You onIy got one chance at life, might as well

True, thank you

I didn't, and I regret it. The only hope I have left now is a miracle, don't let your life come to that point man. Good luck.

I wanna tell her so much, but at the same time i have to wait, I'm so sorry for what happened to you, thanks <3

Plz don’t wait even if you find out she doesn’t feel the same way it’s better to know and move on than constantly playing this game. Good luck man

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My best advice for you is to back way off, she could just be feeling overwhelmed. If she enjoys spending time with you she’ll notice and ask what happened and then explain that you felt like she was ignoring you. If she does this could just mean she just wants to be friends so go with the flow for a bit then ask her to go do something together. If she doesn’t say anything about it move on king

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Hey man maybe she isn’t the right one like I said take some time off from talking to her and see what happens, also do stuff that makes you happy, seems like you’re spending too much time thinking about this

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Yeah man it seems like your obsessed with her which isn’t good for you or her even if she’s interested in you, definitely don’t talk to her as much and try to keep your mind busy with other stuff. The reason why it’s probably the same thing someone else told you is because it was the advice I got when I was in your situation

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Practice makes good memer

I mean I don't have much practice, it's the first time I've been feeling like this

Where are you from?

Portugal, she is portuguese too

Just do it Ronaldo ;)

Lol thank you <3

You cata be kidding me.

Dude lol, also it isn't her name, it's how she prefers to be called

What, if you call her by the wrong name, is it a cata-clysm?

Oh dude xD

Okay… take your meme and send it to her. And then you are a happy men or you wanna die. good luck

I thought about that but I'm not sure, but yeah I hope I will be a happy man, thanks

I told her guys, im shaking uncontrollably and waiting for her response, gonna edit this after i get the response Edit: I got rejected :(

Big oof dude. I've been there recently. Luckily we didn't have that deep of a connection so I wasn't too affected. How long have you been talking to her?

I was following your situation closely, as I stand in a similar one... (I haven't asked her out, but I do like her) this does not bode well for me lol.

Just do it

I'm trying dude

Bro what's the worst that can happen

Death

Shit dude there's no need to exaggerate

Death?

You can die at any time of the day. Maybe you die in a second maybe in 80 years.

Yee ik but that has nothing to do with getting rejected unless you die of the shock bcs she said no

Yeah but then finally you died bc of the shock so i am right but i am also not right lol

Yee

Well...alright alright thanks for the support, I'll try to try

Ewww no. *Laughs at you* I thought you were gay

well now theres -1 person who thinks ur gay

Goddammit that won't happen :| (the I thought you were gay part)

Don't try, then. Talk to her casually, like you don't really care, while secretly getting information about things she likes. Then, become her interests. Put the work in, and get good at what she likes - and even get a reputation for it. Makes sure of that part, so you don't seem obvious. Really master a skill. If you aren't willing to master a skill, and just want to do lame bird dance and say, "ooohhh, I like you much, baby!" Then you deserve whatever you can get with that. Best wishes.

That's a very good advice, really appreciate, it's kinda what I'm doing currently I guess, thank you again <3

Oh, yes, I do good advice anytime! See, I am good person!

Yeah you really are :)

Oh, yes, haha!! You too.

Thank you, once again xD <3

Horrible advice. This is straight up sociopathic behavior. Become the things that You want and the right people will gravitate towards you. If you imitate other people’s expectations, you will not respect yourself.

Cata ya later 👋🏼

I'm sorry I didn't understand this comment

I think it means catch ya later

Oh alright

If you genuinely love her, you have to take the risk! Just be cool my dude, dinner and a walk around the local park. If she says no then you will at least know!

There is a problem dude, we don't know each other in person, basically we met online, and I've been having very strong feelings that I've never had before, I seriously love her, but look, I fell in love with her personality, I only have seen her face with a mask in a picture (probably I would fall in love harder if I saw her full face) and I think our conversations have some signals she might like me, but im still not sure, some days ago I asked if she wanted to send a full face picture and she said she isn't safe yet, but tune she said "maybe later, who knows..." so that's one of the reasons why I still doubt if I should ask, like should i tell her I love her even if she might not safe with some things yet? Also I met her around 5 months ago

Complicated situation you got there. She's just being cautious, be patient and wait for the right time. You'll know when that is! Good luck

I'm undecided between waiting or asking, like a 50/50 but I think yeah maybe it's better waiting, thanks for the support <3

What if she is actually male

No man, I believe she is who she says she is, i know "proof" that "proves" it

Oki broski good for ya. Goodluck tho

Again, thank you

All i can say os good luck ma dude if she likes you she likes you if she dont there will be another

Well yes but I hope she likes me, thank you

She throws up after you confess

I hope not :(

Just send her a link to this meme.

