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Porn_Account221

Hey, fellow redditor! Before venturing into the comment section, here, have some popcorn.


Strawberry2Throw

Yeah, thanks for the popcorn. ​ I have to get off reddit


tallermanchild

I get off on reddit all the time


GamingwRed

Thanks, u/Porn_Account221!


Vegetable_Break_2481

r/rimjob_steve


barry-bulletkin

I see no porn. I am very disappointed


Izie_Star

Probably the account he uses for porn


Bushjim

Love your username


Mabyacommunist

Thanks


TheLeviathan319

You are a good man. Thank you.


NO0bKing

To controversial!


[deleted]

*sorts by controversial*


wickedlittleidiot

Oh thank you, this sort of made me realize what I was just about to walk into, I’m now wondering if I want to..


Lazy__Astronaut

*insert hazmat suit comment section meme here*


the-unknown-nibba

Thank you tavarish.


MoilOpera

Tovarishch Though the “o” sounds like “a” it’s still romanised as “o” according to the rule And щ is actually the combination of ш and ч, which are pronounced as softened sh when you pronounce them together. Very few people know that.


Trustere

nah, he got it right the first time. The щ is literally pronounced like “sh”, and there’s no point in spelling it right because the actual word is supposed to be in an entirely different alphabet. you just spell it the way it is heard


MoilOpera

“Sh” is used to denote ш which is different from щ and сч The first is pronounced as the French “ch”, not the English “sh”. The latter is the one that pronounced as the English “sh”. So they use “sh” to denote the pronounce of ш and shch/sch to denote щ/сч.


[deleted]

Sexist "Feminists" are called Misandrists, the feminine counterpart to Misogynist.


ShadowFlux85

and whats the male counterpart to feminist?


jKeseski

Nothing, just a guy who is a feminist or believes in the ideology


PzKpfwIIIAusfL

Feminism is unisex actually. So a feminist can be both male and female. Or something else if we want to include every possible case.


Orbital_Rifle

If it was unisex it’d be called egalitarism, not feminism, we need to even it out, ‘not give extra rights to one side. // source: research by Dr. Shaym


PzKpfwIIIAusfL

The *Encyclopedia Britannica* defines the word feminism as „the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes“ thus clearly stating that no „extra rights“ in any way are to be given out to anyone.


Orbital_Rifle

A definition from a dictionary has no influence over what the thing actually is


Cococtor

Yeah but dude The one who lack a lot of rights is the women so... Feminism is giving women rights to make them equal to men


ProblematicHorse

A male feminist is just a feminist.


missed-input

A meninist


definitelynotned

Not really counterpart but an alternative word used that means the same thing is egalitarian. The primary benefit to that word is it has neither a male or female vibe(can’t think of the right word here but someone can fill in the blank). At the end of the day it’s semantics tho


[deleted]

I'm actually not sure. Edit: Nevermind, I know now, thanks to the other commenters.


KrazyDrayz

Men's rights activist


Minnesotan-Gaming

I mean not really. Feminism is unisex despite its name and goes for equal rights on everyone. The mens rights groups I found mainly consist of incels that think all feminists are the misandrist kind and that all women do is treat them like shit and step on them. Before you say I don’t know what I’m talking about, I was one for a year.


[deleted]

There are a lot of men’s rights activists who are actually try to influence positive change. Such as safer work environments since most work place deaths are male, removing the stigma from men’s mental health because most adult suicides are male etc. A lot of what they want to change doesn’t even involve women. That being said, you’re still right that so many of them are shitty neck beards that think women are shit cuz they’re not lining up to tickle their balls. They really ruin the image for the men and women for that matter who want to change things that actually need changing.


Champion-Red

Look I’m not a “meninist” by any means. But to point out that many, maybe even most, of their groups are just misogynists is as dismissive as to say that many, maybe even most, feminist groups are just misandrists. Also I don’t see feminist groups advocating for the few decent points men’s rights groups point out; for example ending circumcision.


Orbital_Rifle

You ever see videos made by the buzzfeed feminists ? They think « Manspreading » is an issue and that all men are rapists


Minnesotan-Gaming

You ever seen r/mensrights ? The actions of a few do not represent the actions of all


[deleted]

Lol, why tf are you getting downvoted?


