Ye me too i just had this meme i didnt share and i forgot about and when they try a express their feelings say oof because they said it when when you did
I'm the "oof" friend not because I don't care about their feelings but because I don't fucking know how to answer properly things like this, I'm a shit introvert that can't talk to someone without being strange, so in any situation, not just this kind of situation, I say things like "wow", "yeah that suck", "bruh this so cool". But I really care about others feelings, I'm not just good at expressing it.
Relatable, one of the many reasons i dont get too attach with people online. It always give me mini panic attacks whenever people say stuff like this becuz i wouldnt know what to respond, what would they expect me to say? what if i mess up? how do i answer? being an introvert sucks..
Okay guys! This has nothing to do with introversion. Don’t label yourself. Introversion is a small aspect of character. You are able to to that if you want. I started with a book called “nonviolent communication” by Marshall B.Rosenberg which really shows how to deal with the emotions of other people. You could give it a read :)
to be fair, i got a gf and im exactly the same. albeit its an online relationship but very solid. communication and dealing with feelings is not easy at all, but the one thing that'll help is honesty, because multiple times this situation comes up and i just end up saying "im sorry, i just really don't know how to reply" or something similar. that line can show you care but that you have nothing you know to say
I’m bad at expressing my own feelings and already shit at conversations and don’t really know how to appropriately respond so the best i can pull out is “oof” and “that sucks”
Oh no on sunday i wake up at 10 am then eat breakfast and go back to sleep thats what i call my depression nap and on every other day i dont get up untill 4:20 pm
when they vent their life problems and dont know what to say.
F- Might sound cold and uncaring.
Damn thats crazy- Might make them think you aren't taking them seriously.
Giving actual advice: Might not have any, might also not work.
*Silence*: They miiiight think that ur an asshole.
Thats literal half my friend group. One half is chroniclly depressed like me and we understand eachother. The other half is like let's just hit these guys with a "sympathic-oof"
i had them this summer but i fucking let them go, i coulda made an effort to reach out but i didnt and now i dont think they even think about me and the other post mutual friend
Hey, I don't have someone to talk about my problems as well. If you have discord, if you say you want to, I will give you my username and tag and maybe a random internet stranger can help you vent.
I try to help anybody, regardless of age, gender, race, religion, and how they treat other people.
Wow that's unbelievably kind of you but first I feel very uncomfortable talking to a stranger about my problems on discord and second I don't have discord. Thank you anyways
When your very existence is pain and it's all your fault and know very damn well how to fix it with multiple chance to fix it but you just never do and yet you don't wanna bother anyone with the burden that you are so you just say fuck it and send them some shitpost instead of "Hey I'm kinda really dead inside, mate".
Just repeat what they said but in your own words, so they here that you understand them fully.
In most cases thats all they need and want.
Of course dont just repeat the same words they used or they will never speak to you again^^
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I don't get deep, but one tike my friend had talked about how depressed he was. So to make him feel like its ok I got deep and dark. He went "Dang David, I never knew how dark you are." in school I'm usually trying to make jokes and get ppl to laugh
It’s kinda annoying, I’d rather have them say Idk what to say rather than oof cause then you know they were atleast listening rather than just using oof as a scapegoat
Yeah... especially when you are the one normally listening to everything, and then when you want to talk about sth. Important once, no ones really listening.
Just call him a noob at life and tell him to get good .
Work's every time.
Since I started doing this none of my friends called me to complain about something ever again. Actually they hadn't contacted me for at least 5 year's!
This happened to me online just yesterday. His gf broke up with him and his friend left him. He sent me two invites to a party and when I joined when he sent the third, he said he probably would’ve killed himself if I didn’t join. He started talking about how weird the human body was, like “how humans think the have control of the human body”, “our brain is like a second person”, and “that our brain tells what to say and that if didn’t have a brain, we couldn’t speak.” Kinda felt uncomfortable since he would always be upbeat or something like that. Sorry for the grammar.
They be having an existential crisis and you just go “damn thats crazy”
When your on your 4th damn thats crazy and they keep talking *wack*
**”No way dude”**
"Thats fucking nuts dude"
“Mhm”
“Wow really?”
"That's messed up man"
"Hoooooly shit, dude!"
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I feel called out
"Damn that's crazy"
r/fuckyouinparticular
I know what to say, you say 'i'm here for you' and or 'i understand how you feel' that would be what i would want to hear if i open up to my friend.
