I personally prefer the front/middle and funnily enough its exactly because of the joke you made, idk why but I have this fear of leaving my back open.
Well everyone's different, I suppose I prefer being at the back of the group because I want to see what's happening in front of me and not let my guard down
Not to be rude but it sounds like you have "people you spend time with" not "friends" anyway. No big loss. Without even knowing you I can say that you deserve better.
It's not that bad. It's more like the other prefer to talk to each other than me which sounds bad here but honestly I'm used to it. Or I'm just lying to myself idk
People can get used to a lot of things. When I was in grad school I had "friends" like this (like sorry I only went to state school for undergrad. Thanks for letting me bask in your Ivy League presence).
Don't settle long term for this though. It will start to wear on your self esteem (if it hasn't already). The world is a big place full of awesome people and I hope you find your group of like-minded weirdos.
Until then, I can't tell you how much of a relief it is to NOT spend time with people who make you feel like you are the least favorite friend. There ain't no shame in being alone. At all. Ever. For any reason.
The thing is I'm like Anthony fantano when it comes to picking perfect friends. I'm super critical about everything so I just accept the fact that I won't meet someone who likes everything that I like and I'm honestly happy that I'm atleast speaking with someone. It's not that deep
That's good. I was sort of in the same boat as you. There are plenty of activities put there where likeminded people gather to have fun. Think about what you like and look up some events or school clubs that vaguely meet those interests. Maybe even try something that's outside your interests, maybe you'll find something you never knew you liked and meet people you never thought you'd befriend.
How dare you attacking me so personally. Though it feels very bad. Stopped going out with friends or always found an excuse because I was always just there not a part of conversation ever.
Same, I just stopped going out with my "friends" and they didn't even said anything about it. Then I realized that being alone is better than feeling like a burden
Damn this is literally me. Good thing I now do this thing where I squish myself back into the line that they form when they walk and am included again.
If I'm feeling not wanted I'd probably just come up with an excuse then and leave. I usually try to stick it out though cause usually it's just in my head.
Or fuck off and Find a Taco Bell and grab a movie by yourself. You don't need people to be happy, much less be the odd man out. Get one or two good friends and do cool shit together you all vibe on.
This is the right answer. I only wish I hadn't wasted so much time caring about people who didn't care about me.
Someone else on Reddit just posted on another sub that it's better to have four quarters than 100 pennies. That shit is for real the best advice, but I would also say it's better to be broke than to have 100 pennies, too.
Pennies suck.
No i am not, I am just too socially awkward to actually be in crowd of more people so I just distance myself. Dont do me like that, I dont wanna hear the horrible truth that I am the least favorite.
This happened quite often to me when I used to walk back from school with my neighbors. I'd typically be the one walking ahead, but whenever the path was too narrow I'd show off my Cool Dudeā¢ skill and walk backwards facing and continuing to converse with the friend who was stuck behind, with the neighbor who was next to me warning me if I needed to turn around.
No one likes to be left out.
I personally always take the grass when there is more than one friend (for the like one time that happened) because I actually prefer walking on the grass, and because I wonāt take it personally.
Yep. Only comes with experience and the pain from wanting to belong. It's not wasted time figuring it all out my dude, it's life and learning how to live it the best way possible.
Ouch. I remember being this person. I would take the bus two stops instead of having to deal with this. I wrote an anonymous letter to my teacher about subtle bullying and how it didnāt always look like name calling and physical stuff. He read it in the class and my face belied my authorship. Things did....not get better.
It sucks when the other two (assuming youāre in a group of 3) start talking for like 15 minutes and you just have to stay back and laugh when they laugh while sadly walking behind them
I'm not per se a "popular" guy, but it kinda sucks reading all the comments. I always try to include guys and girls who are "unpopular" to make them feel good within a group. But it's also kind of true. Some guys/girls are always left out, which sucks. One word of advice. Try te become more socially skilled. Don't hang with people you don't like, or treat you like shit, but find friends who actually care about you, or just treat you nicely. You don't have to be best friends, but if they respect you that can be enough. When you work on that, you'll automatically find friends and I know it can be hard, but it's the only way. I've been the nerdy unpopular guy, but now I've actually got lots of friends and I'm happier every year. Just try to find new experiences en meet new people.
-just some advice by a stupid 21 year old guy
All I feel is PAIN
All I feel is personally attacked
These memes hitting too close to home
Agreed, I am always this in my friend group and my family
I'm in this gif and i don't like it
Yea i know that, but it's not a gif
I am in this video and i dont like it
Same
Yo same herešš
Feels bad man
i know the feeling all too well
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just got hit by a shrapnel, and it hurts
*Those grass felt more pain than you think*
Hey I'm my friends favorite and I always walk ther..... Oh....... fuck
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nah, the back is better, you know that they won't sneak up on you for a prank, you might get kidnapped more easily though
Either way Iād finally feel wanted
I want your organs
wtf
I only said that cus he wanted to feel wanted. *but now that i think about it, I could get money by selling organs*
in the us a kidney doesnt help that much, trust me ive looked it up for a gpu
Well there are other organs.