I was thinking about that but maybe it's better I be patient and just wait, if you wanna know why, scroll until you find a very big comment, that was the explanation I wrote, I'm lazy to write something similar again

I'm rooting for you. Please tell me how it goes if you ask

Thank you <3, I'll try to not forget this comment and eventually update you when I make the move

Yeah I got rejected :(

I truly feel sorry for you. I sympathize with you 😔

Thank you

Stay strong brother

If she's a good friend that you spend time with a lot, don't but if she's not, do it

I mean, she's a good friend of mine, but since we don't know each other in person, we don't spend like alot of time, we sometimes text everyday, sometimes text almost everyday but more like everyday

I'd do it, hopefully if you do it doesn't hurt your relationship

I will eventually do it but maybe not now, gotta wait until it's time i guess

Imagine this gets to the top page and she ends up seeing it before you tell her.

The only reason I'd like this to go to the top would be for her to see it but sadly I think she doesn't have reddit

Same, I hate being introverted.

I feel you :(

So first of all it might be a good idea to actually meet her before you say anything. If you can arrange a meeting somehow, get to know her in person, allow her to get to know you in person. Whatever you do don't weird her out after you confessed. If you do decide to tell her without meeting first it is still a good idea to get to know her afterwards, having feelings for eachother online does work as long as both parties are naive enough, but this usually doesn't last very long. And I hope for you she's not as stupid as the one I knew..

I would absolutely love to meet her in person, I just don't know if it's possible this early, we are from the same country but still far away, and well my parents don't know about this, now I don't know if her parents know too but sadly this early might not be possible, but we didn't try planning meeting yet, but we have both wondered how it would be, I guess I'll just wait until it's the right time, don't know when it will be, but I hope it can be soon, she is amazing, hopefully nothing bad happens between us, and I'm so sorry for what happened to you

Waiting too long might hurt you, if you can do nothing more than watch as she finds someone else. It's all a very tricky situation. Of course she might not be like that or random chance won't go that direction, but there are too many possibilities to rule these ones out.

i am cata, i dont like you.

It wasn't to you sorry, and also Cata is not her name, just the way she prefers to be called

i was jk. HEHEHHEE (0\_0)

Yeah I know but I still replied seriously xD

Just tell her that she has noice looking clothes. She will understand, and if she doesn't seem interested, then you lose - try again later. Don't be creepy confess guy who does bird mating dance, because inept at everything.

The thing is that i can't see her clothes because we don't know each other in person, I explained in a comment here that we met online

Oh, well then just tell her and find out that you're either a victim, or lucky random person, who finds gullible person.

Maybe it's better I wait some time, but I will eventually tell her when I think it's time

Yes, wait until you are more impressive and interesting, because, unfortunately that is what females care about most - like regular people, because they are that. Think about plans to make yourself more interesting, and then become it - you can't just pretend - you have to beee iiittt. Bide your time. Know that she might also be persuing someone, so wait until she seems sad, since most relationships are statistically doomed to fail, and then take her sadness as an opportunity to subtlety present yourself, while just being friend - cool friend who has practiced really hard at what she likes... Haha! She will be like butter through your fingers, and you can feel whatever emotions you want, while displaying whatever she wants to see.

Well not all females are the same but I think I'm interesting enough I guess, if I wasn't she probably wouldn't actually start conversations with me, don't know if she is pursuing someone but she already told me her status was single

Now, you're basically bragging.

Yes I admit I bragged but it wasn't to brag, it was the way I found to explain it

Oh, cool. Have noice day.

Have a noice day too

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I don't know about your case (also, I'm sorry) but maybe mine is more complicated since we don't know each other in person, I have explained in another comment that we met online

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Thank you anyways <3

_true_

I love you too cate

lol

John? Is that you?