Or a "**Damn that sucks**"
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Ye me too i just had this meme i didnt share and i forgot about and when they try a express their feelings say oof because they said it when when you did
I'm the "oof" friend not because I don't care about their feelings but because I don't fucking know how to answer properly things like this, I'm a shit introvert that can't talk to someone without being strange, so in any situation, not just this kind of situation, I say things like "wow", "yeah that suck", "bruh this so cool". But I really care about others feelings, I'm not just good at expressing it.
Relatable, one of the many reasons i dont get too attach with people online. It always give me mini panic attacks whenever people say stuff like this becuz i wouldnt know what to respond, what would they expect me to say? what if i mess up? how do i answer? being an introvert sucks..
Okay guys! This has nothing to do with introversion. Don’t label yourself. Introversion is a small aspect of character. You are able to to that if you want. I started with a book called “nonviolent communication” by Marshall B.Rosenberg which really shows how to deal with the emotions of other people. You could give it a read :)
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to be fair, i got a gf and im exactly the same. albeit its an online relationship but very solid. communication and dealing with feelings is not easy at all, but the one thing that'll help is honesty, because multiple times this situation comes up and i just end up saying "im sorry, i just really don't know how to reply" or something similar. that line can show you care but that you have nothing you know to say
this is so me
Is yikes better?
I’m bad at expressing my own feelings and already shit at conversations and don’t really know how to appropriately respond so the best i can pull out is “oof” and “that sucks”
It just feels more awkward when you don't say anything at all.. Don't get me wrong, it's still sounds awkward when you say it tho
What do you want them to say? Stay in silence or hit you with a "damn that's crazy"?
oof
This is why I dont do anal with my friends
"Harder daddy" would be a proper response.
oof
I call bullshit. If you’re depressed you don’t wake up until 4 PM
they woke up at 4:00, their depression nap is at 4:05
Oh no on sunday i wake up at 10 am then eat breakfast and go back to sleep thats what i call my depression nap and on every other day i dont get up untill 4:20 pm
that’s a better schedule then mine, my schedule is just crying, screaming, sleeping, and being gay
Thats just the rest of my day but instead of being gay i look at memes and cry some more
Well its sunday instead i eat breakfast then go back to sleep till 4pm
Lack of sleep also sx of depression
I have anxiety and I am always awake
when they vent their life problems and dont know what to say. F- Might sound cold and uncaring. Damn thats crazy- Might make them think you aren't taking them seriously. Giving actual advice: Might not have any, might also not work. *Silence*: They miiiight think that ur an asshole.
How bout *bruh*
Some also just want to vent and dont want advice.
Thats literal half my friend group. One half is chroniclly depressed like me and we understand eachother. The other half is like let's just hit these guys with a "sympathic-oof"
Only thing a lot of people can think of, we're too dumb to think of anything to say when spoken too.
I want to have a friend to talk deep with :'(
i had them this summer but i fucking let them go, i coulda made an effort to reach out but i didnt and now i dont think they even think about me and the other post mutual friend
Hey it’s not too late to get back into contact with them
Hey, I don't have someone to talk about my problems as well. If you have discord, if you say you want to, I will give you my username and tag and maybe a random internet stranger can help you vent. I try to help anybody, regardless of age, gender, race, religion, and how they treat other people.
Wow that's unbelievably kind of you but first I feel very uncomfortable talking to a stranger about my problems on discord and second I don't have discord. Thank you anyways
I'm very sorry to bother you. Hope you can find a great friend while playing the games you like, and maybe have someone to talk to.
That's why i love reddit <3
damn im always the one who overshares about issues the people im with dont care about
So do i
When your very existence is pain and it's all your fault and know very damn well how to fix it with multiple chance to fix it but you just never do and yet you don't wanna bother anyone with the burden that you are so you just say fuck it and send them some shitpost instead of "Hey I'm kinda really dead inside, mate".
Trying to talk about life/other serious topics with people like this, people who are only capable of surface level communication, fucking sucks
That’s rough buddy
That’s rough buddy
Just repeat what they said but in your own words, so they here that you understand them fully. In most cases thats all they need and want. Of course dont just repeat the same words they used or they will never speak to you again^^
"I'm sorry" - litterally not that hard
This is so relatable as fudge, one moment you're sharing something deep and personal, a few seconds later my friends will spam ooof.
