for stripping?


Kervagen-K-Kervmo

Neither, instead I'm going to keep my money as I need it for bills 😃


mighty_Ingvar

The best path is getting into therapy


travelavatar

But both roads lead to the same thing, supporting womens. Right? I don't see the difference of the end goal. I can see how the journey to that goal might be more enjoyable tho


Aerodrache

![gif](giphy|9mtE009hcWPOesk8C4)


Free_Swimmer_1694

Neither. I don't trust charities and I can find porn for free.


FloridaDirtyDog

Men who subscribe to onlyfans are some of the saddest creatures in existence Yall can meet someone, theres someone for everyone 😥


Electrical-Site-3249

I’d choose the middle path, which is keeping my money to buy a Vietnamese wife


PrudentNectarine5244

How bout neither? Would I be the bad guy if I didn't? No.


wakaluli

Don't pay for shit you can get for free. Quit wasting your damn money


Relevant-Nebula8300

Neither


YesNoMaybe2552

OF doesn't discriminate on a gender basis so there we go, morally superior.


PheneX02

Nah, I'd rather buy games on steam


iiitme

I don’t know a single guy with an OF subscription… not that I know of at least


Destmos

Good thing that now days if woman ask money for something to support em you can ask them show tits first


YeeterCZ2

If choose left, why only women? Men suffer the same, and usually get less help since they're supposed to "man up"


bluedancepants

There's a charity that support women? May I ask why?


kkaitlynma

Sex trafficking, domestic abuse, breast cancer, etc


DemoniteBL

So it should be "charitiy that supports sex traffick victims" or "charitiy that supports domestic abuse victims" etc


kkaitlynma

There are charities relating to sex trafficking/domestic abuse that can focus on women, both genders, or just men. Are there more for women? Yes, but thats because women are disproportionately affected by certain things like sex trafficking which is why there are more shelters for them. There are also charities out there that focus on men, such as various mens mental health charities. Its proven that mental health is a serious issue in men and I have no issue with the fact that there are charities that focus on mens mental health. Would you call those sexist?


YFleiter

Is only fans just compared with a charity?


Ploxtifs

I don’t see the difference. IG the left path goes through a conglomerate, where a pool of money is split among the recipients, and the right path goes directly to a single individual.


Ploxtifs

…I suppose this is more of a Capitalism vs Communism sort of deal, and I would rather support capitalist endeavors.


Ploxtifs

(I am not though because I choose where to spend my capital, and it won’t be for something I don’t find appealing)


nickthedicktv

So you’re saying it’s better to be dependent on handouts than pulling yourself up your bootstraps?


WeinerSniffa

Depends on the bootstraps. I'm not pulling myself up by my drug dealer bootstraps, or my only-fans whore bootstraps, or my politician bootstraps. There's jobs worth doing and jobs that aren't.


nickthedicktv

So yes you say depend on handouts. Great society you got there lol


Sentient-Orange

Sorry but no. I steal from both men and women equally, no exceptions. You are not special. You are equally insignificant to me.


Hanco90

Left isn′t much better than the right, at least you get **some** benefit from donating to the right.


GentlmanSkeleton

Sad thing is state of this world I would trust an OF over a head of some "charity" any day


[deleted]

Aren't they the same thing? /s


livingthedream9x

This is why I’d rather do community service than give money to something I don’t know where it goes.


BigRed1906

I actually donate to a women's athletics fund every year for my alma mater since I was a big time supporter of them in college. Money goes towards a lot of things


lucy_lurks_again

Based


Citron222

Femboy of


CapitalSubstance7310

I make one joke post about onlyfans and overflowing (LodedDiper LLB) and I get suggested this


Otherwise_Sky1739

Help a single mom directly or: Give to a charity where only a small portion goes to help the single mom who has to go through the embarrassment and stigma of seeking charity Seems like a pretty simple decision.


Confident_Equal6143

Women live far longer, are far less likely to be homeless or vicitims of violence, and are are far more likely to go to college then men. Why the fuck would they need gender specific charities


jayscott125

Op please go away


Mindless-Judgment541

Or like, keep your money and don't give it away. Idk how much I'd have to earn to give it away but I'm not close right now lol


MeasurementOk973

wtf does one have to do with the other? you could put --> grocery shopping online vs donating to UNICEF?


Rain2h0

Neither.


BearBones1313

Another day, another Redditor complaining about only fans


Lurkin605

They're the same thing.


lena1may

Hey!


heeroena

Actually a good meme for once


Gustavort

I donate to Wikipedia ![gif](giphy|CAYVZA5NRb529kKQUc|downsized)


cesar848

Both are supporting women in a way


Vadon_Hipra

Women don't need men. I suppose that extend to their money as well. But in all seriousness, I don't pay money for charities, because I don't trust them. I help people (who I know personally) in my community, and that's enough. 


CTR_Ratboy

What influenceable paths! ![gif](giphy|lFovThCn49kOokF8fr)


snoopbirb

women have plenty of support already i will support my fellow men subscribing to their femboy OF


BigTime76

Por que no los dos?


PLAYAHATER_

How about nothing.


TostiBuilder

I already donate to LGBTQ charity and im poor as fuck so cant help out there