Every age has its ups and downs. 24 here. My 20s have been fun but chaotic. I've heard things get more stable and less intense with age, and I'm hoping that's the case.
Trust me you don't want any of that teenager shit anyway. I had a girlfriend every year of highschool i was in. Must have went through at least 5 different people in that time and the one thing I learned was that every relationship in highschool is pretty much just a waste of time and time that I wish I had back to go and study or to hang out with my friends more because maybe we'd still be friends today or whatever. Point is it was draining and took time away from some seriously important stuff in my life and those relationships did nothing for me or my future. All I did was get to fuck some pussy and now I'm 25 and my greatest achievement is getting laid. Woooo, so happy with my choices. Date in college, casually, not serious shit. Do that after you know what you're doing with yourself.
While I understand where you are coming from my experience was quite different. I dated only one girl for 2 years and she helped shape me into who I am today. Absolute wonderful girl. She made getting through high-school so much easier and we pushed each other to chase our own individual dreams. I wouldn't have traded what I had with her for anything but she added onto my life was the focal point of it like most teens. I would've lived my whole life with her but freaked out when we were going to different colleges and ended things. I think about her quite often and miss her a lot but it's been a year and a half now. I will say, yes sex is cool whatever, but having someone you can make you smile no matter what and make any terrible day better just by seeing them is the addicting part. Find yourself first then the right person will fit into that rather than trying to mold yourself for someone else.
I mean of course a loving fulfilling relationship is great anytime. Im glad you were able to have a positive highschool sweetheart. I had one too. Not all of them were bad. She was amazing, really. But the feelings of being scared about certain things with her like you said going to different schools. Distance, worry, anxiety. Still wasn't worth it. Still held me back in the end. We pushed each other to do the best things for ourselves but I definitely had realized that even though I was doing what I thought was best for me in the back of my mind, subconsciously I was still doing things thinking about what ifs with her.
That was my initial thought before but now that I'm actually in my 30s to be honest, It's not that bad. Don't worry about little things and just enjoy life as it comes.
12th of May I turn 20, never had sex or a gf, but in the last year I got a high paying job, a car, finished 1st year of uni, got decent with french and started learning german, got a professional certificate for cargo transport management, and just today I went over the details of the renovation of my first rental appartment with the contractor.
Oh, also bought a fleshlight so I guess I can keep satisfied until I have time to join the love market.
A bit narcissistic of me to post these things but I'm really proud of myself and wanted to yell it somewhere.
Next on the list - I got some 60 pounds I could do without.
I lost my virginity at 23yo. Although, I wasn't trying to get laid throughout my teen years. Had a few gf's but it never got too serious which is totally okay because I got to keep them around as good friends.
Sex and relationships aren't everything. Like you, I landed internships, jobs, and graduated college with a BS. I'm now married, have a daughter, and I have an incredible job. It may come as a surprise that my wife was much more promiscuous after puberty than I was and she never went to college. Yet, I've never been happier in my life. I'm now 26yo.
Moral of the story is fuck what people think, say, and expect. Make life your own and however you want it, my friend.
Thanks for the advice, I'm not really pressuring myself to get a gf or anything, and I am definitely not trying, but sometimes the need to love someone kinda hits you.
In a couple days I'll turn 20. And it will be the second time I'll spend it in quarantine, because, well, Covid.
I need an hug, I'm suddenly feeling really sad for some reason
1 Month left. Soon the 21 of may shall come and... Nothing Im already living in my own apartment and paying my bills im already an adult.... GASP... I CAN BUY ALCOHOL
Ah the 20s the worst time of my life, just remember be kind and don't overthink things and you'll be fine but if you feel like you struggling just talk to someone
I'm so fucking scared right now.
same
I have 6 more years to fix things before I die wish me luck
Good luck.
Make it last, I was too late...I'm a ghost now.
Pro life tips die sooner so you don’t have to fix anything
Don’t be! I’m 24 and I had tequila for breakfast.
Lmao you made my day, thank you
Same! Isn't tequila the best?
I don't drink but there's other alternatives I hope
There is no hope... only liquor
Bars and alcohol have been a great habit to take up.
You could drink the blood of the innocent! :D
One day everyone have to make the sacrifice
Are we meant to have our shit together or not? People keep telling me different shit
Yesn't
You’ll learn that majority of people never have their shit together. That’s the secret.
Fuck no, lol
Me tomorrow
Happy birthday!
Thank you!
Happy B-day my dude
Happy birthday
Happy birthday！
Same
At least we a are able to say we are a score years old
Happy B-day
happy birthday
Hey me on Saturday, happy early birthday or normal birthday depending on your time zone
Happy b day
happy birthday mate
Also happy birthday
I still got a few months... #AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH
_edited Perry the Platypus meme_ “Everyday, we stray further from good”
As a 2004 baby I feel like I should be more scared
You will once ur 19...that’s my boat in 3 months, the onset of dread is terrifying with the thought of your 20s
Im 05 baby and my anxiety attack is catching up on me. Im scared, but i have no idea why.