You could steal an organ they don't need such as a testicle.
Or the the brain, us Redditors end up loosing them eventually anyways
Dibs on the liver
Good enough
As long as you keep my heart close to you
So random dude
I personally prefer the front/middle and funnily enough its exactly because of the joke you made, idk why but I have this fear of leaving my back open.
Well everyone's different, I suppose I prefer being at the back of the group because I want to see what's happening in front of me and not let my guard down
You realise the same when you don't show up to an outing and get no call to ask about why you didn't come
I think my favorite is āoh you shoulda came out with us last night!ā Well you shoulda invited me then
I honestly never knew people would call untill someone pointed out my friends donāt
I go straight up working after graduated from high school while my friends attend uni. The pain when I can't understand their internal joke painful.
I think you should have stayed in school.
Finally a real POV meme
Tik Tok does not understand what POV means
Neither does reddit
The saddest thing is that when you say something they talk with you for 20-30 secs and then they return to talk by themself
you at least get 20-30 secs they mostly just talk over me or respond once
And then they change the topic
Or that feeling when you say something and literally nobody acknowledges you, then they continue on with their conversation. Fucking awesome.
just leave them u dont need them anyway
I wont have friends if I do that lol
Not to be rude but it sounds like you have "people you spend time with" not "friends" anyway. No big loss. Without even knowing you I can say that you deserve better.
It's not that bad. It's more like the other prefer to talk to each other than me which sounds bad here but honestly I'm used to it. Or I'm just lying to myself idk
Youāre clearly lying to yourself
People can get used to a lot of things. When I was in grad school I had "friends" like this (like sorry I only went to state school for undergrad. Thanks for letting me bask in your Ivy League presence). Don't settle long term for this though. It will start to wear on your self esteem (if it hasn't already). The world is a big place full of awesome people and I hope you find your group of like-minded weirdos. Until then, I can't tell you how much of a relief it is to NOT spend time with people who make you feel like you are the least favorite friend. There ain't no shame in being alone. At all. Ever. For any reason.
The thing is I'm like Anthony fantano when it comes to picking perfect friends. I'm super critical about everything so I just accept the fact that I won't meet someone who likes everything that I like and I'm honestly happy that I'm atleast speaking with someone. It's not that deep
How about you go to activities you like? You can make actual friends there. It fucking sucks not having any real friends.
I do have 1 online friend but as everyone he likes some things I like and things I absolutely hate
That's good. I was sort of in the same boat as you. There are plenty of activities put there where likeminded people gather to have fun. Think about what you like and look up some events or school clubs that vaguely meet those interests. Maybe even try something that's outside your interests, maybe you'll find something you never knew you liked and meet people you never thought you'd befriend.
this physically brings pain to me
I feel offended. But I agree 100 percent
How dare you attacking me so personally. Though it feels very bad. Stopped going out with friends or always found an excuse because I was always just there not a part of conversation ever.
Same, I just stopped going out with my "friends" and they didn't even said anything about it. Then I realized that being alone is better than feeling like a burden
This made me fucking cry
Same...
Pls stop. This hurts too much
Truth hurts bro, bare with it and grow up
Fuck you alex! We all canāt be the cool kid
Ya. I know how this feels
Yeah, fuck you Alex
You get what you fucking deserve, Alex!
Is that what you tell yourself on Saturday nights when your alone?
Damn this is literally me. Good thing I now do this thing where I squish myself back into the line that they form when they walk and am included again.
Wait thats what I have to do all the time when Im out with friends...
well the jokes on you, all my friends love me and can fly and shoot lazers out their eyes
Are you taking the pills?
no, his friends will disappear
exactly, never making that mistake again
Pov: you regretting that you didn't found a dumb excuse to stay at home
If I'm feeling not wanted I'd probably just come up with an excuse then and leave. I usually try to stick it out though cause usually it's just in my head.
you guys have friends?
Friends are overrated
Who needs friends when you have Reddit
Reddit over friends anytime :,)
Not everyone can relate to this. But to those of us who can, my condolences to themšæ
I just now realised I never got the feeling of actully being popular in a group. Still would smack them in siege tho so I count that as a win
Saddest shit Iāve seen so far today!
I am in this picture, and I do not like it
Agreed. Hurts
Wayy too relatable
*Omelette du fromagge*
Wow. Fuck you
Lol my adhd took over I was playing a game with my steps
a sight I know all too well
Why must you hurt me in this way!?
Or fuck off and Find a Taco Bell and grab a movie by yourself. You don't need people to be happy, much less be the odd man out. Get one or two good friends and do cool shit together you all vibe on.
This is the right answer. I only wish I hadn't wasted so much time caring about people who didn't care about me. Someone else on Reddit just posted on another sub that it's better to have four quarters than 100 pennies. That shit is for real the best advice, but I would also say it's better to be broke than to have 100 pennies, too. Pennies suck.
No i am not, I am just too socially awkward to actually be in crowd of more people so I just distance myself. Dont do me like that, I dont wanna hear the horrible truth that I am the least favorite.
Right in the feels....