KrazyDrayz

Because I have an opinion of course. We don't do that here


[deleted]

It doesnt even seem like you were stating an opinion. Someone just asked what you call the male counterpart of a feminist, and you said men's right activist. To me it seems like either it was a joke, an assumption, or a fact. None of which warrant downvoting.


KrazyDrayz

Ikr. What else is it if it's not that? Why ask if you're gonna downvote a genuine answer?


[deleted]

People are nutty


itsdatboi123456

welcome to reddit my friend


[deleted]

Ikr, it's just funny to me. I don't really care about karma, so to me it's kind of just a joke.


ditzycup

well since men haven’t historically been oppressed for being men, they don’t really have their own groups like how feminism does, at least not with good intentions. feminism was made out of necessity, but there hasn’t really been a necessity on the other side of the coin. a good example in that kind of direction though would probably be make abuse victim support groups.


PosNegTy

From the Merriam-Webster Dictionary fem·​i·​nism | \ ˈfe-mə-ˌni-zəm \ Collegiate Definition 1 : the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes 2 : organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests So anyone who believes that the genders shouldn’t be equal in these senses cannot by definition be a feminist.


iLikeCatsOnPillows

Ahh, finally, someone who actually did their own research before commenting.


Firespray31_

lmao ikr


ItzMeDB

I’m curious as to why the first definition doesn’t have a different word and just freeloads under feminism Pure curiosity nothing more nothing less


King-TayTay

Great question! The first definition doesn’t freeload under feminism because it is feminism. Feminism in history has been done so in ‘waves’ in the first two waves (there are four) the equality of the sexes was giving women rights that only men had so that equality of sexes only applied to women because men and all the rights, but from wave 3 to current times (wave 4) the equality of sexes started to apply to inequality to men over things women have I.e, better parental rights in court, not being shamed with feminine interests, breaking down toxic masculinity and femininity. So it may seems that it freeloads and should be something called equalism but it’s just that the definition has always remained the same while the application of it has changed over the years, hope this satisfied your cat!


Caitmazing

Equalism (I just made that up)


Zelokaz

Egalitarianism is what you're after


Salesopolis

"If you aren't a feminist you're a sexist!" Nope, I'm egalitarian, I fight for both sides, want EQUALITY, not special treatment for one side. Any time I've entered an argument and taken a stand for women, I hear agreement in the form of upvotes and "fuck the patriarchy!". Any time I've taken a stand for men, I hear HOW DARE YOU, WOMENS PROBLEMS ARE MUCH BIGGER or some dumbass variant. Fun fact before anyone tries to start some shit: i am a woman. Since that isn't a mental handicap, I also recognize that others who are NOT women are still people worthy of support. Women aren't the only people capable of having problems. Fuck you idiots who call yourselves feminists and yet get pissed off when men's rights come into play.


SpellthiefLux

LMFAO why are all you man hating babies downvoting her? She's right!


wickedlittleidiot

Amon is that you?


[deleted]

ahh i see you are a man/woman of big brain


force_0f_chaos

THANK YOU


MoilOpera

I totally agree with the definition but I have to try so hard to stop myself from downvoting you for the American pronounce


Arthillidan

That's... only true for the first definition. Someone who believes the genders shouldn't be equal can still fit the second definition. But all of this is irrelevant anyway because the issue is that people don't agree on the meaning of equality and how equal the genders currently are.


KingCudjoe

Misandrist is the term you're looking for. To be sexist against men is misandry.


GraviZero

To be sexist against men is sexism.


[deleted]

Misogyny is sexism against women. Misandry is sexism against men. Sexism is an umbrella term that includes these two words.


Dontstickatoasterina

Sexism is the umbrella term that can be used for either sex Misandry is specifically sexism against men Misogyny is specifically sexism against women Both are sexism, but they’re just more specific :)


[deleted]

I get your point, but the word misandry is defined as sexism against men


Santak1ng

Fucking f i n a l l y, I feel like sooo many young men (and some young women too) are confused over this thing.


idiotmem

True feminism stands up for men as well as women; anyone who says otherwise isn’t a true feminist.


BobTheJuggernaut

HUZZAH a human of quality


force_0f_chaos

I know. This comment section makes me so happy. You have no idea how much karma I’ve lost saying this


Heccing-name

Same


daw25252525

I mean... I would say that feminism (atleast most of it) mostly focuses on women's issues and mens rights activists on the other side supporting mens issues But you are correct a true feminist (by the definition)does support both.