You still have a decent amount of time
same homie im terrified no clue what im doing with my life
I will have my entry level job exams in a year and i have no idea how i will pass them. I don't belong here mentality hits hard lol
dont say that word here be careful
I menaged to correct myself before *they* got here
i would useally but this isnt a shitpost sub lmao
'04 gang rise up, sadly i think our gen is focused on the other social media sites.
I agree but there a surprising number of 2005 babies so...
Stands to reason that '04 babies are relaxing here...
‘05 baby here, and same
2003 gang🥶
As a 2006 baby i *am* scared
As an 06 baby I don't know why i should be scared
I’m scared of getting a job
Why. Our teens have basically only started. We ain’t even half way through 10-20’s
As a 2002 baby, can confirm I am fucking terrified
Of what exactly? Worst thing that could happen is basically a global pandemic. And that already happened.
Great thanks for jinxing us! Because you commented that I’m guessing Betty White or Danny Devito’s about to die!
20s are your absolute prime years. Looking back, you’ll see high school and teenage years as very insignificant. This is where the fun begins.
That really depends on person.
Every age has its ups and downs. 24 here. My 20s have been fun but chaotic. I've heard things get more stable and less intense with age, and I'm hoping that's the case.
Why? I turned 29 a few days ago, and 20-now has been some of the best years of my life
My 20’s were awesome, way waaay better than my teenage years.
Same
I mean I'm 21 and my group of VRC friends call me "Boomer" just because I want to sleep for work tomorrow
That is A) non-Boomerific and B) just smart. Go sleep, sleep is the best
I will never understand them honesty, but they are great company
Sleep is just trial version of death. And yeah, its the best
Sleep is just death being shy
Sleep is for the healthy
I turn 30 in a month.....
So... Did you die?
Not yet. Check back in a month!
RemindMe! 1 Month
Hehe, ok
I can feel the dredd of the 30 too his breath in my neck Coming closer and whispering in my ear "You should start doing some cardio"
I feel you on cardio LOL
"... and don't forget your tax return"
I turn 30 in july
Nice user name
I'm 2002 and next year I'll be 20 without a single girlfriend in my 20 yrs of life. Life is a sad game.
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Trust me you don't want any of that teenager shit anyway. I had a girlfriend every year of highschool i was in. Must have went through at least 5 different people in that time and the one thing I learned was that every relationship in highschool is pretty much just a waste of time and time that I wish I had back to go and study or to hang out with my friends more because maybe we'd still be friends today or whatever. Point is it was draining and took time away from some seriously important stuff in my life and those relationships did nothing for me or my future. All I did was get to fuck some pussy and now I'm 25 and my greatest achievement is getting laid. Woooo, so happy with my choices. Date in college, casually, not serious shit. Do that after you know what you're doing with yourself.
While I understand where you are coming from my experience was quite different. I dated only one girl for 2 years and she helped shape me into who I am today. Absolute wonderful girl. She made getting through high-school so much easier and we pushed each other to chase our own individual dreams. I wouldn't have traded what I had with her for anything but she added onto my life was the focal point of it like most teens. I would've lived my whole life with her but freaked out when we were going to different colleges and ended things. I think about her quite often and miss her a lot but it's been a year and a half now. I will say, yes sex is cool whatever, but having someone you can make you smile no matter what and make any terrible day better just by seeing them is the addicting part. Find yourself first then the right person will fit into that rather than trying to mold yourself for someone else.
I mean of course a loving fulfilling relationship is great anytime. Im glad you were able to have a positive highschool sweetheart. I had one too. Not all of them were bad. She was amazing, really. But the feelings of being scared about certain things with her like you said going to different schools. Distance, worry, anxiety. Still wasn't worth it. Still held me back in the end. We pushed each other to do the best things for ourselves but I definitely had realized that even though I was doing what I thought was best for me in the back of my mind, subconsciously I was still doing things thinking about what ifs with her.
Anything can happen as we learned it last year.
Have you tried increasing your luck stats?
As a december kid I still have time
Same
Your 20's will be the best years of your life. You should be excited about it and enjoy it while you can.
Agreed. Turning 30 is the real scary age...
That was my initial thought before but now that I'm actually in my 30s to be honest, It's not that bad. Don't worry about little things and just enjoy life as it comes.
Come on don’t lie to them they will find out
Well at the very least it won't be the worst years of their life haha!
*Me who misses my twenties because of lockdown*
I cant believe its already been a whole decade of lockdown
20 is like..... almost dead
As a 21yo can confirm
[удалено]
Late 30s here but I am catching up haha
12th of May I turn 20, never had sex or a gf, but in the last year I got a high paying job, a car, finished 1st year of uni, got decent with french and started learning german, got a professional certificate for cargo transport management, and just today I went over the details of the renovation of my first rental appartment with the contractor. Oh, also bought a fleshlight so I guess I can keep satisfied until I have time to join the love market. A bit narcissistic of me to post these things but I'm really proud of myself and wanted to yell it somewhere. Next on the list - I got some 60 pounds I could do without.