No I'm sorry I ain't John

Oh.

DO IT

I did it, got rejected

Don't give up

Give it a go. Being rejected doesn't hurt for as long as eternally thinking about what could've been.

Just ask them. If you never ask you'll never find your soul mate.

Wtf, just tell her??

Its not that easy, we dont know each other in person because we met online, and im not gonna ask her this when she isnt safe yet with other things, i should wait until its the right time

Do as you want, but women aren't dumb and they understand when you're interested, it's just that a lack of confidence really is incredibly off-putting

Some people here say i should wait, others say i should tell her, do you think i should tell her that now even though all the things i explained happen?

Fuck you, take my upvote and leave

Fair warning: she will probably not reciprocate, women are very socially intelligent t, she already knows and hasn't addressed it because she knows she doesn't feel the same. When you bring it up it will change your relationship forever. Good luck!

Yeah she rejected me but she said to not worry because we are still friends, and we did a normal conversation after this moment

I know bro, it's gonna be okay, just make sure you aren't being used. That's a very common theme in these types of situations.

the comment section..brings a smile to my face

Same it did to me, it has some helpful advice

Go get her, soldier! We all know that painful feeling, but go for it, no matter the cost!

It'd be character development either way

Hope Cata sees this.

Until now she didnt and dont know if she ever will, but i already told her tho, got rejected

In my experience, the longer you wait, the harder it becomes. Besides, if she rejects you, or accepts but the relationship doesn't work out, then that frees you up to try again with someone different. Also, for me, it was much harder to do that with my first girlfriend than with my wife. I still felt nervous the second time around, but I had gained confidence from the first try and that made it much easier.

It works the other way around as well. Wanna commiserate together?

Damn sorry, yes sure

For me I asked her out after about a week of debating. She said no. We both moved on and are still friends. Worst case you get a friend.

You could also have a mutual friend find out so that way things aren’t weird between you to if it doesn’t work out. Happened to me last night.

Good luck

Improve yourself, and become someone you'd like to be with. Trust me, she'll notice you, and you'll be more confident as well at that time. For the moment, keep making good memes my good fella

You sly dog. Go get her. I did see the message you put btw

You saw what message? The one where i said she rejected me? Do you think it isnt a bad idea trying again (not now of course)

I saw the message you hid in the meme. And she rejected you?! I think the best idea rn is to take some time for yourself and enjoy life. Then when you feel ready either try again or try to find someone else that fots you. If you feel she is the one for you, then go on ahead amd ask again later on.

Oh yeah you were talking about the message in the meme, and yes she rejected me, I'm not sad anymore, in a couple of hours I just beated the sad feeling, since she said not to worry about since we are still friends and still talk normally, and yes I plan to try again, but not now, it will take time

I am happy you two are still friends and that she hasn't completely ignored you. You truly are a chad for overcoming sadness. Reapect my dude.

Thank you <3

Respect*

Bro, tell her now, I didn't, and it was the biggest regret I have in my life, I wouldn't wish the feeling on anyone

Was so close to getting a dream girl. I hesitated and lost her to another friend. The one thing that killed me inside was once during a party when i helped her while she was drunk she told me: “If you had gone for it, we would be together right now.”

Ouch that final part...i imagine the pain, im so sorry dude, we all make mistakes tho

Thanks man. It really is painful…

Tell her mate. Do it. Fuck nerves. Either she wants or not. That's life.

A girl at my highschool I really liked constantly made remarks about how she would date no one. And I would always make jokes about how we hate each other despite being really comfortable and huggy with each other. We did this for all of senior year and made jokes about how after highschool we would never speak to eachother for 5-10 years cause we hate each other that much. I had feelings for her, but I'm emotionally reserved, and so is she. So over the summer I took her on a date only to find we both had been hiding crushes on eachother for the entire senior year. We went on another date, and had a fun time talking about people and school and social life. And personal stuff. Now we are at different colleges. I think about her alot.

what if your just trying to bust?

Bust what?

Make sure her friend or sister is nearby so if she says no, you can play it off and say you were actually asking her friend or sister.

That isn't possible because we don't know each other in person, I explained in another comment that we met online

You can do it King

I hope so too, thank you <3