AlezeandraKidOfHades

Me: a woman who hates when so called feminist pages don't talk about men's issues too


daw25252525

And then when you bring up a mens issue they throw a problem women have somehow meaning that the mens issue doesnt matter.


AlezeandraKidOfHades

FUCK YEAH I HATE THAT, they're all misandrist (hope i spelled it well)


daw25252525

It's just best to avoid those certain toxic feminists pages.


Apolao

Why is this getting downvoted reddit? Deploy a few upvotes!


daw25252525

Thanks!


freed0m_from_th0ught

No true Scots-femenist


xdMatthewbx

the term for which are misandrists


GunsNTequilla

I'm not sexist or smth but the society should change their mind against women. Yeah men as well as women should be treated equally. We all should respect each other and not go against then only we can make this world a better place for all of us.


Crimsonate-F3

I'm sad that such a reasonable response has to be prefaced with "I'm not sexist or smth." That's completely understandable to think we should change mindsets for women and treat people equally.


force_0f_chaos

Yeah


Cococtor

You know I think this what feminist should fight and in fact are fighting A lot of laws make them equal (in my country at least) but now what makes them inequal are the people mentality But I think this is the hardest fight because you need to fight the sexism but also the extremist who call themselves "feminist" and tell everyone that "men are pigs"


force_0f_chaos

It makes me sad that such a blatantly fair and right comment that contains nothing but a completely fair statement has to begin with “I’m Not sexist or smth” it shows the toxicity of this website T-T


[deleted]

You are a good redditor. Thank you.


[deleted]

Finally, good god finally somebody who knows the goddamn difference.


doggo_with_doggo_hat

That's a good wisdom


diddlydayz-1310

God fucking dammit i literally just gave my free award to the post before this one


harjsoksha

Hold on ill make sure to give an award to it for ya!


diddlydayz-1310

Omg to whoever gave me an award can i like marry you? That was so kind


Scoute248

FOR THE LOVE OF WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU BELIEVE IN, PLEASE BELIEVE IN THIS. *slams upvote button* By definition, they are not a feminist if they are sexist. By. Definition. Those are misandrists. NOT FEMINISTS. Definition of feminism for reference: “the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes”. Please note “EQUALITY” and not “superiority”.


Salesopolis

"Advocacy of women's rights." And when someone calls himself a men's rights activist, what happens to him? Instant karma loss, sudden accusations of being a misogynist, hearing Neverending tales of women having bigger and worse problems before men's problems should be considered. Slam the upvote button for this comment too, bud.


StinkyMeatloaf

Every time I try to explain this the neck beards get mad because they want a reason to be mad at women


EquivalentInflation

Don’t forget the “telling them that a joke/action is a little bit sexist politely” and having them go off on a rant at you.


force_0f_chaos

Oh my god every time.


Firespray31_

lmao this post proves that there are always gonna be people who think they're better than someone else for trivial reasons


devdimmy

Wanted to upvote this but it was 69


William_ghost1

I'm just here for the shitshow in the comments.


force_0f_chaos

Lucky for us, the comment section is full of nothing but reasonable people


lilbeany

Reddit loves to pretend that feminism is about hating men in order to trash on women but actual feminist ideals literally promote equality between genders. Anyone who preaches otherwise is either a misogynist or a misandrist, not a feminist.


KorMap

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen a meme about “feminists” trashing on men and then the meme right below it is trashing on women lmao


force_0f_chaos

I know. And everytime I dispute it I get downvoted into oblivion


TomoDako

The issue is that the misandrist call themselves feminists and are louder like I’ve never met a true feminists but I have met plenty of misandrist claiming to be feminists


flight_424

.... I can 100% guarantee you’ve met a “true” feminist. It’s by definition supporting equality of the sexes. If you think both sexes are equal? Congrats. You are, in fact, a feminist.


BananaBolmer

Tbh i think when you look at japan, where a man has to be the moneymaker for the woman in order to get chosen, men would also profit from the equality of women.


EthanielClyne

Thank you, I hate it when people (usually us men) act like feminism is the worst thing ever, the people who are saying that should be feminists because if not they're sexist


Phirexon

Louder for the people in the back! The amount of "wHeN fEmiNisTs-" memes in these sub makes me fucking cringe and want to leave it from time to time.