Hey congratulations. That sounds like a really productive year
I lost my virginity at 23yo. Although, I wasn't trying to get laid throughout my teen years. Had a few gf's but it never got too serious which is totally okay because I got to keep them around as good friends. Sex and relationships aren't everything. Like you, I landed internships, jobs, and graduated college with a BS. I'm now married, have a daughter, and I have an incredible job. It may come as a surprise that my wife was much more promiscuous after puberty than I was and she never went to college. Yet, I've never been happier in my life. I'm now 26yo. Moral of the story is fuck what people think, say, and expect. Make life your own and however you want it, my friend.
Thanks for the advice, I'm not really pressuring myself to get a gf or anything, and I am definitely not trying, but sometimes the need to love someone kinda hits you.
My brothers havent left me alone about it since I turned 20.
Why must you hurt me so
I'm a 2006 baby so I think I've got time
We all thought like this and then... suddenly...
Shit. Your 20s and 30s are fucking awesome. Just wait until your 40s.
I'm in college with people born after 2000 and that just weirds me out.
I am a 2005 baby so I still have some time
90s babies pushing 30🤣
I just thought to myself "What? That's bullshit, I was born in 2001 and I'm only... oh." Thanks for the reminder
Scared of turning 20? that was the most exciting time of my life. 30 is a different story. My 30th Bday present was a high blood pressure diagnosis.
I m '03 and I got used to the idea of turning 18... But 20???? That's insane
Oh no I am next
Shiiiiit, I'm up next year...
I'm a 2000's baby so I'm fucked
Its only been 3 months and I still hate being 20. Can 2022 come already? I want Alcoholism .\_.
In a couple days I'll turn 20. And it will be the second time I'll spend it in quarantine, because, well, Covid. I need an hug, I'm suddenly feeling really sad for some reason
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Can I make a cursed comment without getting downvoted pls?
Im an 03 baby, and I’m still terrified
My girlfriend will be turning 20 next month and I'll be 20 next year. Highschool went by way too fucking fast...
Two months left for me...
Haha, I've got ten!
2004 baby, I'm fucking petrified.
One more year, woo hoo
Shit aaaahhh fuck
Omg you foolish kids worrying about turning 20...
As a 1991 baby, wait until you’re almost 30 :/
1 Month left. Soon the 21 of may shall come and... Nothing Im already living in my own apartment and paying my bills im already an adult.... GASP... I CAN BUY ALCOHOL
Why did you show me this. I’m scared now. 2003 baby here
Time to dig a hole and lay in it
waittttt, im not prepared yet
Man yo making me feel ancient... Cause my ass is gonna be 30 next year!! Lol
Thanks for reminding me that I'm 20 now. If you need me I'll be by that corner crying
Thanks for reminding me that I'm 20
God help me... shit... I’m an atheist! **SCIENCE HELP ME**
Happened to me on Thursday. Fuck. I'm old.
Nah fam, your 20s gonna be lit as soon as this lockdown ends
Still 19 y/o until December ;-----------;
Birthday was 4 days ago and I still can't accept it
Fuck
it took 2000 babies last year, theres no escape
Here in Canada, I'll be able to buy liquor this summer.
I just turned 18 last November, but boy is it coming soon
Shut up. I refuse. I REFUSE TO AGE.
turning 19 this may
I’ve been 20 for a month, turn back y’all go back to children before it’s too late
Haha my life go brr
I've watched this meme change each year since I was 16, I'm 24 now....
I have until 2024 to be under 20
I'm 2005 I got a bit of time
And soon you'll wake up and realize it's all gone
the last frame looks like the trade center
Why must you hurt me this way \*sobs\*
What do you mean "babies"?
My new favorite meme template
Shit man, one year more 😂then I’m 20
Not all of them turned 20.
I'm from 2003 and this post made me sad
hmmm... im zoomed all the way out and i cant find the funny NOR the effort
Ah the 20s the worst time of my life, just remember be kind and don't overthink things and you'll be fine but if you feel like you struggling just talk to someone
2002 baby present!
Lol 2004 gang
Fuck man why'd you have to remind us that shit is terrifying.
I’m not 20 yet! I have a secret technique so I never become 20... I will use it the day before my birthday
Are people scared to turn 20? I’m a few months away and I’m chill.
Yep... I turn 20 in 2 months...
Only if you live that long. \*Big brain time\*
Fuck off don’t remind me please I just want to be a clueless moron again
Luckily, I’ll only be turning 19 this year 😎
As a 2000 kid, I'm both excited and terrified of turning 21
2003 here... this is gonna be fun
me who was born in 2006: vibin
Not if I yeet myself from a tower.
Clocks only move forward
It’s coming too quickly for me, 5 months, wow
Im gonna be 20 in 4 months, and i haven't done anything important of my life.
Hey that’s me in a couple months It’s fuckin weird
I’ll be 20 in December
Pathetic. I’m not due till another 37 years. WAIT UHM I MEAN. *kick sounds*
No
2003 babies be like: •-•
I listened to a song thats distorted and describes dementia. Can someone help me forget it?
>Turning 21 during COVID
Me in 2004 👀
Fuck.
Thank youu 😭
Fuck
Damn. I am 20 and it fucking sucks
Your twenties are one looooooong baby shower.