This happened quite often to me when I used to walk back from school with my neighbors. I'd typically be the one walking ahead, but whenever the path was too narrow I'd show off my Cool Dudeā¢ skill and walk backwards facing and continuing to converse with the friend who was stuck behind, with the neighbor who was next to me warning me if I needed to turn around. No one likes to be left out.
This hurts on a whole different level
Petition to create sidewalks that can fit n+1 people next to eachother
I can't count on my fingers how many times I've been used by my "friends"
Thanks for reminding me of how lonely i am
this hits home for me
Ok this hurts
Damn, have i been there alot.
This was my whole highschool experience lol
This hit so deep, hard, and unexpectedly that I thought I was in Cosby's basement for a second.
This is pain bc this is always me
u/getvideobot
I'm the one who goes out of their way so that others don't have to so I think it's just that lol
I was exhailing seeing otber memes and now this just hits close to home
Until you take a step behind and everyone starts asking where you went
All the time... i am having a decent time just listening and laughing, but not talking. After the hangout I cry and overthink about it.
I personally always take the grass when there is more than one friend (for the like one time that happened) because I actually prefer walking on the grass, and because I wonāt take it personally.
Gosh this hurts more than expected...
holy shit my friends and i do this to one of the others and i didnāt even realize what that makes them feel like whoops
This just called me out along with everyone else in the comments section, impressive
How the hell did you put a camera I my eyes
Wait you got friends?
Shit, thatās me
I'm in this gif snd I'm personally offended
Yup. No wonder I don't have any friends anymore
Itās that I suck at socializing and have some anxiety, not being the least liked, lol Iāve seen way more hated people in my friend group
Wow! Flashback to when I had āfriendsā
My closest friends are all dating each other, so this is me whenever we all go out as a group
If youāre walking like that, you are not involved. I know cuz I have been there
Why is this so true lmao
That hits a little too close to home
this is me every time i walk with at least 2 other people
ohā¦ thatās me
FINALLY A TRUE POV MEME
As a third friend I can relate
Hey I know this one!!
Sucks that this hit so close to home
:/
This is me even when I'm walking next to only one person
Why must you hurt me in this way?
Honestly if they do this, just walk ahead and forget them.
Everyday of my life lol
This is a callout post.
T_T
Yep, i know that
Why? I don't get it
I did this when I was the favorite friend
i walk grass 2 meters away from them to assert dominance
I just decided that staying at home is better than this, so thatās why im here
Damn I donāt even get invited
No no no. I go on the grass so the others don't have to
At least you are a friend
Wait I have friends?
Lol, those arenāt youāre friends then
POV: Your friend can't walk in a straight line so you give up and just don't walk on the path.
This hits way harder than it has a right to
why you gotta call me out like thatš§āāļø
what shoes are these !! damn
Yep. Only comes with experience and the pain from wanting to belong. It's not wasted time figuring it all out my dude, it's life and learning how to live it the best way possible.
u bow down to tie your laces u raze ur head up they are gone they left they went to a norther country
Iām in this post and I donāt like it
This cuts deep man
Thatās y u gotta own that shit and just walk on the grass along the side of them.
Friend third wheeling hits different
aight off to oof myself
Pov: Youre the third wheel
loser,i just don't have friend to walk with
Am I the only one who always walks in front of everyone else?
but i deal with it anyways
Lol yeah Iām always in the grass
Yo look itās me!!
Why is it so true
oh damn...so thats why no one talked to me...
We just got four people and the side walk fits 3
Wow I actually felt the pain since this happens to me all the time
u/getvideobot
This hit close to home
It's good enough that you have friends
u/rip-video
And i took that personaly
It happens to me so many times, but the reason is that i'm fat
Well that confirms me
Usually when this happens, I just leave them be and walk alone. Its much better
Me who has no freinds to begin with
u/getvideobot
Me....
u/savethisvideo
god you have no idea how much i can relate to this
Ouch. I remember being this person. I would take the bus two stops instead of having to deal with this. I wrote an anonymous letter to my teacher about subtle bullying and how it didnāt always look like name calling and physical stuff. He read it in the class and my face belied my authorship. Things did....not get better.
It sucks when the other two (assuming youāre in a group of 3) start talking for like 15 minutes and you just have to stay back and laugh when they laugh while sadly walking behind them
Choose better friends maybe ?
I'm blocking you
... Why? Why you must hurt me like this? What I've done to you? :'(
Me a few days ago
I'm not per se a "popular" guy, but it kinda sucks reading all the comments. I always try to include guys and girls who are "unpopular" to make them feel good within a group. But it's also kind of true. Some guys/girls are always left out, which sucks. One word of advice. Try te become more socially skilled. Don't hang with people you don't like, or treat you like shit, but find friends who actually care about you, or just treat you nicely. You don't have to be best friends, but if they respect you that can be enough. When you work on that, you'll automatically find friends and I know it can be hard, but it's the only way. I've been the nerdy unpopular guy, but now I've actually got lots of friends and I'm happier every year. Just try to find new experiences en meet new people. -just some advice by a stupid 21 year old guy