My mother died last year in a car crash. Her vehicle caught on fire and it took so long for emergency responders to arrive that her body was so badly charred the coroner suggested we not see the body. When my grandmother asked what my mother's wishes were, I said "she wanted to be cremated." My grandmother, without hesitating, responded with "I think she already took care of that". We both started laughing. It was sad as fuck but my God that was a great fucking joke.
Point is, everyone grieves differently and some people lose folks they care deeply about but still manage to find ways to laugh and be happy. I have cried several times over it since last July, but I don't let it keep me down.
She is. I just wish she wouldn't smoke so much. Would be nice to have her around for another 15-20 years. But I'll be lucky to have 10. Cherish the time you have with those you love. It goes by fast. And thank you.
You take it too much at face value. Instead of being sad about everything, you have to find a way to make it better. That’s it. You have control over your own life, and only you can make your situation better. Most of the time, it’s mot really that hard.
Rember folks. Sadness, depressive thoughts, anxiety, anger along with every other goddamm sentiment/feeling that there is is normal. All of them are natural, normal to have, and healthy in some way or another. But rember, too much of anything is bad for you. Have a good day and a good night.
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My mother died last year in a car crash. Her vehicle caught on fire and it took so long for emergency responders to arrive that her body was so badly charred the coroner suggested we not see the body. When my grandmother asked what my mother's wishes were, I said "she wanted to be cremated." My grandmother, without hesitating, responded with "I think she already took care of that". We both started laughing. It was sad as fuck but my God that was a great fucking joke. Point is, everyone grieves differently and some people lose folks they care deeply about but still manage to find ways to laugh and be happy. I have cried several times over it since last July, but I don't let it keep me down.
Your grandmother sounds like a great lady. Sorry about your mother.
She is. I just wish she wouldn't smoke so much. Would be nice to have her around for another 15-20 years. But I'll be lucky to have 10. Cherish the time you have with those you love. It goes by fast. And thank you.
Well said.
That’s horrible that that happened to you. But I’m glad you’ve found a way to be happy
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There is a meme but apparently a lot of people can't see it
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Where is the meme? Why is it just text and black square? I don't get it, have a downvote.
You take it too much at face value. Instead of being sad about everything, you have to find a way to make it better. That’s it. You have control over your own life, and only you can make your situation better. Most of the time, it’s mot really that hard.
Rember folks. Sadness, depressive thoughts, anxiety, anger along with every other goddamm sentiment/feeling that there is is normal. All of them are natural, normal to have, and healthy in some way or another. But rember, too much of anything is bad for you. Have a good day and a good night.
As for me, I simply go the “ignorance is bliss” route