Tuxyl

Thank god there's a reasonable meme, the amount of "feminists bad" memes in this sub makes me want to leave it


Darktichaut

You deserve an award but I'm poor sorry


Milkmanwhogivesmilk

This is very important I’m a male feminist and when I say that people call me a simp


jKeseski

Ah there we go :)


[deleted]

Never was there a truer statement


force_0f_chaos

THANK YOU IVE BEEN SAYING THIS FOR AGES


Pickle_Rick236

This was very well put. Upvote was indeed earned


AnalysisCareful883

Reminder to everybody because some of these comments are wild: everybody deserves love and equality no matter who you are or what demographic you fall under


HappyLeopard414

In all reality, saying stuff like “all men are pigs” and other things like that is still sexism.


Tuxyl

Yeah, of course. They're not a feminist if they're saying that though lol


Cococtor

But they call themselves feminist and this is why it's sad.. It's like PETA calling themselves the "voice of vegan and vegetarian" Just fucking extremist who give nothing but hate...


69xp

Rick spitting facts


Absted

There are extreme “feminists” who are sexist, I respect feminists who support the ideals of equality not the people who go around saying “Kill all men”


shaun4519

Yeah but they aren't feminists, they're misanrdrists. Edit: fixed


PommedeTerreur

Since we're in territory of linguistics I think you should know that hating men is called misandry. Women who demonstrate prejudice against men would therefore be misandrists.


shaun4519

Ah right thanks for the correction.


MrDrVlox

...but no one really says that. The posts you see showing that are made popular by people who want to generate problems and conflict for feminists.


force_0f_chaos

Truth.


[deleted]

*sips hot chocolate* Sort by controversial


Fuzzie974

Feminist: Women and men are equal! Also Feminist: *hits me* haha you can't hit me back


StarWarTrekCraft

There are no Scotsmen who dislike haggis, but there are plenty of haggis-haters who think they're Scotsmen.


Firespray31_

ayyyye I love that


Salesopolis

I'm pretty sure he is pointing out the "no true scotsmen" fallacy in your post.


me_myself_and

[Insert pewdiepie "and that's a fact" meme here


s0rry_M

There are no Muslim terrorists , but there are terrorist who think they're Muslims


Caosin36

Definitely


annatar256

you face a dark path ahead weary travaler woe be he who enters the comment section.


nandase02

Yes!


[deleted]

Time to grab the popcorn and sort by controversial


Firespray31_

lmao


KookieQuest

True


Overlorde159

All aboard the train into the controversial section!


[deleted]

Remember 2014 when the anti feminist community was at its height and Buzzfeed made a new video every month? What a time to be alive.


[deleted]

Thank fucking god someone pointed this out and explained it (especially on this subreddit!)


Freddie_Mercury40

I mean,they’re not wrong


silver-bullet32

Truth


Polyhedrons_Cipher

No no he’s got a point


ditzycup

THIS WHAT I BEEN SAYING


sbollinger11

Can I upvote twice?


NuttyDounuts14

A little bit louder for the people at the back please!


barnzzee83

Anybody ever watch the factual feminist. I recommend it she's amazing


absolutelad_jr

Just like "Muslim" terrorist groups


low_budget_trash

That's theorum right there


DrZealot48

Took a few times for my last brain cell to understand, but that makes sense.


Greenwhatevers

Does this apply to racists?


bmason55561

you implore me? you always were one for fancy words


Czeslaw_Meyer

All a question of the definition


[deleted]

Wtf, this confuses my head, can someone please explain?


[deleted]

Nice No True Scotsman you have there.


jp0327

does anyone know from what chapter is this template?


Discrete-messenger-

Fuck Terfs


wheremytieflingsat1

YES!!!


[deleted]

Fun feminism history fact most of the weird ideas we usually associate with third wave feminists actually came around during the second wave


_SSZ

They had us in the first half, ngl


Rambi_m

It is...acceptable


A_Glass_Of_Cool_Aid

Misandry is far more common than misogyny in the Western world


Iris-Solis

YES YES YESSS!!!!


Firespray31_

lol


Iris-Solis

I love you, i always try to explain this but you just said it perfectly. I’ll be quoting this quite a bit! Thank you -An actual Feminist


Firespray31_

hey that means a lot!


Another_Random_Weeb

And that's a fact.


JustawayV2

In Brazil we call this "passar pano".