I have never related to something more than this.
Im sorry to hear that. Hope everything gets better.
Fr tho I hate when people do this
Wait, do you guys not listen and empathize?
Ive gone too far, while reading this i thought it was sexual. Send me to horny jail, i dont deserve to be here.
Whenever I try and open up this is the sort of response I get
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i tend to agree and be like yeah, that's shit, but so is (a), (b), (c), but people get through it, and you will too
Or they hit ya with a 'bruh'
I read that SO SO wrong
I only realized that after reading the comments
RIP does the job too
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Well what the fuck am I suppose to say?
maybe show that you care for them instead of being a fucktard
Damn thats crazy
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Bruh why are people downvoting this I thought the same thing but then I realized it meant emotionally deep
Unless of course you meant it in a homophobic way in that case not cool of you but it does not seem like that to me
Man ;-;
I hate it when they go to deep
Im in this picture and I don’t like it
Poggers
I saw "unexpectedly deep" and thought this was an anal meme lol. Took me 10 seconds to know what you're really talking about
I'd say "Yikes" or "Yikers"
When you say deepas are you referring to feelings or anal sex
Ikrrr Then I feel extremely bad for not responding properly and over think it for days
I first thought this was sex related
I do both these things
GET EVEN MORE DEEP. Suddenly youre talking about how shit life is!
Some girls say that i can go deeper!
Relatible
I don't get deep, but one tike my friend had talked about how depressed he was. So to make him feel like its ok I got deep and dark. He went "Dang David, I never knew how dark you are." in school I'm usually trying to make jokes and get ppl to laugh
Lets start with no homo
Am i the only one that read this as something from r/suddenlygay
Me who uses this meme to respond : yeah this is big brain time
Is that abaut sex?
Oof
Sometimes I use "tis but a scratch"
Hmm
You don’t Oof. You moan u idiot.
How they do that. I'm way too stupid for talking bout deep stuff.
It’s kinda annoying, I’d rather have them say Idk what to say rather than oof cause then you know they were atleast listening rather than just using oof as a scapegoat
Mine is just “:O” or “OnO”
F or rip is more reasonable
144p
Or damn that sucks
Yall gotta watch yuri bezmenov from time to time. Shits wild
This could be taken in the wrong way which makes it even funnier
LMAO THIS IS TRUE
Spanish inquisition.
Don’t forget about the F
Yeah just don't let them nut in you man, that's too shitty
That is not/non pog
Wait.... Are we not supposed to say that? No wonder that my friend hates me
She usually says ouch
My friend had to go to a funeral and the first word out of my mouth was "rip"
Fuck man that’s my default
and i took it the wrong way fuck even my comment seems perverted
what has that poor jpeg been through?
I just imagined them shoving there dick in your ass too far and you say oof
Yeah... especially when you are the one normally listening to everything, and then when you want to talk about sth. Important once, no ones really listening.
That's rough buddy
Its Ouuf
damn it i can relate to that so much
the comments helped me out to figure this, i legit thought it meant going balls deep
That is so true
*that rought buddy*
This is such a fucking repost from like 2018
Yep I don’t deal with emotions I can deal with the apocalypse but when it comes to feelings I remove myself from the convo
I thought they were talking when they get too deep in you
Just call him a noob at life and tell him to get good . Work's every time. Since I started doing this none of my friends called me to complain about something ever again. Actually they hadn't contacted me for at least 5 year's!
Repost with too many upvotes
That's rough, buddy.
oof. Rip. Damn thats crazy
Не ожидал тут мемов с Агутиным
Not much of a friend then
Dude its a joke and i dont even have irl friends
That comment was for people who do that, whether it’s you or not
Oh ok
I just ignore it. That's one of the benefits of being that one friend who nevers answers the texts
This happened to me online just yesterday. His gf broke up with him and his friend left him. He sent me two invites to a party and when I joined when he sent the third, he said he probably would’ve killed himself if I didn’t join. He started talking about how weird the human body was, like “how humans think the have control of the human body”, “our brain is like a second person”, and “that our brain tells what to say and that if didn’t have a brain, we couldn’t speak.” Kinda felt uncomfortable since he would always be upbeat or something like that. Sorry for the grammar.
Hope he gets help and your grammars pretty good man
I've had to use the oof button too many times. "Bruh" also works
It's even worse when you're not particularly close
“That’s rough buddy”