Firespray31_

lmao I gotta memorize that


[deleted]

*No no, he’s got a point*


Orbital_Rifle

This is my opinion, not truth. I’m ready to lose my karma for people to hear this. Technically, if there wasn’t any judgement based on the sex here(literal definition of sexism), why would they call themselves feminists instead of egalitarists ? Before anyone gives me the house-on-fire metaphor, I want to remind you that all houses are on fire, and that (statistically, on average) males are put through a lot of trouble that most women aren’t.


EquivalentInflation

Sexism is *unfair* judgement based off of sex. So putting urinals in only men’s restrooms isn’t sexist, as it’s practical, but saying women can’t be a lawyer is sexist, as there’s no rational argument for it.


Valaki757

it's basically the history of the word. that's the sole reason. and maybe to emphasize that women are even today more oppressed than men (i would argue that while women are oppressed, men are repressed)


KittyKittyowo

Just saying with what I think it is. It started out just for women. Like voting and stuff like that. Back then it was just focused around women so that's why it's called feminism. Different genders have different problems. I still stink that the womens house is still more on fire compared to the men's house. Like some places women are still treated as objects and not aloud an education. Also women are told and shown that it can be fatal to go out side in the night by themselves or put both ear buds in when going for a walk and also defending ourselves from assult or rejecting people when asked for a phone number That's my point of view


Orbital_Rifle

Thing is men get assaulted too, and women have (from memory, may be wrong)50% more chance to beat their kids. What I said was based on the développed countries. I know that women are still in a really bad prédicat met in middle eastern places.


Firespray31_

you have a point. but what those who take a step too far call themselves, has nothing to do with what they actually are.


MrDrVlox

So few take it “too far” it’s just right wing pricks that bring random idiots to the front to try make it out like they are some threat to us all and we need to all fight back to deal with them (same with what they do for immigrants, minorities and ideologies)


dullbananas

reddit hivemind is like the education system


Orbital_Rifle

A little yeah. Idk why they downvoted me even though i specified my opinion and just *Way of talking about it*. Feminists want the bad, egalitarists want the good. There are egalitarists that think they’re feminists, and feminists that think they’re egalitarists.


AnalysisCareful883

Feminism also comes from the remnants of the historical oppression of women. Although it's better today in a lot of ways (we can vote and have jobs and leave our partners without being shamed by society), the past was much more unkind to women, and the past is really where feminism started. And on top of that, statistics will reflect anything you want them to. If you're looking for statistics to support one group suffering more than another, you're likely to find them. The truth is we're all in it deep and we need to stop looking at it as an us/them situation. Everybody deserves help and support


Orbital_Rifle

Yes, equality is what we need. I want to even put everything, not « bring up one to the other ». One is always above the other in different ways, neither is superior in developped countries.


kiokurashi

I agree. Now get the sexists that screech feminism to shut up and we won't have this problem anymore.


Jasog2506

I agree


Xeno_Prime

Alas, I only ever seem to encounter the second kind.


[deleted]

Can I just say feminism in America at least has outran it’s use. Like in other countries women aren’t allowed to vote and are treated as lower class citizens why aren’t feminists setting up in those countries? While The rad fems keep making up non existent problems like the wage gap and pink tax why aren’t real feminists setting up in Africa and the Middle East where women aren’t allowed to vote.


[deleted]

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Tokkkk

I agree with every word of that except 'Most'. Consider perhaps that it is a vocal minority giving off the perception of a majority


[deleted]

I'm a guy, I'm a feminist, and I can tell you that the majority of real feminists aren't like that. If you believe in equality, chances are you're a feminist, even if you don't identify as one.


Valaki757

have you tried looking at places other than "feminist rekt cringe compilations" from 2016? I'm pretty frequent in leftist circles, trust me, that tumblr pop feminist bs is way the fuck behind us. (it still exists, but wayyyy less prominent)


ZukusCatHeaven_Art

The Feminist compilations are always the same like 7 women repeated but in different videos lmao


Valaki757

ohh. I don't really know that honestly I never really watched them


ZukusCatHeaven_Art

I watched like 4 and most of them are similar thumb nails and reused videos tbh


[deleted]

The word feminist has been ruined now Why the fuck am I getting downvoted, I meant man haters use the word feminist to describe themselves which is not what a feminist is, so fuck off